The demographic tides are churning. Millenials are aging out and Gen Z girls arent on seeking at all really.
The sugar bowl was LITTTy until about 2017.
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The demographic tides are churning. Millenials are aging out and Gen Z girls arent on seeking at all really.
The sugar bowl was LITTTy until about 2017.
[QUOTE=LolBoat;6511349]The demographic tides are churning. Millenials are aging out and Gen Z girls arent on seeking at all really.
The sugar bowl was LITTTy until about 2017.[/QUOTE]Guys are using tinder and Facebook to network now. Add a photo of cash or weed to your pics. They also find a profile of a girl they are seeing and strike up a conversation with their public friends. There is a guy out of Albany on the other site who is a master of this.
[QUOTE=EpicSD;6510346]I was way into working together on this thread and giving detailed intelligence on ladies and some guy told a girl I was still hoping to see and she blocked me LOL.[/QUOTE]Told her what, exactly? That you were reporting about her on this board? I mean that guy is probably on this board too, no?
[QUOTE=EpicSD;6510346]Lesson learned- guys on here will stab each other in the back to gain favor, I only warn about rip-offs or give vague details about fun SBs I'm done.[/QUOTE]Honestly, I got the feeling that that was already going on here, aside from the "stabbing each other" part. Guys will report on girls who are scammers or fake but then keep the details about the good ones to themselves. I don't think anyone wants to take the chance a SB is unwilling to see multiple guys, because if they do, that means possible STD's or that she's a high volume girl or pro so you might just end up losing her.
A friend of mine met her for a meet and greet. They agreed on 2. 5. Went to a hotel and she bounced with the money when he went to rinse before the deed. Be aware of this one's business model. Cash and Dash.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/526f84bc-c097-41b7-bacd-a9601b84f3ab[/URL]
[QUOTE=KCesar68;6511521]Told her what, exactly? That you were reporting about her on this board? I mean that guy is probably on this board too, no?
Honestly, I got the feeling that that was already going on here, aside from the "stabbing each other" part. Guys will report on girls who are scammers or fake but then keep the details about the good ones to themselves. I don't think anyone wants to take the chance a SB is unwilling to see multiple guys, because if they do, that means possible STD's or that she's a high volume girl or pro so you might just end up losing her.[/QUOTE]I think we have an expectation of anonymity here. Once someone starts helping women link a face or even real name to an account name that is lost.
As far as the true and accurate reporting. If you're having a great time with a lady, the last thing you want is for that to end because what she thought was private between you too is now on the internet. Maybe that's a naïve thought by the woman but for the non pros with real lives, it has a chilling effect. What they do when they're not with me is non of my business as is my personal life to them. Everyone has to do the best that they can or are willing to do to avoid STDs.
[QUOTE=DiscreteRogue;6511457]Guys are using tinder and Facebook to network now. Add a photo of cash or weed to your pics. They also find a profile of a girl they are seeing and strike up a conversation with their public friends. There is a guy out of Albany on the other site who is a master of this.[/QUOTE]What do you mean by this? DM if you prefer.
[QUOTE=HenryT458;6514527]A friend of mine met her for a meet and greet. They agreed on 2. 5. Went to a hotel and she bounced with the money when he went to rinse before the deed. Be aware of this one's business model. Cash and Dash.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/526f84bc-c097-41b7-bacd-a9601b84f3ab[/URL][/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/526f84bc-c097-41b7-bacd-a9601b84f3ab[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1bf81bd2-3ec3-475a-b58e-75c4e69c0569[/URL]
[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;6510775]I have a place on LBI and as you may know they don't have a boardwalk, however they do have some other target rich environments such as an amusement park per se, restaurants, and retail. The ground game takes a lot of patience and work. I find it easier to pick up a rando lady at the bar and have not had a lot success in the other areas. Too bad because the shore has my type everywhere.
Be Safe.[/QUOTE]Ah that's disappointing. I did some research online and it seems that the only mid Atlantic beach town that seems to have a large number of SBs was OCMD. I image if you spend a decent amount of time at any one beach town you could build a relationship with some of the ladies working summer jobs! Thanks for the input!
Saw this on another sugar thread:
Gentlemen BEWARE.
It has come to my attention and I have seen for myself, a couple of ladies on the site are using an app called REMINI to generate AI enhanced photos of themselves. Smh. Be safe out there LOL.
Even more of a reason to have a short meet and greet.
[QUOTE=HenryT458;6518575]Saw this on another sugar thread:
Gentlemen BEWARE.
It has come to my attention and I have seen for myself, a couple of ladies on the site are using an app called REMINI to generate AI enhanced photos of themselves. Smh. Be safe out there LOL.
Even more of a reason to have a short meet and greet.[/QUOTE]Honestly I feel meet and greets are essential or at least a FT. But then again, I'm not married. I get it if this is a secret life for someone.
I guess we should start bringing Monopoly money to meet and greets if the real life version is not what the profile indicated. Then again, what is good for the goose is good the gander and no reason why we can't use the app to seriously change our appearance.
Be Safe.
[QUOTE=HenryT458;6518575]Saw this on another sugar thread:
Gentlemen BEWARE.
It has come to my attention and I have seen for myself, a couple of ladies on the site are using an app called REMINI to generate AI enhanced photos of themselves. Smh. Be safe out there LOL.
