The Prickyard

[QUOTE=NellsMAll;2884102]If she forgot you were coming. Then wouldn't it have been possible that she could have not been there or been busy. And you could have been greeted by cousins. With bats?[/QUOTE]Nells, I'm not picking on you, your post was handy, so I apologize in advance.

Sasha doesn't have cousins, SO's, BF's, thugs, drug addicts or anyone else waiting around with Bats ready to beat some unsuspecting monger. She had some roommate issues that are taken care of. They battered the place before they left. No hobbyists were present. This is a young woman who works VERY hard to get a very good education and be an extremely productive part of society. If she was my daughter I would be very proud of what she has accomplished with very little support. She is safe and not a drug user, hell she doesn't have time to use drugs even if she wanted to. So that being said, she has a life, can only text at certain times and that's based on her variable work schedule. So no she doesn't have specific hours to meet or even to communicate.

If you didn't like her services then say why, if you did like her service then say why, but cut out the assumptions on things you know nothing about! If you want to respond then please take it to the Prickyard.

[QUOTE=NellsMAll;2884102]If she forgot you were coming. Then wouldn't it have been possible that she could have not been there or been busy. And you could have been greeted by cousins. With bats?[/QUOTE]Two separate issues / thoughts. One she said she forgot and spaced out. Not sure what that was all about since we had good communication all afternoon. No issues at all so I was confused by that "spaced out" comment she made. Two, during the dream she made comments about her roommates / friends (I thought she said cousins but I could be wrong) that knocked holes in the walls, etc. I thought afterwards that could possibly be an extra risk to us hobbyist but I suppose any incall has its risks.

Again I will likely see her again. She is super hot, cool chick. I need to see if I can bottom out in that tiny girl.

[QUOTE=Chelli4me;2885062]Biology. Most men are not sexually attracted to obese women. I'm sure the opposite is true as well. I did not see this gal but if she was that big I know I would not be interested in seeing her. Whatever it is that any one person finds sexually attractive about another person it is based on pre-programmed wiring when born. You may not have liked the way the post was worded but that doesn't change the science of sexual attractiveness.[/QUOTE]In one level I can agree with you. There are certain body types which don't appeal to me.

However, the hardwired at birth remark is just nonsense. My preferences have changed many times during my life. My tastes have run the spectrum.

Just because someone doesn't appeal to me, even if I consider them disgusting, it's no reason to rip them apart based on my likes. There's no need to be insulting about the woman.

[QUOTE=Jjbee62;2885169]In one level I can agree with you. There are certain body types which don't appeal to me.

However, the hardwired at birth remark is just nonsense. My preferences have changed many times during my life. My tastes have run the spectrum.

Just because someone doesn't appeal to me, even if I consider them disgusting, it's no reason to rip them apart based on my likes. There's no need to be insulting about the woman.[/QUOTE]Exactly! I believe that's all Sara was trying to point out. No matter how many "excuses"or "reasons" he wants to give its still rude and not understanding how it's not? I believe we all have common sense? Maybe? I agree everyone has their own type. And that's ok. That is what makes the world go around. NO ONE is hard wired at birth of whom they are attracted to. I certainly wasn't attracted to bald men or find salt and gray hair sexy at the age of 18 . LOL. Point is. Everyone is going to criticize but there is a thing called being tactful regardless of what area of the forum you visit.

[QUOTE=Mmgeg;2885281]Exactly! I believe that's all Sara was trying to point out. No matter how many "excuses"or "reasons" he wants to give its still rude and not understanding how it's not? I believe we all have common sense? Maybe? I agree everyone has their own type. And that's ok. That is what makes the world go around. NO ONE is hard wired at birth of whom they are attracted to. I certainly wasn't attracted to bald men or find salt and gray hair sexy at the age of 18 . LOL. Point is. Everyone is going to criticize but there is a thing called being tactful regardless of what area of the forum you visit.[/QUOTE]There's tons of men that prefer women to have actual curves and not resemble a prepubescent boy. I also like my men with salt and pepper hair and at least 40 years old LOL.

[QUOTE=Jjbee62;2885169]In one level I can agree with you. There are certain body types which don't appeal to me.

However, the hardwired at birth remark is just nonsense. My preferences have changed many times during my life. My tastes have run the spectrum.

Just because someone doesn't appeal to me, even if I consider them disgusting, it's no reason to rip them apart based on my likes. There's no need to be insulting about the woman.[/QUOTE]Excellent post, Jjbee. In the hobby, there are a lot of likes and dislikes and it'd really behoove everyone to just live and let live and not get so insulting about tastes. I'd take Ashley Graham over any woman alive, and don't understand the fascination with 85 lb prepubescent looking drug addicts advertising on BP, but I don't spend all day ripping on guys for wanting their little spinners.

Different strokes for different folks, and hopefully lots of strokes. And let's save the insults for the guys and gals that do the stupid stuff like rip people off or beat up providers. They're the scumbags.

[QUOTE=Mwdude;2885491]Excellent post, Jjbee. In the hobby, there are a lot of likes and dislikes and it'd really behoove everyone to just live and let live and not get so insulting about tastes. I'd take Ashley Graham over any woman alive, and don't understand the fascination with 85 lb prepubescent looking drug addicts advertising on BP, but I don't spend all day ripping on guys for wanting their little spinners.

