Korean Bar Reports

[QUOTE=Lefty808;3874297]Yes, Mits is right, as usually there is a falling out. In one of them, she claimed she loved him. But because he would not divorce his wife, she threatened and did expose her to their relationship.

The sad part is he got divorced and she wound up marrying someone else.

In the other case, all she wanted was his money.[/QUOTE]There have been quite a few BGs that thought they had the guy under their thumb and demanded to have them leave their wives. The guys would not. Some BGs have even had the audacity to speak to the wife and tell her to leave him. Because they can take care of him better. LOL.

[QUOTE=JohnRoss;3874343]There have been quite a few BGs that thought they had the guy under their thumb and demanded to have them leave their wives. The guys would not. Some BGs have even had the audacity to speak to the wife and tell her to leave him. Because they can take care of him better. LOL.[/QUOTE]Yeah, they going take care of you all right. All the way to the po or crazy house. I've had KBGs tell me, "You know my numba; you bettah call. " Ha! "I still have feelings for you. " Double Ha!! "I always thinking of you. " Triple Ha, ha, ha! Once they (not you or anybody else) think they control or own you, pau already, as described above by JR. They get big mouth, too, and nothing going stop them from shaming you and yours (even if you tell them it's "only for hapshida, that's all").

This is funny, " you know I still have feeling for you". That remind of one incident while I was eating this KBG pussy. She was talking to her sugar daddy on the phone and told him " I have much feeling for you, I love you". I wanted to laugh out so hard, but I could not cause her sugar daddy might hear me on his end.

[QUOTE=MitsFunai;3874575]Yeah, they going take care of you all right. All the way to the po or crazy house. I've had KBGs tell me, "You know my numba; you bettah call. " Ha! "I still have feelings for you. " Double Ha!! "I always thinking of you. " Triple Ha, ha, ha! Once they (not you or anybody else) think they control or own you, pau already, as described above by JR. They get big mouth, too, and nothing going stop them from shaming you and yours (even if you tell them it's "only for hapshida, that's all").[/QUOTE]

Jae is nice. Saw her bartend there, not pushy. The place seem suck no matter who is the mama there. Locals ran the small bar for a while. Donna and Kelly managed the big bar until their partner ran off with the money. I seldom go back there aftermath. Nothin interested me.

[QUOTE=HonoluluFatBoy;3874177]Anybody knows what happened to her? Haven't seen her behind the bar for awhile. Also, she hasn't been replying to my texts.[/QUOTE]

Anyone have any info on this sassy looking girl? I don't see her getting cozy with anyone, so is it worth the kala?

Try Michelle, she is worth your money.

[QUOTE=Beer808;3880356]Anyone have any info on this sassy looking girl? I don't see her getting cozy with anyone, so is it worth the kala?[/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=Beer808;3880356]Anyone have any info on this sassy looking girl? I don't see her getting cozy with anyone, so is it worth the kala?[/QUOTE]I drank with her a few times and enjoyed the company but never felt her warming up to me so abandoned ship but who knows? I could have given it some more time maybe and others might have different knowledge. I was attracted to her classy look. Good luck to you!

In general, whether you're single, engaged, married (or whatever), you take your chances whenever entering the KB; it is a "choices and consequences" experience and anything can happen. Think of any scenario relating to your particular personal situation involving a KB or KBG and it's probably nothing compared to the next guy. If currently having LVB status and pursuing a DKBG then you're more than likely to be unhappy, confused, and stressed-out; if expecting tit-for-tat then probably angry; if going to multiple KBs to see KBGs then probably bottom-fishing; if playing it cool and letting the KBGs make the pursuit then probably in a good place and mood; if daily regular and KBGs no like you then probably unreliable alcoholic. Of course, all IMO and no harm intended. Please add more customer profiles.

Man, you brothers here in Hi seem to have it rough with these KBGs. The closest thing on the East Coast we have to your KBGs are strippers in clubs getting paid by the bar-managers everytime a customer buys them a 20-coin sprite with cherry juice in it; and all for the purposes of the customer hopefully getting to go with the girl to the private "VIP" room where he gets hosed out of another 25 coin to watch her dance for him in private. On the rare occasion she offers him take-out, he gets a cell number from her that often leads to a non-working number or worse. Her own "private manager" who in turn tells the poor sap to never bother his girl again. I learned my lesson in Key West more than a decade ago to never do anything less than RTFF.

