"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

I finally met up with Mistyefire and she was very sweet and responsive. She would almost orgasm from kissing her neck. During the visit she said I gave her one of the best big O's she has ever had. Not sure that is true but it made me feel good. She said she is not active on SA although I see her online a good bit. I think its great if she is getting action so not sure why these women won't fess up that they are getting action. I may be wrong but hope she is and having fun with you guys. I really had a great time with her. Awesome kisser BTW.

SD.

[QUOTE=BrownSugaTwo;3938521]I met her face-to-face, in Marietta, for a meal. She's nice and the conversation flowed naturally. I don't think she's looking for much: small-to-average allowance (consistency appeared to be the major concern, here) and someone to do things with during the day. I think she wanted an NSA boyfriend; definitely not a one-and-done type of girl. Through clothes, she appeared to have the usual "mom-bod".

I never made it past the one meal; my life got hectic, at the time, and I just let things go. But, she's cool, if you're looking for something more akin to a relationship.

PM me, if you want social media links.[/QUOTE]

Saw this young lady crop up earlier in the week and reached out. Her first response was that she preferred "one time arrangements" with an allowance of. 4 IMO, she is attractive but I did not see anything about her on here.

Used the larger head for a change an opted not to move forward. If she is any of your price ranges, please let us know if we should regroup and mount another pursuit (or vice versa).

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0f90e0b0-889e-4645-96a3-8b9f334c4dfc[/URL]

[QUOTE=Ozymandias;3940125]I think just being direct works best. There's certainly no reason to chat for week.

Obviously if you're looking for something more than a fuck toy, the following doesn't apply, but my basic rules are:

1. I make contact. If girls are contacting me, I ignore it. If they favorite me, I ignore it. That's all noise. I focus only on a girl who looks good (I might scan a profile at most), because I want to stick my dick in a hot girl. Period. That's all that matters.

2. I have no interest in having dinner or lunch or whatever. What am I going to discuss over lunch with some 19 year old hoe? What a loss of an hour. I explain to girls that I'm not interested in "being friends" or whatever. Let's cut to the chase.

3. I will never pay a dime up front. Cash upon meet only. I don't buy their stupid snapchat videos or whatever either; their open pussy on my iPhone screen is of no use to me. What, I'm going to fuck my iPhone? I think not.

4. I discuss business only. What's your rate, what's your schedule like, etc. I make it clear that I'm looking for a reliable fuck toy, that I like regulars, and that I understand value. Very straightforward and direct.

Not all girls appreciate it, but many do. As I often say, if you make it easy for them, they'll make it easy for you.

And never, ever spend one dime beyond the actual fuck transaction. Don't bring them their cigs, or a drink, or lunch; what are you, Instacart? Instacart doesn't have a dick, and they know it. If they break down on the way to the meet (why do both hoes and strippers have the shittiest cars possible? Fuck them; they should have had a Triple A membership (I've been a plus member since 1990; good service). Seriously, who has a job which involves driving to fuck knows where and dosn't have a road assistance plan?

Track your conversion rate (ie. What fraction of initial contacts wind up with your dick in their mouth) so you can work on it; this is a skill.

To paraphrase the dude in Glengarry Glen Ross: "PUSSY IS FOR CLOSERS ONLY!

O.[/QUOTE]I echo what Oz says and add to:

5. Pay for the Premium membership. You need to put in some work and build your skills on talking to these women. I'm a sweet talker, that says: I haven't had sex in 7 months. So that's important to me. I'll build the emotional and intellectually connection through texting.

6. We can't give out the numbers to our contacts, unless they say it's ok.

7. It's not that hard (I just left pounding a 20 y/o beauty with a near perfect body (9. 5). Left 100, oh OZ, I did bring some chicken wings. LOL.

8. Decide how much time you are willing to invest. Don't go beyond that.

9. Give them a glimpse into what could be: I posted some pics from my Italy trip last year, and talk about where I'm headed next year (Panama). Of course I can't take them out of the country. Not a early 20 something. Some barely know how to act at home!

[QUOTE=TheBirdMan;3935619]This is why I'm hesitant to invest 80 chips in SA with limited guarantees. The value of a dollar still remains, I can't see myself wasting the 80 for the hope of meeting an "elite" or "low-key"provider. There's so much one can do with 80, despite ones income bracket.[/QUOTE]Brother, That 80 has been a great investment. Look at page 1 of this where I replied to Oz steps for success on SA. I added a few, and as I write this I'm back home after hooking up with a beautiful 20 why / o tight body and no baby with her own place (Not that great). Here is a copy of what I post when ladies ask what I'm looking for:

(Someone I can build a bond with, that understands discretion. I like to stay drama free. I am looking for someone that is of substance. I know women like nice things and shopping (I'm allergic to shopping, but I'll send the right lady to handle her business). I am looking for someone easygoing, that realizes that I can't be available everyday, but when I'm with her, she'll know that she is the center of my attention. If I connect with the lady emotionally, and intellectually. I want the lady to be upfront with me and tell me If she is not comfortable with the intimacy part, so we don't frustrate each other knowing we expect something different. Hope that wasn't too much. Please let me know what you are looking for).

