Re: Dancer interviews the customer
[QUOTE=FortyFour;7443801]My original reply was WAY too long and too "preachy", so I'll cut it down and include newie advice that I rarely see.
I applaud your prior research and your questions are valid. The "process" (dos and donts) is vital to know. Like it or not, you are a "newbie" (just like everyone once was). Against your best effort, you (like everyone else) WILL make mistakes. You will also dodge some mistakes by making wise decisions.
No matter how much you learn about "the process", realize that many of these women are master "Psychologists". They will peg you as a "newbie" the moment you walk in the room (fresh meat). They know that you may be an easy mark, and they will do everything in their power to get your cash. It's fun to talk with pretty girls, but realize that they are "interviewing you". Keep that in mind as you are going through "the process" and try not to say too much (or be THAT GUY that tries too hard to be cool), it won't turn out in your favor. Practice frowning and saying "NO", to show that you're the one in charge, and you're not afraid to express your displeasure with them.
As far as the negotiations go, realize that it's more than just "the price". Read the last 50 pages here and you'll get more knowledge than any one person can say in one post. Take notes of the girls names that offered good experiences, and begin your adventure with them. No guarantee they won't try to get away with some BS, but your odds of a good experience may be better with one of them, than with the first girl that sits down with you. Then, as you gain experience, when something "bad" eventually happens, you'll be in a better position to realize it, and take evasive action.
No matter what, you will be imitating Tony the Tiger yelling "This is Great" (or something like that).[/QUOTE]A common interview tactic of the dancer is to casually ask the customer "have you been here before?" She's trying to gauge your level of experience in that club, or any club. If you admit this is the first time you have set foot in the club, she will know you are inexperienced at negotiating rates.
If you say you have been to club when in fact you have not, she may say something like "I haven't seen you here before. " Just say you have been there during the opposite shift.
Me, if a girl new to me approaches and asks that question, I name all the other dancers I have seen recently, and extol their virtues. Dancers talk about customers. Your reputation will precede you.