Sugar bowl sites and sugar babies

[QUOTE=Whaler;7418329]I got on Secret Benefits site & signed up. Bought my credits & messaged, private photos about 10 ladies. I get ok'd for private photo's but never get a message back from them.

Is this a real site or the just scamming me? Let me know if anybody has luck on this site and if so, what am I doing wrong. Thanks for your help.[/QUOTE]Secret Benefits is definitely a scam site. I've had luck on there a couple of times but it's ridiculous the amount of women who show some interest only to ghost you once you spend credits to talk to them. On seeking you find a lot of girls with GPS but at least you can have an actual conversation with them, in Secret Benefits you won't even get a reply 95-98% of the time for no apparent reason. At least that was my experience.

I've had much better luck in the past with Seeking and WYP but I got banned from both sites and so now I use Secret Benefits out of necessity and here's my suggestion.

1. Keep your profile fresh and update it periodically. Even minor changes can help and definitely periodically update / change your profile photo. It also helps to disappear for a while then come back.

2. I RARELY make the first message.

3. I limit my search activity ONLY to girls who are verified. I suspect many girls who are not verified are real but I think there are tons who are not real.

4. I "like" the verified girls I am interested in and hope they like me back or better yet message me.

5. I NEVER message any girl first who isn't verified and I almost always wait until a verified girl who has liked me messages me.

6. If I'm really interested in a girl I'll spend extra credits to boost my message but I don't do that very often either.

7. Be patient. My goal is to get a girl to give me her number so we can text. The SB messaging system sucks.

8. If I'm lucky, I'll be on the site when a girl actually messages me and that's potential pay dirt because they're probably ready to do something (assuming I've been disciplined per the above).

[QUOTE=DfkDATY;7419550]Secret Benefits is definitely a scam site. I've had luck on there a couple of times but it's ridiculous the amount of women who show some interest only to ghost you once you spend credits to talk to them. On seeking you find a lot of girls with GPS but at least you can have an actual conversation with them, in Secret Benefits you won't even get a reply 95-98% of the time for no apparent reason. At least that was my experience.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Headmasterstl;7419584]I've had much better luck in the past with Seeking and WYP but I got banned from both sites and so now I use Secret Benefits out of necessity and here's my suggestion.

1. Keep your profile fresh and update it periodically. Even minor changes can help and definitely periodically update / change your profile photo. It also helps to disappear for a while then come back.

2. I RARELY make the first message.

3. I limit my search activity ONLY to girls who are verified. I suspect many girls who are not verified are real but I think there are tons who are not real.

4. I "like" the verified girls I am interested in and hope they like me back or better yet message me.

5. I NEVER message any girl first who isn't verified and I almost always wait until a verified girl who has liked me messages me.

6. If I'm really interested in a girl I'll spend extra credits to boost my message but I don't do that very often either.

7. Be patient. My goal is to get a girl to give me her number so we can text. The SB messaging system sucks.

8. If I'm lucky, I'll be on the site when a girl actually messages me and that's potential pay dirt because they're probably ready to do something (assuming I've been disciplined per the above).[/QUOTE]Yep. I have had a ton of luck on SB over the years so it's def not a scam site. I use is regularly when I go to Vegas to find some great UTR type girls.

Hey everyone, Dave here, new SLN girl in St. Louis, her name is Andria and she is 19. This girl is not one to pass up and worth the mid level PPM she wants. She doesn't like condoms, and is OK with BBFS as long as daddy is clean and recently tested. She loves rough sex, being thrown around and treated like a worthless sl*t. She likes being slapped and f*ed hard, and wants someone to keep pounding her, even when she is begging them to stop. She will do anal. She loves girls, and would really be into a 3 sum, so her and the girl can 69 while daddy takes turns on them. For the following, she would want more allowance, depending. She is willing to do a 3 sum MFM, a 4 sum MFMM, or even a 5 sum MFFMM. She wants to try riding someone while getting ass f*d and face f*ed. Prefers to have one daddy to be subservient to and explore things with.

