Arrangement Reports

[QUOTE=Coyote7033;5835997]Dam, so chatting with this one for about 2 weeks, set up a meet greet tonight 2 days ago, last 2 days says excited to meet, OF COURSE today I check in at 345 pm to see if we still on and then she starts asking for 20-25 for gas or uber. I mentioned I'd offer her that at the location, then but I have had bad experiences and want to do it this way, bla bla bla.

Pictures dam cute but scammer be warned. Jordan was name given to me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fcc946fe-d5cb-41a5-aba7-b417df77e7c7[/URL][/QUOTE]Especially on an exotic beach, nothing looks more fake to me!

Can not stress how important it is to report the scammers and time wasters who never intend to meet up. File a complaint with SA. Often the SA Administrator will text or email you for more information like a screen cap of a text message. It will also flag them to review that persons messages on their end. I've probably had 25-30 reports in to them. Ten times they asked me for proof such as a screen cap of a message and I provided it. Most of the others disappeared from the site. The big thing with SA is saying anything about a pay per meet (PPM). It is not allowed. So if someone wasted your time for five days texting you and at the last minute before a coffee date informs you that they need money to meet up then that person has violated the rules and would get banned from the site. They do ban girls for this. SA knows who butters their bread. Are most guys complaining about "scammers" on here also reporting that to SA? If not then that's a problem. Don't complain about it if you're not doing anything to help solve the problem. If there are other guys that had the same experience with the girl then they should also file a complaint. It only takes a minute to do it.

[QUOTE=PeckerHead;5838991]Can not stress how important it is to report the scammers and time wasters who never intend to meet up. File a complaint with SA. Often the SA Administrator will text or email you for more information like a screen cap of a text message. It will also flag them to review that persons messages on their end. I've probably had 25-30 reports in to them. Ten times they asked me for proof such as a screen cap of a message and I provided it. Most of the others disappeared from the site. The big thing with SA is saying anything about a pay per meet (PPM). It is not allowed. So if someone wasted your time for five days texting you and at the last minute before a coffee date informs you that they need money to meet up then that person has violated the rules and would get banned from the site. They do ban girls for this. SA knows who butters their bread. Are most guys complaining about "scammers" on here also reporting that to SA? If not then that's a problem. Don't complain about it if you're not doing anything to help solve the problem. If there are other guys that had the same experience with the girl then they should also file a complaint. It only takes a minute to do it.[/QUOTE]I too have reported MANY scammers on SA providing images of the text messages to prove they're scamming. I occasionally get a message from the Administrator asking for proof (which I already provided). I have rarely seen a female profile get deleted after I report them. I on the other hand have been banned once because someone reported me. I don't think Seeking really cares much about the female scammers of which there are plenty.

[QUOTE=DougPeterson;5839232]I too have reported MANY scammers on SA providing images of the text messages to prove they're scamming. I occasionally get a message from the Administrator asking for proof (which I already provided). I have rarely seen a female profile get deleted after I report them. I on the other hand have been banned once because someone reported me. I don't think Seeking really cares much about the female scammers of which there are plenty.[/QUOTE]Wow. In every instance they were banned the following day. From SA Support Page:

Disclaimer: [URL]Seeking.com[/URL] is not an escort service. Seeking in no way, shape, or form supports escorts or prostitutes using our website for personal gain. Profiles suspected of promoting this behavior will be addressed by the Seeking Misconduct Team and banned from our website.

General Safety Tips.

When meeting someone for the first time, meet them for lunch or coffee during the day.

Always let your family or friends know before you meet someone the first time. Let them know where, when, and who you will be meeting.

Don't disclose your personal banking information, including account numbers or passwords.

Take Action.

Report members who request sexual offers in exchange for money.

Report members who identify themselves as escorts or prostitutes since this is strictly against our terms of use.

Report any member guilty of online harassment.

Report anyone who asks for money upfront and before meeting in person. This includes, but is not limited to sob stories asking for money, and individuals needing to pay their cell phone bills.