However, what I have read thusfar on this thread is our vaunted Karioke bars here on the East Coast which are little more than high-priced c*ck-teasing and coin-draining establishments at the very least don't interfere with your homelife. Based on what I have read here, I can't see why you boys still waste your time with these girls. We have plenty of AMP girls on the East Coast who come from Korea and "love you long time" with NONE of the drama you boys describe in this thread, so what's the drawing card to these KBs?

I am in the planning stages of heading out to your paradise, but from what little I gather here, KBGs are not where the action's at. Am I wrong?

[QUOTE=HonoluluFatBoy;3874177]Anybody knows what happened to her? Haven't seen her behind the bar for awhile. Also, she hasn't been replying to my texts.[/QUOTE]I was told she was going on vacation for 2 months so it will be awhile, you always asking for her if she was inclined to she would have told you her plans. If you know she going away then just ask her next time no big secret.

[QUOTE=SpecialOne8;3881300]Man, you brothers here in Hi seem to have it rough with these KBGs. The closest thing on the East Coast we have to your KBGs are strippers in clubs getting paid by the bar-managers everytime a customer buys them a 20-coin sprite with cherry juice in it; and all for the purposes of the customer hopefully getting to go with the girl to the private "VIP" room where he gets hosed out of another 25 coin to watch her dance for him in private. On the rare occasion she offers him take-out, he gets a cell number from her that often leads to a non-working number or worse. Her own "private manager" who in turn tells the poor sap to never bother his girl again. I learned my lesson in Key West more than a decade ago to never do anything less than RTFF.

However, what I have read thusfar on this thread is our vaunted Karioke bars here on the East Coast which are little more than high-priced c*ck-teasing and coin-draining establishments at the very least don't interfere with your homelife. Based on what I have read here, I can't see why you boys still waste your time with these girls. We have plenty of AMP girls on the East Coast who come from Korea and "love you long time" with NONE of the drama you boys describe in this thread, so what's the drawing card to these KBs?

I am in the planning stages of heading out to your paradise, but from what little I gather here, KBGs are not where the action's at. Am I wrong?[/QUOTE]I think you pretty much summed it up. The quality info seems to be you're money can be much better spend here. Maybe if you really like drinking at the bar with ladies this is the way. Like you've deduced, doesn't make a whole lot of sense.

[QUOTE=VietWhisperer;3880883]I drank with her a few times and enjoyed the company but never felt her warming up to me so abandoned ship but who knows? I could have given it some more time maybe and others might have different knowledge. I was attracted to her classy look. Good luck to you![/QUOTE]Can you describe sheena please.

[QUOTE=MitsFunai;3881235]In general, whether you're single, engaged, married (or whatever), you take your chances whenever entering the KB; it is a "choices and consequences" experience and anything can happen. Think of any scenario relating to your particular personal situation involving a KB or KBG and it's probably nothing compared to the next guy. If currently having LVB status and pursuing a DKBG then you're more than likely to be unhappy, confused, and stressed-out; if expecting tit-for-tat then probably angry; if going to multiple KBs to see KBGs then probably bottom-fishing; if playing it cool and letting the KBGs make the pursuit then probably in a good place and mood; if daily regular and KBGs no like you then probably unreliable alcoholic. Of course, all IMO and no harm intended. Please add more customer profiles.[/QUOTE]"With five dollars in your pocket, you're handsome, you're funny, and you sing good, too!"

