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Hey guys, I have been on Secret Benefits for a little over a month, and while I think there are a bunch of scammers on that site, I have finally started talking with someone that is real, and actually from the area. Now, I have never been a sugar Daddy before, so I might be ignorant, but I did go to the strip clubs alot back in the 80's, 90's, and 2000's. So, I am talking with this girl, and and I ask waht her expectations are, and how much of an allowance she expects from a sugar daddy, and she says 200/ meet, and weeks where we don't meet, she expects a little help. I think that was reasonable, and say so. Then we switch to snapchat, and I sent her $25 just to show I was serious. She sends me some pics that are posted on her secret benefits page, and I tell her I already seen these pics. She says she has more pics, and videos, and the next day she sends me some pics and videos, and tells me she wants to get her eyelashes done, so I send $50, and she asks for another $60, because it cost $110 to get her lashes done, so I send that. Today, I wake up to a request for $100 for lingerie, and I am starting to feel hustled. We have not met in person yet, but had plans to meet this weekend, but then it got moved to sometime next week, at her request. I am not rich, but I do okay, that is why I asked what her monthly allowance expectations were, but for me to just send $100 bucks, every other day, seems a little excessive to me, just for pics, when there is tons of free porn on the internet. Anybody willing to give me some tips, or advice on how to be a sugar daddy? What is the average per month for a sugar baby?

[QUOTE=LittleWad;6228910]Hey guys, I have been on Secret Benefits for a little over a month, and while I think there are a bunch of scammers on that site, I have finally started talking with someone that is real, and actually from the area. Now, I have never been a sugar Daddy before, so I might be ignorant, but I did go to the strip clubs alot back in the 80's, 90's, and 2000's. So, I am talking with this girl, and and I ask waht her expectations are, and how much of an allowance she expects from a sugar daddy, and she says 200/ meet, and weeks where we don't meet, she expects a little help. I think that was reasonable, and say so. Then we switch to snapchat, and I sent her $25 just to show I was serious. She sends me some pics that are posted on her secret benefits page, and I tell her I already seen these pics. She says she has more pics, and videos, and the next day she sends me some pics and videos, and tells me she wants to get her eyelashes done, so I send $50, and she asks for another $60, because it cost $110 to get her lashes done, so I send that. Today, I wake up to a request for $100 for lingerie, and I am starting to feel hustled. We have not met in person yet, but had plans to meet this weekend, but then it got moved to sometime next week, at her request. I am not rich, but I do okay, that is why I asked what her monthly allowance expectations were, but for me to just send $100 bucks, every other day, seems a little excessive to me, just for pics, when there is tons of free porn on the internet. Anybody willing to give me some tips, or advice on how to be a sugar daddy? What is the average per month for a sugar baby?[/QUOTE]You are getting scammed. [B]Never pay money, unless you have met the person and established that she is who she says she is.[/B] There's a lot of good advice in this thread and the Cincy thread.

[QUOTE=LittleWad;6228910]Hey guys, I have been on Secret Benefits for a little over a month, and while I think there are a bunch of scammers on that site, I have finally started talking with someone that is real, and actually from the area. Now, I have never been a sugar Daddy before, so I might be ignorant, but I did go to the strip clubs alot back in the 80's, 90's, and 2000's. So, I am talking with this girl, and and I ask waht her expectations are, and how much of an allowance she expects from a sugar daddy, and she says 200/ meet, and weeks where we don't meet, she expects a little help. I think that was reasonable, and say so. Then we switch to snapchat, and I sent her $25 just to show I was serious. She sends me some pics that are posted on her secret benefits page, and I tell her I already seen these pics. She says she has more pics, and videos, and the next day she sends me some pics and videos, and tells me she wants to get her eyelashes done, so I send $50, and she asks for another $60, because it cost $110 to get her lashes done, so I send that. Today, I wake up to a request for $100 for lingerie, and I am starting to feel hustled. We have not met in person yet, but had plans to meet this weekend, but then it got moved to sometime next week, at her request. I am not rich, but I do okay, that is why I asked what her monthly allowance expectations were, but for me to just send $100 bucks, every other day, seems a little excessive to me, just for pics, when there is tons of free porn on the internet. Anybody willing to give me some tips, or advice on how to be a sugar daddy? What is the average per month for a sugar baby?[/QUOTE]HTown is 100% spot on. No money upfront without a meeting. Hell, just tell her you want to get together for a quick coffee and you'll give her the cash. But from here, you look like you're getting scammed.

[QUOTE=InDelaware;6230394]HTown is 100% spot on. No money upfront without a meeting. Hell, just tell her you want to get together for a quick coffee and you'll give her the cash. But from here, you look like you're getting scammed.[/QUOTE]I have to agree as well and I'm going on 3 years now (November 1st) with the same Sugar Babe.

