[QUOTE=PeckerHead;5711080]She's still on there. Search BlackbarbieBabi. Don't know why the link isn't working to her profile.[/QUOTE]That worked for me, must be something wrong with the posted link.
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[QUOTE=PeckerHead;5711080]She's still on there. Search BlackbarbieBabi. Don't know why the link isn't working to her profile.[/QUOTE]That worked for me, must be something wrong with the posted link.
[QUOTE=PNR2004;5698773][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2398dcc4-bd7c-4bfc-97cb-a77546339e97[/URL]
Not sure if my paste worked last time. Screen name is Photogenic Marathoner.[/QUOTE]Weird, what are the chances of two profiles using this same name? Two very different profiles, BTW. Here is the second: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b1bd04be-32f4-4425-9346-34c330ae8c9e[/URL].
I've no experience with either. Just an FYI.
Anybody else noticing the plethora of new profiles and unsolicited messages from Asian women? Almost all have bee in their mid 30's, in the US, but with profiles and messages written so that they read like a cheap fortune cookie. Feels like organized scammers / phishers.
These all either favorited me or sent me a message.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/65f70a34-fb13-4801-9993-2e7f1e5b31ad[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/54928a36-e38b-4e45-8e30-470afa2eeccc[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a30a7802-a464-4bd3-9980-49df90361aac[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/29e9bfc2-adcf-4756-a8dc-1059ede10389[/URL]
It also appears that the majority of the women of both Venezuela and the Philippines have a profile on here.
And they are raising their rates so that we can deal with this?
This website has definitely "jumped the shark".
[QUOTE=Badger53;5711964]Anybody else noticing the plethora of new profiles and unsolicited messages from Asian women? Almost all have bee in their mid 30's, in the US, but with profiles and messages written so that they read like a cheap fortune cookie. Feels like organized scammers / phishers.
These all either favorited me or sent me a message.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/65f70a34-fb13-4801-9993-2e7f1e5b31ad[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/54928a36-e38b-4e45-8e30-470afa2eeccc[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a30a7802-a464-4bd3-9980-49df90361aac[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/29e9bfc2-adcf-4756-a8dc-1059ede10389[/URL]
It also appears that the majority of the women of both Venezuela and the Philippines have a profile on here.
And they are raising their rates so that we can deal with this?
This website has definitely "jumped the shark".[/QUOTE]Spam comes with the territory. In general, compared to other sugar baby sites, SA has the best ratio of real to fake, and the best tools for filtering out the fake. When you're subscribed, you can remove your profile from searching. Let's be real: Most of the time, real girls aren't contacting us. It's the other way around. So anytime you have a girl initiate contact with you, 99% of the time she's fake (e. G. , girls from Indochina telling you they'll be visiting soon, LOL).
[QUOTE=Badger53;5711964]Anybody else noticing the plethora of new profiles and unsolicited messages from Asian women? Almost all have bee in their mid 30's, in the US, but with profiles and messages written so that they read like a cheap fortune cookie. Feels like organized scammers / phishers.
These all either favorited me or sent me a message.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/65f70a34-fb13-4801-9993-2e7f1e5b31ad[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/54928a36-e38b-4e45-8e30-470afa2eeccc[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a30a7802-a464-4bd3-9980-49df90361aac[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/29e9bfc2-adcf-4756-a8dc-1059ede10389[/URL]
It also appears that the majority of the women of both Venezuela and the Philippines have a profile on here.
And they are raising their rates so that we can deal with this?
This website has definitely "jumped the shark".[/QUOTE]I've received messages from those same profiles. In addition to the constant favoriting by women from South America, the Philippines, etc. This has gone on for a while, but SA keeps making it more difficult to justify paying their increasing subscription fees.
Apparently I'm very popular in Venezuela and the Philippines LOL seems they are hungry for SD there.
[QUOTE=Badger53;5711964]Anybody else noticing the plethora of new profiles and unsolicited messages from Asian women? Almost all have bee in their mid 30's, in the US, but with profiles and messages written so that they read like a cheap fortune cookie. Feels like organized scammers / phishers.
