Small Tip or No Tip or Just the Tip of It?
[QUOTE=SmokeScreen;1767869]This may come as a surprise to some of you but there are more LEGIT spas in Ma than the kind we like. Sounds like ML walked into one of these, thinking he was in one with extras, obviously he was not. When you go to a doctor and a cute nurse walks in, do you ask her to jerk you off too? Of course not, but if you did, don't you think you would get at least a disgusting look. This massuse is just that, a massuse, not a prostitute. If you can remember her name, tell me, and I will get an appointment with her and will report back with my findings.[/QUOTE]Let me think about this. . . Hmmm. If I asked a nurse in a doctor's office to jerk me off, and she responded with a dirty look. Well, what the Hell was I doing asking the nurse to jerk me off? Of course, after passing the nurse.
On the way to the waiting room, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't press a $10 bill into her hand, either.
The nurse analogy isn't quite on point. While all of us have probably fantasized about a cute nurse jerking us off, none of us would. I hope! - visit a doctor's office intending to tip our doctor's nurse $40 for a happy ending. . . Right? My point isn't about.
The expectations of the disappointed client or patient. . . It's about the experience of the worker. Maybe a nurse has to deal with a nutty patient looking for a handjob once a year; but let's be honest, a masseuse at an.
Asian massage parlor is probably asked to provide a handjob by 1 out of every 3 clients. My point is that, as a professional masseuse, this is something she should be experienced in dealing with. (Unless, perhaps, it was this.
Gal's very first day on the job.) Some masseuses will gracefully say, "No, I do not offer that service," and continue with the massage. I suppose it's also in the ballpark for a masseuse to become disgusted, but she should at.
Least have tossed the guy a damp towel to wipe off the oil. He didn't ask her to allow him to anally penetrate her without a condom; he just asked for a handjob. She left him without so much as a fare-thee-well. If she's.
Truly that upset, she might spit at him when he offers her the $10 tip. Heck, if she had remained and finished her massage, I could see him offering her a $20 tip because of the graceful way she handled an awkward.
Situation. A model in a bikini at a convention might expect to have her ass groped a few times by drunken conventioneers. That's wrong, of course, but it's something she should be prepared to deal with. A masseuse at an.
AMP should expect to be propositioned by jerks. Like us. From time to time. If the operation is legit and she doesn't mind losing her tip, then by all means, she should abandon the guy and maybe spit on his unit as she.
Leaves. Or she should decline the office with grace and conclude the massage. But what I think is unreasonable is shorting the guy on time and walking out and leaving him covered in oil.
The client has no right to demand the happy ending. The masseuse. Who, again, is a professional who has surely dealt with this situation before. Has no right to abandon her client AND expect a tip. If the client wants to.
Leave a tip, he can. But in my view, he did nothing wrong by declining to leave a tip.
I can understand the reasoning behind leaving some kind of tip: The masseuse worked on him for 40 minutes, and it was only after his indecent proposal ("indecent" at a legit parlor) that she hurried out of the room. But he.
Didn't get his full money's worth when the masseuse abandoned him and didn't even leave him a way to clean off the oil. He didn't get his money's worth. I'm not talking about the happy ending, either. He was shorted on.
Time. If the masseuse has stayed the full 60 minutes (or 55 minutes) and cleaned him up, sure, she's entitled to a tip the same as any other legitimate masseuse. But it's not a sliding scale, is it? She shorted him on almost.
A third of his time.
Let me suggest this scenario: You visit an AMP. The girl who performs the massage is this really hot young lady who has made teasing skills. She offers a bit of UTC roaming on top and OTC roaming on the bottom. After the.
Flip, she points at your rod and raises her eyebrows as if to ask, "Okay to touch?" and of course you smile and give her the go-ahead. She starts the happy ending and she's doing a great job. You're thinking to yourself.
"The house fee was 50 and I'm definitely leaving this woman a tip of at least 40. " She's continuing with the happy ending and you're getting more and more excited and you lift your head and look up at the clock and notice.
That there are at least 10 minutes left to the half-hour. That's not a problem, because at the rate this gal is pumping you, you're about 30 seconds away from spilling your special blend of coconut milk.
And she stops with no warning. With a good 10 minutes left to the half-hour.
Are you going to tip her the $40 for the abruptly terminated happy ending? Are you going to tip her $39 because she got you most of the way there?
The masseuse walked out on this guy without offering any extra stimulation. That's her right, of course, but it's not her right to expect any tip at all. If she cared enough about a $10 or $20 tip, she could have stayed till the.
End of the hour. If that was too distressing to her, it was her right to leave. IMHO, he was under no obligation to tip her at all. And for the record, I personally would not have insulted her by leaving her a tip of $1. If it was.
Indeed a legit MP, then I can't blame the masseuse for being disgusted and fed up with yet another customer asking him to pump and drain him.
Just my 2 cents.