Regarding privacy and anonymity
Some guys have been concerned about letting providers know their real names, places of employment, etc. These are valid concerns and I thought I'd share a story from back in the old days of why it's sometimes a really bad idea to tell girls too much.
A provider who had been somewhat popular long ago decided to retire from the business. Not unusual of itself, but the way she tried to do it was out of the ordinary: she tried to blackmail her now-former clients. She called them at home and told them that if they didn't pay her X amount of dollars a month, she'd inform their wives, friends and places of employment of their hobbying activities.
For some of them, the results could have been disastrous with divorces likely and possible repercussions on the job, as well as the public humiliation. The provider was known for catering to guys who loved the kinky stuff, so her threats of outing were potentially much more damaging, if carried-out.
While some guys ponied-up, not all were the type to just grin and bear it. Guys began looking into her personal life and got her real name, where she really lived and similar details on her family. When confronted with what they had, she was in an equally bad position. Her family didn't know what she did for a living, were rather conservative and deeply religious. So, if they found out how she'd made the money she'd been sending them, they were likely to have disowned her out of shame. The family mostly lived in a middle class area in the Philippines, so such a revelation being made public there would have had even more severe consequences for her than for her clients in Hawaii.
Along with threats of outing her to her family were threats of physical harm to both herself and her relatives.
Realizing that she'd made a huge mistake, she left Hawaii and went to the Mainland. She actually tried to come back a few years afterward, but memories are long and she left within a few days, never to be seen here again. She remained in the Business for awhile, trying to eke-out a living, but Hawaii wasn't the only place she'd tried that little stunt and she had to leave the Business entirely within a few years. Rumors circulated for awhile as to her eventual fate. The more reliable gossip indicates that she ended-up a homeless meth addict somewhere in California.
While there are always people to tell you what *might* happen if providers know too much about you, there have been those times where letting them know too much has had real consequences.
This wasn't the only time this sort of thing has happened, but I'm just letting you know that it has happened.
Attention Mamas and Providers
We have reached our limit on the number of girls with the following names:
Joy.
Julie.
Coco.
Honey.
Mimi.
Keep it simple for us! We not too smart sometimes and do most of our thinking with our little heads. We get confused.
Plenty of unused names available. Start with Cartoons maybe and name a girl Velma or Daphne like in Scooby Doo.
Use some other fruits other than apple just don't use Banana because that might send wrong message. We like funny names like Rim J and Spinner. I would like to see a girl named Hummus. Show us your creativity.
Pro tip: If it's your first time going to a parlor and they ask have you been here before just say yes and that you saw Coco. 99% chance there was a girl there recently with that name and you will be golden LOL.
Hold out till they reach out
[QUOTE=Niceguy808;2239204]I'm wondering how common this issue might be:
I've noticed a recurring problem over the years that I've been in the Hobby. Often, when I see a provider for the very first time. And I mean a top-rated provider who seems to currently be all the rage on the forums that week or month. My first time with her would be amazing, absolutely amazing. I would be so impressed with her that I'd make it a point to see her again and even become a regular, if time and finances allow.
The second appointment would still be good, but not as good as the first time. The third time would show a marked decline in service quality where she's obviously not putting in the same effort as the first or even the second.
If I see her again on a fourth or fifth time, the service is really getting rather bland. It might still be good, but I might be getting short-timed or rushed to make way for the next guy that day / night.
It's become almost an expected development for me. The first or second time is often way better that sessions afterwards and I started to feel taken for granted, as if she doesn't have to work so hard for me anymore.
I've usually responded by just stopping after the third try and moving on, hoping that a return will result in first time quality again. Sometimes that happens, but not always.
Playing the field doesn't fit my nature, I guess, and I suppose some providers realize this and assume that I'll be back sooner or later.
Any advice?[/QUOTE]I didn't know there was a drop off in service when you visit a provider the more often you go in for a visit, I've had the total opposite as my first visit with a provider got better each visit, but then again 99 percent of the times I just go for a chat session.
My advise would be for you to wait for them to text or call you then go and visit them, I'm very sure that you'll get great service whenever they reach out to you like that.