Report members who ask for your address so they can send you gifts.

Report members who ask for your bank account details, including account numbers or passwords.

Report any members who are looking for individuals under 18 years of age.

Report any members who tell you that they are under 18 years of age.

If you believe you are a victim of human trafficking or may have information about a potential trafficking situation, please contact the National Human Trafficking Hotline at (888) 373-7888 or via SMS "BEFREE"/233733 (Text "HELP" or "INFO".

To report suspected human trafficking to Federal law enforcement, please call (866) 347-2423.

If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call 911.

I've reported for "members who identify themselves as escorts or prostitutes" and "anyone who asks for money upfront and before meeting in person". Make sure you use the "Submit Ticket" form so your complaint can be tracked. I would not recommend emailing support for this.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9fe96afb-f540-4dba-a171-a86077dd7b5e[/URL]

At one time a good choice but has fallen down badly over time. Scammer best sums her up now.

[QUOTE=Wenceslas;5839455][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/9fe96afb-f540-4dba-a171-a86077dd7b5e[/URL]

At one time a good choice but has fallen down badly over time. Scammer best sums her up now.[/QUOTE]She was one of my most fun chicks to meet with over the years. Wish she was back in her old form.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dd99c7af-0fa9-42c8-81e7-054af382282a[/URL]

Anyone has info about her. About to drive from Madison to meet her and want to avoid waist of time!

[QUOTE=Untitled;5843363][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dd99c7af-0fa9-42c8-81e7-054af382282a[/URL]

Anyone has info about her. About to drive from Madison to meet her and want to avoid waist of time![/QUOTE]I sent you a PM because my moderated reply may not post in time. Anyway, she's been reviewed before. I have not seen her. She changes her name / profile often. I suspect to avoid the reputation she's built here and / or elsewhere. The reviews as I recall have been mixed. With mostly negative. Reports that she is nowhere near as hot as these pics indicate. Unhealthy looking. And potential ripoff. I would avoid going to her location. And I would definitely not give money upfront. Spring for a hotel, if you like how she looks. And just keep your wits about you. If you get the wrong vibe, like she's trying to hustle or hurry things, or asks for money upfront, I'd suggest bailing.

[QUOTE=OnlyBbbj1;5823391]I've been a reader and a contributor on this site (mostly Chicago and Milwaukee) for quite some time now. Like most all of us, I've had some great successes and plenty of failures.

What has never really been clear to me is how many of you guys give money up front or leave it out for them to grab the cash and run. I always always always keep $ secured until the end.

I've always interpreted that sb request as scamish. I'm very curious how many here have had successful first date arrangements by paying at the beginning of the date.[/QUOTE]For STG type girls, money up front is par for the course. For SA, it's the opposite. Usually, SA girls do not ask for money up front. In my experience, the few that did were not worth repeating with. So for now I consider it a red flag, and move on decisively and quickly.

[QUOTE=Untitled;5843363][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dd99c7af-0fa9-42c8-81e7-054af382282a[/URL]

Anyone has info about her. About to drive from Madison to meet her and want to avoid waist of time![/QUOTE]She's been discussed many times recently. This is a new account. Avoid at all costs.

[QUOTE=Play60;5843418]She's been discussed many times recently. This is a new account. Avoid at all costs.[/QUOTE]I usually follow the Madison board and did a quick search with her new Username. Can I ask if you know anything about LeahSophia.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4d94f554-8b4c-4f8a-93f9-ebee2e93a73e[/URL]

[QUOTE=Untitled;5843664]I usually follow the Madison board and did a quick search with her new Username. Can I ask if you know anything about LeahSophia.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4d94f554-8b4c-4f8a-93f9-ebee2e93a73e[/URL][/QUOTE]Haven't met her. Her communication with me and another member on here were similar. Terrible communicator and doesn't seem serious about meeting. Time waster. Let us know if your experience is different.

[QUOTE=Play60;5843698]Haven't met her. Her communication with me and another member on here were similar. Terrible communicator and doesn't seem serious about meeting. Time waster. Let us know if your experience is different.[/QUOTE]Thanks! I will keep you posted!

