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[QUOTE=DonJon;5316789]Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.

So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.

Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?

Thanks,

DonJon.[/QUOTE]Sometimes the thrill is in the hunt.

I've been with the same SB since early 2018. She was 18 when we met. She's not really the SB type, although she loved the idea of it. She had seen a few other guys while we were in our first few months, and I encouraged it, since I knew I would not be able to offer as much $ as she wanted. She eventually grew tired of the flakiness of the other guys and decided to "settle" on just one. Me. Although, it wasn't really settling for her. She developed feelings for me, which wasn't too surprising, considering that she openly admitted from the start that she has daddy issues. No worries, there. She's a good girl, super smart, accomplished, and she will go far. I enjoy her company and she's very attractive to me. There's definitely a maturity difference between us, but I've met 20-somethings who can't hold a candle to this girl in terms of intellect. We have great sex, and she's allowed her limits to be pushed along the way. I even get to go raw with her, which is a real treat, of course. Haha! She's getting close to being done with college and moving onto her graduate studies, and will likely have a full time job in the next month or two. That will cause our relationship to change, although she doesn't want to lose me. She'd marry me, if I left my wife, but a roughly 30 year age difference just isn't practical. I haven't paid her anything all year, because my business income has suffered for several months. She accepts that, but still wants me around. OK, no problem. I'm not a bad guy to be with.

Have I gotten bored, at times? Yes. I have run a premium membership on SA several times over this 3 year period. I've only slept with one other girl during this time, and I've had platonic lunch dates with a handful of others. It wasn't that I didn't desire to fuck other girls. I've just not found the same connection with anyone else and most of the girls are asking that high dollar amount that we're all seeing, so it just hasn't happened. The quality of these girls simply isn't what I experienced between 2014-2018 on SA. I didn't even find my current girl on SA, I found her on Ashley Madison, which is a sorry excuse for an affair dating website, by the way.

I don't know if this helps you much, but I figured I'd at least share about my "unicorn" experience.

[QUOTE=DonJon;5316789]Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.

So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.

Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?

Thanks,

DonJon.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DonJon;5316789]Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.

So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.

Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?

Thanks,

DonJon.[/QUOTE]I have a similar problem. Although lately the sugar game has gone downhill. But pre-scamdemic, I was fairly successful at it. I have a pretty fetish. Anything from 18 to 32 is fine, but she has to be one of "those" girls. The one that every guy checks out when she walks into a place. So SA was my go to site for that. I would start out with fairly vanilla sex but then my enjoyment came from pushing their sexual comfort zone a little more each date. At first it was the usual. Nice bare blowjob followed by covered cowgirl then doggy followed by finishing in the condom. Then I'd move them to bareback. Then into finishing with facials or swallowing. Then anal. Sometimes a threesome with another person. A couple of times that actually included another straight male hobbiest for a MFM. But you can see what happens. When I get to the point where this beautiful girl half my age is letting me fuck her in the ass and then cum in her mouth, there's no more frontier to explore. Once you're on top of Mount Everest, you lose interest in the climb. With some women this whole scheme only took four or five dates, with some it took much longer. But then I was done. I felt that I had to find the next pretty young woman to make into my dirty little *****. Oh well, we all have our "thing" I suppose.

[QUOTE=DonJon;5316789]Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.

So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.

Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?

Thanks,

DonJon.[/QUOTE]I'm kind of opposite in that I don't mind having an ongoing thing with just 1 - for a couple reasons.

First, there does HAVE to be a mutual chemistry / connection. So if that's not there, then it never get to 2 months for me. But if there is, since it's hard to find, I'm fine with just one good one.

Secondly, I think things can get better the more you see each other (again, IF my first point above is there).

But I certainly do see both sides of the coin. And sometimes the chase is fun as well.

Such a fun hobby we have LOL.

[QUOTE=Scooter6;5317245]I'm kind of opposite in that I don't mind having an ongoing thing with just 1 - for a couple reasons.

First, there does HAVE to be a mutual chemistry / connection. So if that's not there, then it never get to 2 months for me. But if there is, since it's hard to find, I'm fine with just one good one.

