Honestly, helpful example
[QUOTE=JayJay2;7454112]Wow! JK might have more fans than CJ at this point! I admit I do agree his insight has been beneficial to me at times. I just forgot the world is getting soft and it's frowned upon to make fun now.[/QUOTE]Thanks, that is a perfect illustration of what I meant to say. You start with a backhanded compliment. Then you throw in a seemingly sincere one. And you end with a passive aggressive theory about the world where you are special while everyone else is soft and can't take a joke.
There was a member active on the boards until about a month before you joined, named DJBiker. He had a similar worldview. It got exhausting sometimes. I think shit posting is actually funny when it happens in moderation. Poking fun can be hilarious when it happens occasionally.
But I'm not even talking about "making fun". I'm talking about people just being shitty, bitchy Karens. Maybe we keep that here in the Pugilist section? Because the other sections have too much Karen behavior and it's probably reducing the number of people doing actual reviews.
-ODB.
Unique to this board and people
[QUOTE=OhDirtyBastard;7454060]FWIW, it seems like people are being really bitchy lately and I think that can push people away from the boards. Who wants to post when people constantly snip at you?
I have a review that I'm definitely going to post but half the time I log in, I read the constant criticisms of other people's reviews, and I just log out and do something else.
Members like JustKreepin add a TON of good info to the GR forum. Others as well. I know the whole world is hardwired these days to nitpick everything. But let's do better.
-ODB.[/QUOTE]Go to other cities or review boards and you won't get this. They post what they paid, services offered, recommendations to help others. Grand Rapids is a hostile board thanks to years of a few people trying to maintain some sort of status quo to the eyes of their esteemed hookers. These same people will flock to other locations to promote and entice the local horny degenerates to pay extra because she's worth it. Escorts don't want the transparency. It isn't about uncle LEO it's because they know if some guy says he paid $150 to fuck her and get a BBBJ then everyone will ask for that. Every person should know YMMV but this is not a race to outbid a fellow degenerate. It's to establish a reasonable rate and service returned.
A great recent example is Jay mentioning someone who was awesome and not on my radar. He left out cost but provided it later and the woman added more details with services and prices. I will be fucking her within the week thanks to that post and it didn't take 14 messages spanning days about how I need to approach her or treat her special or why I should gift my vacation property to her. Many posts in this forum overcomplicates why we are all here in the first place.
Gene is the ultimate conspiracy theory.
[QUOTE=BeanLicker;7541617]Posting in the proper sub as fragile egos can't handle any banter.
I am beanlicker, I come with the following message: enjoy your pussy and don't overpay for it! Men can jerk off, can women diddle their bean to produce the Benny? No they cannot! Money comes from us. Lovethelips makes me jealous, I wish I had his pull on pussy and the cost of it! Stop listening to people telling you you need to pay more. It's bullshit and it isn't to benefit you.
I also decided to become an investigative sex forum journalist! It seems the same prickly fellow comes in under different names but the same message and tone of voice so I decided to check for myself. Gene got banned in early February 2024. A lover of fresh breath, internet arguments, and promotion of women, Gene found himself cucked out of his computer. Mere days later, a new user enters the forum! Hello Figment! Now, the sex world of forum posters will never know if they are the same, but it really makes you pause.
Anyway, Geneisbean thinks I am the old retard incarnate. I shall assume my role to shame other men on their choice of women, travel to Florida and Ann Arbor complaining about anyone who isn't my bestie and always bring fresh breath to overpay a chick to ride me! Valhalla on earth.[/QUOTE]This is hilarious. I have had the same feeling about this dude. Ultimaely, in my mind, I have I decided that this is not gene. Gene was next level condescending and self absorbed. The fact that gene and figment both want to have Hinge dating experiences with paid hookers is both sad and hilarious. Too each his own I guess. Just don't inflate my prices you spend happy cucks.
P.S. If I had to guess I believe just kreepin is gene. Douchey, love struck, condensing and the the stupid signoff.