Since cops can LIE to You
[QUOTE=SexyFun;1458099][b]Security Questions to help protect yourself from the uncle.[/b] I've been spanked before by the uncle a couple years ago and been on the DL since then and I do not want another spanking![/QUOTE]There is [u]no such thin[/u]g as "security questions" that will reveal whether the gal You're talking to at an incall or on the 'phone, or the person that You're communicating with via email / text / voicemail, is a LEO because they can [u]Lie to[/u] You to get You to do or say / text / write anything that will incriminate You! The only things You can do to defend Yourself are (1) be aware of any "warning signs" by being alert for any questions or requests that try to get You to incriminate Yourself or to put Yourself in any risk; & (2) don't do or say / text / write anything Yourself that will incriminate You, Yourself, or that will make it any easier for them to build their case against You! Just as "ignorance of the Law is no excuse" for criminal behavior: ignorance of the Law, & of police criminal-investigation proceedures, is no defense against being charged for violating those laws. Enrolling in 1 of those PrePaid legal-defense plans, or having Your own good criminal-defense-lawyer on retainer, is a real good idea; as is having an arrangement with a local BailBond agency, or enrolling in a legal-defense plan that includes BailBonding for arrests, & having that local-agency 'ph'number or defense-plan toll-free-number written on Your forearm where You can read it when You're allowed Your 1 'phone-call from jail.
Remember: asking if You could pay for, or offering to pay for, or negotiating what You would pay for, or even just acknowledging / agreeing that You intend to pay for sex or "sex acts" or "sexual contact" (even if it is only just a hand-job) are all evidence of Your intent to commit the crime; whether they term it "solicitation" or whatever else: if they have You on audio / email / text / video / voicemail then they have the evidence necessary to make their case. If You try to "explain" Yourself, or try to "talk Your way out" of trouble, they are just going to use whatever You say against You; after You have correctly identified Yourself with Your real name (You don't have to carry any identification documents unless You're driving, & then You must have Your drivers-license & proof of insurance, or You're on private-property or in a restricted-area & need documentation to prove You're not trespassing) You must firmly but politely state: "I refuse to answer any other questions or to make any other statements without having my Lawyer to advise me" or words to cover those specific points ("[u]remain silent[/u]" & "[u]lawyer present[/u]") & then You must discipline Yourself to actually stay "shut up" no matter how uncomfortable they make You feel; because if You start talking to them again You have just [u]waived[/u] Your "Right to remain Silent" & thay can start questioning You again before Your Lawyer arrives.