Secondly, I think things can get better the more you see each other (again, IF my first point above is there).

But I certainly do see both sides of the coin. And sometimes the chase is fun as well.

Such a fun hobby we have LOL.[/QUOTE]Can I just say, for me, when the boredom sets in. It's usually not sexual or physical boredom. It's just the company. I mean they don't suddenly become offensive either. It's just that girls, and maybe people in general, are actually quite boring in their twenties with their endless partying and their shitty fucking music, and their refusal to read anything longer than a goddamn tweet, and their "woe is me" whining. I don't see myself ever getting bored with putting my dick in the same pretty mouth over and over. It's the crap coming out of that mouth that drives me on to the next one.

I don't think getting bored means anything is wrong with you.

Just before lockdown I was dating a 24 year old stripper that I met on Tinder. Exactly why she bothered fucking me, I could not tell you. I'm sure I had a lot more in common with her typical client than with the younger, hotter guys she could easily have been dating instead. Maybe she wanted to play a long game, but just never got to the point where she tried to turn the corner and ask me for money. Who knows? Regardless, it was a lucky situation for me. She was a lot younger and hotter than I had any right to expect, without paying.

And yet, I got bored after a few months. She actually wasn't dumb, but she also wasn't especially bright. She had a lot of opinions on social topics that made me want to say: "Baby, please stop talking. " She meant well. She believed in the sort of idealistic shit that most people can only believe when they're young.

So, what did that leave for us to talk about? We didn't have any friends or work in common. I gave up on paying attention to pop culture a long time ago. I just cannot bring myself to care. Because of this, neither of us would understand each other's references. I found myself editing the things I was about to say, because I realized they were about things that happened decades before she was born, and she just wouldn't understand. It made conversation tiresome.

That relationship really made me feel the age gap. I don't think I realized how much people lean on small talk and shared popular culture. If you don't have any basic stuff in common with a girl, and you don't pay attention to the same news / gossip / memes, then conversation is hard. And then it's just sex, which is good until you get enough of it. And then you start looking for the next one.

It's vaginal attention deficit disorder. We all have it. I've almost NEVER gone beyond 3 visits with anyone except for a tiny handful of UTR's, and some contacts over the years. Even with a girlfriend I need to find a new nut about once every two weeks even if its something low end off of STG. Most of the time I leave moderately disappointed and the next day I can barely remember her face or even if I saw anyone.

[QUOTE=Sparkish;5317634]Can I just say, for me, when the boredom sets in. It's usually not sexual or physical boredom. It's just the company. I mean they don't suddenly become offensive either. It's just that girls, and maybe people in general, are actually quite boring in their twenties with their endless partying and their shitty fucking music, and their refusal to read anything longer than a goddamn tweet, and their "woe is me" whining. I don't see myself ever getting bored with putting my dick in the same pretty mouth over and over. It's the crap coming out of that mouth that drives me on to the next one.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Sparkish;5317634]Can I just say, for me, when the boredom sets in. It's usually not sexual or physical boredom. It's just the company. I mean they don't suddenly become offensive either. It's just that girls, and maybe people in general, are actually quite boring in their twenties with their endless partying and their shitty fucking music, and their refusal to read anything longer than a goddamn tweet, and their "woe is me" whining. I don't see myself ever getting bored with putting my dick in the same pretty mouth over and over. It's the crap coming out of that mouth that drives me on to the next one.[/QUOTE]I'm just a fucking W HORE and I love sex. I think women are beautiful creatures and I love sticking my dick in all three orifices' and want to do so with as many as I can.

It's not out of boredom, or because of anything they said or did. I just always move on to the next one because that's what us W HORE's do.