Yup. I'm a married guy and I'll try to explain to you single (and apparently younger) guys why most of the customers at KBs are married. If you hadn't noticed, most of us guys are a bit older and have seen better days. But despite what we see in the mirror everyday, deep down inside we still regard ourselves as the young studs we once were. The KBs are an oasis where we are waited on, cuddled, complimented, and pursued. I kinda enjoy just sitting at the bar and receiving the attention. If only for a little bit as far as my $20 neko will take me (usually about 10-15 minutes). It's a nice place to blow off the stress and cortisol that has built up over the day and week. It is massage for the ego. And it is completely fair to compensate the KBGs for their time. Most trades (plumbers, electricians) charge about $120/ hr. The higher priced professionals (engineers, accountants, lawyers) $150 - $300/ hr. So depending on the KBG, that's 4 drinks / hr on the lower end and 10/ hr on the higher end. If you're strictly looking for sex, then yes the KB is the wrong venue. Definitely no value at the KB for the physical sex act.

But here's where it gets interesting: many of us married guys cross over to the next level and go into "hunt" mode. It's the thrill of the chase. Yes, the KBGs will up their hourly rate accordingly and it's fun to bait and stalk. But that's why men fish and hunt. There's no hunt in buying the steak at the supermarket. Yes, it is expensive. But I think no more expensive than hunting or fishing. And as you see on this thread, we compare our catches and often post the trophies for display.

And yes, it is addictive. I now kinda think of KBGs like slot machines. I feed them drinks and see which ones will pay out. Some are looser than others. But it is the anticipation and the discovery that is fun. And oh that dopamine high when you hit a jackpot. There's no thrill of victory if there is no risk of losing. And as the old-timers put it, its about maximizing your earnings while minimizing your loses. So there is that much more joy when the KBG lets you take her home at no additional cost. Of course, there are hidden fees. But that's a whole 'nother topic. Sometimes you chase them 'til they catch you.

But the main thing is that for the most part in my experience KBGs are professionals. As a married man, I don't have to dress up. I can come to the bar when I want to. Usually right after work. They know and I know that this is their profession, and I won't be getting klingy text messages or calls at home. I'm not looking for another wife or girlfriend and am completely willing to share her with others. I'm paying, so I expect good service regardless what mood she is in. As a married man, can't do this thing with civilians at local or tourist bars.

I honestly can't speak for the guys who go into the next tier: long term relationships. I think the most I've slept with a particular KBG is three times. And the thrill is gone already. I hover between tier 1 and 2.

What I don't understand is why SINGLE guys go to KBs. Ok -if you fugly, I understand. But dammit, if you got good looks, game, and guns (or bazookas) - you should be hunting out at the local bars and clubs to chase women who aren't trying to earn a living by spending time with you!

P.S. as for intel - I've found recent happy hunting grounds West of Kalihi in the Aiea/Pearl City area. Got some younger KBGs working in those areas who I think get less attention and perhaps feel more lonely in their personal time.

I'm single, as in not married. Been that way all my life. I have had many serious and some not so serious girlfriends, both civilians and bgs. I came here in the early 90's and got into the real estate market investing in properties. One time, some of the partners asked me if I wanted to go to a bar to celebrate. That was it! We did a lot of deals and there was lots of celebrating to be done. After a while, it was just to hang out with some of the guys and shoot the breeze. Some of my compatriots stopped coming dues to health reasons, family obligations, and some passed. I would go to the bar as a place to relax. Sit at the bar and chat up some people, some strangers, some bgs, it was just a means of passing the time.

For some reason, my demeanor put people at ease, and they were very comfortable with me. Bgs were happy to have me around, no pressure to buy drinks or anything. Just a comfortable person that wasn't an asshole. LOL Yup, for some of the women, I was in the "friend zone". They could shoot the shit with me, and ask advice. Some asked me about some of their customers and if what they said was true. Some guys were flashing the cash and trying to make a good impression on the girls, talking about all the money they have. My answer was, people that really have money, old money, are not like that. The guys that flash it will be gone as soon as their money runs out. You can chase their money, but it won't last. They talk big, but it is just a facade. Some guys told the girls they owned this business or a partner in that restaurant. I laughed as I knew the real owners. I guess the girls looked up to me as a wise old uncle. The uncle zone!

[QUOTE=SecretAgent;3883433]Can you describe sheena please.[/QUOTE]Round face, nice rack, not very tall. Dresses nicely and has a chill personality. Has a sister who works there too but don't remember her name. Short hair if I remember correctly as its been awhile. Nice lady to relax with and isn't fucking obnoxious or annoying LOL.