Different strokes for different folks, and hopefully lots of strokes. And let's save the insults for the guys and gals that do the stupid stuff like rip people off or beat up providers. They're the scumbags.[/QUOTE]Mwdude, you are suggesting something of value be reported. Silly you. When impd was posting on their wall I was shocked about how many looked like their mug shots had been pulled from the "faces of meth" page. Many were SW but I guess if the chick's head is buried in your crotch in a back alley you don't notice as much and I'm sure the meth itch at least keeps it lively.

[QUOTE=Gogetter32;2885019]I saw that same person, dirty lookin with a tattoo on the forearm. Just Gross. However not a bad looking older blonde curly hair making it obvious she was working and probably jacked up also the way she was swinging her arms and shaking her ass down close to the bank, I turned around at Kroger for a better look and someone had swooped her up![/QUOTE]To call someone nasty is mean. Perhaps in this case if she indeed was dirty looking and drugged out then nasty may have been appropriate. Nasty due strictly to size is really just a personal opinion and not a useful fact. In fact, most larger women in this business take extra effort to ensure they are exceptionally clean.

If someone isn't of your taste, simply look away. The great thing about the hobby for the client is you have a choice of who you see. For the provider, we don't know if we are going to be pleasantly surprised or utterly disgusted the first and maybe only time you come to your door.

It's not necessarily about the size hon but how the person carries themselves. If you read through the reviews of larger women, they are usually pretty good reviews and rarely a complaint regarding service. Hell, they're big so they probably won't cash and dash you. So hon, next time Miss meth head of the week and her skinny little ass are giving that mechanical unenthusiastic rush handjob, just realize that some other dude is getting his best BBBJ from a chick with a little meat on her bones.

Just saying.

[QUOTE=Sara8032;2885558]It's not necessarily about the size hon but how the person carries themselves. If you read through the reviews of larger women, they are usually pretty good reviews and rarely a complaint regarding service. Hell, they're big so they probably won't cash and dash you. So hon, next time Miss meth head of the week and her skinny little ass are giving that mechanical unenthusiastic rush handjob, just realize that some other dude is getting his best BBBJ from a chick with a little meat on her bones.

Just saying.[/QUOTE]Amen sister! I have meat on my bones and I'm the top provider in South Bend because I provide the best service and guys know they'll leave smiling ear to ear and barely able to walk! If you think you need a spinner to have a kick ass service you're dead wrong. Ask IndyGuy and Noobie. This thick ass girl left them unable to walk and sweating bullets.

[QUOTE=XNatalieX;2885339]There's tons of men that prefer women to have actual curves and not resemble a prepubescent boy. I also like my men with salt and pepper hair and at least 40 years old LOL.[/QUOTE]Is this reverse body shaming? I have heard, let's just call them better endowed women compare thin (aka spinners in this world) to prepubescent boys or simply calling them sticks. It's no better than the former being referred to as fat in a disparaging manner. But I doubt any progressives are going to take up this cause as it seems to be ok to bash those perceived as advantaged in society.

P.S. Natalie you are the cat's meow! Judging only by your gorgeous picture as I have yet to have the pleasure in person. This needs to change soon!

I love ice cream. All different flavors from vanilla, chocolate, Asian style, and that Latin fried kind. It is all good. I do like some better than others, but overall I enjoy them all. I have a friend and he likes nuts on his ice cream, I have never found that appealing but he does. I like the low fat, regular and even the extra rich ones that have added fat in them. I have always wanted to try a double scoop, and hopefully Mmgeg will help me out with that. Speaking of which, she loves popsicles, which I definitely don't have a taste for. Everyone has a taste they enjoy. One thing I don't like is hearing how some people think different flavors or types sound disgusting. Unless you have tasted it I don't really value your opinion. So I keep hearing about different flavors and people saying that you would have to pay them to try that flavor. Why? Try it, you just might enjoy it.

If that was too vague for you, then try this. It is not open mic night on here, if you want to be a heckler then go to a comedy club. I enjoy seeing honest reviews, but insults don't help. I can see you not finding someone attractive, but to belittle them does no good. That provider may be on here or have friends on here that are going to remember how much you ranted about that person. I am not just talking about making fun of unattractive women, bigger women, or older women. Even saying the thin spinners look like drug addicts does not help either. By no means am I a sensitive person that wants this to be a "safe space", but you don't need to Richard Cranium all the time.

Discretion- the quality of behaving or speaking in such a way as to avoid causing offense or revealing private information.

Synonyms: Circumspection, carefulness, caution, wariness, chariness, guardedness; TACT, tactfulness, diplomacy, delicacy, sensitivity, prudence, judiciousness.

Tact-Adroitness and sensitivity in dealing with others or with difficult issues.

This post will likely get its handful of responses and many people will not like this but I quite frankly don't care. Several of our members need to read the definitions above and go back to school on how to apply this in their dealings with other people. By the way, note the double meaning of discretion. In the last month or so, we have had two instances of mongers basically causing a raucous on the board because they said or did something that one or more of us did not agree with. In both of those instances, no one was being insulted when it started. Well that is exactly what you are doing when some of the completely unnecessary comments or poorly chosen words are used on this forum. Although this forum has a purpose that is directed towards mongers, we all know there are providers that read it. A handful of them are actively involved in our communications but there are more that lurk in the shadows and do not post. Some members think that the mongers are always right and can say anything. Well I do not see any of you complaining for the ladies that are on here that will use this forum as a screening device. Here is a clue guys. I know more than one lady that reads this forum and has put you on their personal blacklist based on your comments that are rude even when the comments did not apply to them. These same providers have black listed clients that they previously have seen and liked as your comments have changed their opinion of you. Why? Because they want to see clients who know how to treat providers. It is only those providers that are feeding habits that truly do not care. If that is what you want, be my guest. The rest of the quality providers normally do not have problems filling up their schedule and many times can be selective of who they choose to see.