[QUOTE=ZoomLens2013;5317221]I've been with the same SB since early 2018. She was 18 when we met. She's not really the SB type, although she loved the idea of it. She had seen a few other guys while we were in our first few months, and I encouraged it, since I knew I would not be able to offer as much $ as she wanted. She eventually grew tired of the flakiness of the other guys and decided to "settle" on just one. Me. Although, it wasn't really settling for her. She developed feelings for me, which wasn't too surprising, considering that she openly admitted from the start that she has daddy issues. No worries, there. She's a good girl, super smart, accomplished, and she will go far. I enjoy her company and she's very attractive to me. There's definitely a maturity difference between us, but I've met 20-somethings who can't hold a candle to this girl in terms of intellect. We have great sex, and she's allowed her limits to be pushed along the way. I even get to go raw with her, which is a real treat, of course. Haha! She's getting close to being done with college and moving onto her graduate studies, and will likely have a full time job in the next month or two. That will cause our relationship to change, although she doesn't want to lose me. She'd marry me, if I left my wife, but a roughly 30 year age difference just isn't practical. I haven't paid her anything all year, because my business income has suffered for several months. She accepts that, but still wants me around. OK, no problem. I'm not a bad guy to be with.

Have I gotten bored, at times? Yes. I have run a premium membership on SA several times over this 3 year period. I've only slept with one other girl during this time, and I've had platonic lunch dates with a handful of others. It wasn't that I didn't desire to fuck other girls. I've just not found the same connection with anyone else and most of the girls are asking that high dollar amount that we're all seeing, so it just hasn't happened. The quality of these girls simply isn't what I experienced between 2014-2018 on SA. I didn't even find my current girl on SA, I found her on Ashley Madison, which is a sorry excuse for an affair dating website, by the way.

I don't know if this helps you much, but I figured I'd at least share about my "unicorn" experience.[/QUOTE]So what's the going rate for platonic lunch or dinner dates? I have thought about entertaining that approach?

[QUOTE=BudGreen;5317927]So what's the going rate for platonic lunch or dinner dates? I have thought about entertaining that approach?[/QUOTE]Most of my initial 'meet and greets' are for lunch, and I've already vetted them with extensive pics, so MOST of the time, I know it's someone I want to meet. That being said, I will treat them to lunch, but unless something else happens after, or the date is extended, I don't give them anything else. If the date goes well and it's someone I want to see, and they want to see me, we negotiate terms for future dates. And sometimes yes, it happens right then. Sometimes not Just depends on the girl.

Any intel on this one? Comms have been pretty good but she refuses to meet once in public first which is a red flag for me.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7b005195-31c8-467b-9c39-d3a1c4b0bf62[/URL]

Another waste of time. She responded with a message about sending her my contact info so should could send info on how to join her "Events Party Group". Used to run into this a lot back in the day on Ashley Madison. First time SA, it is just not what it used to be, but still the best site I have found.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/8a393c6a-7524-4506-89b1-fac6e19cf630[/URL]

All -- I hate to add to the chorus of negativity about the slim pickin's on SA, but damn -- I have been a member off and on for 15 years or so, and this is the biggest drought I have gone through. Don't get me wrong -- I still think it's the best site of it's type -- but the quality of SB's seems to really have dropped. No replies, no shows at scheduled meetings, ghosting, tons of unattractive ladies, etc. But I'll keep plowing along and hope for the best. Do you think that all the gov't-issued stimulus checks -- which is making it hard for restaurants and retail stores to find help for open positions -- is also keeping potential SB's off the market?

[QUOTE=KDoogie;5319754]All -- I hate to add to the chorus of negativity about the slim pickin's on SA, but damn -- I have been a member off and on for 15 years or so, and this is the biggest drought I have gone through. Don't get me wrong -- I still think it's the best site of it's type -- but the quality of SB's seems to really have dropped. No replies, no shows at scheduled meetings, ghosting, tons of unattractive ladies, etc. But I'll keep plowing along and hope for the best. Do you think that all the gov't-issued stimulus checks -- which is making it hard for restaurants and retail stores to find help for open positions -- is also keeping potential SB's off the market?[/QUOTE]Like you, I've been on / off SA (and all the others) for 15+ years. Obviously if they're able to lay up and do nothing, get $3200+ in stimulus money, and $600 a week in unemployment for a while vs working or sugaring, some will choose the easy / lazy path. But that incentive is drying up. I think the bigger culprit is * and other venues for selling their pics & vids. While most don't make all that much with that, the few really successful ones inspire the others (and the lower quality girls) to try. SA has apparently not bothered policing those online-virtual only arrangement seekers like they used to. So it equates to more work, time, etc to find fewer SB's to have fun with.