I posted a review of her. Scammer. I would avoid.

[QUOTE=Untitled;5843363][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dd99c7af-0fa9-42c8-81e7-054af382282a[/URL]

Anyone has info about her. About to drive from Madison to meet her and want to avoid waist of time![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=RobertWi69;5815963]Any feedback here? She looks like she might be cheap and would probably be quite accommodating. Also close to me if her location is legit.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3c8c9d8b-1bbc-4f70-84f1-4c8fc5804462[/URL][/QUOTE]Just to follow up. Senior monger here reported vaginitis has been cleared up but still no incall. I may try again.

I created an account last week, wanted to take a peek at what's there. Account was approved on Sunday. Tried logging in Monday and account was deleted. Have no clue why, didn't put anything out there that was suggestive of anything. Glad I didn't pay for anything, but wonder what they didn't like.

[QUOTE=OnlyBbbj1;5823391]I've been a reader and a contributor on this site (mostly Chicago and Milwaukee) for quite some time now. Like most all of us, I've had some great successes and plenty of failures.

What has never really been clear to me is how many of you guys give money up front or leave it out for them to grab the cash and run. I always always always keep $ secured until the end.

I've always interpreted that sb request as scamish. I'm very curious how many here have had successful first date arrangements by paying at the beginning of the date.[/QUOTE]I am happy to pay for coffee, a drink, or a light meal at a first meeting. I do that for regular friends, family, whomever. If nothing happens after that, I'm out $10-20, big deal. But I never, ever, EVER prepay for anything beyond that. I've stopped even booking a hotel room ahead of time. Got burned last week, had a meet set up, booked a room on Hotwire, then she texts me 30 minutes that she's bailing (not asking to reschedule, just canceling). No money up front, period. It never works.

[QUOTE=Natefarwell;5806357]

She is fun for 250.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3afad165-cc6d-4e00-9307-faaa486b8b83[/URL]

[/QUOTE]Agree. I've seen her. She is bigger but proportionately so, more just thick than flabby. Had a lot of fun though, worth repeating.

[QUOTE=EasternDigital;5845646]I created an account last week, wanted to take a peek at what's there. Account was approved on Sunday. Tried logging in Monday and account was deleted. Have no clue why, didn't put anything out there that was suggestive of anything. Glad I didn't pay for anything, but wonder what they didn't like.[/QUOTE]That's surprising. I never subscribe immediately after creating an account. In the lurking phase, I don't enter any information into the profile, so there's zero basis for suspending. But, they are arbitrary in their unilateral and opaque process. Who knows.

I have been texting with this lady for a couple weeks now. She seems real but you just never know until you meet. We are planning on meeting this weekend for drinks. I figured I would just check here to see if anyone has met her or any information about her. I didn't find any reports on her. Hopefully we meet so I can give a good report back. Feel free to PM if you are willing to share information. Thank you.

I signed up on Secret Benefits about 5 years ago and purchased a few hundred credits. I burned through the credits pretty quick since it's 10 credits for this and that and at that time not a lot of selection. Anyone have any luck on here lately? I also revisited SugarDaddyMeet which was around before Seeking and kind of went downhill after Seeking took off and was surprised by the selection and that they are new faces (not any of the same faces from Seeking). It's $50/ month. Anybody have luck recently on here recently?

A few messages starting with this one.

Misunderstood.

She will come to you for 350 but dropped to 300 plus gas, not my type after she sent a picture, probably a nice girl and moving soon, maybe 200 and I would bite.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/236b0459-4d80-4131-b31a-79f689d790ac[/URL]

Littleitaly8722.

This one is not meeting, she got pissy and said this isn't a sex site, good to know LOL.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/862fa2c9-004f-42fa-8d93-d4ad8cee0ad5[/URL]

Autumnskye.

Messages went well then she wanted chocolates and flowers from her wish list, I offered expensive chocolates at our meet and she said only her wish list then talk about meeting, I doubt she's meeting anyone.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eb8fddb3-2868-4335-b30f-2f0623a5b1f3[/URL]

Hailey.