Several local providers including KitKat, Janelle, and Sara all fall under this category and follow this forum but I remember nothing but good reviews by anyone who has seen them. If a provider advertises somewhere and is not honest about herself, by all means report on it so fellow members know the honest description of a provider they may be considering. "She advertises as an athletic build but the pictures are a few years old and is she is 30-40 lbs heavier than advertised. " That is what is needed. It is factual and objective. I do not see any of you complaining when one of those ladies is providing information to the forum to help keep guys safe.

Blondes? Brunettes? Redheads? Tall? Short? Younger? Older? Thin? Curvy? We all have our preferences of our types of desired partners whether you are a male or a female. We all know I like redheads but it is far from a requirement. Other than that, I do not really care. I don't care if she is a spinner or a bbw. Would it make me any less of a man or a monger if I said I liked older redheads or young brunettes? It is all preference. See those that you like and report back here so others with similar tastes can benefit. However, cut out the editorial comments that do not benefit anyone. It did not take very long in this hobby to learn that attitude by a provider goes further than anything. Would you prefer a thinner provider with GPS and a bad attitude or a larger woman with a great attitude that truly makes you feel like you are the center of their universe? If you answer the prior, I suggest you explore other options in your own choices even if it is just for a single provider and appointment to see if you agree. Need I remind you that most (not all) of those little spinners in this hobby are that way because of pharmaceutical issues?

This all sums up to one thing that most of us learned as a young child. If you do not have anything nice (or productive) to say, don't say anything at all.

Sincerely Signed,

Gladly The Biggest Prick in the Yard.

[QUOTE=LancePkrbttm;2885735]Is this reverse body shaming? I have heard, let's just call them better endowed women compare thin (aka spinners in this world) to prepubescent boys or simply calling them sticks. It's no better than the former being referred to as fat in a disparaging manner. But I doubt any progressives are going to take up this cause as it seems to be ok to bash those perceived as advantaged in society.

P.S. Natalie you are the cat's meow! Judging only by your gorgeous picture as I have yet to have the pleasure in person. This needs to change soon![/QUOTE]I like girls with curves and spinners like Sabrina from Cali, so I guess that makes me a pedophile?

And weakness from good "service" makes me glad I no longer need my "meds" to get wood Gosh ladies my first POA was right The biggest sex organ is on your shoulders Thanks for a "blow by blow" description of things to cum: P).

[QUOTE=IndyGuy123;2886116]
This all sums up to one thing that most of us learned as a young child. If you do not have anything nice (or productive) to say, don't say anything at all.

Sincerely Signed,

Gladly The Biggest Prick in the Yard.[/QUOTE]Let me know where to buy you a beer.

[QUOTE=XNatalieX;2885689]Amen sister! I have meat on my bones and I'm the top provider in South Bend because I provide the best service and guys know they'll leave smiling ear to ear and barely able to walk! If you think you need a spinner to have a kick ass service you're dead wrong. Ask IndyGuy and Noobie. This thick ass girl left them unable to walk and sweating bullets.[/QUOTE]I plead the 5th. These are all dreams so none of it really ever happened and I can deny all I want. The only thing I will admit to is my appreciation for the invention of cruise control and electrolyte enfused beverages.

Sincerely Signed,

Oh what was it? Somehow I can even remember.

[QUOTE=Untchbl;2886104]I love ice cream. All different flavors from vanilla, chocolate, Asian style, and that Latin fried kind. It is all good. I do like some better than others, but overall I enjoy them all. I have a friend and he likes nuts on his ice cream, I have never found that appealing but he does. I like the low fat, regular and even the extra rich ones that have added fat in them. I have always wanted to try a double scoop, and hopefully Mmgeg will help me out with that. Speaking of which, she loves popsicles, which I definitely don't have a taste for. Everyone has a taste they enjoy. One thing I don't like is hearing how some people think different flavors or types sound disgusting. Unless you have tasted it I don't really value your opinion. So I keep hearing about different flavors and people saying that you would have to pay them to try that flavor. Why? Try it, you just might enjoy it.

If that was too vague for you, then try this. It is not open mic night on here, if you want to be a heckler then go to a comedy club. I enjoy seeing honest reviews, but insults don't help. I can see you not finding someone attractive, but to belittle them does no good. That provider may be on here or have friends on here that are going to remember how much you ranted about that person. I am not just talking about making fun of unattractive women, bigger women, or older women. Even saying the thin spinners look like drug addicts does not help either. By no means am I a sensitive person that wants this to be a "safe space", but you don't need to Richard Cranium all the time.[/QUOTE]May have to help you with that Aim to please.

Now. All this ice cream and Popsicle talk I may have to go thru the drive thru at DQ. LOL.

This piece was posted about 2 years ago on ISG (the USA international version). Today, someone else quoted it as the best post he's ever seen.