[QUOTE=Fishguy717;5318493]Most of my initial 'meet and greets' are for lunch, and I've already vetted them with extensive pics, so MOST of the time, I know it's someone I want to meet. That being said, I will treat them to lunch, but unless something else happens after, or the date is extended, I don't give them anything else. If the date goes well and it's someone I want to see, and they want to see me, we negotiate terms for future dates. And sometimes yes, it happens right then. Sometimes not Just depends on the girl.[/QUOTE]I have tried that but found myself wasting a lot of time just getting them to keep the date or a ton of cancelations some of the best SB I have had started with $100 but when you factor in that dinner / lunch allowance I'm better off on EROS so I haven't been doing meet and greets but have learned quickly when you just show up to their place you might not always like what you see.

[QUOTE=DiscreetFun306;5318851]Any intel on this one? Comms have been pretty good but she refuses to meet once in public first which is a red flag for me.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7b005195-31c8-467b-9c39-d3a1c4b0bf62[/URL][/QUOTE]Most of the girls I have met this past year do not do public meets they prefer discretion and would rather have the cash than the food. I enjoy dining just don't think I should have to pay for it.

[QUOTE=Fishguy717;5318493]Most of my initial 'meet and greets' are for lunch, and I've already vetted them with extensive pics, so MOST of the time, I know it's someone I want to meet. That being said, I will treat them to lunch, but unless something else happens after, or the date is extended, I don't give them anything else. If the date goes well and it's someone I want to see, and they want to see me, we negotiate terms for future dates. And sometimes yes, it happens right then. Sometimes not Just depends on the girl.[/QUOTE]My initial 'meet and greets' are similar. I like to meet for a coffee or drink first to make sure we are both comfortable with each other and want to move forward with an arrangement. The allowance does not start until the fun starts. Sometimes than can happen as soon as we are done with the meet and greet, sometimes it is the next meeting.

[QUOTE=BudGreen;5320214]Most of the girls I have met this past year do not do public meets they prefer discretion and would rather have the cash than the food. I enjoy dining just don't think I should have to pay for it.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the feedback. I have had good success with just a coffee or drink for the first meet. I really like that first meet in public to make sure it is a good fit. It has been my experience in the past if I have her come straight to my hotel room for the first meet she is not what I am expecting and then things can get a little awkward.

[QUOTE=HoosierDaddy69;5320035]Like you, I've been on / off SA (and all the others) for 15+ years. Obviously if they're able to lay up and do nothing, get $3200+ in stimulus money, and $600 a week in unemployment for a while vs working or sugaring, some will choose the easy / lazy path. But that incentive is drying up. I think the bigger culprit is * and other venues for selling their pics & vids. While most don't make all that much with that, the few really successful ones inspire the others (and the lower quality girls) to try. SA has apparently not bothered policing those online-virtual only arrangement seekers like they used to. So it equates to more work, time, etc to find fewer SB's to have fun with.[/QUOTE]I agree but I also have seen multiple sites including SA and various SB forums where SD actually does fly SB in from all over the country because airline tickets are cheap. Trust me very few girls in the central United States will turn down an all-expense paid to central Florida most with a minimal allowance if anything other than a little spending money however at the very least a grand for a weekend probably longer. The marketing of SA makes it crystal clear a good SB should expect to make a couple hundred just for being herself and most SD are young studs who are in great shape own successful businesses and money is not a problem. They always do these interview pieces and the SB is always bragging about make 5 k a month. Many of the ones that sign up and disappear are doing so because they are looking for a rich husband. The overweight, average girl is the real target. LOL Has anyone flew someone in before?

Recently met a sexy 20 something I would to explore the possibility of an arrangement with. The problem is don't really know how to approach it. Any ideas? I absolutely don't want to offer too much too fast.