[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Andriamarie/[/URL]

[QUOTE=Headmasterstl;7419584]I've had much better luck in the past with Seeking and WYP but I got banned from both sites and so now I use Secret Benefits out of necessity and here's my suggestion.

1. Keep your profile fresh and update it periodically. Even minor changes can help and definitely periodically update / change your profile photo. It also helps to disappear for a while then come back.

2. I RARELY make the first message.

3. I limit my search activity ONLY to girls who are verified. I suspect many girls who are not verified are real but I think there are tons who are not real.

4. I "like" the verified girls I am interested in and hope they like me back or better yet message me.

5. I NEVER message any girl first who isn't verified and I almost always wait until a verified girl who has liked me messages me..[/QUOTE]Now this is great intel, thank you. I'm personally pretty interested after looking around that site. My biggest worry with anything like this though is some sort of extortion if they find out marital status / partner. Is that an unfounded worry? Makes me almost want to not mess with it at all, but after looking through some of the pictures, I don't know if I'll be able to resist.

[QUOTE=Knn818;7426983]My biggest worry with anything like this though is some sort of extortion if they find out marital status / partner. Is that an unfounded worry? Makes me almost want to not mess with it at all, but after looking through some of the pictures, I don't know if I'll be able to resist.[/QUOTE]Do you mean the site, or the girls?

I screwed lots of women when I was married, I never had an issue. Of course, it turned out that some of those women were married too.

Use a fake number, either google voice or burner phone.

Pay cash for everything. NEVER let her know the real town you live in, much less your real address. Best to use your middle name with her, not first.

Always nail her at a hotel or her place (I prefer hotel, no risk of unpleasant something in the next room).

If she asks about your place, you have a teen kid that randomly comes over, so that's not possible.

[QUOTE=Knn818;7426983]Now this is great intel, thank you. I'm personally pretty interested after looking around that site. My biggest worry with anything like this though is some sort of extortion if they find out marital status / partner. Is that an unfounded worry? Makes me almost want to not mess with it at all, but after looking through some of the pictures, I don't know if I'll be able to resist.[/QUOTE]I 100% have came across a woman like this so be careful LOL.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/1ca0d92d85fafb0c[/URL]

Don't bother with this one. Never has time to meet and when I finally asked her, after a couple days of convo, if she ever is going to meet she said it depends on how things go over texting. When I told her I don't pay unless we meet and she immediately cut off contact and blocked me on the site.

Here are two more SB girls you can ignore.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/926f7bcc4e879eb6[/URL]

Doesn't actually want to meet but expects you to fund her lifestyle.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/dc85580a4fd232c8[/URL]

This one is giving the "I am away for winter break" from a local school that hasn't started finals yet. Wants online but 'might' be up for meeting if you help her out while she is at home for the next month. Almost assuredly a bullshit grifter account.

I had the same situation with the 2nd one a few weeks ago when we were talking. She seems young and inexperienced and really wanted me to send her money for an online thing. No thanks!

The first one's location is Tampa?

[QUOTE=HolyStone1975;7467995]Here are two more SB girls you can ignore.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/926f7bcc4e879eb6[/URL]

Doesn't actually want to meet but expects you to fund her lifestyle.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/dc85580a4fd232c8[/URL]

This one is giving the "I am away for winter break" from a local school that hasn't started finals yet. Wants online but 'might' be up for meeting if you help her out while she is at home for the next month. Almost assuredly a bullshit grifter account.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=TigerMan1610;7468502]I had the same situation with the 2nd one a few weeks ago when we were talking. She seems young and inexperienced and really wanted me to send her money for an online thing. No thanks!

The first one's location is Tampa?[/QUOTE]She just changed it. It was St Louis earlier in the week. I don't contact people out of state, unless I am going to Vegas for a trip.

