Seeking Arrangement

[QUOTE=TheEmmyGoes2;5406330]Hey there. First off, I am sorry that this shows me as a new user. I have been on here for years under this user I'd, but somehow my account was purged, so I signed back up. If need be, I can verify who I am to the admins. Enough about that though.

I have recently jumped back on SA. I have run into 3 different girls that I want to message, but it says I need to upgrade to message. I am already premium. Are they making it so that only Diamond members can message them, or do you think it is a glitch. Any help would be appreciated.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4cd02f23-ac76-4d87-ae62-93ba12632800[/URL]

This is one of the profiles that it happens on.

Thanks for any help.[/QUOTE]I don't know if I can message her. Her page looks normal and there is a place to send a message, but I don't want to send her a "test" message. I have had some problems lately with the site and have found that changing browsers sometimes (but not always) helps. I usually use Firefox, but sometimes if things aren't coming up and I switch to Chrome, things work.

[QUOTE=CustomRt;5417432]She said she hosts and is a model. Wondering if anyone has seen her yet. She seems real.[/QUOTE]See if she'll meet for coffee or a drink in exchange for a small gift. You can do what you want, but generally I flip them a couple hundred if they're legit and I want to pursue further. It's a nice gesture and it goes a long way for future dates. If the photos are fake / misleading, you can lower the donation or stiff her. Personally, I don't care for the confrontation that might come from stiffing them. 50 or 100 is no skin off my back to see if there is a connection to be made. If not, they'll never make another dime off me. Sure, it's a waste of your time, but you'll hone your skills in time and that's just the way the game is played.

I have been noticing for a week that my SA messages are getting automatically deleted. Its not necessarily the older ones, and I couldn't really find a pattern. Is it happening with any of you guys?

[QUOTE=Rochestarian;5422761]I have been noticing for a week that my SA messages are getting automatically deleted. Its not necessarily the older ones, and I couldn't really find a pattern. Is it happening with any of you guys?[/QUOTE]Yes.

But I have no idea why either.

[QUOTE=CustomRt;5417432]She said she hosts and is a model. Wondering if anyone has seen her yet. She seems real.[/QUOTE]She started texting me, too, pretty hard. Gave her a burner number, and she sent like 15 texts within 30 seconds of hot nudes, many definitely the same person as the profile pic, and a long message that came so quick it could only have been pre-written. But she also knew to say she stays in the old west side, which is a real Ann Arbor neighborhood that a local would know. So, a bot, a sting, or someone trolling hard for clients?

[QUOTE=FunnyBoner;5423830]Yes.

But I have no idea why either.[/QUOTE]That's a bummer. I go premium once in a while and use the messages and favorites as the shortlist!

[QUOTE=FunnyBoner;5423830]Yes.

But I have no idea why either.[/QUOTE]They automatically get deleted after 180 days. The only reason I know that they will delete other messages (absent a complaint about them, I guess) is if SA bans the poster. Are you losing recent messages from people who are still on the site?

I feel for you guys up there. After looking around and hopping on SA, I decided to fly a SB in to spend time with me while I was in Detroit earlier this week.

Hope ev5 us back to normal there soon.

[QUOTE=Marty9646;5406079]Think I got it this time.[/QUOTE]Chatted with her few as well. Decided to meet but she said at her place. Google map showed a ranch house. Asked her for coffee first. Said she had fractured ankle and can't walk. After too many back and forth decided it won't work and the beast came out of her. Had to block her number.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/91dcdf12-35ff-4f1b-9f6e-c2804fbd5fb2[/URL]

Sitting in the hotel room waiting after a dozen assurances and $100 "deposit" and no reply. My antennae were up and she had me convinced as real. (586) 519-5247 Ahhh the lengths I go for even just a sniff. Onward and upward wayward soldier. Safe travels.

[QUOTE=Exubrnce;5431190][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/91dcdf12-35ff-4f1b-9f6e-c2804fbd5fb2[/URL]

Sitting in the hotel room waiting after a dozen assurances and $100 "deposit" and no reply.[/QUOTE]Sir, she just opened an account today, and you also gave her a deposit? But why?

[QUOTE=Exubrnce;5431190][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/91dcdf12-35ff-4f1b-9f6e-c2804fbd5fb2[/URL]

Sitting in the hotel room waiting after a dozen assurances and $100 "deposit" and no reply.[/QUOTE]Be careful with the thots.

[QUOTE=Uncountable;5431194]Sir, she just opened an account today, and you also gave her a deposit? But why?[/QUOTE]I needed to put it out to the universe for confirmation of my idiocy.

When messaging an SB, what do you say if they ask what you're looking for? I want to tell her FWB, but not sure if that's one of those words that Seeking will flag and ban my account for. Are there other words to be careful with?

[QUOTE=Exubrnce;5431534]I needed to put it out to the universe for confirmation of my idiocy.[/QUOTE]It's okay. I have done much worse and I am too embarrassed to share. Live and learn.