The Sugar Thread: Intel / Reviews / Contacts

[QUOTE=DiscreetFun306;5344168]I agree about not having the funds to provide enough to my long term to demand exclusivity and even if I did I would probably rather spread the wealth. The rule with my long terms is that when we are apart we have our own lives, I think this works best for both of us. It is fine with me if she has other SDs. As long as when we are together she makes me feel like I am her only.[/QUOTE]Totally agree. I definitely can't afford to be the only support system available. I don't even have a paid membership do any of the sites yet but I am thinking it may be a worthwhile investment to avoid the STG crowd.

[QUOTE=DonJon;5343863]So, I'm trying to be understanding here but I cannot help having feelings about knowing my "Main Long-Term" SB had multiple SD's. I'm not sure what to think about this. I mean a girl gotta do what she gotta do but.... from my perspective, I feel a little strange about knowing she has multiple of me.

For you Veteran SA users, do most of your SB's have mulitple SDs?

- DonJon.[/QUOTE]All I ever try to implore is a level of honesty. I don't care that they see other SD's so long as I know they're not an STG type assembly line and seeing a ton of dudes.

I tend to be a little less than vanilla so with the right ones I like to incorporate some of their fun stories into our fun. But it's not for everyone, I get that. But it can and has been a very hot element to add to some fun times.

I just prefer they're honest (well, as close to honest as ANY of these girls can be) so I know what exact situation I'm in.

With my schedule it's tough for me to be someone's sole lifeline into their support system, so it's almost always to be expected that I'm not the only one fulfilling their needs, physically and financially.

I just had my account banned for soliciting. I don't believe I was and sent in a support ticket. So is there no hope on opening a new account? From reading the pass reports you basically have to be an IT professor to accomplish this. Has a account ever been reopened by SA?? Help please.

[QUOTE=PvbGator20;5345714]I just had my account banned for soliciting. I don't believe I was and sent in a support ticket. So is there no hope on opening a new account? From reading the pass reports you basically have to be an IT professor to accomplish this. Has a account ever been reopened by SA?? Help please.[/QUOTE]It's not about doing IT acrobatics- just I laid out the means I used to more or less petition them to re-instate my account. No promises but it worked in my case.

So last night on my burner app, I got a text from a number I didn't have any history with.

It was from 912 area code.

Probably 98% of all my history is related to comms from SA.

I have attached a screen shot of it. No idea who the 'daughter' is but I anticipate they either wanted to instill 'fear' into me for a night or there will be one of the subsequent extortion attempts to pay someone to keep my comms away from the authorities etc but who knows.

Just wanted to get info out there and see if anyone else perhaps had gotten similar text etc.

Smh. Crazy people.

[QUOTE=Scooter6;5347082]So last night on my burner app, I got a text from a number I didn't have any history with.

It was from 912 area code.

Probably 98% of all my history is related to comms from SA.

I have attached a screen shot of it. No idea who the 'daughter' is but I anticipate they either wanted to instill 'fear' into me for a night or there will be one of the subsequent extortion attempts to pay someone to keep my comms away from the authorities etc but who knows.

Just wanted to get info out there and see if anyone else perhaps had gotten similar text etc.

Smh. Crazy people.[/QUOTE]It's a common scam. Here's a long story about a vet who was targeted. I'd block the number and forget about it. Do not respond to it anymore.

[URL]https://www.wired.com/story/the-phone-call-from-hell/[/URL]

I have been on and off SA for the past 3 years.

Want to jump back in but my personal situation now requires me to be super careful and "lean no trace" behind.

I sued to simply punch in my own CC, can't do that anymore.

How do others handle this. Stopped at Walgreens and the number of prepaid cc was overwhelming. No idea what to get or how it works?

Thanks in advance for your help on this.

[QUOTE=MoCheeks65;5347422]I have been on and off SA for the past 3 years.

Want to jump back in but my personal situation now requires me to be super careful and "lean no trace" behind.

I sued to simply punch in my own CC, can't do that anymore.

