The Sugar Thread: Intel / Reviews / Contacts

[QUOTE=FunNthaSun;5275479]Wait. Off the site conversations?? Wow I guess I could have been kicked off the site a long time ago from 'off the site' conversations. Personally I've never been kicked off the site but it's crazy to think that they could ban you from the site from conversations you have off the site. What business is it of theirs what's talked about off the site?? They don't know what type of relationship you've developed with a sb. They don't know if the sb is only providing a one-sided conversation. I've never got into a heated back and forth with a sb but I just don't see how they can kick you off the site for a disgruntled sb.[/QUOTE]I copied and pasted that from his email. Maybe he shouldn't have told me that. They do keep a tight lip as to how they do their shit and how they decide to ban people, but he probably wasnt thinking when he sent the email. AND, he also post 6 months worth of alias emails I used too. Kinda unsettling.

They knew all that.

[QUOTE=Hal1957;5274291]Never never never get in a pissing contest with an SB, on the site or off the site. They report out of spite and even if you think you won the argument with her, you lose the argument with SA. It isn't worth the shit you have to go through later. Just block and move on.[/QUOTE]HA, I know this already and as much as I do try, sometimes I just get too pissed off and respond.

[QUOTE=Sicilly;5278284]I copied and pasted that from his email. Maybe he shouldn't have told me that. They do keep a tight lip as to how they do their shit and how they decide to ban people, but he probably wasnt thinking when he sent the email. AND, he also post 6 months worth of alias emails I used too. Kinda unsettling.

They knew all that.[/QUOTE]If you just skimmed over Sicily's post or just don't think it's important. Here is your gut check. You are NOT anonymous to big tech. Maybe other users, SBs, STG Girls etc; But big tech is all up in your junk and has been since you started. There are so many ways to link your online shit together, it boggles the mind. Bottom line: if part of your justification for playing the game is your presumed anonymity, then you should get out now. I'm only pointing this out because I see a bunch of posts around defeating the I'd tech and such as that, it just all leaves me SMH. Now it IS true that the mechanics of singling out a user and fucking with them in a meaningful way based on this truth is problematic. I am not saying it's imminent that someone from SA is going to call your wife and rat you out or show up to your door with some cement shoes. But the thing that saving you ass from that is the numbers, not the knowledge. They 100% know who you are.

This one must be hard up for money. We messaged a couple of months ago, exchanged numbers, I sent her a pic and heard nothing back after asking for the same. Figured I wasn't her type, that's cool. Out of the blue she texted me today, wanting to 'have some fun' for 600. Gave her an 'LOL' and she dropped it to 500. Told her she was way off, and good luck.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1d9c4601-8400-4698-9a72-9e8308db70c5[/URL]

Well I guess I spoke too soon on my last post about never having my account suspended. Logged on the other day to find out I've been permanently banned because of. Well, you know. But in all honesty SA is not what it used to be and there are more and more profiles that only want to sell pics or have online arrangements. The ones that actually do want to meet are asking for wayy too much allowance in my opinion. I definitely had fun the time I was a member and didn't have really any bad experiences. Some was just a one time meeting and others I continued to see. I still have about 3 or 4 that I can meet with at any time and I'm pretty satisfied with that plus was able to get contact info from four others before I was banned that I have the opportunity to pursue. I've read the ordeals some of you had to go thru to get back on like IP and email changes etc and I just don't feel like going thru all that LOL. Maybe when my well runs completely dry I'll try or maybe that may be a sign to step away from the hobby altogether who knows.

Happy hunting guys -Fun-.

[QUOTE=FunNthaSun;5289001]Well I guess I spoke too soon on my last post about never having my account suspended. Logged on the other day to find out I've been permanently banned because of. Well, you know. But in all honesty SA is not what it used to be and there are more and more profiles that only want to sell pics or have online arrangements. The ones that actually do want to meet are asking for wayy too much allowance in my opinion. I definitely had fun the time I was a member and didn't have really any bad experiences. Some was just a one time meeting and others I continued to see. I still have about 3 or 4 that I can meet with at any time and I'm pretty satisfied with that plus was able to get contact info from four others before I was banned that I have the opportunity to pursue. I've read the ordeals some of you had to go thru to get back on like IP and email changes etc and I just don't feel like going thru all that LOL. Maybe when my well runs completely dry I'll try or maybe that may be a sign to step away from the hobby altogether who knows.