Yet another one.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/68d4e9c14614a319[/URL]

She was in STL earlier in the week and is now in Dallas. Despite telling me she wanted to meet up on Sunday, she is now saying she will be out of town for two weeks. I should have known better as I didn't recognize the profile and she wasn't listed as a 'new' account which means she probably changes her location often. I would guess she is a travelling escort or just a bullshit scammer account.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/be0b2b0f-7c59-4390-aac9-c1fa4cc58d6c[/URL]

She is GTG cute face and little thick, but fun.

[QUOTE=Southsiide87;7470576][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/be0b2b0f-7c59-4390-aac9-c1fa4cc58d6c[/URL]

She is GTG cute face and little thick, but fun.[/QUOTE]Cam has been a working girl for well over a decade. Used to do bbcip with her all the time when she had a place in south city. Then she got pregnant a few times and has been off and on the various sites.

[QUOTE=HolyStone1975;7476539]Cam has been a working girl for well over a decade. Used to do bbcip with her all the time when she had a place in south city. Then she got pregnant a few times and has been off and on the various sites.[/QUOTE]It didn't take long for that profile to get taken down this evening. Hmmmm.

[QUOTE=BoilerWelder;7476844]It didn't take long for that profile to get taken down this evening. Hmmmm.[/QUOTE]Well that was odd. It was gone last night and this morning it's back.

She has two profiles now:

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/3dba7569ed541cf6[/URL]

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c386b85d383b7735[/URL]

Was bored the other night and was looking for something easy and quick and this one is not that. Seemed like she was ready to meet and looking for a quick and easy hook up but then became a pain in the ass to get to respond and won't commit to anything. Also, she can't decide where she is at in STL which makes me think she might not be local. Changed from St Charles to North County to MH area based on which cross streets she mentioned. Also, I don't recognize her first profile from previous times browsing, which was the one I responded to, and then the second one shows up as "new" in the area within an hour of her messaging me. All very sketchy. Probably best to avoid unless someone else has info.

She states she will "give you what you want", as long as that's not actually meeting.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/2cd4b9a666c597fe[/URL]

Secret Benefits, like most other SB sites, is so overrun with bots / spam / fakes. Doing some more research into the site, it's even more obvious. I'm sure there are some legit SBs there, but equivalent to needle in haystack.

Aside from secret benefits and seeking, have you guys found any other sites? Hoping to find a SB in her 20's to meet with 1-2 x a month or so and pay allowance as opposed to escorting. TIA.

[QUOTE=Knn818;7491219]Secret Benefits, like most other SB sites, is so overrun with bots / spam / fakes. Doing some more research into the site, it's even more obvious. I'm sure there are some legit SBs there, but equivalent to needle in haystack.

Aside from secret benefits and seeking, have you guys found any other sites? Hoping to find a SB in her 20's to meet with 1-2 x a month or so and pay allowance as opposed to escorting. TIA.[/QUOTE]Ended up calling it quits on Secret Benefits. Saw the profile of a girl I knew. Asked her about it, said she made it over a year ago and hasn't checked it since the first week. Profile still showed "online" quite often. Annoyed, I sent a message to CS stating my frustration with their use of zombie accounts to get men to send more messages / buy more credits. Within 24 hours they fully refunded all my purchases and closed my account. I was happy with this outcome. Even happier is some random girl whose IG+wishlist I found and subsequently frequented. Little head won that battle, big head and wallet lost. LOL. All part of it though I suppose. Anyway, just my experience, hope it can help someone else.

[QUOTE=Knn818;7499961]Ended up calling it quits on Secret Benefits. Saw the profile of a girl I knew. Asked her about it, said she made it over a year ago and hasn't checked it since the first week. Profile still showed "online" quite often. Annoyed, I sent a message to CS stating my frustration with their use of zombie accounts to get men to send more messages / buy more credits. Within 24 hours they fully refunded all my purchases and closed my account. I was happy with this outcome. Even happier is some random girl whose IG+wishlist I found and subsequently frequented. Little head won that battle, big head and wallet lost. LOL. All part of it though I suppose. Anyway, just my experience, hope it can help someone else.[/QUOTE]I had something similar happen a few years ago with SB. A girl I met on Seeking and had been seeing for a few months "liked" and messaged me on SB. I asked her about it just joking around and she had no idea what I was talking about and said she hadn't even used that site or Seeking in months. Her Seeking profile activity confirmed that statement.