How do others handle this. Stopped at Walgreens and the number of prepaid cc was overwhelming. No idea what to get or how it works?

Thanks in advance for your help on this.[/QUOTE]$100 CC cost you $105. Can't reload it, don't have to register it, totally un traceable.

[QUOTE=PervNerd48;5347343]It's a common scam. Here's a long story about a vet who was targeted. I'd block the number and forget about it. Do not respond to it anymore.

[URL]https://www.wired.com/story/the-phone-call-from-hell/[/URL][/QUOTE]I know it's a common scam. It's happened to me before.

This was more for informational purposes really and a reminder this nonsense is still out there.

Stay safe all.

Met up with this one for dinner the other night because she's nervous asf. Definitely the woman in the pics, fine as hell. All I did was pay for dinner nothing else after just to meet and feel the vibe. Long story short she has GPS and wants 2 k a month! LOL. Let's help each other and maybe we can drive down these ridiculous allowances.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5d0e849d-05f4-4cad-a465-8f4fea95f932[/URL]

[QUOTE=HoosierDaddy69;5348114]$100 CC cost you $105. Can't reload it, don't have to register it, totally un traceable.[/QUOTE]Got it. Thanks for the info.

[QUOTE=WeTheBest904;5348551]Met up with this one for dinner the other night because she's nervous asf. Definitely the woman in the pics, fine as hell. All I did was pay for dinner nothing else after just to meet and feel the vibe. Long story short she has GPS and wants 2 k a month! LOL. Let's help each other and maybe we can drive down these ridiculous allowances.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5d0e849d-05f4-4cad-a465-8f4fea95f932[/URL][/QUOTE]The part where she said that you'd have to be in an exclusive relationship with her (forgoing all other women) didn't put you off? That's the biggest fucking red flag I've ever seen in a SB profile, if you'll pardon my french.

Still do appreciate the info, though!

[QUOTE=WeTheBest904;5348551]Met up with this one for dinner the other night because she's nervous asf. Definitely the woman in the pics, fine as hell. All I did was pay for dinner nothing else after just to meet and feel the vibe. Long story short she has GPS and wants 2 k a month! LOL. Let's help each other and maybe we can drive down these ridiculous allowances.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/5d0e849d-05f4-4cad-a465-8f4fea95f932[/URL][/QUOTE]I took it a bit further with her on a few occassions. But ultimately, she wants an exclusive rich BF. Without it being a seriius relationship. LOL No PPM Bangs with her.

Do all the girls from that site want 500+ or is that just the women that people are posting in this thread?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/8b2c3048-bcdb-4a5b-86ed-67ba9629d287[/URL]

Only wants $ for " assurance" that you will meet. LOL. Gave a sad sack story about driving to Gainesville only to be stood up, so now she wants " assurance". LOL.

Let her know you know her scam routine.

[QUOTE=MoCheeks65;5347422]I have been on and off SA for the past 3 years.

Want to jump back in but my personal situation now requires me to be super careful and "lean no trace" behind.

I sued to simply punch in my own CC, can't do that anymore.

How do others handle this. Stopped at Walgreens and the number of prepaid cc was overwhelming. No idea what to get or how it works?

Thanks in advance for your help on this.[/QUOTE]Buy a $200 visa prepaid card at staples, there is no load free until this Saturday. Make sure, its visa and $200. TC staples was out when I went there so try Mandarin or beach blvd or beaches or OP.

[QUOTE=StarsTunna;5349055]Do all the girls from that site want 500+ or is that just the women that people are posting in this thread?[/QUOTE]Accepting that half are fakes / scams, the majority of the remainder just want to sell pics / vids or an "online-virtual arrangement". Which is a lot of nonsense to sort through. But then you're left with some that are really UTR providers for $150-$200 and then others that have that Julia Roberts "pretty woman" fantasy.

Some want to meet in public first, others will come to your place or hotel and get straight to it. Some want Dinners / dates, etc before playtime, others do not want any public dates. It varies from girl to gril and as always YMMV.