Happy hunting guys -Fun-.[/QUOTE]Might be worth a try.

[QUOTE=Fishguy717;5286018]This one must be hard up for money. We messaged a couple of months ago, exchanged numbers, I sent her a pic and heard nothing back after asking for the same. Figured I wasn't her type, that's cool. Out of the blue she texted me today, wanting to 'have some fun' for 600. Gave her an 'LOL' and she dropped it to 500. Told her she was way off, and good luck.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1d9c4601-8400-4698-9a72-9e8308db70c5[/URL][/QUOTE]Haha. The true funniest part of this is the last line in her profile "Money is nice of course but I'm not looking to be anyone's escort. ".

Ummm. Okay. Haha.

First let me say I was surprised that they did. But they did. A couple things up front:

*I was accused essentially of offering compensation for action. I try to be careful about that sort of thing, but probably screwed up with somebody I was texting- but had no specific memory of it! I believe they will ban guys after a complaint but no specific evidence.

*I ended up exchanging a couple of emails back and forth with SA about this issue. Ultimately, as a condition of re-instatement the person at SA I had to state in a follow up email that I had re-read the rules and would comply going forward, Easy enough!! Re-instated in 48 hrs.

*Your situation is unique to you so don't write them with exactly what I did, mix it up a little bit with your wording etc.

OK- first, once they deactivate you, you can't just go to their help desk, so you need to address your email to: [EMAIL]support@seeking.com[/EMAIL]. Compose your email from the email address associated with your banned account (so they at least know who it is).

*BTW, I think this is only likely to work if you have been banned VERY RECENTLY. I would suggest you not try it otherwise.

*Here is essentially the Letter I wrote to them:

"To Whom it may concern.

I received an email today telling me that my account was permanently banned for "soliciting sex for compensation". I would like to be provided with some explanation of why this action was taken against my account.

In my profile I had stated that I would like intimacy to be part of an agreement if possible which I believe is probably not an uncommon hope of most men on the site. Additionally, I stated I expected to provide spoiling and an allowance as part of an agreement which I believe most women are expecting on SA. I do not think this means I was "soliciting" or anything of the sort. SA approved my profile so I assumed it was perfectly fine.

Let me finish by saying I have had members on SA who have reacted badly to completely civil conversations if they don't like the exchange, issue an insult and then abruptly block me. My concern is such a person may have made bogus claims to have me removed from SA.

I am hoping this situation can be reviewed and resolved and my account reinstated as soon as possible.

Best regards".

SO THAT'S IT. MIX UP YOUR WORDING IF YOU WRITE THEM. IF A BUNCH OF YOU JUST CUT AND PASTE THIS VER BATIM THEY WILL BE ONTO IT IN NO TIME!!

THEY RESPONDED TO THIS INITIAL QUERY AND WITHIN A FEW EMAILS BACK AND FORTH I HAD MY ACCOUNT REACTIVATED.

Hope this helps someone!

[QUOTE=Scooter6;5291634]Haha. The true funniest part of this is the last line in her profile "Money is nice of course but I'm not looking to be anyone's escort. ".

Ummm. Okay. Haha.[/QUOTE]To be fair, she's playing the same game we are. If she came out and said she was an escort, she'd be banned.

Seen them a bit before but would like to pin them down. Any guidance on Yourfavorite baby or tequilandtanlines?

Tequilandtanlines.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c6cb3981-35b7-4499-b032-829a9f4bfa9e[/URL]

Yourfavorite baby [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ade55dc5-c145-401b-8127-abce995c2493[/URL].

[QUOTE=PervNerd48;5292004]To be fair, she's playing the same game we are. If she came out and said she was an escort, she'd be banned.[/QUOTE]Trust me, I totally get that. Of course she is.

I just think it's hysterical.