Now, I still use SB some, and have had good luck at times. But I have been aware of how they operate for a few years now.

[QUOTE=BoilerWelder;7490339]She states she will "give you what you want", as long as that's not actually meeting.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/2cd4b9a666c597fe[/URL][/QUOTE]I notice she hasn't been online since you made this post.

[QUOTE=HolyStone1975;7501609]I notice she hasn't been online since you made this post.[/QUOTE]I'll mark that one as finding out what social media influencers say isn't exactly good advice.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/0300592ac2753580[/URL]

Here's another one who clearly didn't know the verification video would be public and used a ton of filters on her pics.

She is real hooked up twice last year but was living out of a hotel. No sign of drug use just life not together. She got mad I bailed on her before and quick talking to me.

[QUOTE=HolyStone1975;7482763]She has two profiles now:

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/3dba7569ed541cf6[/URL]

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c386b85d383b7735[/URL]

Was bored the other night and was looking for something easy and quick and this one is not that. Seemed like she was ready to meet and looking for a quick and easy hook up but then became a pain in the ass to get to respond and won't commit to anything. Also, she can't decide where she is at in STL which makes me think she might not be local. Changed from St Charles to North County to MH area based on which cross streets she mentioned. Also, I don't recognize her first profile from previous times browsing, which was the one I responded to, and then the second one shows up as "new" in the area within an hour of her messaging me. All very sketchy. Probably best to avoid unless someone else has info.[/QUOTE]

***** looks like Cruella Deville.

[QUOTE=HolyStone1975;7509064][URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/0300592ac2753580[/URL]

Here's another one who clearly didn't know the verification video would be public and used a ton of filters on her pics.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=HolyStone1975;7509064][URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/0300592ac2753580[/URL]

Here's another one who clearly didn't know the verification video would be public and used a ton of filters on her pics.[/QUOTE]I thought the same thing about this one.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/c74a4796ef592667[/URL]

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/2bd08ad7fc88fb9b[/URL]

This one wants like 2 k for an overnight date. When I brought up how much for an hour, she said "I am not a hooker". Just bit my tongue and moved on.

[URL]https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/profile/d0ab0d49fef9dff1[/URL]

This one wants 400 for a M&G and if you want more that can be as much as 800 more.

Delusional women on the site. Makes the gems you can find all the more rare.

[QUOTE=HolyStone1975;7476539]Cam has been a working girl for well over a decade. Used to do bbcip with her all the time when she had a place in south city. Then she got pregnant a few times and has been off and on the various sites.[/QUOTE]Looks like she is back in action.

[URL]https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/missouri/stlouis/201332105[/URL]

Hey everyone, new fun SLN girl in Fenton, her name is Caden and she is 19. So she is not into anal at all, as well as kissing. Her favorites are giving and receiving head and back-shots. She likes rough sex, especially when getting hammered in doggy with her ass spanked and her hair pulled. She likes girls too and would for sure do a 3 sum. However the idea of MFM kinda scares her. She is ok with BBFS with recent test results, but doesn't like CIP. Asking for a low PPM allowance.

[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/LightbrightC/[/URL]

[QUOTE=Hobbyist1234;7519497]Looks like she is back in action.

[URL]https://escortalligator.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/missouri/stlouis/201332105[/URL][/QUOTE]Never a good sign when they have moved to advertising on EB. One step from hitting a street corner.

