Sugar bowl sites and sugar babies

[QUOTE=Whaler;7418329]I got on Secret Benefits site & signed up. Bought my credits & messaged, private photos about 10 ladies. I get ok'd for private photo's but never get a message back from them.

Is this a real site or the just scamming me? Let me know if anybody has luck on this site and if so, what am I doing wrong. Thanks for your help.[/QUOTE]Secret Benefits is definitely a scam site. I've had luck on there a couple of times but it's ridiculous the amount of women who show some interest only to ghost you once you spend credits to talk to them. On seeking you find a lot of girls with GPS but at least you can have an actual conversation with them, in Secret Benefits you won't even get a reply 95-98% of the time for no apparent reason. At least that was my experience.

I've had much better luck in the past with Seeking and WYP but I got banned from both sites and so now I use Secret Benefits out of necessity and here's my suggestion.

1. Keep your profile fresh and update it periodically. Even minor changes can help and definitely periodically update / change your profile photo. It also helps to disappear for a while then come back.

2. I RARELY make the first message.

3. I limit my search activity ONLY to girls who are verified. I suspect many girls who are not verified are real but I think there are tons who are not real.

4. I "like" the verified girls I am interested in and hope they like me back or better yet message me.

5. I NEVER message any girl first who isn't verified and I almost always wait until a verified girl who has liked me messages me.

6. If I'm really interested in a girl I'll spend extra credits to boost my message but I don't do that very often either.

7. Be patient. My goal is to get a girl to give me her number so we can text. The SB messaging system sucks.

8. If I'm lucky, I'll be on the site when a girl actually messages me and that's potential pay dirt because they're probably ready to do something (assuming I've been disciplined per the above).

[QUOTE=DfkDATY;7419550]Secret Benefits is definitely a scam site. I've had luck on there a couple of times but it's ridiculous the amount of women who show some interest only to ghost you once you spend credits to talk to them. On seeking you find a lot of girls with GPS but at least you can have an actual conversation with them, in Secret Benefits you won't even get a reply 95-98% of the time for no apparent reason. At least that was my experience.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Headmasterstl;7419584]I've had much better luck in the past with Seeking and WYP but I got banned from both sites and so now I use Secret Benefits out of necessity and here's my suggestion.

1. Keep your profile fresh and update it periodically. Even minor changes can help and definitely periodically update / change your profile photo. It also helps to disappear for a while then come back.

2. I RARELY make the first message.

3. I limit my search activity ONLY to girls who are verified. I suspect many girls who are not verified are real but I think there are tons who are not real.

4. I "like" the verified girls I am interested in and hope they like me back or better yet message me.

5. I NEVER message any girl first who isn't verified and I almost always wait until a verified girl who has liked me messages me.

6. If I'm really interested in a girl I'll spend extra credits to boost my message but I don't do that very often either.

7. Be patient. My goal is to get a girl to give me her number so we can text. The SB messaging system sucks.

8. If I'm lucky, I'll be on the site when a girl actually messages me and that's potential pay dirt because they're probably ready to do something (assuming I've been disciplined per the above).[/QUOTE]Yep. I have had a ton of luck on SB over the years so it's def not a scam site. I use is regularly when I go to Vegas to find some great UTR type girls.

Hey everyone, Dave here, new SLN girl in St. Louis, her name is Andria and she is 19. This girl is not one to pass up and worth the mid level PPM she wants. She doesn't like condoms, and is OK with BBFS as long as daddy is clean and recently tested. She loves rough sex, being thrown around and treated like a worthless sl*t. She likes being slapped and f*ed hard, and wants someone to keep pounding her, even when she is begging them to stop. She will do anal. She loves girls, and would really be into a 3 sum, so her and the girl can 69 while daddy takes turns on them. For the following, she would want more allowance, depending. She is willing to do a 3 sum MFM, a 4 sum MFMM, or even a 5 sum MFFMM. She wants to try riding someone while getting ass f*d and face f*ed. Prefers to have one daddy to be subservient to and explore things with.

[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Andriamarie/[/URL]

[QUOTE=Headmasterstl;7419584]I've had much better luck in the past with Seeking and WYP but I got banned from both sites and so now I use Secret Benefits out of necessity and here's my suggestion.

1. Keep your profile fresh and update it periodically. Even minor changes can help and definitely periodically update / change your profile photo. It also helps to disappear for a while then come back.

2. I RARELY make the first message.

3. I limit my search activity ONLY to girls who are verified. I suspect many girls who are not verified are real but I think there are tons who are not real.