I've enjoyed meets with a lot of girls at $150-$200 who had originally starting asking for $400-$500 and I've had some that never met because they wouldn't budge in either price or activities.

If done correctly, you can get way more value than you'd get from any provider advertising an hourly rate. And the lowest quality girls on SA are still better than 95% of what you'll find on STG. The only reason it's not 99% is there is some cross posting from providers. But it does require more time / effort that just setting up an incall / outcall.

[QUOTE=HoosierDaddy69;5349128]Accepting that half are fakes / scams, the majority of the remainder just want to sell pics / vids or an "online-virtual arrangement". Which is a lot of nonsense to sort through. But then you're left with some that are really UTR providers for $150-$200 and then others that have that Julia Roberts "pretty woman" fantasy.

Some want to meet in public first, others will come to your place or hotel and get straight to it. Some want Dinners / dates, etc before playtime, others do not want any public dates. It varies from girl to gril and as always YMMV.

I've enjoyed meets with a lot of girls at $150-$200 who had originally starting asking for $400-$500 and I've had some that never met because they wouldn't budge in either price or activities.

If done correctly, you can get way more value than you'd get from any provider advertising an hourly rate. And the lowest quality girls on SA are still better than 95% of what you'll find on STG. The only reason it's not 99% is there is some cross posting from providers. But it does require more time / effort that just setting up an incall / outcall.[/QUOTE]Thank you.

Good comms, moved to text asked for verification pic crickets.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/47cfbe91-9882-4145-98fd-31e6aec8c690[/URL]

On again off again comms one to four-word replies after weeks of silence.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2b612ff1-c08a-44c5-9acd-6a78e500106c[/URL]

Seemed interested comms were good onsite moved to text crickets.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f92712b8-aaea-471c-a880-b0d989ae9586[/URL]

Comms no good to hard to get anything set up.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/74cc5204-6dca-4822-9c9b-19925911fe02[/URL]

Bad comms seemed interested then vanished.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ee79f653-e42c-4263-92e8-d58feeeaebc5[/URL]

Took the plunge with Valerie Love pretty pricey but good time very accommodating, took direction well, and aimed to please, GFE skills need improvement, she isn't doing this because she has fun that's for sure but if you can throw the GFE away its good for $$.

[QUOTE=BudGreen;5353658]Good comms, moved to text asked for verification pic crickets.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/47cfbe91-9882-4145-98fd-31e6aec8c690[/URL]

On again off again comms one to four-word replies after weeks of silence.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2b612ff1-c08a-44c5-9acd-6a78e500106c[/URL]

Seemed interested comms were good onsite moved to text crickets.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f92712b8-aaea-471c-a880-b0d989ae9586[/URL]

Comms no good to hard to get anything set up.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/74cc5204-6dca-4822-9c9b-19925911fe02[/URL]

Bad comms seemed interested then vanished.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ee79f653-e42c-4263-92e8-d58feeeaebc5[/URL]

Took the plunge with Valerie Love pretty pricey but good time very accommodating, took direction well, and aimed to please, GFE skills need improvement, she isn't doing this because she has fun that's for sure but if you can throw the GFE away its good for $$.[/QUOTE]Which one of those was Valerie? Didn't see that name, unless I'm blind.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e9d6dff4-08f8-4310-96e7-d6396e58d6bf[/URL]

Does anyone know about this young lady. We had a meet and greet and it went well. She told me is from Jacksonville and used to dance. She indicated it was more than one club. She is hot and a lot of energy. Planned to hangout Saturday. Any info would be appreciated. TYIA.

[QUOTE=Fishguy717;5354235]Which one of those was Valerie? Didn't see that name, unless I'm blind.[/QUOTE]We have been texting back and forth for a couple years so I don't know the link on SA but she goes by ValerieLove I have been wanting to meet her but her ppm and reviews kept me from pulling the trigger but this time I went for it. It was fun but had to work really hard to get her comfortable and keep her away from disassociating something that makes me feel awkward.