[QUOTE=BudGreen;5320286]I agree but I also have seen multiple sites including SA and various SB forums where SD actually does fly SB in from all over the country because airline tickets are cheap. Trust me very few girls in the central United States will turn down an all-expense paid to central Florida most with a minimal allowance if anything other than a little spending money however at the very least a grand for a weekend probably longer. The marketing of SA makes it crystal clear a good SB should expect to make a couple hundred just for being herself and most SD are young studs who are in great shape own successful businesses and money is not a problem. They always do these interview pieces and the SB is always bragging about make 5 k a month. Many of the ones that sign up and disappear are doing so because they are looking for a rich husband. The overweight, average girl is the real target. LOL Has anyone flew someone in before?[/QUOTE]An no, I have not. But I get messages from girls all the country / world asking for that. I think twice it has actually happened where a girl was actually coming to Florida for another reason and we met up. But I have had multiple girls travel to me in Jax (and vice versa) within a 2 hour radius. The pickins' are much better in Orlando. Not as much competition for the ones in Savannah, Tally, Gainesville, etc.

[QUOTE=SixWheels;5320685]Recently met a sexy 20 something I would to explore the possibility of an arrangement with. The problem is don't really know how to approach it. Any ideas? I absolutely don't want to offer too much too fast.[/QUOTE]Asking her what she wants. I never just offer an amount first.

[QUOTE=BudGreen;5320214]Most of the girls I have met this past year do not do public meets they prefer discretion and would rather have the cash than the food. I enjoy dining just don't think I should have to pay for it.[/QUOTE]I do SA when on travel and will gladly pay for a dinner with some cute, screened, potential baby. Honestly I enjoy it and much prefer meeting under those conditions. They are the greatest encounters.

[QUOTE=BudGreen;5320286]
LOL Has anyone flew someone in before?[/QUOTE]Met my forever atf in jax when I'd regularly get down there. She moved and I was bummed for a year until one night on the road I thought of flying her to me. It's awesome. The real question is had anyone made it work for a first time meeting? It would open the potential babies to astronomical numbers that would blow my mind LOL. Airfare is cheap.

[QUOTE=MyDarkSide;5320859]Met my forever atf in jax when I'd regularly get down there. She moved and I was bummed for a year until one night on the road I thought of flying her to me. It's awesome. The real question is had anyone made it work for a first time meeting? It would open the potential babies to astronomical numbers that would blow my mind LOL. Airfare is cheap.[/QUOTE]Unfortunately for it to work for me I would have to go out of town for a couple days or just put them up in hotel and see them as schedule permits.

[QUOTE=MikeIsHome;5320847]I do SA when on travel and will gladly pay for a dinner with some cute, screened, potential baby. Honestly I enjoy it and much prefer meeting under those conditions. They are the greatest encounters.[/QUOTE]What do you think is a reasonable ppm for just a dinner or lunch?

[QUOTE=BudGreen;5320981]What do you think is a reasonable ppm for just a dinner or lunch?[/QUOTE]Every guy has their own thing but when the discussion turns to ppm for a meal it sends a negative vibe and I tend to lose interest. Maybe a little gift if I think things may work. In my experience, demanding a fee for a lunch isn't a good sign.

[QUOTE=MyDarkSide;5321042]Every guy has their own thing but when the discussion turns to ppm for a meal it sends a negative vibe and I tend to lose interest. Maybe a little gift if I think things may work. In my experience, demanding a fee for a lunch isn't a good sign.[/QUOTE]I agree. I have had a lot of success on SA and I never paid a ppm for a lunch / dinner, unless we had some fun afterwards.

Another time waster. Says she would love to meet if I can gift her $50 for gas first.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/955aaae7-ec26-40e0-8d50-54e6003d2055[/URL]

[QUOTE=MyDarkSide;5321042]Every guy has their own thing but when the discussion turns to ppm for a meal it sends a negative vibe and I tend to lose interest. Maybe a little gift if I think things may work. In my experience, demanding a fee for a lunch isn't a good sign.[/QUOTE]I have never and would never pay someone just to hang out and have lunch / dinner / coffee / drink. Defeats the purpose really.