I messaged her and she sent her number to text, she said most guys offer 200-500 plus dinner, so I asked what 200 gets and she got pissed, ok what does 500 get and she is upset again, I asked why put these numbers out if I can't get answer, so I say ok I'll get dinner and have 500, her reply, I'm not even close, I said I'm out and if she figures what she wants to play let me know, man she's not all there.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/69044485-0fed-433d-b251-b98e36012c67[/URL]

Widimples81.

Talking about not all there, this one said exchange numbers and meet, once numbers are exchanged everything I bring up she counter dicks, are we dtf for money? Are you looking for a boyfriend? Then she says this is why I wanted someone experienced so I don't have to answer so I say ok let's fuck and I'll bring 200, she's good to go except she's no longer in Kenosha, now she's moved to Milwaukee, I need to get a motel because she works till 4 and her kids are at home, ok how much time I ask, she says not even 30 minutes, I asked how she meets anyone then, she said guys from Chicago come for 20 minutes, ok I heard enough long ago already so I said how about just blowing me at a nearby park and ride, she laughs and I was done, I read her profile and should have known better.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4e412d8e-4f23-4173-37ce-0a6e741b0bbb[/URL]

Koko-xoxo.

This one messages like she's going to start getting naked on her way to me and asks for my number, never a reply, probably amusing herself playing games.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7128488c-2261-4386-957b-c07277783610[/URL]

One I haven't seen on SA is that Katie slug bug with the kid, rushed and rip off, most guys she met wouldn't fart in her face if she was gasping for air to fuck her.

If your clever enough, you can expand your search area while remaining in your location. There are many SB's working as flight attendants. Most do not have regular flights they work. Rather they bid on the flights they want for a given month and then based on seniority they are assigned. So if they are able to get the flights to or out of Milwaukee you could end up spending a nice time with one of them. They are also allowed to trade flights with other attendants. They also can fly for free anywhere. I've managed to meet three so far. They all had their own hotel rooms. They were all staying at hotels that had bars / restaurants. Really a nice set up. They are a nice little side piece to have since you're not going to see them very often. Besides being hot looking, they're all sluts and get off on meeting up for sex. We all know the type. Spend an hour or so at the bar getting to know each other. I've managed to stay in touch with all three of them through their social media. One of them got knocked up and had a kid so she's no longer an option but the other two are. Thanks for listening to my Pro Tip.

[QUOTE=PeckerHead;5849771]If your clever enough, you can expand your search area while remaining in your location. There are many SB's working as flight attendants. Most do not have regular flights they work. Rather they bid on the flights they want for a given month and then based on seniority they are assigned. So if they are able to get the flights to or out of Milwaukee you could end up spending a nice time with one of them. They are also allowed to trade flights with other attendants. They also can fly for free anywhere. I've managed to meet three so far. They all had their own hotel rooms. They were all staying at hotels that had bars / restaurants. Really a nice set up. They are a nice little side piece to have since you're not going to see them very often. Besides being hot looking, they're all sluts and get off on meeting up for sex. We all know the type. Spend an hour or so at the bar getting to know each other. I've managed to stay in touch with all three of them through their social media. One of them got knocked up and had a kid so she's no longer an option but the other two are. Thanks for listening to my Pro Tip.[/QUOTE]I've texted a few but none are interested in meeting for 3 or 400. But maybe you've been luckier, what was your damage?

[QUOTE=DotJohn;5849785]I've texted a few but none are interested in meeting for 3 or 400. But maybe you've been luckier, what was your damage?[/QUOTE]I never talked money with them. But to answer your question $50-100 bar tab and a couple hundred I left as a gift when I left. No complaints. Two of them deadheaded to Milwaukee for an early flight out so it's not like they were going to do anything that night anyway. I got about 6-8 hours notice on those.

[QUOTE=EddiesPickle;5849770]A few messages starting with this one.

Misunderstood.