Took one for the team (sort of as I didn't realize she was BBW). Contacted her and asked for ppm. She asked me to throw out a number. I offered 150 and she accepted. She said she wasn't a 'skinny girl'. I went for it anyway as a novelty fuck. Met her Saturday morning at a seemingly safe apartment off San Jose. She's a recent arrival from Sao Paolo and a local restaurant cook somewhere in Mandarin. She's like 5 ft 4, and quite a chunky girl I'll admit but also one of those stereotypical wildly sexual big girls that want to suck and fuck. She dropped to her knees right away and attended to junior than we hit the bed for a mish finish. Her Brazilian style sexuality / sensuality almost threw me off. Seemed like she was def doing this as much for pounding as for the extra $. I headed out quickly but she was already sorta hinting at wanting a second round. Talked about if I wanted to stay longer next time or even an overnight so we could fuck the whole evening. I'm on the fence, but MAY tap this once more, not sure. This one may be a good hit for you guys that appreciate bbw and have the tool to 'plow' one. LOL.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ee521821-3c0c-47e9-a649-4319fe26e5c8[/URL]

[QUOTE=TomCat4871;5355337]Took one for the team (sort of as I didn't realize she was BBW). Contacted her and asked for ppm. She asked me to throw out a number. I offered 150 and she accepted. She said she wasn't a 'skinny girl'. I went for it anyway as a novelty fuck. Met her Saturday morning at a seemingly safe apartment off San Jose. She's a recent arrival from Sao Paolo and a local restaurant cook somewhere in Mandarin. She's like 5 ft 4, and quite a chunky girl I'll admit but also one of those stereotypical wildly sexual big girls that want to suck and fuck. She dropped to her knees right away and attended to junior than we hit the bed for a mish finish. Her Brazilian style sexuality / sensuality almost threw me off. Seemed like she was def doing this as much for pounding as for the extra $. I headed out quickly but she was already sorta hinting at wanting a second round. Talked about if I wanted to stay longer next time or even an overnight so we could fuck the whole evening. I'm on the fence, but MAY tap this once more, not sure. This one may be a good hit for you guys that appreciate bbw and have the tool to 'plow' one. LOL.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ee521821-3c0c-47e9-a649-4319fe26e5c8[/URL][/QUOTE]How was her English? I've been chatting with her and the fact that she's a recent transplant now makes sense.

I speak Spanish so I didn't test her English. I think she may use a translation app via text.

[QUOTE=GolfPro;5355403]How was her English? I've been chatting with her and the fact that she's a recent transplant now makes sense.[/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=TomCat4871;5356318]I speak Spanish so I didn't test her English. I think she may use a translation app via text.

.[/QUOTE]That explains a lot (in a good way). Thanks.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f10bf3bd-8828-4e75-bd59-29a808e6f90f[/URL]

Online pic vs real pic.

I came this close to seeing her. Ughhhhh.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/17ff5323-7b1b-44d2-aaba-4684997465b2[/URL]

[QUOTE=Sicilly;5357499][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f10bf3bd-8828-4e75-bd59-29a808e6f90f[/URL]

Online pic vs real pic.

I came this close to seeing her. Ughhhhh.[/QUOTE]Jeez man they need to ban these pic filters forever. The only way she'd get a pass is if this pic was right after she got out of bed after a night heavy drinking. Other than that it's a no go for me.

I was just going to ask if anyone had any info about her. Saved me the trouble.

[QUOTE=Sicilly;5357499][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f10bf3bd-8828-4e75-bd59-29a808e6f90f[/URL]

Online pic vs real pic.

I came this close to seeing her. Ughhhhh.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Sicilly;5357499][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f10bf3bd-8828-4e75-bd59-29a808e6f90f[/URL]

Online pic vs real pic.

I came this close to seeing her. Ughhhhh.[/QUOTE]I mean, isn't this kind of why many women use so much makeup? I wouldn't call her ugly, but I do think she's lacking some natural attractiveness. If she's pleasant to be around and not a dead fish, I'd probably enjoy her.