[QUOTE=PicHunter;5292070]Seen them a bit before but would like to pin them down. Any guidance on Yourfavorite baby or tequilandtanlines?

Tequilandtanlines.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c6cb3981-35b7-4499-b032-829a9f4bfa9e[/URL]

Yourfavorite baby [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ade55dc5-c145-401b-8127-abce995c2493[/URL].[/QUOTE]Met her for coffee. Much heavier in person. Does not look nearly as good as pics. Cannot believe she has the nerve to say her body is "average". I felt kind of catfished So I offered her less than market value for an arrangement and she got offended. This was about a year ago.

This one came out of the box wanting to text, first red flag. Then sent me a hot pic (attached here) that was TGTBT. Then sent me a link to a site that says it's for group chat, but my pc is pretty well protected, and detected a virus in the little app they want you to run. I would avoid.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3ffca668-decf-4c0c-ac49-7558245afafa[/URL]

[QUOTE=PervNerd48;5292004]To be fair, she's playing the same game we are. If she came out and said she was an escort, she'd be banned.[/QUOTE]I know this isn't my side of the house, but I'd like to add my. 02 on this if I may. I've been wanting to speak this w / out offending the brethrens of this hobby.

After reading many of these profiles it seems that SA allows the ladies to persue their wants and desires w / out consideration of other's. I really don't get how some SDs allow that for themselves, but ok, Whatever.

SURE, it's a dating site. But with the "Seeking" section of SA, these ladies are permitted to voice their terms. But the moment men / SDs try to negotiate or discuss, whether discretely or not-so discretely, they (the ladies) get offended and feel they're not inclined to give as much as they take. It's a 1 way street that guys are forced to drive on.

I suppose the reason for all this is so SA is not labelled another "hooker" site and get under Big Uncles radar such as in the case of BP. I personally believe SA is still a hooker site with men being the ones getting fucked w / out getting fucked. In general, I have more respect for the hoes on STG and those types of "dating" sites than I do with SA-type of sites. At least theres a sense of mutual agreement (tits for tat) -- w / out all the rip-offs of course. LOL.

As for those die-hard SDs who genuinely want to find a girl who they can spoil with monetary gifts or gifts in general w / out expecting nothing in return, more power to them. If that's how they (SDs) want to blow their wad w / out any expectancy of getting their wad blown-- wonderful. All theyve created is a bunch of egotistical money-hungry b!+chest who has no regards of others.

Once again, this is just my. 02. I don't mean to knock any SDs or their lifestyles. I'm sure theres plenty of SDs-SBs relationships that's working for some of ya'll. YES, I DO understand the quality of girls is way better according to some of the reviews I've read. Better looks, better accommodations, and less of the bullshit of that comes with main-stream Mongering. I wish you gents the best of luck and hope none of yall go falling in love w / any of these hoes. HA!

[QUOTE=AMnnos;5292773]I know this isn't my side of the house, but I'd like to add my. 02 on this if I may. I've been wanting to speak this w / out offending the brethrens of this hobby.

After reading many of these profiles it seems that SA allows the ladies to persue their wants and desires w / out consideration of other's. I really don't get how some SDs allow that for themselves, but ok, Whatever.

SURE, it's a dating site. But with the "Seeking" section of SA, these ladies are permitted to voice their terms. But the moment men / SDs try to negotiate or discuss, whether discretely or not-so discretely, they (the ladies) get offended and feel they're not inclined to give as much as they take. It's a 1 way street that guys are forced to drive on.

I suppose the reason for all this is so SA is not labelled another "hooker" site and get under Big Uncles radar such as in the case of BP. I personally believe SA is still a hooker site with men being the ones getting fucked w / out getting fucked. In general, I have more respect for the hoes on STG and those types of "dating" sites than I do with SA-type of sites. At least theres a sense of mutual agreement (tits for tat) -- w / out all the rip-offs of course. LOL.

As for those die-hard SDs who genuinely want to find a girl who they can spoil with monetary gifts or gifts in general w / out expecting nothing in return, more power to them. If that's how they (SDs) want to blow their wad w / out any expectancy of getting their wad blown-- wonderful. All theyve created is a bunch of egotistical money-hungry b!+chest who has no regards of others.

