I might also suggest you browse on over to the Richmond Virginia SA thread. There are a lot of vets there, giving great advice. You will thank me if you want to put some time in and read back 20 pages or so. Good luck, gents.
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I might also suggest you browse on over to the Richmond Virginia SA thread. There are a lot of vets there, giving great advice. You will thank me if you want to put some time in and read back 20 pages or so. Good luck, gents.
[QUOTE=CantB1;3738596]San Marco Nikki hit me up 2 am Sat morning saying she has another girl I may be interested in. Wouldn't give me her name or the hotel the girl was staying but said she would be going to get her soon. Sent me a pic of a girl sitting on a bathroom sink. It looked familiar. She gave me some bullshit back story about the girl not normally dating AA but she put in a good word for me. Sound like game but I'll play along. At 5 am they hit me up and we do a little video chat. She says I'm fine and ask me to set aside like a half hour or hour for her. I tell them I need more pics to commit. ItJewell88. Before I got more pics. And another pic look familiar but I couldn't place it. (Time to throw Nikki under the bus) She told me the girl does shoot up and she tells a lot of lies about everything. I had just finished texting Nikki that I was going to pass on her friend. She told me it was my loss. I told her it was never a loss. There are hundreds of girls selling pussy. If this girl was as great looking as she says she would have sent plenty pics to back it up. Then I logged on here and what do I see in the Sugar thread? The same damn pics and the girl in video chat. Jewell88. This is another reason why I don't do SA. Mongers pay way too much for girls they could otherwise see for a lot less.[/QUOTE]Yep. While I was sitting there, she was being texted and I heard her friend on speaker phone talking. She sounded like she was on some shit too-slurred speech, etc. "Jen / Jewell" told me, that her friend Nikki had been trying to get her into a threesome for quite some time. But buy that time I wasn't interested.
[QUOTE=MaxxLapper;3738834]Again, I am sorry if my input may shatter some egos, but have identified several clues above. You guys should learn from this experience. These girls are straight up pros. The erratic behavior is clear to me, though others may disagree. She has some sort of substance problem.
Very sorry for your experience. I jumped into this threat because I had some time to kill, but it seems the same underlying themes are running through. When you focus on the girls who are BP pros, and this is their primary income source, you are going to have your time wasted. If you're OK with that, then no problem.
SA has a process for getting rid of these girls. You can file a complaint and report their profile. If you are worried about getting your profile deleted, you can modify the info a bit to protect yourselves, and feign innocence. I helped to get quite a few girls removed who were robbing, scamming, or doing stuff like this. Please fellas, for the sake of all of us, report these girls and become part of the process for getting them removed. Or, continue to have your time wasted, it's all up to you.[/QUOTE]It's always easy to tell from after the fact about all the things that should have been done different. But when you're there, sometimes you want to play it through because you're hoping that something will come to fruition for your efforts.
I'll go out on a limb and assume this is the profile you use to educate all of us about what we're doing wrong since more than half of your 17 comments are in that vein? I'm hardly a novice at this, but everyone gets burned or has their time wasted. It's part and parcel of the hobby. It sucks but you accept it as a by product of girls selling pussy because lets' face it, if they were stand up citizens and not broken in some way, then they'd be doing it in the more traditional way of selling ass, IE, through marriage.
[QUOTE=CantB1;3738596]San Marco Nikki hit me up 2 am Sat morning saying she has another girl I may be interested in. Wouldn't give me her name or the hotel the girl was staying but said she would be going to get her soon. Sent me a pic of a girl sitting on a bathroom sink. It looked familiar. She gave me some bullshit back story about the girl not normally dating AA but she put in a good word for me. Sound like game but I'll play along. At 5 am they hit me up and we do a little video chat. She says I'm fine and ask me to set aside like a half hour or hour for her. I tell them I need more pics to commit. ItJewell88. Before I got more pics. And another pic look familiar but I couldn't place it. (Time to throw Nikki under the bus) She told me the girl does shoot up and she tells a lot of lies about everything. I had just finished texting Nikki that I was going to pass on her friend. She told me it was my loss. I told her it was never a loss. There are hundreds of girls selling pussy. If this girl was as great looking as she says she would have sent plenty pics to back it up. Then I logged on here and what do I see in the Sugar thread? The same damn pics and the girl in video chat. Jewell88. This is another reason why I don't do SA. Mongers pay way too much for girls they could otherwise see for a lot less.[/QUOTE]Wow. I'm glad I backed off and decided to check this board first before I pulled the trigger. I knew something had to be up. And I agree I've been seeing all the reviews of guys paying $$ for meets. I've met 5 on SA and have kept 2 for regular meets and haven't paid more than $. A many times less when they needed their phone paid right away. One is enrolled at JU and the other at FSCJ and lives on Kernan. I just don't get paying that much for a meet but to each it's own.