[QUOTE=Sicilly;5357499][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f10bf3bd-8828-4e75-bd59-29a808e6f90f[/URL]

Online pic vs real pic.

I came this close to seeing her. Ughhhhh.[/QUOTE]FOR REAL? Real pictures just made my dick go limp!

[QUOTE=FunNthaSun;5358786]Jeez man they need to ban these pic filters forever. The only way she'd get a pass is if this pic was right after she got out of bed after a night heavy drinking. Other than that it's a no go for me.[/QUOTE]They're not going anywhere. They're the new airbrushing. The live video filters are far enough along so that they'll look the same in a facetime chat.

You just need to be able to spot them. If their eyes look like a newborn deer, for example. Or if they're over 18 and have no visible pores. Or they have D cup titties but no jawline sag. Or if they have sparkles or cat ears. They're pretty obvious.

In a couple years, you won't be able to spot them. Still pics or video.

[QUOTE=Sicilly;5357499][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f10bf3bd-8828-4e75-bd59-29a808e6f90f[/URL]

Online pic vs real pic.

I came this close to seeing her. Ughhhhh.[/QUOTE]She's a damn gremlin.

I'm thinking about meeting with this one, any intel?

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/aeb5230d-bdca-40cc-978c-6ebfb490f29a[/URL]

[QUOTE=Sicilly;5358092][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/17ff5323-7b1b-44d2-aaba-4684997465b2[/URL][/QUOTE]I was chatting with this one and asked if I could meet her this weekend but I'm not able too. That's ashame.

[QUOTE=BudGreen;5359899]I was chatting with this one and asked if I could meet her this weekend but I'm not able too. That's ashame.[/QUOTE]I was chatting with her earlier this week when I noticed her profile location switched to Birmingham. I asked her about it and she said her best friend lives in Jax and she wants to move here in someday. Said she we let me know when she is back in Jax in late June. I'm not holding my breath for that one.

[QUOTE=TomCat4871;5355337]Took one for the team (sort of as I didn't realize she was BBW). Contacted her and asked for ppm. She asked me to throw out a number. I offered 150 and she accepted. She said she wasn't a 'skinny girl'. I went for it anyway as a novelty fuck. Met her Saturday morning at a seemingly safe apartment off San Jose. She's a recent arrival from Sao Paolo and a local restaurant cook somewhere in Mandarin. She's like 5 ft 4, and quite a chunky girl I'll admit but also one of those stereotypical wildly sexual big girls that want to suck and fuck. She dropped to her knees right away and attended to junior than we hit the bed for a mish finish. Her Brazilian style sexuality / sensuality almost threw me off. Seemed like she was def doing this as much for pounding as for the extra $. I headed out quickly but she was already sorta hinting at wanting a second round. Talked about if I wanted to stay longer next time or even an overnight so we could fuck the whole evening. I'm on the fence, but MAY tap this once more, not sure. This one may be a good hit for you guys that appreciate bbw and have the tool to 'plow' one. LOL.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ee521821-3c0c-47e9-a649-4319fe26e5c8[/URL][/QUOTE]How big are we talking? Got a reference body pic from google maybe? I'm a big ole fat guy myself and my little guy ain't packin so logistically this might be a struggle haha.

[QUOTE=Sicilly;5357499][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f10bf3bd-8828-4e75-bd59-29a808e6f90f[/URL]

Online pic vs real pic.

I came this close to seeing her. Ughhhhh.[/QUOTE]I always ask for unfiltered photos before firming up plans to meet for this exact reason.

So going on dates and being in public with an SB is uncomfortable for me. But I can tell my SB is getting bored of just coming over. Drinking, and fucking. I don't think she is at risk of leaving but I don't want her to feel like this is a job.

I'm trying to figure out what the majority of you all do.

For the guys that see their SB's weekly, do you go out and do things often? Or are most of your SB's ok with coming over and staying at home + sex then leaving?

- DonJon.