Even more of a reason to have a short meet and greet.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;6519183]I guess we should start bringing Monopoly money to meet and greets if the real life version is not what the profile indicated. Then again, what is good for the goose is good the gander and no reason why we can't use the app to seriously change our appearance.
Be Safe.[/QUOTE]Monopoly money would be awesome, just a subtle way of saying you're not the girl I imaged from your pictures! I'm surprised they need new tools! They already have make up and camera angles. I learned last year if you don't see teeth in the pictures, don't expect them to have teeth!
Maddie99- I've seen her on the site for a while and finally decided to swing for the fences. So far she has unlocked her private pics but no response. Has anyone had any luck or chatted with her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c8f87e80-ce65-4648-ac03-235f41050ef7[/URL]
[QUOTE=EpicSD;6519461]Maddie99- I've seen her on the site for a while and finally decided to swing for the fences. So far she has unlocked her private pics but no response. Has anyone had any luck or chatted with her?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c8f87e80-ce65-4648-ac03-235f41050ef7[/URL][/QUOTE]She read my message but never replied. There is a high percentage correlation between women who mention good conversation in their profile and those looking only for a platonic situation. Best of luck to you Epic. She looks cute. Hopefully she's a rare one willing to share.
[QUOTE=HenryT458;6518575]Saw this on another sugar thread:
Gentlemen BEWARE.
It has come to my attention and I have seen for myself, a couple of ladies on the site are using an app called REMINI to generate AI enhanced photos of themselves. Smh. Be safe out there LOL.
Even more of a reason to have a short meet and greet.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=EpicSD;6518991]Honestly I feel meet and greets are essential or at least a FT. But then again, I'm not married. I get it if this is a secret life for someone.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BurbsMonger;6519183]I guess we should start bringing Monopoly money to meet and greets if the real life version is not what the profile indicated. Then again, what is good for the goose is good the gander and no reason why we can't use the app to seriously change our appearance.
Be Safe.[/QUOTE]First, I hear that there are guys who chat with a girl and [b]arrange to meet her AT a hotel for the first time. To me that is not sugar dating[/b] but an UTR girl or regular prostitute. I'm looking for girls, who while they are doing the P2 P thingie, don't consider themselves to be prostitutes. (I know, I know, we can argue that one all day) So I am happy to allow them their little fantasy and do whatever it takes to not make them feel "used" for sex or cheap. Lost one SB because, as she put it, I felt like a prostitute rather than s FWB / FB. If a girl would agree to just meet at a hotel I probably wouldn't date her thinking this was a profession for her. So what is Sugar Dating to you? Another way to get an Escort for a one-off date? Someone you build a form of relationship with?
Second, for me a M&G is [U]essential[/U] as that is [b]where I feel her out on her limits and the amount of sugar she is looking for.[/b] I guess one can have those conversations about sex acts and money over text or FaceTime or some other SM chat service. But in my estimation it is a lot easier for a permanent record of those "discussions" to be made. Remember what you see on TV all of the time in the lawyer shows "be careful what you commit to paper" (or some other form of documentation). Oh sure, I guess a girl could place her phone on the table at a M&G and record the convo. Just think that is less likely.
Third, as others have mentioned a M&G is [b]where one gets to see if the pictures match reality and her true personality.[/b] Visuals for me is half the game as I want to see if a girl has a good personality, if she's a psycho or if she is flirty. This is where I get more info from facial expressions, body language and vocal intonation than miles of texting. Too much valuable info to be had, to avoid this data collection phase. But, I can tell you I've only met a few girls who truly understand the art of seduction or how to practice it. Most girls figure just showing up is enough. I guess for a lot of guys it's the visuals that set them off and personality, sensuality or seductiveness are minor? Again, are you looking for just a warm hole or some kind of relationship?
Fourth, What is the point of bringing monopoly money to a M&G? If a girl wants to be paid for a M&G, I click NEXT! [B]Basic Rule of Sugar Dating: No money until the panties hit the floor.[/B] So no idea why I would need monopoly money, I'm not paying for a M&G period. Only pros go that direction and it's up there with "buy my content so I'll" If you don't know how to not "pay upfront" then ASK and get educated, Get some techniques / skills in this arena. I keep seeing reports of guys paying up front and losing control of the money, only to have the girl and the funds walk out the door. Don't be a victim.
Five, no idea [b]why I would want to change my appearance with Photoshop or some App!?[/b] Have heard from too many girls about guys who do that or lie on their statistics. If you say you're 6-ft and show up only 5'4" that tells the girl something and many will turn you down. If a girl is so shallow as to not like me for my looks or she has preferences that I don't meet, then fine, it's likely to be a bust later for some other reason. But why get her to a M&G under false pretenses? Really dumb girls, pros or those desperate for cash might look the other way. I wouldn't expect that from the smarter or college girls.
Finally, being [b]married or single has nothing to do with being careful, private and having some OpSec.[/b] Single guys think they have a pass? Think again. There are instances of blackmail out there. Do you really want knowledge of your mongering to be "out there" searchable on SM et al? Point is that can effect future relationships, family, friends and business relationships. I'd caution against having too narrow a focus on ones safety. Just because you haven't thought of it, doesn't mean it might not happen. So this should be a secret life for anyone. Get some good OpSec going.
Just a few thoughts FWIW. Happy playing in the Sugar Bowl!