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"all women are working girls. keep in mind that i consider female anger to be the weather vane of truth and wisdom. when a woman finally has a heart attack after reading something i've written, i'm going to start calling myself buddha. king buddha. that's why no women are allowed to read this. women know themselves almost as well as i know them. they know they're prone to emotion and anger, and they know they're all working girls. that's why they get so goddamn upset when i say it. to a woman, calling attention to her innate prostitution is more true than anything else i could possibly say. but that's only because women understand math and science about as far as a dog can shit. women crave money because they don't have things like purple hearts, fist fights, and prom queens. they have nothing to validate their self-worth except how much a man will pay for access to their vagina. that's why they spend money like it's poison. the albatross of a 100 dollar bill is nothing but shame to a woman. it is a constant reminder of her nature. all women are working girls. and that's human nature. men exchange our body parts for money as well, except our 'vagina' is our man-brain, and when we're done letting the world use it, cancer is cured, slavery is abolished, or something awesome like the `77 chevelle is invented. also, once a man lets someone inside his valuable body part, they don't start thinking of their ex-girlfriend or how to get inside for less money next time. you can't cure small pox with a vagina. all girlfriends are working girls. that's why there's a valentine's day. all wives are working girls. that's why car leases expire in 16 months instead of 12. it takes 16 months for suv roofies to wear off. all business women are working girls. if i get a free steak at morton's because i told them i was tom selleck which would be easy to do because i also have a manmazing mustache, i would go to jail for fraud. every woman who's ever gotten a promotion in any business, got there because of fraud. her miniskirt wrote a check for sex that the vagina bank had no intention of cashing. or maybe she did cash it. my point is, all women are working girls, and the last thing men want is a working girl who doesn't know how to do her job. when men sell body parts, we're called engineers or nfl linebackers. when women do it, they're called prostitutes. it's as simple as an anniversary bouquet or a 'free lunch'. there's no such thing as a 'free lunch', there's only prostitution you buy in installments. women are like pre-paid cell phones you can use with your dick. i have no problem with working girls. in fact, i love them. prostitution and monkey-sh*t is why we're all here today but men are why vaccines and plasma tvs are here. if it were possible to respect a woman, i might even respect one who knew what she was and embraced it, instead of drowning her shame in designer handbags and abusive boyfriends. i'm not going to stop using a perfectly accurate term just because it's upsetting to women. holding your tongue because it upsets women is a slippery slope that ends in your penis getting cut off. besides, the only real reason women hate being called 'working girls' is the same reason they hate beer: they're fucking stupid. indiana jones was a box-office smash because all men are clever, resilient, and bad-ass mavericks. jaws was a success because all men could fuck up a shark with their bear hands. pretty woman was a success because all women are working girls. imagine a movie that featured you kicking hitler's balls so hard, you traveled back in time and fucked heidi klum the day before her 18th birthday. that's basically the film pretty woman: every woman's ultimate fantasy."[/QUOTE]What a sad and pathetic excuse for a human being. Not only does he have a hatred for all women, but he can't even get his facts straight. He's probably never heard of Marie Curie (first person to win 2 Nobel Prizes), Lise Meitner (instrumental in the discovery of nuclear fission) or Grace Hopper, (created the first computer compiler, developed COBOL, the first high level computer language, instrumental in the development of DARPANET, which became the internet). Hell, the idiot even raves about the 1977 Chevelle, which was the worst Chevelle ever made.

It disgusts me that people like this still exist. How do you grow up with such a fucked up attitude? How does he make it through a single day?

I can't even work up a good rant over this. I can just shake my head.

[QUOTE=Jjbee62;2886556]This piece was posted about 2 years ago on ISG (the USA international version). Today, someone else quoted it as the best post he's ever seen.

What a sad and pathetic excuse for a human being. Not only does he have a hatred for all women, but he can't even get his facts straight. He's probably never heard of Marie Curie (first person to win 2 Nobel Prizes), Lise Meitner (instrumental in the discovery of nuclear fission) or Grace Hopper, (created the first computer compiler, developed COBOL, the first high level computer language, instrumental in the development of DARPANET, which became the internet). Hell, the idiot even raves about the 1977 Chevelle, which was the worst Chevelle ever made.

It disgusts me that people like this still exist. How do you grow up with such a fucked up attitude? How does he make it through a single day?

I can't even work up a good rant over this. I can just shake my head.[/QUOTE]It's called small penis syndrome. I could go into all the medical mumbo jumbo but really here's the facts. The Smaller your dick is. The bigger the asshole you are. Got to compensate somehow. Just saying.

Its probably a good thing this asshole never met me. LOL I'm the complete opposite of what he thinks us "working women " are. At Jjbee62 . No rant needed on this one. Would not even waste my breath.

[QUOTE=Mmgeg;2886246]May have to help you with that Aim to please.

Now. All this ice cream and Popsicle talk I may have to go thru the drive thru at DQ. LOL.[/QUOTE]"banana splits" with cream areso much better and divine to the taste and consumption. Bring your own cream for the topping.

[QUOTE=Jjbee62;2886556]I can't even work up a good rant over this. I can just shake my head.[/QUOTE]Because there will always be those that believe in what he says. Pure evil does not just come from the Dahmer's of this world. Like Dahmer, evil is sometimes innate within the human soul and something that was not developed by outside influences, the so called bad apple. What's way scarier are those that learn it from their parents or friends, it's taught and supported at home. This type of evil is the worst type because it can be spread by charismatic intelligent humans who know how to manipulate and extend their warped and evil rationale to others. You saw this type of evil in the guy that quoted it stating it was the best post he has ever seen. I guarantee you that in some way they shared the same external influences that shaped their thought process. Now that's scary because it's still out there!