She will come to you for 350 but dropped to 300 plus gas, not my type after she sent a picture, probably a nice girl and moving soon, maybe 200 and I would bite.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/236b0459-4d80-4131-b31a-79f689d790ac[/URL]

Hailey.

I messaged her and she sent her number to text, she said most guys offer 200-500 plus dinner, so I asked what 200 gets and she got pissed, ok what does 500 get and she is upset again, I asked why put these numbers out if I can't get answer, so I say ok I'll get dinner and have 500, her reply, I'm not even close, I said I'm out and if she figures what she wants to play let me know, man she's not all there.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/69044485-0fed-433d-b251-b98e36012c67[/URL]
[/QUOTE]Misunderstood is WAY heavier than her pics, face is mottled. She wants to be a sex counselor someday. LOL. Wasted money on lunch with this one, couldn't wait to get rid of her. Should have walked away the moment I saw her, but I'm too polite. Not even interesting to talk to. Cost me lunch but that's all.

Hailey is VERY attractive and fun to talk to. Had lunch with her a while ago, by agreement platonic only for the first date. No promise of anything up front either, though I hear from others she's basically scamming for platonic dates? I did offer her a small amount of gas money when we left lunch, but I suspect it wasn't enough for her liking, and it wasn't a requirement for meeting. She hasn't followed up on my offer of a second date. She's a real person and very personable and attractive. Is she a real sugarbaby with all that entails, dk. I have my doubts.

add: if Hailey is in fact really interested in being an exclusive sugar baby, which she claims, including intimacy but other fun things, I'd say her market value is pretty high. Someone would offer well over 500ppm I'm sure.

Hailey and a few others are able to dictate a different tier of pricing. I've met Hailey and others I originally thought too good to be true. Each looking for an allowance, none interested in ppm. One smokin hot MILF was honest and said she has 3-4 regulars. She claims to never meet two the same day and the rotation is Monday thru Thursday. The weekends are negotiable (additional $) for special events, trips, etc. She started at 4 K. Wouldn't budge when offered 500,750, and then 1 k for a test. I find most high-end allowance requests start at 2500. I doubt any exclusivity exists or is rare.

This site certainly has many tiers. The legitimate high-end. Those that think they are but aren't. Those that should be thankful to get SW money. Those high volume that claim not to be. Etc.

Then add sifting through the games, bs, scams, etc. To me its a fun diversion from time to time, but a lot of effort if you can't or decide not to go big.

[QUOTE=PeckerHead;5849829]I never talked money with them. But to answer your question $50-100 bar tab and a couple hundred I left as a gift when I left. No complaints. Two of them deadheaded to Milwaukee for an early flight out so it's not like they were going to do anything that night anyway. I got about 6-8 hours notice on those.[/QUOTE]So even when you expend your search how do you zero in on the flight attendants? What am I missing? That set up would actually be perfect for me so any advice Would be great- pm is fine too!

[QUOTE=Untitled;5850420]So even when you expend your search how do you zero in on the flight attendants? What am I missing? That set up would actually be perfect for me so any advice Would be great- pm is fine too![/QUOTE]I search "flight attendant" distance 1000 miles. I look at each profile that comes up in the search and read them. Many put in their descriptions that they work as a flight attendant. I send them a message. Am I misunderstanding your question?

[QUOTE=PeckerHead;5850462]I search "flight attendant" distance 1000 miles. I look at each profile that comes up in the search and read them. Many put in their descriptions that they work as a flight attendant. I send them a message. Am I misunderstanding your question?[/QUOTE]That is what I was looking for. Thanks for the explanation- stupid me.

Misunderstood: Haven't met but was supposed to next week. I'll pass given the reports on her weight. Says she is ok with bdsm and agreed to 300.

Koko: she had a new excuse every conversation. I ended it when she said negotiations would start at 1,500 a week. And she doesn't host.

Hailey: She is hot. She's too expensive (if she actually gives it up). She ended it when I mentioned ppm. Wants only a monthly allowance and gave me the "I'm not a prostitute". Yet she's selling pussy?