A smart girl if she was hot enough could make a decent living doing that. Meet for dinner, conversation, make a little gift and then either ghost you or she can just say 'sorry, I didn't really feel a connection' and you'd never see her again.

IMO, there is NO upside to paying someone to meet and see if you are a great fit, etc. But, whatever works for you.

[QUOTE=BudGreen;5317927]So what's the going rate for platonic lunch or dinner dates? I have thought about entertaining that approach?[/QUOTE]I don't hesitate at giving them $60-100 for having lunch with me. None have ever complained about it. I appreciate their company and I want to honor the overall purpose of being on the site, not from a monger POV of course. It hasn't always lead to "more", but I'm fine with that. While I'm still holding on to the "pay no more than $250" budget, this isn't just about the money for me. There's a human on the other side of the table, and I want us both to have a human connection. Based on what I read in these forums, I'll never get that from any girl on STG or a SW or an "escort" LOL. I've never made any effort to meet one thru those other sites, but I browse those sites to help weed them out from my SA searches, since they do sometimes make profiles on SA. And, if I get the impression from any girl on SA that they'll only see me as an ATM, I won't bother meeting.

Comms seemed promising then asks to pay $50 for a cam show with the possibility of a meet. Politely declined. Be advised.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/121d447f-0864-4b5f-a3e2-e143ba2fa52f[/URL]

[QUOTE=RedBar;5322695]Comms seemed promising then asks to pay $50 for a cam show with the possibility of a meet. Politely declined. Be advised.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/121d447f-0864-4b5f-a3e2-e143ba2fa52f[/URL][/QUOTE]That's s huge red flag.

[QUOTE=DiscreetFun306;5318851]Any intel on this one? Comms have been pretty good but she refuses to meet once in public first which is a red flag for me.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7b005195-31c8-467b-9c39-d3a1c4b0bf62[/URL][/QUOTE]Since no one had any intel I decided to TOFTT. Should have went with my first instinct. One my worst experiences on SA, a dead fish who refused to do a mic check.

[QUOTE=DiscreetFun306;5323821]Since no one had any intel I decided to TOFTT. Should have went with my first instinct. One my worst experiences on SA, a dead fish who refused to do a mic check.[/QUOTE]PM is fine.

[QUOTE=DiscreetFun306;5323821]Since no one had any intel I decided to TOFTT. Should have went with my first instinct. One my worst experiences on SA, a dead fish who refused to do a mic check.[/QUOTE]That sucks. She looked pretty cute and was hoping for good experience.

Sorry man but thanks for TOFTT.

[QUOTE=DiscreetFun306;5323821]Since no one had any intel I decided to TOFTT. Should have went with my first instinct. One my worst experiences on SA, a dead fish who refused to do a mic check.[/QUOTE]Wow, so you actually got to meet her? I recall chatting with her briefly, but I had the biggest problem even getting a response from her for the longest time. I ended up blocking her, but I remember her username. Super cute girl in pics, and I hate that I could never meet her for lunch or coffee. I wish it wasn't so difficult for these girls to just type out, "I'm not interested, so please stop contacting me. " or just simply block me. LOL.

[QUOTE=Scooter6;5324791]That sucks. She looked pretty cute and was hoping for good experience.

Sorry man but thanks for TOFTT.[/QUOTE]Actually it didn't suck, that was the problem She didn't look as good in person but looks were fine, however the experience was awful.

[QUOTE=ZoomLens2013;5324889]Wow, so you actually got to meet her? I recall chatting with her briefly, but I had the biggest problem even getting a response from her for the longest time. I ended up blocking her, but I remember her username. Super cute girl in pics, and I hate that I could never meet her for lunch or coffee. I wish it wasn't so difficult for these girls to just type out, "I'm not interested, so please stop contacting me. " or just simply block me. LOL.[/QUOTE]Be happy you didn't meet her. She wouldn't agree to lunch or coffee, nothing in public. That is usually a deal breaker for me but with SA being slow at the moment I broke my own rules. Need more self control.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/e1f92138-7fb0-4961-a955-e983c300d8c0[/URL]

Any intel on this one will be greatly appreciated.