People like what they like and not attracted to others. No right or wrong. Just science. I don't "have" to have a spinner but my likes favor that body type. Since you never know what you're going to get with a provider, I see nothing wrong with seeking out someone that gets your blood flowing just by looking at her. At least that way if you start a session by being visually aroused you stand a better chance of the whole thing going well. On the other side of that I've had gals that just knocked my socks off visually but had such poor skills it wasn't worth seeing them. Bottom line, you all can discuss this all you want but nothing anyone SAYS changes the fact that sexual attractiveness is based on science / biology / chemistry.

[QUOTE=Chelli4me;2886823]People like what they like and not attracted to others. No right or wrong. Just science. I don't "have" to have a spinner but my likes favor that body type. Since you never know what you're going to get with a provider, I see nothing wrong with seeking out someone that gets your blood flowing just by looking at her. At least that way if you start a session by being visually aroused you stand a better chance of the whole thing going well. On the other side of that I've had gals that just knocked my socks off visually but had such poor skills it wasn't worth seeing them. Bottom line, you all can discuss this all you want but nothing anyone SAYS changes the fact that sexual attractiveness is based on science / biology / chemistry.[/QUOTE]No one is saying you can't like spinners. The point they are making is you just don't need to be demeaning or insulting if the provider's body type is not to your liking.

[QUOTE=Chelli4me;2886823] Bottom line, you all can discuss this all you want but nothing anyone SAYS changes the fact that sexual attractiveness is based on science / biology / chemistry.[/QUOTE]You left out a few very important things, like socialisation, past experiences and personal growth, not to mention personal priorities.

For most of us, what we are attracted to changes throughout our lives. This is partly due to the changing drives and imperatives as we pass from puberty to old age. Positive and negative experiences with women, especially at a very young age, have a much greater effect on how we view women throughout our lives, than our genetic code. The most that genes give us is a predisposition, our growth is what determines our actual desires.

Add to the mix your personal priorities. If her personal hygiene is bad, I don't care what she looks like, any lust just shriveled up and crawled away. If she's stupid (which is not the same as uneducated or ignorant) or hateful, I can maybe put up with it in a dom / sub encounter, as the Dom.

It's much more complex than simple chemistry.

Thank you Freckle Freak, coming from the King Prick. I take that as a complement. I can't be the 10th guy that lies, because this fat, ugly old guy can't remember shit! So I'm not able to lie.

BG,

[QUOTE=FreckleFreak;2884573]Natalie told me you were a 7-1/2, maybe an 8 at best, but certainly not a ten! Why would you even think that?[/QUOTE]

Hope I didn't start all this, I didn't mean to talk about anyone's size or taste, it was a fucking joke, Haha. I'm an out of shape, fat, old, ugly man. Not bald though, some might even say hairy.

I have been with every size and shape woman and color. I love them all! The worst I've had was wonderful! I'm a sucker for a round full ass. I'm just thankful for the beautiful, sweet, smart, funny, kind, sexy, women that offer this service so an asshole like me can enjoy what pleasures a woman can show a man. I have found those that I do not care to see (I hate what happens to some of these Ladies, its sad) drugs & pimps.

Thank you to all you sweeties!

BG,

Play safe, have fun, give and get respect, do your research, find some crazy good and TPHFB!

[QUOTE=Sara8032;2886887]No one is saying you can't like spinners. The point they are making is you just don't need to be demeaning or insulting if the provider's body type is not to your liking.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Sara8032;2886887]No one is saying you can't like spinners. The point they are making is you just don't need to be demeaning or insulting if the provider's body type is not to your liking.[/QUOTE]Chose to ignore it. I, or you, can no more change someone's behavior than we can the weather. But I'd be willing to bet if you had not responded at all to the original post that offended you that discussion probably would have ended right there. Additionally, as we all know, there is an ignore feature here. You are free to block any members posts that you don't want to see.

[QUOTE=Chelli4me;2887077]Chose to ignore it. I, or you, can no more change someone's behavior than we can the weather. But I'd be willing to bet if you had not responded at all to the original post that offended you that discussion probably would have ended right there. Additionally, as we all know, there is an ignore feature here. You are free to block any members posts that you don't want to see.[/QUOTE]Pretty wrong of that one. SHE wasn't that ONLY one that responded to what you posted. I guess if you would of NOT said the nonsense of people are born and "hard wired " whom they are attracted to. Perhaps THAT conversation would of ended. The other about being rude about how people describe someone simply would NOT of. OBVIOUSLY. Sara wasn't the only ONE with a problem and it needed to be addressed. So additionally as you said there is an ignore feature. YOU are free to block anytime.