Widimples: I got the same story. Won't host. Only available after 4 pm.

Autumn: I pushed the sex issue and she got offended. But then I mentioned we chatted several times in the past under her other names and she lightened up. But I ended it when she asked for money up front. This even though she hosts. I ended it there. She has been discussed several times on here on her other names. She actually lives in Elkhorn, not LG. She went by Shandy; SummerShandy and other similar names in the past. She will meet and fuck if you get her to drop the advance payment crap

[QUOTE=EddiesPickle;5849770]A few messages starting with this one.

Misunderstood.

She will come to you for 350 but dropped to 300 plus gas, not my type after she sent a picture, probably a nice girl and moving soon, maybe 200 and I would bite.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/236b0459-4d80-4131-b31a-79f689d790ac[/URL]

Littleitaly8722.

This one is not meeting, she got pissy and said this isn't a sex site, good to know LOL.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/862fa2c9-004f-42fa-8d93-d4ad8cee0ad5[/URL]

Autumnskye.

Messages went well then she wanted chocolates and flowers from her wish list, I offered expensive chocolates at our meet and she said only her wish list then talk about meeting, I doubt she's meeting anyone.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/eb8fddb3-2868-4335-b30f-2f0623a5b1f3[/URL]

Hailey.

I messaged her and she sent her number to text, she said most guys offer 200-500 plus dinner, so I asked what 200 gets and she got pissed, ok what does 500 get and she is upset again, I asked why put these numbers out if I can't get answer, so I say ok I'll get dinner and have 500, her reply, I'm not even close, I said I'm out and if she figures what she wants to play let me know, man she's not all there.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/69044485-0fed-433d-b251-b98e36012c67[/URL]

Widimples81.

Talking about not all there, this one said exchange numbers and meet, once numbers are exchanged everything I bring up she counter dicks, are we dtf for money? Are you looking for a boyfriend? Then she says this is why I wanted someone experienced so I don't have to answer so I say ok let's fuck and I'll bring 200, she's good to go except she's no longer in Kenosha, now she's moved to Milwaukee, I need to get a motel because she works till 4 and her kids are at home, ok how much time I ask, she says not even 30 minutes, I asked how she meets anyone then, she said guys from Chicago come for 20 minutes, ok I heard enough long ago already so I said how about just blowing me at a nearby park and ride, she laughs and I was done, I read her profile and should have known better.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4e412d8e-4f23-4173-37ce-0a6e741b0bbb[/URL]

Koko-xoxo.

This one messages like she's going to start getting naked on her way to me and asks for my number, never a reply, probably amusing herself playing games.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7128488c-2261-4386-957b-c07277783610[/URL]

One I haven't seen on SA is that Katie slug bug with the kid, rushed and rip off, most guys she met wouldn't fart in her face if she was gasping for air to fuck her.[/QUOTE]

P. s.

Pig Katie is still on and eating better than ever. She's now Katielovee1998.

[QUOTE=Miltown;5851559]Misunderstood: Haven't met but was supposed to next week. I'll pass given the reports on her weight. Says she is ok with bdsm and agreed to 300.

Koko: she had a new excuse every conversation. I ended it when she said negotiations would start at 1,500 a week. And she doesn't host.

Hailey: She is hot. She's too expensive (if she actually gives it up). She ended it when I mentioned ppm. Wants only a monthly allowance and gave me the "I'm not a prostitute". Yet she's selling pussy?

Widimples: I got the same story. Won't host. Only available after 4 pm.

Autumn: I pushed the sex issue and she got offended. But then I mentioned we chatted several times in the past under her other names and she lightened up. But I ended it when she asked for money up front. This even though she hosts. I ended it there. She has been discussed several times on here on her other names. She actually lives in Elkhorn, not LG. She went by Shandy; SummerShandy and other similar names in the past. She will meet and fuck if you get her to drop the advance payment crap[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Miltown;5851608]P. s.