[QUOTE=KDoogie;3732007]Sent a note via SA to this one, who responded almost immediately with digits. Anybody have any intel on her?
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b189c426-5fdd-4eba-99db-115788ba16db[/URL][/QUOTE]I'd messaged her 3 months ago, and we chatted then she went comms dark. Got a message from her at the start of last week and she gave me her digits. Arranged for a meet today and she said she needed money for her lupus meds. Well based on the reviews she seemed pretty reliable. I told her it was more than I usually paid but I'd hook her up this once, with the extra and then we'd adjourn to my place. I picked her up at her place out off of Knightbox and Old Jennings Rd and we went to St Vincents, chatting the whole way. Never got a bad vibe from her at all. She was intelligent, engaging and very funny. She went in got the meds, (presumbably) and I never saw her again. I feel like a total dumbass.
[QUOTE=Traveler6940;3739348]I'd messaged her 3 months ago, and we chatted then she went comms dark. Got a message from her at the start of last week and she gave me her digits. Arranged for a meet today and she said she needed money for her lupus meds. Well based on the reviews she seemed pretty reliable. I told her it was more than I usually paid but I'd hook her up this once, with the extra and then we'd adjourn to my place. I picked her up at her place out off of Knightbox and Old Jennings Rd and we went to St Vincents, chatting the whole way. Never got a bad vibe from her at all. She was intelligent, engaging and very funny. She went in got the meds, (presumbably) and I never saw her again. I feel like a total dumbass.[/QUOTE]I saw her roughly 3 months ago. She provided a room off youngerman. It was straight up GFE with multiple pops for 3 $. Most I've ever donated to anyone on SA but was totally worth it 'for me' anyway.
[QUOTE=Traveler6940;3738454]My schedule changed and I set up a meeting for her for tonight, (Saturday). At first she said she'd be free from 3 or 4 pm on for the rest of the night. Checked in with her and we decided to meet at 6 pm. A few minutes later she texts back and asks to move it back to 7:30 PM or 7:45 pm. She also mentioned that her phone was almost out of charge, and she was going to try and get a charger, and needed food, bill money. Ad nauseum. (VERY LENGTHY TEXTS). Knowing how these girls typically are, I figured the latter was the more accurate time. I texted her when I was about 10 minutes away with my ETA and then just before I'm supposed to pull in, she texts back that "She just got my text and she had just left to go with a GF who was going to loan her some money, and would be back in 20-25 minutes and would "make it up to me". I'm thinking WTF, why leave when you'd know I'd be there within minutes. I say OK and then go to kill some time.
After 30 minutes with no word I message her asking her status. At 8:30 PM she calls and we work out the details of our meet, etc. I hadn't ate all day and offered to buy her something to eat before we got to it. She wants me to come up to see her, because she was still getting ready. (Another inward groan, why the fuck wasn't she ready to go at 7:45 PM when that was the time she said she'd be ready by at the get go?
So at 8:45 PM I arrive and she looks like she's ready to me, but she has to finish her make up and will be ready in 15 minutes. My firsts impression is that she's on something. She seems completely discombobulated, and disorganized, and forgetful.
She goes into the bathroom and locks the door. She comes back out, with some pamplets from the hotel showing me "What to do in Jacksonville". Seriously? Then goes back into the bathroom. 15 minutes go by, and I'm told 5 more minutes. Then we get to the half hour point. I'm WTF ing in my mind and asking her if she's ready to go? "Yes just 5 more minutes I'm getting dressed". WTF? (I'm also starting to wonder if she's stalling because someone is coming back to the room or something?) Now at the 45 minute point that I've been sitting there. I'm asking her if she's ready. She's swearing up and down she'll be right out, and finally she does, grabs something to wear, and I tell her let's go, you're fine. She grabs some sandals and goes back into the bathroom and locks the door again! I'm seriously pissed at this point, having my time wasted, and because I'm hungry as hell. If I'd known this was going to be such a shit show, I'd have passed or at least ate before I got there, just fucked her and left.