These all either favorited me or sent me a message.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/65f70a34-fb13-4801-9993-2e7f1e5b31ad[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/54928a36-e38b-4e45-8e30-470afa2eeccc[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a30a7802-a464-4bd3-9980-49df90361aac[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/29e9bfc2-adcf-4756-a8dc-1059ede10389[/URL]
It also appears that the majority of the women of both Venezuela and the Philippines have a profile on here.
And they are raising their rates so that we can deal with this?
This website has definitely "jumped the shark".[/QUOTE]
Anyone see this one before?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b52a8fab-177c-43c1-a755-20bb35d6dfc4[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1d77afd3-1aff-41c6-aabc-6d98486e9b85[/URL]
Anyone actually see her? Think she's just shilling for the club she's dancing at.
[QUOTE=Wenceslas;5715200][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1d77afd3-1aff-41c6-aabc-6d98486e9b85[/URL]
Anyone actually see her? Think she's just shilling for the club she's dancing at.[/QUOTE]We have had the same experience, seems like a time waster.
What club does she work at I've never seen her you can pm me if you'd like
[QUOTE=Wenceslas;5715200][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1d77afd3-1aff-41c6-aabc-6d98486e9b85[/URL]
Anyone actually see her? Think she's just shilling for the club she's dancing at.[/QUOTE].
[QUOTE=KaceyAnders;5723825]What club does she work at I've never seen her you can pm me if you'd like
.[/QUOTE]Exchanged digits. Agreed upon ppm and then ghost town. Said was working 2 nights a week. Maybe her way of screening.
Always a great time hanging out with Kai. SA has an endless supply of babes.
[QUOTE=PeckerHead;5728624]Always a great time hanging out with Kai. SA has an endless supply of babes.[/QUOTE]Good to know she's a great time. Would be great if you had a link too.
[QUOTE=Wenceslas;5728667]Good to know she's a great time. Would be great if you had a link too.[/QUOTE]If you want links go to the escort threads. I'm not sharing contact or link info on girls that are not pros. I don't understand why escorts post on SA and avoid them like the plague. Likewise, if a sugar baby wanted that kind of action don't you think she would post on one of the escort sites?
[QUOTE=PeckerHead;5728742]If you want links go to the escort threads. I'm not sharing contact or link info on girls that are not pros. I don't understand why escorts post on SA and avoid them like the plague. Likewise, if a sugar baby wanted that kind of action don't you think she would post on one of the escort sites?[/QUOTE]I guess we can agree to disagree. If they accept money for sex that makes them? Fill in the blank.
SA or STG all the same to me. Nice pics by the way.
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[QUOTE=Wenceslas;5728667]Good to know she's a great time. Would be great if you had a link too.[/QUOTE]Yeah I don't get the forum bragging. Good for you if you have a girl but why rub it in the noses of those still looking. If you aren't going to share profile info then just keep it to yourself instead of looking for some congratulations. And yes all girls on Seeking who take money for sex are escorts just a different website.
[QUOTE=SconnieNation7;5729940]Yeah I don't get the forum bragging. Good for you if you have a girl but why rub it in the noses of those still looking. If you aren't going to share profile info then just keep it to yourself instead of looking for some congratulations. And yes all girls on Seeking who take money for sex are escorts just a different website.[/QUOTE]I'll continue reporting. Just a reminder that if it bothers you that much there's a feature on here where you can put me on your ignore list.
[QUOTE=Wenceslas;5729300]I guess we can agree to disagree. If they accept money for sex that makes them? Fill in the blank.
SA or STG all the same to me. Nice pics by the way.[/QUOTE]That's the problem a lot of you are having on SA as far as finding quality, non pro, sugar babies. You have got to get rid of the escort / streetwalker mind set. None of the sugar babies I've had relationships with are escorts. How do you expect to meet any of them if you approach them them as if they are? There's also way more time involved getting to know them and establishing a connection. As far as money, you would be surprised what a great meal and some drinks will do. Or running to Starbucks to get them they're favorite latte after a night out. SA and STG are completely different animals. If you don't have the time to put into it you're not going to have much success. I don't have a problem posting a link to someone I've met on there that turned out to be a PPM escort because those girls don't care and I really don't have much of my time invested in them. I also avoid the girls that are strippers because they always want you to come to the club they are working at to hang out. Boring and a waste of my time and money (expensive).