[QUOTE=Mmgeg;2887433]Pretty wrong of that one. SHE wasn't that ONLY one that responded to what you posted. I guess if you would of NOT said the nonsense of people are born and "hard wired " whom they are attracted to. Perhaps THAT conversation would of ended. The other about being rude about how people describe someone simply would NOT of. OBVIOUSLY. Sara wasn't the only ONE with a problem and it needed to be addressed. So additionally as you said there is an ignore feature. YOU are free to block anytime.[/QUOTE]Sexual attractiveness that is. Call it nonsense but it is what it is. Science. And thank-you for pointing out I can use the ignore button, too. I have ignored many people over the years. Usually tho because they have directly attacked me for some reason or another not because I disagree with their opinion. And no, it did not "need" to be addressed. A member stated and opinion, rude or not, it was just that. His opinion. Sara took offense to it. So fucking what! There's a lot of posts on here I think are bullshit, I don't voice my opinion about very many of them because opinions are just that. You don't agree, fine. Doesn't mean I'm wrong because you, or anyone, doesn't agree with me. So, what is the point of all this? Did Sara accomplish anything by stating her opinion of that post? Other than a thread of discussion here, no.

I know the person she was offended by. Her opinion of his post is irrelavent to him. It won't change the way he thinks. Hell, an army of psychologists wouldn't be able to accomplish that.

[QUOTE=Chelli4me;2888138]Sexual attractiveness that is. Call it nonsense but it is what it is. Science. And thank-you for pointing out I can use the ignore button, too. I have ignored many people over the years. Usually tho because they have directly attacked me for some reason or another not because I disagree with their opinion. And no, it did not "need" to be addressed. A member stated and opinion, rude or not, it was just that. His opinion. Sara took offense to it. So fucking what! There's a lot of posts on here I think are bullshit, I don't voice my opinion about very many of them because opinions are just that. You don't agree, fine. Doesn't mean I'm wrong because you, or anyone, doesn't agree with me. So, what is the point of all this? Did Sara accomplish anything by stating her opinion of that post? Other than a thread of discussion here, no.

I know the person she was offended by. Her opinion of his post is irrelavent to him. It won't change the way he thinks. Hell, an army of psychologists wouldn't be able to accomplish that.[/QUOTE]So which specific area of science does an individual's sexual desirability fall in, and where can I find the testing documentation that defines what causes one person to like spinners and another person to like BBWs? And how do sexual fetishes relate to the science of individual desirability?

Probably less science than simply that people tend to like what they like. If there were more predictability as to what that is, it might be considered science. In reality, the science aspect is most related to how a majority of a population can be manipulated into believing what a desirable ideal is, because today's Victoria's Secret models may have been considered sickly 100 years ago.

Every so often when I awake in the morning, I feel a bit sad. Most times I'm not sure why, and eventually I begin to smile. But not today. I wasn't sure why I felt this way. After overworking my tiny brain as to why, I had almost given up. But I noticed the date, and it all became very clear. Many years ago when I was a small boy, I had a dog. His name was Gator. My father had named him after Burt Reynolds character in the movie White Lightning. Gator was the same kind of dog as Lassie. Even looked the same. Gator and I did everything together. He was truly my best friend. Well on this day 40 years ago, I was enjoying the sunshine, and polishing my new BMX bike. Gator was at my side. My mother had brought out some freshly sliced cantaloupe, which I really liked to eat. As I sat and chewed my delicious snack, I decided to share it with my faithful friend. Gator took a liking to his new treat. But as we consumed our wonderful meal together, something tragic happened. Gator began to choke. Being a child, I wasn't sure what to do. I neither knew about the Heimlich maneuver, or if it would have even helped. As poor Gator gasped for air, I just froze. And a short moment later, he had passed. I had lost my best friend. To this day, I still blame myself for his death. As the years pass me by, the pain lessens, but the little guy will always be in my mind.

Well, enough of my melon collie stories. Go out and enjoy your day!

[QUOTE=Kyussfan;2888255]Every so often when I awake in the morning, I feel a bit sad. Most times I'm not sure why, and eventually I begin to smile. But not today. I wasn't sure why I felt this way. After overworking my tiny brain as to why, I had almost given up. But I noticed the date, and it all became very clear. Many years ago when I was a small boy, I had a dog. His name was Gator. My father had named him after Burt Reynolds character in the movie White Lightning. Gator was the same kind of dog as Lassie. Even looked the same. Gator and I did everything together. He was truly my best friend. Well on this day 40 years ago, I was enjoying the sunshine, and polishing my new BMX bike. Gator was at my side. My mother had brought out some freshly sliced cantaloupe, which I really liked to eat. As I sat and chewed my delicious snack, I decided to share it with my faithful friend. Gator took a liking to his new treat. But as we consumed our wonderful meal together, something tragic happened. Gator began to choke. Being a child, I wasn't sure what to do. I neither knew about the Heimlich maneuver, or if it would have even helped. As poor Gator gasped for air, I just froze. And a short moment later, he had passed. I had lost my best friend. To this day, I still blame myself for his death. As the years pass me by, the pain lessens, but the little guy will always be in my mind.

Well, enough of my melon collie stories. Go out and enjoy your day![/QUOTE]I didn't even feel it going in but that hook hurt like hell coming out!

Offended. I'm not saying I was personally offended guys, just that I found the comments offensive. There's a difference. The comments were not directed at me. That would have been different. There's been a couple of times that rudeass comments were directed towards me with the most recent I recall being January 5th there's about. Those sting but yet simply reflect on the character of the original poster, not my character. Some like them tall, some like them short, some like them thin, some like them thick. It's a no biggie. Let's just put this all to a rest and get back to some safe and fun hobbying.