Finally I tell her I'm going, and she's in the bathroom, telling me "I have to put my socks on and it takes time, I swear I'll be right out". For Christs sake she took a pair of silver sandals in there with her! I leave, one hour after getting to her room. Tried to get something going with a couple of my regulars. Two are out of town, and no response from the third. Complete Saturday night shot in the ass by some dumb, scatterbrained broad. Clearly a YMMV situation, but she isn't worth more than $100 IMO even though we settled on 2 bills. Big sigh. PASS. BLOCKED.[/QUOTE]Shit, I got pissed off at you for staying that long.
[QUOTE=Sicilly;3739885]Shit, I got pissed off at you for staying that long.[/QUOTE]I'm pissed at me too. But when the little head it talking sometimes it speaks louder than the big one. We've all been there. SIGH.
[QUOTE=Traveler6940;3740100]I'm pissed at me too. But when the little head it talking sometimes it speaks louder than the big one. We've all been there. SIGH.[/QUOTE]True. I would ask my EX when. I dunno, say we were at a red light and I'm waiting for the left turn arrow and its been like 2 cycles of green going the other way. So I'm getting antsy and she's like "be patient". So I ask her, HOW LONG DO YOU? WHATS your BREAKING POINT before you realize the light is broke. She would never answer that question. So Ia sk her, "would you wait 30 min. She gets pissed at the question. I ask 10 min? And she seems like she wants to answer then realizes that's a stupid long time to wait too. So now I figure I got her down to 5 min. But that also is a stupid long time to wait.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ce12e585-0181-4bee-8b26-d5036ed7833b[/URL]
Her last message to me before I reported / blocked her.
Angel32802 about 14 minutes ago.
Not necessarily, you see I AM on here looking for a genuine connection, but very slowly. I am not a "gold digger" or whatever you prefer to call it, but I am right now just looking for someone who I can TALK TO AND HAVE GOOD CONVERSATIONS WITH (sexually as well)(suspicions rising now), I want to get to know someone first before I meet them, but I do need help. I hate to say that because I try to be independent but I am struggling and I have no family at all to help me out (Cue the sad story) but I am doing the best I can. I'm looking for an online SD at first (THERE IT IS), and when I feel a connection is made and I will enjoy time with them I will meet them, I would love to go on dates, etc. But as of now I'm only looking for someone strictly online while still getting paid, because I do not like to meet people before I truly know them. I have had a horrible experience that way and it's just not something I'm comfortable doing anymore. . Waste of time and probably a fat dude.
[QUOTE=Sicilly;3741206][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ce12e585-0181-4bee-8b26-d5036ed7833b[/URL]
Her last message to me before I reported / blocked her.
Angel32802 about 14 minutes ago.
Not necessarily, you see I AM on here looking for a genuine connection, but very slowly. I am not a "gold digger" or whatever you prefer to call it, but I am right now just looking for someone who I can TALK TO AND HAVE GOOD CONVERSATIONS WITH (sexually as well)(suspicions rising now), I want to get to know someone first before I meet them, but I do need help. I hate to say that because I try to be independent but I am struggling and I have no family at all to help me out (Cue the sad story) but I am doing the best I can. I'm looking for an online SD at first (THERE IT IS), and when I feel a connection is made and I will enjoy time with them I will meet them, I would love to go on dates, etc. But as of now I'm only looking for someone strictly online while still getting paid, because I do not like to meet people before I truly know them. I have had a horrible experience that way and it's just not something I'm comfortable doing anymore. . Waste of time and probably a fat dude.[/QUOTE]Her ad clearly says looking for an online sugar daddy LOL. I'm always skeptical about the ads that has one pic also.
[QUOTE=FunNthaSun;3741245]Her ad clearly says looking for an online sugar daddy[/QUOTE]Online-only arrangements are not allowed on SA. Report them.
[QUOTE=FunNthaSun;3741245]Her ad clearly says looking for an online sugar daddy LOL. I'm always skeptical about the ads that has one pic also.[/QUOTE]Yea, I don't think it did say that when I first read it. I told her about what she's doing is BS so maybe she figured if she edited her ad and was upfront with only wanting something OL would be ok.
Looks like its down now.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e1652e59-5877-49bd-8d13-7c1d5ca034ff[/URL]
I saw this one for a while about. 14-15 years ago. Was one of my very first SB type relationships. She was thinner then and was a hot MILF. She ain't lying about the kink. An exceptional experience that I still remember.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/3e7db3b4-a6cb-7cdc-5284-2cf468dd2a7e[/URL]
Suggests 2000 per meet. I asked if there was a typo with one too many zeros, she says no. I wished her luck.