Most women like a little sweet talk and direct to the point. Some will, some won't keep pressing.

[QUOTE=AtlEyez;3935607]Is it usually $ to $.5?[/QUOTE]It varies with the lady. If she is super fine and does all I ask of her. I'd give her $$ for about 2-3 hours of loving. But tell them where you want to be and someone is going to work it for you.

[QUOTE=Dickson13;3945279]Did you try Braziliancandyy?[/QUOTE]Never connected with Brazilliancandy due to schedules. Pics looked good.

Jedi Master I agree about SA. Best thing I have ever done was get on the site. Well worth the investment to me. I also appreciate you sharing what you message them. Maybe we can do more of that on this forum. I travel for work every week and I simply start messaging the women that look promising to me the Friday and Saturday before I leave out on Monday morning. When I message before I travel I use the same message (I have refined it over time) to all the women but ad a line or two to let them know I read their profile. I normally get 3 to 5 responses out of 10. Then on Sunday I start setting up meets for the week.

Party On All.

SD.

[QUOTE=SkyWalker21;3945721]Brother, That 80 has been a great investment. Look at page 1 of this where I replied to Oz steps for success on SA. I added a few, and as I write this I'm back home after hooking up with a beautiful 20 why / o tight body and no baby with her own place (Not that great). Here is a copy of what I post when ladies ask what I'm looking for:

(Someone I can build a bond with, that understands discretion. I like to stay drama free. I am looking for someone that is of substance. I know women like nice things and shopping (I'm allergic to shopping, but I'll send the right lady to handle her business). I am looking for someone easygoing, that realizes that I can't be available everyday, but when I'm with her, she'll know that she is the center of my attention. If I connect with the lady emotionally, and intellectually. I want the lady to be upfront with me and tell me If she is not comfortable with the intimacy part, so we don't frustrate each other knowing we expect something different. Hope that wasn't too much. Please let me know what you are looking for).

Most women like a little sweet talk and direct to the point. Some will, some won't keep pressing.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DesiLover28;3945263]So I've been talking to this one for a few days and she gave me her number instantly so the stuff moved on to text msging. After we started texting she started sending me some nudes of herself and I would say that she looks better in the pictures that she sent me on my phone then she looks on the pictures on the seeking app. After we start talking she told me she's divorced and she's a freak and she's done pretty much everything that there is to do in sex so moving on we discussed on all the services she was going to provide and I was pretty amazed at stuff that she was willing to do with me so it was a go for me but when she told me her allowance of 5 $$ I had to decline and she would not budge from it.

If anyone is interested in spending money like that hit her up on seeking she's willing real quick.

Posting some of her nudes and her link.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9b4db233-25eb-4749-92ba-d67642533a20[/URL][/QUOTE]Hey guys, I thought this site was shut down for good after the BP / CL debacle. Tried to log in a few times and you all know what was posted. Glad you are back up and running.

Just wanted to chime in on this one too. We had a brief chat and she said whe's NOT interested in ATTACHED men. Had we gotten the the numbers and she quoted me that one I would have blown out anyway so it's just as good she stopped it there and then.

SKY.

I don't get a woman that is willing to meet random guys for sex and money have a line they draw with ATTACHED men LOL. Makes absolutely no sense to me. I feel us attached men are probably some of the safer opportunities. Anyway go figure. Oh and welcome back SHB.

SD.

[QUOTE=SkyHighBuilder;3945932]Hey guys, I thought this site was shut down for good after the BP / CL debacle. Tried to log in a few times and you all know what was posted. Glad you are back up and running.

Just wanted to chime in on this one too. We had a brief chat and she said whe's NOT interested in ATTACHED men. Had we gotten the the numbers and she quoted me that one I would have blown out anyway so it's just as good she stopped it there and then.

SKY.[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/73d693e8-aab3-4168-abc8-9b0e43d411e8[/URL]

This one wants payment before meeting.

Lilaclex.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/90708717-0e79-4e57-959a-cb3226c5c608[/URL]

Anyone had any dealings with this one?

Any of you guys have a strategy or technique for requesting bare services? If I don't have to, I'm generally not a fan of condoms.

How do you approach the subject etc?

Thanks for all the insight.

Spent a little time messaging this one until she wrote "I ask for money upfront at dates". I'm not wasting any more time with her.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cc1567f1-9563-4d50-9386-2b4eeb4cd73a[/URL]

I have had a very good non-condom success rate on SA. I am older (58) and married and a vasectomy. I approach each woman as though I'm not very active also. Usually the discussion of condoms never even come up. Maybe I'm just lucky but it is oh so fun. I also tend to target 30 years old and up. That may have something to do with it. Good luck with the BB.

SD.

[QUOTE=WheresMyMule;3946280]Any of you guys have a strategy or technique for requesting bare services? If I don't have to, I'm generally not a fan of condoms.

How do you approach the subject etc?

Thanks for all the insight.[/QUOTE]

LOL when I first saw her profile Sinead popped into my head.

[QUOTE=Ddreg;3946293]Spent a little time messaging this one until she wrote "I ask for money upfront at dates". I'm not wasting any more time with her.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cc1567f1-9563-4d50-9386-2b4eeb4cd73a[/URL][/QUOTE]