Once again, this is just my. 02. I don't mean to knock any SDs or their lifestyles. I'm sure theres plenty of SDs-SBs relationships that's working for some of ya'll. YES, I DO understand the quality of girls is way better according to some of the reviews I've read. Better looks, better accommodations, and less of the bullshit of that comes with main-stream Mongering. I wish you gents the best of luck and hope none of yall go falling in love w / any of these hoes. HA![/QUOTE]I can understand what you're saying.

In a perfect world, there'd be a higher-end market in Jax. When I lived in the Northeast, there were providers who were middle-to-high end. No IV drug use, even some who didn't smoke tobacco! Or even weed! Actual appointments in clean hotels. They'd screen, but not in a way that made you fear for your anonymity. A clear understanding of what services were and were not provided before you entered the room, and a clear understanding as to the donation. Real efforts at presentation- women that were showered, had makeup but only perfume if you wanted, some nice lingerie. Women that you'd enjoy have a bit of conversation before and after the deed. They didn't have to be 20-year old spinners; these were women between 30 and 50 who understood a man's needs and could make him feel respected in an hour's time.

I've been in Jax for close to two years. If there's a provider out there who actually provides that level of service for an affordable rate, I haven't found it. There's the STG girls, there's a handful of Eros girls who are far beyond my price range and are mostly mysteries. There's a handful of travelers. But there's no group of what I'm providing.

Maybe I'm the anomaly here. I'm not looking to fall in love, but I'd love to be an appreciative customer. No luck yet.

I can promise you that I'm not jacking up the rates, because I honestly haven't found anyone worth jacking the rates up for.

If this belongs somewhere else, I'm happy to move the post. I don't want to violate the rules.

[QUOTE=PervNerd48;5293111]I can understand what you're saying.

In a perfect world, there'd be a higher-end market in Jax. When I lived in the Northeast, there were providers who were middle-to-high end. No IV drug use, even some who didn't smoke tobacco! Or even weed! Actual appointments in clean hotels. They'd screen, but not in a way that made you fear for your anonymity. A clear understanding of what services were and were not provided before you entered the room, and a clear understanding as to the donation. Real efforts at presentation- women that were showered, had makeup but only perfume if you wanted, some nice lingerie. Women that you'd enjoy have a bit of conversation before and after the deed. They didn't have to be 20-year old spinners; these were women between 30 and 50 who understood a man's needs and could make him feel respected in an hour's time.

I've been in Jax for close to two years. If there's a provider out there who actually provides that level of service for an affordable rate, I haven't found it. There's the STG girls, there's a handful of Eros girls who are far beyond my price range and are mostly mysteries. There's a handful of travelers. But there's no group of what I'm providing.

Maybe I'm the anomaly here. I'm not looking to fall in love, but I'd love to be an appreciative customer. No luck yet.

I can promise you that I'm not jacking up the rates, because I honestly haven't found anyone worth jacking the rates up for.

If this belongs somewhere else, I'm happy to move the post. I don't want to violate the rules.[/QUOTE]**Your last paragraph: Nah, you're in the right spot.

I appreciate your reply. Even though it's a different angle from the way I see it, it's still a genuinely honest perspective. Thanks.

[QUOTE=PervNerd48;5293111]I can understand what you're saying.

In a perfect world, there'd be a higher-end market in Jax. When I lived in the Northeast, there were providers who were middle-to-high end. No IV drug use, even some who didn't smoke tobacco! Or even weed! Actual appointments in clean hotels. They'd screen, but not in a way that made you fear for your anonymity. A clear understanding of what services were and were not provided before you entered the room, and a clear understanding as to the donation. Real efforts at presentation- women that were showered, had makeup but only perfume if you wanted, some nice lingerie. Women that you'd enjoy have a bit of conversation before and after the deed. They didn't have to be 20-year old spinners; these were women between 30 and 50 who understood a man's needs and could make him feel respected in an hour's time.