[QUOTE=Chelli4me;2888138]Sexual attractiveness that is. Call it nonsense but it is what it is. Science. And thank-you for pointing out I can use the ignore button, too. I have ignored many people over the years. Usually tho because they have directly attacked me for some reason or another not because I disagree with their opinion. And no, it did not "need" to be addressed. A member stated and opinion, rude or not, it was just that. His opinion. Sara took offense to it. So fucking what! There's a lot of posts on here I think are bullshit, I don't voice my opinion about very many of them because opinions are just that. You don't agree, fine. Doesn't mean I'm wrong because you, or anyone, doesn't agree with me. So, what is the point of all this? Did Sara accomplish anything by stating her opinion of that post? Other than a thread of discussion here, no.

I know the person she was offended by. Her opinion of his post is irrelavent to him. It won't change the way he thinks. Hell, an army of psychologists wouldn't be able to accomplish that.[/QUOTE]Oh you had me at Debate.

Now I know that I'm supposed play this role of " looking good " and "playing dumb" but just like my sarcastic nature I simply can not ignore a good debate right?? So.

(Sigh) So let me clue you in on a few things. First the ONLY scientific link to attraction / compatibility is in major histocompatibility complex' (MHC), (look it up, it's fascinating) which plays a role in both reproduction and the immune system. NOW if you want to look at the psychological impact and again "not hard wired " then we can explore that as well. Several factors. We are attracted to people that have a similar look to our parents. Hair and eye color and even personality. Now since you rarely partake in activities that you would be able to appreciate a providers personality that does not apply to you.

It's is in a sub-conscious state. Whether we are attracted to long hair or short, blonde, burnette or the famous red hair, blue, hazel or brown eyes, tall or short, thin, athletic, or bigger. As we get older our brains evolve (so that blows your theory of being "hard-wired at birth) . What we were attracted to say at the age of 16 we certainly are not attracted to at the age of 30 or even 40 .

Now you see you asked a question about a provider having an issue with this and in your words what does it fucking matter or so what? Well it does for one. Actually it matters to most providers since she wasn't the only provider OR member that had issue with let me say this again since you haven't gotten it yet: Ready? It wasn't about who anyone is attracted to or not. It's the way it was described. It was the way that in a disrespectful manner including yourself described woman. Hell we all can have our opinions and judgements. That's a given. NO-ONE had a issue with that! It was how it was presented. I just merely among others pointed out your misleading statements. I just took a step further, dug out my thesis and re-visited factual representation of what's Scientific and what's Psychological.

Like I said I love a good debate. Now the only thing I will close on is this. We all don't like everyone and have preferences but the way it was handled was in a disrespectful manner and I will say this. There are several that find Intel that is shared so that we all know and can be safe. We never want to burn any of those bridges and we never know who has that insight. We all can agree to disagree. But getting aggressive and being an ass (just in general not directed to you as much) is not debatable. Now hopefully this can be put to rest and onto something more in a positive nature. (sigh) I like being sarcastic not bitchy.

[QUOTE=FreckleFreak;2884609]Nells, I'm not picking on you, your post was handy, so I apologize in advance.

Sasha doesn't have cousins, SO's, BF's, thugs, drug addicts or anyone else waiting around with Bats ready to beat some unsuspecting monger. She had some roommate issues that are taken care of. They battered the place before they left. No hobbyists were present. This is a young woman who works VERY hard to get a very good education and be an extremely productive part of society. If she was my daughter I would be very proud of what she has accomplished with very little support. She is safe and not a drug user, hell she doesn't have time to use drugs even if she wanted to. So that being said, she has a life, can only text at certain times and that's based on her variable work schedule. So no she doesn't have specific hours to meet or even to communicate.

If you didn't like her services then say why, if you did like her service then say why, but cut out the assumptions on things you know nothing about! If you want to respond then please take it to the Prickyard.[/QUOTE]Nells, have you ever actually seen Sasha or been to her incall? Did you contact her at a time of day that she would have been awake?

You seem to be very interested in knocking a girl down because you didn't like how she communicated and what someone else said. As FF said, you don't really know ANYTHING about her or her incall.

An on another note, FF's is right, she does have a life and this is one small part of it.

As for the incall and thugs with baseball bats, I noticed a hole in a bed platform leaning against the wall. I asked "what happened, was someone jumping on the bed"?

She said "no, it was a baseball bat-- they don't live here anymore". Problem solved.

The only reason why it is there is probably because it was too heavy for this tiny little lady to take down the stairs herself.

The hole in the wall in the playroom wall wasn't from a baseball bat, it was from the door knob hitting the wall. Who hasn't seen that before?

I didn't see any holes anywhere else, but admittedly, I didn't get a tour of the place either.

So for the sake of your credibility, stick to the facts please.

Ah hell, you boys went and woke the sleeping dragon. I'm grabbin' some popcorn and puttin' on my seatbelt. Here's where the movies about to get good.

[QUOTE=Kyussfan;2888729]Ah hell, you boys went and woke the sleeping dragon. I'm grabbin' some popcorn and puttin' on my seatbelt. Here's where the movies about to get good.[/QUOTE]Sleeping dragon? Oh honey I'm always alert. LOL. Nope I think the issue hopefully is put to bed I prefer to use my sarcasm in more of a devilish perverted manner. .

[QUOTE=Mmgeg;2888340]Oh you had me at Debate.