[QUOTE=LittleWad;6228910]Hey guys, I have been on Secret Benefits for a little over a month, and while I think there are a bunch of scammers on that site, Anybody willing to give me some tips, or advice on how to be a sugar daddy? What is the average per month for a sugar baby?[/QUOTE]You are definitely being either rinsed or scammed. I recommend you go read both sugar threads on the Richmond forum. They function as the national info collection threads. Scroll down until you find the thread titled "Sugarbaby Thread Highlights, Index, and FAQ" Scroll back several years and then read forward. It will give you everything you need to know. I will leave a link below. The two most important thing to take away from your experience are these: 1) Never, ever, for any reason including a claim of imminent death, offer a sugar baby money without meeting. I recommend only ever using cash. Most men do not even give money at the MnG. The general rule is no money until the panties hit the floor. Don't get buck fever and start ignoring the rules the first couple of times out. All electronic transfers can be traced. 2) Never believe *anything*, any sugar baby tells you, at any time. Confirm it, go see for yourself or just ignore them. The SB's, the scammers and rinsers have more experienced at this than you and they spend all their mental energy figuring out how to manipulate or trick you. Even a sugar baby you have been seeing several times a week for many years can turn on a dime and rip you off. Don't get bitter or hateful about it. Just recognize it as part of this world.

BAM.

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?15100-Sugarbaby-Thread-Highlights-Index-and-FAQ[/URL]

[QUOTE=BamBam;6231285]You are definitely being either rinsed or scammed. I recommend you go read both sugar threads on the Richmond forum. They function as the national info collection threads. Scroll down until you find the thread titled "Sugarbaby Thread Highlights, Index, and FAQ" Scroll back several years and then read forward. It will give you everything you need to know. I will leave a link below. The two most important thing to take away from your experience are these: 1) Never, ever, for any reason including a claim of imminent death, offer a sugar baby money without meeting. I recommend only ever using cash. Most men do not even give money at the MnG. The general rule is no money until the panties hit the floor. Don't get buck fever and start ignoring the rules the first couple of times out. All electronic transfers can be traced. 2) Never believe *anything*, any sugar baby tells you, at any time. Confirm it, go see for yourself or just ignore them. The SB's, the scammers and rinsers have more experienced at this than you and they spend all their mental energy figuring out how to manipulate or trick you. Even a sugar baby you have been seeing several times a week for many years can turn on a dime and rip you off. Don't get bitter or hateful about it. Just recognize it as part of this world.

BAM.

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?15100-Sugarbaby-Thread-Highlights-Index-and-FAQ[/URL][/QUOTE]Have to say that it's satisfying to see the time and effort I put into collating that info still being useful several years later.

[QUOTE=Zcochran00;6233363]Have to say that it's satisfying to see the time and effort I put into collating that info still being useful several years later.[/QUOTE]The entire community owes you a big debt of gratitude. Many of the posters in that archive are now long gone but their wisdom is preserved. Let me know if I can ever do anything to repay you.

BAM.

Checking to see if there's any out there on this lady. Looks familiar but can't remember. I have a date set up when I'm town so I'll report back about the experience.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/d72cdb8a-f701-452a-802e-2d13d6387198[/URL]

[QUOTE=Nate8791;6235996]Checking to see if there's any out there on this lady. Looks familiar but can't remember. I have a date set up when I'm town so I'll report back about the experience.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/messages/inbox/d72cdb8a-f701-452a-802e-2d13d6387198[/URL][/QUOTE]Your link goes to messages. Here's the correct one:

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f69c80d4-713c-471d-8e31-91c733ffa5f3[/URL]

And no, I've had no interactions with her.

Has anyone met with her or have any info to share? Please dm if you prefer. Thanks.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2f09238d-1da0-47ba-933c-01d7ede0dfde[/URL]

[QUOTE=SixtyNineX10;6236843]Has anyone met with her or have any info to share? Please dm if you prefer. Thanks.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2f09238d-1da0-47ba-933c-01d7ede0dfde[/URL][/QUOTE]Has a Minnesota area code and complained about all the guys that were jerks on SA.

Never went to MnG after she hit me up for her phone bill on the 9th text.

Scamtastic, hit me up for money for her kids birthday almost immediately.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/155866a7-e964-45c2-800c-40c3c1f942f5[/URL]

[QUOTE=Nate8791;6242354]Scamtastic, hit me up for money for her kids birthday almost immediately.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/155866a7-e964-45c2-800c-40c3c1f942f5[/URL][/QUOTE]Tell her the only way you'll do that is if she swallows your kids first.

Anyone recognize this one?

[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/vw6QkONbJBMkQKyAKERpY9VG[/URL]

[QUOTE=Defto;6242377]Anyone recognize this one?

[URL]https://members.whatsyourprice.com/profile/vw6QkONbJBMkQKyAKERpY9VG[/URL][/QUOTE]Hey Def,

I asked about her on the escort forum a while back. I remembered her from a STG ad, but never saw her. She approached me on WYP and the info I got from the forum led me to believe. Not worth it. I think had a lesbian girlfriend around, something like that. Try searching her name and see what you can find, but she is going to want 100 at least which isn't bad, but didn't seem worth it to me.

Hope this helps.

BB.