Didn't know that was a thing. Good to know so I don't have to see that bullshit anymore.
[QUOTE=PeckerHead;5728742]If you want links go to the escort threads. I'm not sharing contact or link info on girls that are not pros. I don't understand why escorts post on SA and avoid them like the plague. Likewise, if a sugar baby wanted that kind of action don't you think she would post on one of the escort sites?[/QUOTE]I've used SA. I've used Backpage. I've used the street. Every client and every provider has a different rationalization for why they use the format they do. We are nothing special to them across the board, unless we have cash. It's only significant if she has no other paying clients and that's rare. Those are the ones I don't share and it's usually because she was somebody I met in public. Otherwise, share and share alike.
So I've been thinking about upgrading to actually be able to set up some arrangements, just wanted to know if its worth the bill.
What I'm asking is how easy is it to get from point A to B with these girls? I assume it's not as easy as STG but are these girls really asking for dinner and a movie? Or can you simply meet say once a week and do what you came for.
How many are fake profiles or time waster? Also what the going rate?
Any info would be appreciated. Feel free to PM me also.
Thanks.
[QUOTE=SconnieNation7;5729940]Yeah I don't get the forum bragging. Good for you if you have a girl but why rub it in the noses of those still looking. If you aren't going to share profile info then just keep it to yourself instead of looking for some congratulations. And yes all girls on Seeking who take money for sex are escorts just a different website.[/QUOTE]I agree: Girls on SA looking for money, every single one of them is a sex worker. Even the ones who don't actually offer sex. Are they open to PPM? Or they want an allowance? Will they respond to direct negotiations for private time or do they expect you to be more subtle so as not to rub the fact that they are sex workers in their face?
I don't share links of girls I'm actively seeing because usually that results in them freaking out and blocking me, if they find out. So it's not that I don't share because I don't think they are sex workers. Of course they are. I don't share because that interferes with me getting what I want.
I'm happy to share info about girls I discover aren't open to what I want, to inform others of what I've learned.
[QUOTE=SconnieNation7;5730272]Didn't know that was a thing. Good to know so I don't have to see that bullshit anymore.[/QUOTE]Personally, I've never used that. There are so few postings in the threads I care about. It's easy enough to scroll past the noise. And mostly as long as the conversation is on topic, it's usually either entertaining or informative to me. LOL.
Last fall I was able to meet up with Ally before she left to go back to college. Great times. Thinking of taking her someplace warm for spring break. Stay tuned for an update.
[QUOTE=SmokinAcee;5731380]So I've been thinking about upgrading to actually be able to set up some arrangements, just wanted to know if its worth the bill.
What I'm asking is how easy is it to get from point A to B with these girls? I assume it's not as easy as STG but are these girls really asking for dinner and a movie? Or can you simply meet say once a week and do what you came for.
How many are fake profiles or time waster? Also what the going rate?
Any info would be appreciated. Feel free to PM me also.
Thanks.[/QUOTE]Treat them like they are human beings. Not sex workers. Even though, of course they are both. That is generally the best strategy for getting anywhere with them.
Be clear about what you want, though. And don't settle. If you find a girl who wants platonic only, or online only, or she insists on an "allowance" for 2-3 public dates before the fun begins, kick her dumb ass to the curb.
You'll find lots of girls with unrealistic expectations. Some think they're going to find someone who will give them $10 K per month for the pleasure of their conversation. If that's what they are looking for, best to find that out quickly and move on.
I look for these qualities:
* Cute enough. 8 / 10 looks wise is all I need. The 10's are usually fake or insane. And if they're real, believe me, there's a line behind you a mile wide. Why bother?
* Reasonable. She wants $1 K ppm? Or $3 K per month for visits once a week, where you also have to pay for a hotel? Next.
* Down to fuck. Seriously, let's not beat around the Bush. Just make sure to get their digits and have this conversation outside of SA. LOL.