I've been in Jax for close to two years. If there's a provider out there who actually provides that level of service for an affordable rate, I haven't found it. There's the STG girls, there's a handful of Eros girls who are far beyond my price range and are mostly mysteries. There's a handful of travelers. But there's no group of what I'm providing.

Maybe I'm the anomaly here. I'm not looking to fall in love, but I'd love to be an appreciative customer. No luck yet.

I can promise you that I'm not jacking up the rates, because I honestly haven't found anyone worth jacking the rates up for.

If this belongs somewhere else, I'm happy to move the post. I don't want to violate the rules.[/QUOTE]You're not wrong! Before moving here in 2010, I spent 10 yrs in Philly. And it's a WHOLE other world up there. Be it on their versions of BP etc and other sites. And yes even on CL before they got rid of all their 'adult' categories.

It was much easier to find someone you could see regularly without all the bs and nonsense you see here. And all the candy addicted wannabes that are just looking for their next fix, hobby be damned. And who cares who it is or any of the 'details' as long as they get their fix.

It's a much more tiring game here than it is up there. But that's just how it is.

It's truly like living on 2 different planets.

Sure there have been the occasional one here or there from SA that have worked out for a bit. But in the overall grand scheme of things, the two markets are MILES apart. It is what it is.

[QUOTE=Scooter6;5293202]You're not wrong! Before moving here in 2010, I spent 10 yrs in Philly. And it's a WHOLE other world up there. Be it on their versions of BP etc and other sites. And yes even on CL before they got rid of all their 'adult' categories.

It was much easier to find someone you could see regularly without all the bs and nonsense you see here. And all the candy addicted wannabes that are just looking for their next fix, hobby be damned. And who cares who it is or any of the 'details' as long as they get their fix.

It's a much more tiring game here than it is up there. But that's just how it is.

It's truly like living on 2 different planets.

Sure there have been the occasional one here or there from SA that have worked out for a bit. But in the overall grand scheme of things, the two markets are MILES apart. It is what it is.[/QUOTE]A lot of what you describe could be said for Jax 10+ years ago. I think, like everything else, this game just changes over time. I especially hate the OnlyFans effect it's had on the game. Girls that might have otherwise been a provider (even if only occasionally or UTR, etc) now don't have to. They can make as much or more by selling their pics / vids. I still detest SA for allowing them to do it and not really enforcing their rules. But they're always going to take the path of least resistance and do whatever gets them the most traffic. Traffic = revenues. Mr Ward could care less how hard you have to look for a new spinner to spin.

So I found the email seeking sent me notifying me of my account being suspended in my spam mail so I decided to email them back just to find out which message violated the terms and conditions. I had explained to them that the extent of my conversations always confined to the options listed on the site such as no strings attached-discrete-mutually beneficial-meet for dinner / drinks and that if intimacy was ever discussed it had nothing to do with the monetary allowances requested. I recieved a return email that said if I read the terms and conditions again and return an email stating in writing that I acknowledged and would abide by those terms that my account would be reinstated. I did that and my account was reinstated. Still no clue of what message or messages got me suspended in the first place but I figured it best I didn't press to much for an answer. I only have a week left on this membership and probably won't renew for awhile.

[QUOTE=LatinaHunpster;5291760]First let me say I was surprised that they did. But they did. A couple things up front:

*I was accused essentially of offering compensation for action. I try to be careful about that sort of thing, but probably screwed up with somebody I was texting- but had no specific memory of it! I believe they will ban guys after a complaint but no specific evidence.

*I ended up exchanging a couple of emails back and forth with SA about this issue. Ultimately, as a condition of re-instatement the person at SA I had to state in a follow up email that I had re-read the rules and would comply going forward, Easy enough!! Re-instated in 48 hrs.

*Your situation is unique to you so don't write them with exactly what I did, mix it up a little bit with your wording etc.

OK- first, once they deactivate you, you can't just go to their help desk, so you need to address your email to: [EMAIL]support@seeking.com[/EMAIL]. Compose your email from the email address associated with your banned account (so they at least know who it is).