Now I know that I'm supposed play this role of " looking good " and "playing dumb" but just like my sarcastic nature I simply can not ignore a good debate right?? So.

(Sigh) So let me clue you in on a few things. First the ONLY scientific link to attraction / compatibility is in major histocompatibility complex' (MHC), (look it up, it's fascinating) which plays a role in both reproduction and the immune system. NOW if you want to look at the psychological impact and again "not hard wired " then we can explore that as well. Several factors. We are attracted to people that have a similar look to our parents. Hair and eye color and even personality. Now since you rarely partake in activities that you would be able to appreciate a providers personality that does not apply to you.

It's is in a sub-conscious state. Whether we are attracted to long hair or short, blonde, burnette or the famous red hair, blue, hazel or brown eyes, tall or short, thin, athletic, or bigger. As we get older our brains evolve (so that blows your theory of being "hard-wired at birth) . What we were attracted to say at the age of 16 we certainly are not attracted to at the age of 30 or even 40 .

Now you see you asked a question about a provider having an issue with this and in your words what does it fucking matter or so what? Well it does for one. Actually it matters to most providers since she wasn't the only provider OR member that had issue with let me say this again since you haven't gotten it yet: Ready? It wasn't about who anyone is attracted to or not. It's the way it was described. It was the way that in a disrespectful manner including yourself described woman. Hell we all can have our opinions and judgements. That's a given. NO-ONE had a issue with that! It was how it was presented. I just merely among others pointed out your misleading statements. I just took a step further, dug out my thesis and re-visited factual representation of what's Scientific and what's Psychological.

Like I said I love a good debate. Now the only thing I will close on is this. We all don't like everyone and have preferences but the way it was handled was in a disrespectful manner and I will say this. There are several that find Intel that is shared so that we all know and can be safe. We never want to burn any of those bridges and we never know who has that insight. We all can agree to disagree. But getting aggressive and being an ass (just in general not directed to you as much) is not debatable. Now hopefully this can be put to rest and onto something more in a positive nature. (sigh) I like being sarcastic not bitchy.[/QUOTE]Don't get into a debate with Mmgeg, she doesn't play fair.

Most people just use the W. I. H. Debate style, or the "Well, I heard. " style. It's a lot tougher debating with someone willing to dig up the facts.

[QUOTE=Jjbee62;2888810]Don't get into a debate with Mmgeg, she doesn't play fair.

Most people just use the W. I. H. Debate style, or the "Well, I heard. " style. It's a lot tougher debating with someone willing to dig up the facts.[/QUOTE]LOL it's all in good debatable fun I must admit some reason debating turns me on (ha) . I can't look good and play dumb all the time now. LOL.

YMMV, but when someone blows up my phone by texting, calling, or otherwise pestering (especially when I'm asleep and have told you when NOT to call), that severely decreases the chances that I will be making a donation to you anytime soon. Or possibly ever. I understand that rent is due. But if I have partaken in the past, the odds are I know how to get in touch. Also, if I was unsatisfied, the odds are that you know that as well.

Rule of thumb in business: don't piss off the customers. You can be the best in the world, but there are always other providers.

This is your public service announcement for today. Carry on.

[QUOTE=Mmgeg;2888340]Oh you had me at Debate.

Now I know that I'm supposed play this role of " looking good " and "playing dumb" but just like my sarcastic nature I simply can not ignore a good debate right?? So.

(Sigh) So let me clue you in on a few things. First the ONLY scientific link to attraction / compatibility is in major histocompatibility complex' (MHC), (look it up, it's fascinating) which plays a role in both reproduction and the immune system. NOW if you want to look at the psychological impact and again "not hard wired " then we can explore that as well. Several factors. We are attracted to people that have a similar look to our parents. Hair and eye color and even personality. Now since you rarely partake in activities that you would be able to appreciate a providers personality that does not apply to you.

It's is in a sub-conscious state. Whether we are attracted to long hair or short, blonde, burnette or the famous red hair, blue, hazel or brown eyes, tall or short, thin, athletic, or bigger. As we get older our brains evolve (so that blows your theory of being "hard-wired at birth) . What we were attracted to say at the age of 16 we certainly are not attracted to at the age of 30 or even 40 .

Now you see you asked a question about a provider having an issue with this and in your words what does it fucking matter or so what? Well it does for one. Actually it matters to most providers since she wasn't the only provider OR member that had issue with let me say this again since you haven't gotten it yet: Ready? It wasn't about who anyone is attracted to or not. It's the way it was described. It was the way that in a disrespectful manner including yourself described woman. Hell we all can have our opinions and judgements. That's a given. NO-ONE had a issue with that! It was how it was presented. I just merely among others pointed out your misleading statements. I just took a step further, dug out my thesis and re-visited factual representation of what's Scientific and what's Psychological.

Like I said I love a good debate. Now the only thing I will close on is this. We all don't like everyone and have preferences but the way it was handled was in a disrespectful manner and I will say this. There are several that find Intel that is shared so that we all know and can be safe. We never want to burn any of those bridges and we never know who has that insight. We all can agree to disagree. But getting aggressive and being an ass (just in general not directed to you as much) is not debatable. Now hopefully this can be put to rest and onto something more in a positive nature. (sigh) I like being sarcastic not bitchy.[/QUOTE]I heard "blah blah blah call me Mommy and I'll call you Daddy blah blah blah". But then I always had selective hearing.