* Relatively reliable communication wise. This one is rare than you think. If I had half a brain, any girl that fails this test, I'd kick to the curb. Problem is, most of them fail this test. So I've had to compromise on this one.
[QUOTE=PeckerHead;5732062]Last fall I was able to meet up with Ally before she left to go back to college. Great times. Thinking of taking her someplace warm for spring break. Stay tuned for an update.[/QUOTE]You sir are a Legend.
[QUOTE=PeckerHead;5732062]Last fall I was able to meet up with Ally before she left to go back to college. Great times. Thinking of taking her someplace warm for spring break. Stay tuned for an update.[/QUOTE]No one gives a fuck.
Has anyone been having issues using Gift Cards to sign back up? My usual way is not working. I have been using the Vanilla Gift Cards for years with no issues.
[QUOTE=Natefarwell;5732831]Has anyone been having issues using Gift Cards to sign back up? My usual way is not working. I have been using the Vanilla Gift Cards for years with no issues.[/QUOTE]Vanilla cards are no longer accepted. Get a gift card you can register online (the card number) and that should pass their fraud screening. [URL]https://www.prepaidgiftbalance.com[/URL].
[QUOTE=Natefarwell;5732831]Has anyone been having issues using Gift Cards to sign back up? My usual way is not working. I have been using the Vanilla Gift Cards for years with no issues.[/QUOTE]One time, I used a vanilla gift card to pay for SA. And they suspended my account. So I had to wait a few days to work through that with customer service. No explanation for why I was suspended.
I haven't tried recently. There's no way I'd use a real card attached to my real identity. So maybe I'll just keep deferring this purchase. LOL.
This is why I despise that company. I only ever subscribe when I have the max discount. Even though the savings is inconsequential. It's just a way of thumbing my nose at them. I harvest as many digits as I can. And then I delete that account.
Anastasia. Profile not active anymore, but if you remember her and want her number I have it. It took a long time to get her to text me. I don't like the term GPS because it suggests that the market dynamics aren't really involved with regard to a very attractive and fit woman requesting a certain allowance. Regardless she was interested in a high (not four figures) allowance for the highest level of service and a third of that for French lessons. Only can see men during bankers hours which was not going to work for me and I'm not even a banker. Attaching a photo she texted me. She sent a low resolution video which suggests to me she's not a catfish. If you see her lmk how it goes or even post here because the sharing here is unusual compared to other boards. For example the Ally post below, the OPs motive behind which is uncertain unless it represents braggadocio.
[QUOTE=PeckerHead;5730222]That's the problem a lot of you are having on SA as far as finding quality, non pro, sugar babies. You have got to get rid of the escort / streetwalker mind set. None of the sugar babies I've had relationships with are escorts. How do you expect to meet any of them if you approach them them as if they are? There's also way more time involved getting to know them and establishing a connection. As far as money, you would be surprised what a great meal and some drinks will do. Or running to Starbucks to get them they're favorite latte after a night out. SA and STG are completely different animals. If you don't have the time to put into it you're not going to have much success. I don't have a problem posting a link to someone I've met on there that turned out to be a PPM escort because those girls don't care and I really don't have much of my time invested in them. I also avoid the girls that are strippers because they always want you to come to the club they are working at to hang out. Boring and a waste of my time and money (expensive).[/QUOTE]I agree with much of what you wrote. Question though: do the young women with whom you have arrangements who you don't treat as escorts know that you are posting pictures of them on a site which shares information about escorts? If they do not know, how would they feel if they did? I'm only asking because it seems like you care about their feelings with your words posted here.
[QUOTE=DrStrangeLust;5733747]I agree with much of what you wrote. Question though: do the young women with whom you have arrangements who you don't treat as escorts know that you are posting pictures of them on a site which shares information about escorts? If they do not know, how would they feel if they did? I'm only asking because it seems like you care about their feelings with your words posted here.[/QUOTE]I really don't understand the logic behind your post. Seems like it bothers you that I posted some pictures because they don't know I posted them? I don't know what the big deal is about me posting pictures. If you recognize somebody I've posted and it upset you I'm so sorry. Maybe you should contact her and tell on me. It may make you feel better.