Pig Katie is still on and eating better than ever. She's now Katielovee1998.[/QUOTE]She messaged me this morning "let's meet today" I blocked her again until another handle pops up, apparently so many bad reports she can't recall who's who.

When you meet someone on a SD / SD site, you want to be able to spot red flags before you invest a lot of time or get too attached and into a long-term relationship with them. Sure, she looks hot. But by ignoring red flags you are just putting off the inevitable. My red flags:

1. Read her profile! First off I (like most) look at the photos. I avoid any SB that posts many photos of herself in bikinis or lingerie. If she has one not a big deal. Does she dress like a tramp? Is she posting a bunch of photos from a hotel room or bathroom? For me, these are all signs of a mental illness to some degree. Second, if her "About Me" contains things like "I know my worth", "I'm not a prostitute", "Don't waste my time", "Warning I'm a bit goofy", "I love to be spoiled", or "I own my own business" - stating things like this are red flags to me and could be signs of a mental illness. Third, if in her "Info" section under Occupation Industry says "Entrepreneur" avoid. If her "About Me" is more than a couple short paragraphs she is more than likely a narcissist. Lastly lets move on to what they are looking for. "Someone who knows what he wants", "Someone who will treat me like a queen" - you get the idea, avoid the red flags.

2. They ask you for money. If the only reason she's talking to you is just about money, that's a red flag. It's one of the most obvious signs that someone is talking to you for all the wrong reasons. No one you've just met should be asking you for money. It doesn't matter how much you have in common or what kind of a connection you feel. There are people out there who will prey on your kindness. You might want to believe that everyone is good and wouldn't ask you for money unless they were desperate and really needed it, but you can bet they've done this to people before and will continue to do it. You are just a $ sign to this person.

3. They warn you about themselves by saying things like "I can be a real (fill in the blank) sometimes" - believe her and move on.

4. They give you vague answers or evasive responses to basic straight forward questions. They give you conflicting information about themselves. More likely than not a liar!

5. They are not in college / school and have no job. Big red flag.

I've been getting messages asking for tips. The point of todays Pro Tip is to look for red flags. Yours may be different than mine but at least establish some and stick to them.

[QUOTE=PeckerHead;5853447]When you meet someone on a SD / SD site, you want to be able to spot red flags before you invest a lot of time or get too attached and into a long-term relationship with them. Sure, she looks hot. But by ignoring red flags you are just putting off the inevitable. My red flags:

1. Read her profile! First off I (like most) look at the photos. I avoid any SB that posts many photos of herself in bikinis or lingerie. If she has one not a big deal. Does she dress like a tramp? Is she posting a bunch of photos from a hotel room or bathroom? For me, these are all signs of a mental illness to some degree. Second, if her "About Me" contains things like "I know my worth", "I'm not a prostitute", "Don't waste my time", "Warning I'm a bit goofy", "I love to be spoiled", or "I own my own business" - stating things like this are red flags to me and could be signs of a mental illness. Third, if in her "Info" section under Occupation Industry says "Entrepreneur" avoid. If her "About Me" is more than a couple short paragraphs she is more than likely a narcissist. Lastly lets move on to what they are looking for. "Someone who knows what he wants", "Someone who will treat me like a queen" - you get the idea, avoid the red flags.

2. They ask you for money. If the only reason she's talking to you is just about money, that's a red flag. It's one of the most obvious signs that someone is talking to you for all the wrong reasons. No one you've just met should be asking you for money. It doesn't matter how much you have in common or what kind of a connection you feel. There are people out there who will prey on your kindness. You might want to believe that everyone is good and wouldn't ask you for money unless they were desperate and really needed it, but you can bet they've done this to people before and will continue to do it. You are just a $ sign to this person..[/QUOTE]I've been on the site 6 years and met plenty of the red flags submitted "she's goofy" could because she's young and lacks maturity "don't waste my time" or "I know my worth" could also mean I've been stood up and low balled, my 2 cents.