*BTW, I think this is only likely to work if you have been banned VERY RECENTLY. I would suggest you not try it otherwise.

*Here is essentially the Letter I wrote to them:

"To Whom it may concern.

I received an email today telling me that my account was permanently banned for "soliciting sex for compensation". I would like to be provided with some explanation of why this action was taken against my account.

In my profile I had stated that I would like intimacy to be part of an agreement if possible which I believe is probably not an uncommon hope of most men on the site. Additionally, I stated I expected to provide spoiling and an allowance as part of an agreement which I believe most women are expecting on SA. I do not think this means I was "soliciting" or anything of the sort. SA approved my profile so I assumed it was perfectly fine.

Let me finish by saying I have had members on SA who have reacted badly to completely civil conversations if they don't like the exchange, issue an insult and then abruptly block me. My concern is such a person may have made bogus claims to have me removed from SA.

I am hoping this situation can be reviewed and resolved and my account reinstated as soon as possible.

Best regards".

SO THAT'S IT. MIX UP YOUR WORDING IF YOU WRITE THEM. IF A BUNCH OF YOU JUST CUT AND PASTE THIS VER BATIM THEY WILL BE ONTO IT IN NO TIME!!

THEY RESPONDED TO THIS INITIAL QUERY AND WITHIN A FEW EMAILS BACK AND FORTH I HAD MY ACCOUNT REACTIVATED.

Hope this helps someone![/QUOTE]It's been at least a year since SA deleted or whatever my account. Let me see if I can find out what for an maybe bullshit my way back in. Too many girls trying to sell pictures and videos either way.

[QUOTE=Fishguy717;5292751]This one came out of the box wanting to text, first red flag. Then sent me a hot pic (attached here) that was TGTBT. Then sent me a link to a site that says it's for group chat, but my pc is pretty well protected, and detected a virus in the little app they want you to run. I would avoid.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/3ffca668-decf-4c0c-ac49-7558245afafa[/URL][/QUOTE]Hell YEAH I'd pay for that! It's got to be a fake profile.

I got a PM from this lady, and she wanted to know if I was in JAX sometime. Her private photos show a nice, MILF type with what I suspect are not OEM boobs. She said she wanted something that included intimacy and would prefer meeting for lunch than dinner. She preferred to 2-3 hour meet up. I'll admit I am curious.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/528f3e99-d9f4-4ee3-bc72-d8765463ec7c[/URL]

[QUOTE=SkyRyder;5298474]I got a PM from this lady, and she wanted to know if I was in JAX sometime. Her private photos show a nice, MILF type with what I suspect are not OEM boobs. She said she wanted something that included intimacy and would prefer meeting for lunch than dinner. She preferred to 2-3 hour meet up. I'll admit I am curious.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/528f3e99-d9f4-4ee3-bc72-d8765463ec7c[/URL][/QUOTE]The obnoxious drunk🥴🤪 "Meet For Drinks" girl

[QUOTE=PervNerd48;5293111]I can understand what you're saying.

In a perfect world, there'd be a higher-end market in Jax. When I lived in the Northeast, there were providers who were middle-to-high end. No IV drug use, even some who didn't smoke tobacco! Or even weed! Actual appointments in clean hotels. They'd screen, but not in a way that made you fear for your anonymity. A clear understanding of what services were and were not provided before you entered the room, and a clear understanding as to the donation. Real efforts at presentation- women that were showered, had makeup but only perfume if you wanted, some nice lingerie. Women that you'd enjoy have a bit of conversation before and after the deed. They didn't have to be 20-year old spinners; these were women between 30 and 50 who understood a man's needs and could make him feel respected in an hour's time.

I've been in Jax for close to two years. If there's a provider out there who actually provides that level of service for an affordable rate, I haven't found it. There's the STG girls, there's a handful of Eros girls who are far beyond my price range and are mostly mysteries. There's a handful of travelers. But there's no group of what I'm providing.

Maybe I'm the anomaly here. I'm not looking to fall in love, but I'd love to be an appreciative customer. No luck yet.

I can promise you that I'm not jacking up the rates, because I honestly haven't found anyone worth jacking the rates up for.