[QUOTE=PeckerHead;5734279]I really don't understand the logic behind your post. Seems like it bothers you that I posted some pictures because they don't know I posted them? I don't know what the big deal is about me posting pictures. If you recognize somebody I've posted and it upset you I'm so sorry. Maybe you should contact her and tell on me. It may make you feel better.[/QUOTE]You don't understand. And clearly you don't have the brainpower to understand so let it go. Instead of answering my question directly, you deflected away to a possibility of me knowing one of the women. If that were the case, that's what I would have said. But I didn't. I asked a simple question. Read my post again and either answer the question or don't. The fact that you don't understand my simple question tells me the answer however. You pretend to care about these women by not treating them like escorts but you couldn't care less if they were mortified if they were to find out their photos are posted on a site discussing escorts.
Furthermore, the fact that you brag about having scored with them for no other reason than to brag tells me that it’s all about you wanting to stroke your ego, because those posts contribute nothing here. You’re the type of manipulative man that these women despise because you pretend to care about them by buying them lattes and dinner and probably saying the words they want to hear with them thinking you’re a kind man but clearly if they knew you posted their photos in the context of bragging about the conquest, they’d have nothing to do with you.
[QUOTE=DrStrangeLust;5734614]You don't understand. And clearly you don't have the brainpower to understand so let it go. Instead of answering my question directly, you deflected away to a possibility of me knowing one of the women. If that were the case, that's what I would have said. But I didn't. I asked a simple question. Read my post again and either answer the question or don't. The fact that you don't understand my simple question tells me the answer however. You pretend to care about these women by not treating them like escorts but you couldn't care less if they were mortified if they were to find out their photos are posted on a site discussing escorts.
Furthermore, the fact that you brag about having scored with them for no other reason than to brag tells me that its all about you wanting to stroke your ego, because those posts contribute nothing here. Youre the type of manipulative man that these women despise because you pretend to care about them by buying them lattes and dinner and probably saying the words they want to hear with them thinking youre a kind man but clearly if they knew you posted their photos in the context of bragging about the conquest, theyd have nothing to do with you.[/QUOTE]It ain't bragging if you can do it.
[QUOTE=PeckerHead;5734279]I really don't understand the logic behind your post. Seems like it bothers you that I posted some pictures because they don't know I posted them? I don't know what the big deal is about me posting pictures. If you recognize somebody I've posted and it upset you I'm so sorry. Maybe you should contact her and tell on me. It may make you feel better.[/QUOTE]Wis. Stat. § 942.09 – Revenge Porn.
In April 2014, Wisconsin passed a law criminalizing the dissemination of private images of a person without the person's consent, whether or not the image was taken with the victim's consent.
As it's a class one felony, let's hope 1) she doesn't find out or care.
I mean. Let's not pretend what anyone does is "legal" in any way, shape, or form. I, for one, like the pictures cause this is a "guide" (with reviews) and I hate having to guess which hoe is going to try and screw me next once I let my guard down too far. I don't think anyone is consenting to being reviewed here. I remember saying to someone "Your reviews suggest you'll more rip me off rather than find a mutual compromise on a service" and their response was "those dick hurt mongers get what they deserve".
[QUOTE=SafeNsaFun;5735372]Wis. Stat. 942.09 Revenge Porn.
In April 2014, Wisconsin passed a law criminalizing the dissemination of private images of a person without the person's consent, whether or not the image was taken with the victim's consent.
As it's a class one felony, let's hope 1) she doesn't find out or care.[/QUOTE]Not to mention if one of her male friends with whom she is very close (who even knows she is on seeking and has had arrangements) browses here and shows the posts he recognizes as being of his good friend to her and she, feeling mortified and angry as hell and in retaliation, decides to set you up for some type of consequence. Not a likely scenario but the part of my brain that performs a benefit to consequence analysis says STOP without a doubt if I were contemplating a thought to make the conscious decision to post photos in the context of bragging about a conquest. That's just me.
A couple more pics of Ally. We're going to rendezvous someplace warm in March. I'll post an update.