4. I "like" the verified girls I am interested in and hope they like me back or better yet message me.

5. I NEVER message any girl first who isn't verified and I almost always wait until a verified girl who has liked me messages me..[/QUOTE]Now this is great intel, thank you. I'm personally pretty interested after looking around that site. My biggest worry with anything like this though is some sort of extortion if they find out marital status / partner. Is that an unfounded worry? Makes me almost want to not mess with it at all, but after looking through some of the pictures, I don't know if I'll be able to resist.

[QUOTE=Knn818;7426983]My biggest worry with anything like this though is some sort of extortion if they find out marital status / partner. Is that an unfounded worry? Makes me almost want to not mess with it at all, but after looking through some of the pictures, I don't know if I'll be able to resist.[/QUOTE]Do you mean the site, or the girls?

I screwed lots of women when I was married, I never had an issue. Of course, it turned out that some of those women were married too.

Use a fake number, either google voice or burner phone.

Pay cash for everything. NEVER let her know the real town you live in, much less your real address. Best to use your middle name with her, not first.

Always nail her at a hotel or her place (I prefer hotel, no risk of unpleasant something in the next room).

If she asks about your place, you have a teen kid that randomly comes over, so that's not possible.

[QUOTE=Knn818;7426983]Now this is great intel, thank you. I'm personally pretty interested after looking around that site. My biggest worry with anything like this though is some sort of extortion if they find out marital status / partner. Is that an unfounded worry? Makes me almost want to not mess with it at all, but after looking through some of the pictures, I don't know if I'll be able to resist.[/QUOTE]I 100% have came across a woman like this so be careful LOL.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/1ca0d92d85fafb0c[/URL]

Don't bother with this one. Never has time to meet and when I finally asked her, after a couple days of convo, if she ever is going to meet she said it depends on how things go over texting. When I told her I don't pay unless we meet and she immediately cut off contact and blocked me on the site.

Here are two more SB girls you can ignore.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/926f7bcc4e879eb6[/URL]

Doesn't actually want to meet but expects you to fund her lifestyle.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/dc85580a4fd232c8[/URL]

This one is giving the "I am away for winter break" from a local school that hasn't started finals yet. Wants online but 'might' be up for meeting if you help her out while she is at home for the next month. Almost assuredly a bullshit grifter account.

I had the same situation with the 2nd one a few weeks ago when we were talking. She seems young and inexperienced and really wanted me to send her money for an online thing. No thanks!

The first one's location is Tampa?

[QUOTE=HolyStone1975;7467995]Here are two more SB girls you can ignore.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/926f7bcc4e879eb6[/URL]

Doesn't actually want to meet but expects you to fund her lifestyle.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/dc85580a4fd232c8[/URL]

This one is giving the "I am away for winter break" from a local school that hasn't started finals yet. Wants online but 'might' be up for meeting if you help her out while she is at home for the next month. Almost assuredly a bullshit grifter account.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=TigerMan1610;7468502]I had the same situation with the 2nd one a few weeks ago when we were talking. She seems young and inexperienced and really wanted me to send her money for an online thing. No thanks!

The first one's location is Tampa?[/QUOTE]She just changed it. It was St Louis earlier in the week. I don't contact people out of state, unless I am going to Vegas for a trip.

Yet another one.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/68d4e9c14614a319[/URL]

She was in STL earlier in the week and is now in Dallas. Despite telling me she wanted to meet up on Sunday, she is now saying she will be out of town for two weeks. I should have known better as I didn't recognize the profile and she wasn't listed as a 'new' account which means she probably changes her location often. I would guess she is a travelling escort or just a bullshit scammer account.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/be0b2b0f-7c59-4390-aac9-c1fa4cc58d6c[/URL]

She is GTG cute face and little thick, but fun.

[QUOTE=Southsiide87;7470576][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/be0b2b0f-7c59-4390-aac9-c1fa4cc58d6c[/URL]

She is GTG cute face and little thick, but fun.[/QUOTE]Cam has been a working girl for well over a decade. Used to do bbcip with her all the time when she had a place in south city. Then she got pregnant a few times and has been off and on the various sites.

[QUOTE=HolyStone1975;7476539]Cam has been a working girl for well over a decade. Used to do bbcip with her all the time when she had a place in south city. Then she got pregnant a few times and has been off and on the various sites.[/QUOTE]It didn't take long for that profile to get taken down this evening. Hmmmm.

[QUOTE=BoilerWelder;7476844]It didn't take long for that profile to get taken down this evening. Hmmmm.[/QUOTE]Well that was odd. It was gone last night and this morning it's back.