If this belongs somewhere else, I'm happy to move the post. I don't want to violate the rules.[/QUOTE]When it comes to sex providers I've run the gamut, from high end to low end and everything in between though I personally have never been attracted to the street walking scene, car dates just aren't my style. While all of us are searching for that thing that gets us off, which differs from monger to monger, finding that thing can be an exercise in frustration at times. I can't tell you the money that I've blown through trying to satisfy that urge. When the "right one" comes along, which doesn't happen very often, it's personally worth all the time, money and effort I've put forth. For many of us it's more about the hunt which while trying to find "the one" leads us to see many women, some decent some not so much. But that first encounter always sends a bit of adrenaline coursing through my veins, one vein in particular! That first feeling of satisfaction as my cock is entering their pussy then sometimes again as I'm about to plunge my cock into their asshole is all part and parcel of the game we're all ultimately involved in. Such is the life of a sporting man. JD.

[QUOTE=FunNthaSun;5298146]So I found the email seeking sent me notifying me of my account being suspended in my spam mail so I decided to email them back just to find out which message violated the terms and conditions. I had explained to them that the extent of my conversations always confined to the options listed on the site such as no strings attached-discrete-mutually beneficial-meet for dinner / drinks and that if intimacy was ever discussed it had nothing to do with the monetary allowances requested. I recieved a return email that said if I read the terms and conditions again and return an email stating in writing that I acknowledged and would abide by those terms that my account would be reinstated. I did that and my account was reinstated. Still no clue of what message or messages got me suspended in the first place but I figured it best I didn't press to much for an answer. I only have a week left on this membership and probably won't renew for awhile.[/QUOTE]I think what we are finding out is that they likely re-instate if you send them a query (at least soon after they deactivate you). Which tells me that somebody's "report" or complaint to them is about all it takes to trigger the event in the first place and they do not have the time or inclination to actually "investigate" anything in the first place. It's just a cya business move on their part.

[QUOTE=AMnnos;5298498]The obnoxious drunk🥴🤪 "Meet For Drinks" girl[/QUOTE]The amount quoted seemed a bit steep for only drinks, although she did say she couldn't host. Doesn't sound like a fun afternoon.

[QUOTE=SkyRyder;5298874]The amount quoted seemed a bit steep for only drinks, although she did say she couldn't host. Doesn't sound like a fun afternoon.[/QUOTE]You just have to push through her embarrassing tirade after she's thrown back a couple at like a dinner date. Having seen her a couple times in 2014-2015 *forgot actual years, she was practically just getting drunk for free. April / Summer was pretty hot back then. Don't know how she is now.

Any intel on:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/aeb5230d-bdca-40cc-978c-6ebfb490f29a[/URL]

Or:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d6c6fd7f-03aa-42af-882c-3a1bd31191cb[/URL]

[QUOTE=ArtsLu32;5307030]Any intel on:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/aeb5230d-bdca-40cc-978c-6ebfb490f29a[/URL]

Or:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d6c6fd7f-03aa-42af-882c-3a1bd31191cb[/URL][/QUOTE]Messaged her, but no reply. She does like to advertise her back door tho.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d6c6fd7f-03aa-42af-882c-3a1bd31191cb[/URL]

Texted back and forth and it seemed like it would go somewhere. When it came time to meet up comms went dark. Happened twice. Then agreed to meet up at a coffee shop first. She ghosted me. Three strikes. Should have stopped wasting my time after the first.

[QUOTE=ArtsLu32;5307030]Any intel on:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/aeb5230d-bdca-40cc-978c-6ebfb490f29a[/URL]

Or:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d6c6fd7f-03aa-42af-882c-3a1bd31191cb[/URL][/QUOTE]I've never met her. She messaged me on SA the other day, but my membership expired 3/11. But she's got a recent post on STG. She lost me with the non GFE comment in the ad.

[URL]https://jacksonville.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/redhead-girl-nextdoor/223672578213[/URL]

[QUOTE=HoosierDaddy69;5309578]I've never met her. She messaged me on SA the other day, but my membership expired 3/11. But she's got a recent post on STG. She lost me with the non GFE comment in the ad.

