I hope it at least leads to her being able to get her life together
Candy use is ruining a lot of people. One of the problems trying to clean up is family, if you don't have family support it is even harder. When they get out they have nowhere else to go so it's back to the people they know from the life style. Those people won't help, they'll use the person to get what they want. I've done this before, helped a girl when she got out. A place to stay, food, and a little cash each week. I had known her for a cpl of yrs. So after maybe a month of being out and clean she went out with a "friend" who was still using and low and behold a little candy fun that day. Then it became daily and of course the cash I was providing wasn't enough so back to escorting. The only possible way to get a life back for them is to get clean and stay away from anyone they knew that used because any of the people they knew would offer them a little or use them to get some for themselves. One example was this girl who I'm not mentioning her closest "friend" was a user but never escorting, well guess what happened when they ran out of her stash, she got this girl todo calls so they could both get high and of course when something better came along she disappeared and left the girl with no place to stay (wasn't staying with me anymore) and now she had to do guys for hotel room and candy.
I've known her now probably 7 yrs and it's the same thing over and over, it never ends. I had been done with that for yrs now but I've kept in touch and it's always a replay of the same thing. It was hard to see how she could keep going back to the candy after each arrest and opportunity to quit because I didn't / don't do any drugs or even drink. From reading about the girls on this forum for yrs and having seen some of them myself it finally hit me how hard it is for them to stop. A lot of things have to happen but support from family or a friend who is not a user is key. Natureally her real family was pretty fucked up anyway so staying with them was not a good idea. I knew about her family issues, I had met them before and my thought was I'm damn glad I had a good family. If she ever really wanted to get clean I doubt it would ever happen unless she met someone like me that she trusted and was clean and could keep her away from the people she knew.
I think jail does them no good, they are clean while in there but they are surrounded by people who have no intention of cleaning themselves up and don't know anything more than the life they grew up with, most of them are some pretty bad people.
[QUOTE=JayTwogo;3051746]That's a shame to hear. I hope it at least leads to her being able to get her life together, and doesn't just drive her deeper into a hole as our justice system seems to do.
She has always been a sweetheart, and fun to be around to me. I don't think I ever caught her on a bad day.
At the same time, like SunDumbFuk points out below I don't think we were doing her any favors by providing her disposable income.
I'd like to find a couple of single moms who are just trying to support something other than a candy habit.[/QUOTE]
Anyone dream with this one yet
Anyone had a dream with this one. Seems to be a friend of marie's in brandon.
[URL]http://tampa.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-new-new-beautiful-sexy-bombshell-at-ur-service-friend-of-maries/21551712[/URL]
[URL]Escortsting.com[/URL]
Typed in a BP providers # to do a search on the World Wide Web. One of the sites that popped up was [URL]escortsting.com[/URL]. When opened it had a kind of generic page advising this provider was on uncle LEO's radar and be careful, you could get a visit from uncle LEO if you try to dream with her. I can't find any info on the website other than it's new and no reviews reports on it. Don't know who runs it or purpose other then join the site to find which providers are not on uncle LEO's radar LOL. Anybody familiar with the site?
[URL]Escortsting.com[/URL]
[QUOTE=Tomyboy6;3053353]Typed in a BP providers # to do a search on the World Wide Web. One of the sites that popped up was [URL]escortsting.com[/URL]. When opened it had a kind of generic page advising this provider was on uncle LEO's radar and be careful, you could get a visit from uncle LEO if you try to dream with her. I can't find any info on the website other than it's new and no reviews reports on it. Don't know who runs it or purpose other then join the site to find which providers are not on uncle LEO's radar LOL. Anybody familiar with the site?[/QUOTE]I was not able to find the name of the domain owner via [URL]whois.net[/URL] - it just points to a domain name company. However, one of the menu items on the [URL]escortsting.com[/URL] site is for 'Legal Dating' which lists other hobby sites. This leads me to believe that this is a marketing strategy. They harvest pictures and phone numbers from BP or others, show the providers as 'under LEO surveillance' and then route you to their own hobbyist sites. I'm speculating here, but would be curious what others think.