[QUOTE=PeckerHead;5847242]I signed up on Secret Benefits about 5 years ago and purchased a few hundred credits. I burned through the credits pretty quick since it's 10 credits for this and that and at that time not a lot of selection. Anyone have any luck on here lately? I also revisited SugarDaddyMeet which was around before Seeking and kind of went downhill after Seeking took off and was surprised by the selection and that they are new faces (not any of the same faces from Seeking). It's $50/ month. Anybody have luck recently on here recently?[/QUOTE]I tried SB once. The pricing model is so awful, I would never bother again. For $60 or so, you get 100 credits, and can contact 10 girls (10 credits per girl). Given the ratio of fake to real (easily 10 x or greater), the most likely result of most subscriptions is you have to buy more credits to find anyone real. Compare that to SA, where $100 gets you one month of unlimited contacts. Again, with the ratio of fake to real, you're better off sticking with SA.

[QUOTE=Flagrant;5854408]I tried SB once. The pricing model is so awful, I would never bother again. For $60 or so, you get 100 credits, and can contact 10 girls (10 credits per girl). Given the ratio of fake to real (easily 10 x or greater), the most likely result of most subscriptions is you have to buy more credits to find anyone real. Compare that to SA, where $100 gets you one month of unlimited contacts. Again, with the ratio of fake to real, you're better off sticking with SA.[/QUOTE]I logged in today and in my filtered search there were 35 online and 175 that had logged on today. Much more than what I am seeing on SA. How can this be? No one on here even mentions this site. So is it real or is the site faking these? Yes the pricing model is awful. It would cost over a grand to contact 100 of these girls that are supposedly either online or logging on daily. Unless I hear from someone that they are hooking up with anyone on here I'm not buying any credits. Something just doesn't seem right considering in the past I've sent many girls messages and never got a response back. I don't read any reports from the other cities on this site (Madison, Green bay, Chicago). Is it just a giant scam?

[QUOTE=Flagrant;5854408]I tried SB once. The pricing model is so awful, I would never bother again. For $60 or so, you get 100 credits, and can contact 10 girls (10 credits per girl). Given the ratio of fake to real (easily 10 x or greater), the most likely result of most subscriptions is you have to buy more credits to find anyone real. Compare that to SA, where $100 gets you one month of unlimited contacts. Again, with the ratio of fake to real, you're better off sticking with SA.[/QUOTE]Haha yeah. So you start messaging someone that has no job, not going to school, and she "knows her worth" which is basically zero and she's going to be offended by a low ball offer. Just comical.

[QUOTE=PeckerHead;5854720]I logged in today and in my filtered search there were 35 online and 175 that had logged on today. Much more than what I am seeing on SA. How can this be? No one on here even mentions this site. So is it real or is the site faking these? Yes the pricing model is awful. It would cost over a grand to contact 100 of these girls that are supposedly either online or logging on daily. Unless I hear from someone that they are hooking up with anyone on here I'm not buying any credits. Something just doesn't seem right considering in the past I've sent many girls messages and never got a response back. I don't read any reports from the other cities on this site (Madison, Green bay, Chicago). Is it just a giant scam?[/QUOTE]First, yea it sounds like a shit site and the numbers simply cannot be accurate. Secondly, I'm enjoying your posts, you have a lot of insight to offer others here.

[QUOTE=PeckerHead;5854720]I logged in today and in my filtered search there were 35 online and 175 that had logged on today. Much more than what I am seeing on SA. How can this be? No one on here even mentions this site. So is it real or is the site faking these? Yes the pricing model is awful. It would cost over a grand to contact 100 of these girls that are supposedly either online or logging on daily. Unless I hear from someone that they are hooking up with anyone on here I'm not buying any credits. Something just doesn't seem right considering in the past I've sent many girls messages and never got a response back. I don't read any reports from the other cities on this site (Madison, Green bay, Chicago). Is it just a giant scam?[/QUOTE]SB is a giant scam. When I subscribed, lots of girls messaged me. I carefully selected 10 to reply to. None of them followed up. That's a fairly clear indication that their recent activity (being online and initiating contact with me) was fake.