[URL]https://jacksonville.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/redhead-girl-nextdoor/223672578213[/URL][/QUOTE]Interesting. I didn't see that stg post when I searched earlier. I was supposed to meet up with her. She flaked on me a couple times and went comms dark. Waste of time.

This one is in Singapore, trading bitcoin. Plus pic looks a lot younger than 37 years old.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/1406b3de-e0cb-47dd-af95-869c11c5187e[/URL]

I messaged her, and she messaged back immediately, asking to text. Red Flag #1.

She then says she's in a sorority and needs to be discreet. Reminded her she didn't hide her face, and her sorority sisters could see her SA ad if they look. Red Flag #2.

Asked her where she lived, and she replied "Brentwood" - Yeah right. Red Flag #3.

Then I asked for the particular pic to see that she is for real, and crickets since then.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/ab8fde95-4499-4dc9-a5f9-265e3c80d25c[/URL]

Another fake, don't waste your time.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f939dce7-5b36-4416-9c54-ac0c678b25c7[/URL]

[QUOTE=SkyRyder;5298874]The amount quoted seemed a bit steep for only drinks, although she did say she couldn't host. Doesn't sound like a fun afternoon.[/QUOTE]I like April and have seen her for years. She likes to have a couple of cocktails or glasses of wine and then off to the hotel. Soon she will be able to host again. She has never been sloppy drunk with me but does relax some. She is open to wearing sexy outfits and is a sweet lady in my opinion. I have seen her about 10-15 times and never an issue.

Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.

So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.

Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?

Thanks,

DonJon.

[QUOTE=DonJon;5316789]Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.

So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.

Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?

Thanks,

DonJon.[/QUOTE]I experienced that years ago, and just knew that I needed variety. So the only way to combat it is to build up an inventory of different girls, where you can go thru the rotation. Some I see more than others, for sure. But the others, when you only see them 'once in a while' that usually makes it better. Plus a lot of times those girls know they want to see you more often, and will try harder to impress you to make you want to 'come back sooner'.

[QUOTE=Fishguy717;5314159]Another fake, don't waste your time.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f939dce7-5b36-4416-9c54-ac0c678b25c7[/URL][/QUOTE][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f939dce7-5b36-4416-9c54-ac0c678b25c7[/URL]

Her spiel in text:

I want to meet a man who know's what he wants and isn't afriad to go the extra mile for his lady, He's happy to see the beauty in life. I am looking for a man who has experience wih life. I want a Possible SD&SB Relationship.

Because I like older men who know what they want, that's ready and willing to support my dream and Appreciate who I am because I have been taken for granted far too many times, Friday, April 23 2021,6:28 AM.

[QUOTE=DonJon;5316789]Ok, just stick with me here. I've had a good luck streak of 3 VERY hot SB's (19,20, and 23) BUT I keep hitting the same wall. SHIT GETS BORING.

So we start out great. Dinner, sometimes events (topgolf, axe throwing. Etc), and even nice over night hotel stays on the beach. Each time we see each other approx twice a week w / one night being a sleepover. But by approx month 2. I always hit a wall where it just gets boring. Everything, the sex, the meetings, the dinners. Everything boring. I feel bad because they want to continue but I'm just over it. The conversation gets stale and it almost becomes a hassle to meet with them. The only thing that keeps me going is thinking about the work I put in to "catch" them.

Has anyone else experienced this trend? If so, what do you do?

Thanks,

DonJon.[/QUOTE]I'm no longer seeking but IMHO. I like variety, that's why I have previously enjoyed meeting up with some younger women. I usually saw them about 3-4 x for an outing and some playtime before the thrill of a new partner for s*x waned off. They by nature of being quite younger have limited life experiences and therefore provide no intellectual stimulus for me. I also did not feel anytype of ego boost when escorting a young pretty woman on my arm when out in town (I know some mongers do). I liked your comment about the work you put in to "catch" them. The SB also put in effort to "find" you so therefore wants the arrangement to continue.