[QUOTE=Knn818;749996]Ended up calling it quits on Secret Benefits. Saw the profile of a girl I knew. Asked her about it, said she made it over a year ago and hasn't checked it since the first week. Profile still showed "online" quite often. Annoyed, I sent a message to CS stating my frustration with their use of zombie accounts to get men to send more messages / buy more credits. Within 24 hours they fully refunded all my purchases and closed my account. I was happy with this outcome. Even happier is some random girl whose IG+wishlist I found and subsequently frequented. Little head won that battle, big head and wallet lost. LOL. All part of it though I suppose. Anyway, just my experience, hope it can help someone else.[/QUOTE]Had a buddy of mine Make a nice letter sent it to them. They gave me back all my money from over a year and a half ago like 1200 bucks in total they gave it back to me though in bitcoin.

Hey everyone, new fun SLN girl in Festus, her name is Cassandra and she is 34. Pretty much into everything, will even consider anal. She is submissive and loves being told what to do, it really turns her on. She likes being pinned down and choked and slapped while being pounded. Loves the idea of being rode in doggy and having her hair pulled. Likes giving head, and claims she can handle a deep face f*ck. She will consider a 3 sum, MFF as well as MFM. She is also ok with BBFS with CIM and CIP. Asking for a mid range PPM allowance.

[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Cassssafrass/[/URL]

My Spidey senses are tingling on this one. I have no doubt she's real, just something seems off. Anyone have anything?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b85a4230-c8cd-41e1-948f-c0e648fe0bc8[/URL]

[QUOTE=BoilerWelder;7534707]My Spidey senses are tingling on this one. I have no doubt she's real, just something seems off. Anyone have anything?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b85a4230-c8cd-41e1-948f-c0e648fe0bc8[/URL][/QUOTE]Long time lurker here! Alondra is real and good to go! As usual do your own work and message her on the site.

[QUOTE=Sandman350;7535104]Long time lurker here! Alondra is real and good to go! As usual do your own work and message her on the site.[/QUOTE]Saw this one several times however on the last time she scammed me $300 gift upfront and proceeded to flake out on me and go crazy very unstable but HOT! She blocked me after I left this was the one and only time in 25+ years I got scammed.

[QUOTE=Maddog72;7535246]Saw this one several times however on the last time she scammed me $300 gift upfront and proceeded to flake out on me and go crazy very unstable but HOT! She blocked me after I left this was the one and only time in 25+ years I got scammed.[/QUOTE]Kinda what I figured. She says she's a server in STL but lives in Litchfield? Hell no lol. From the hours she texts me from and some pics I figures stripper.

[QUOTE=SugarLifeNow;7528251]Hey everyone, new fun SLN girl in Festus, her name is Cassandra and she is 34. Pretty much into everything, will even consider anal. She is submissive and loves being told what to do, it really turns her on. She likes being pinned down and choked and slapped while being pounded. Loves the idea of being rode in doggy and having her hair pulled. Likes giving head, and claims she can handle a deep face f*ck. She will consider a 3 sum, MFF as well as MFM. She is also ok with BBFS with CIM and CIP. Asking for a mid range PPM allowance.

[URL]https://sugarlifenow.com/profile/Cassssafrass/[/URL][/QUOTE]What is her PPM rate and any luck on any of the others on SLN? I've never used the site but seems like 30 bucks for a month to reach out to the few that are listed in STL.

[QUOTE=ThatGuyStl;7538360]What is her PPM rate and any luck on any of the others on SLN? I've never used the site but seems like 30 bucks for a month to reach out to the few that are listed in STL.[/QUOTE]Just noticed this was an ad haha.

Was supposed to meet up with a girl named Hailey today Age 29. When she gave me her real first name I looked her up on fb because she spelled it really weird and she popped right up. Not only did her page pop up but a missing child report popped up! It was from a few years ago and said she had been found but it also had her birthday in late March of 2009 meaning she is only 17 it was definitely her. She looks no where near 17 now and has a full arm tattoo but it's definitely her. I don't think it was law enforcement as she never mentioned age whatsoever. I can't post her link because I blocked her immediately but the name is Hailey age 29 blond hair and has a vape sitting on her chest in one of her pics. Not sure how she was able to get on seeking being underage.