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[QUOTE=JoeLooking;3232267]I might hit you up for her details but I agree with others that you should tell her to post. If you want to help then you'd probably have been better off just sending her details to senior members you trusted. As to your above post, that's precisely why you have to be careful "helping". What happens when she gets pissed at you because all the guys you gave her details to don't want to pay her rate which is ridiculous (not saying it is but she should have given you a range to save everyone's time).[/QUOTE]Plus the unknown potential risk of being considered a pimp / facilitator by LE and the injustice system, as in that case mentioned here recently.

[URL]http://raleigh.backpage.com/WomenSeekMen/out-with-the-old-in-with-the-new/33219174[/URL]

Decided to TOFTT on this one. Quick response to text. Met her in a nice, midrange hotel. Pics are real and recent. Opened the door in jeans and a hoodie. Posted age is correct or very close. Clean smoke free room / suite. Her 2 girl partner was there and offered to step outside if I minded her hanging out in the living room. Separated by a door so I said it was up to her. She left for a smoke but came back in & stayed in the front room. Ivy seemed slightly nervous at first but warmed up pretty quickly. Great body, tight not scrawny. No signs of any demons. Everything covered but the BJ was well above average (I like 'them sloppy). Switched to CG to start but went through multiple positions. She was very coachable and really got into the session. She commented on my size but didn't hesitate to do her best to handle it. Plenty of eye contact and DFK throughout. Finished in the bag and chatted as we cleaned up. Nice girl. Never checked the clock. $. 20 for the HH but it was actually just under 45 minutes. I recommend and will be repeating.

Anybody have any info?

I understand the legal parameters associated with trying to help her out. I told her to post on here, but she hasnt yet as she has never heard of the classified section. Apparently she was a former provider that was out of the game for a few years, why I'm not sure, nor do I really care. She does not know my real name just an alias that an acquaintance of ours calls me. So for right now I have been somewhat selective about who gets her number based on who I can trust as much as any of us can trust each other on here. So forgive me if I don't get back to you all as soon as I get a message. I'm trying to get her to place her own ad so I'm not caught in the middle of this. I was not expecting as much as a response as I got.

Had a dream today about Lexi in Sanford at her new incall location. The new location is a trailer near Broadway but is not part of a park so getting in and out unobserved was easy. I felt safe there. Upon arrival we went back to her room which did smell of cigarette smoke but she sprayed a bit to freshen it up. For the most part she looks like her pictures and previous reviews of her on here are accurate.

As this was my first visit with her, I stayed the entire hour so we could get to know each other. Damage was $$ but that was my fault for not negotiating before I got there. Also, there were some younger persons there (she has kids) but they stay preoccupied while mommy does her "massage" business.

Overall good visit, very enthusiastic and skilled but best of all was her attitude. We got along great after just a short introduction. She is a really nice person just trying to take care of her family the best she can with absolutely no signs of demons. And I might add, very tight.

I will repeat and I think she would offer somewhat better rates in the future if asked. She mentioned that business has been slow with the censorship of the BP ads and was excited about me putting in a good word for her on this site when I volunteered. Digits should be available online but if any senior members need them, PM me as she is OK with me sharing. As previous posters have mentioned, please treat her well and she will take good care of you.

[QUOTE=Buki1;3232074]Very good advice. I tried helping someone I knew some years ago, and again within the past few months. It did not go well either time. Please don't make the mistake of putting yourself in this situation. They need to take control of their own lives.[/QUOTE]They like the help, but in the end it's about them and not you. I gave a girl advice once and tried to talk her out of the business. She could have stayed home and continued her college education. She was desperate when she started escorting. She had few appointments, but she couldn't pay her bills. She had phone problems, a flat tire, a speeding ticket and two characters from her past seeking payment on a debt. I helped and she never repaid her debt to me after promising she would. A girl will take any help from a man if it helps them to reach their goal. No loyalty, no friendship and your just a means to an end. It's kind of how some guys treat girls sometimes by promising a lot, for some ass, only to leave them and not fulfill anything they said. Girls in this business are either desperate souls, sex fanatics or dreamers who play their kitty like a slot machine hoping for a big payout. A descent person wants to help, but who knows the heart? Nobody does and promises over easy money is only temporary.

[QUOTE=DisturbedOne;3232755]I understand the legal parameters associated with trying to help her out. I told her to post on here, but she hasnt yet as she has never heard of the classified section. Apparently she was a former provider that was out of the game for a few years, why I'm not sure, nor do I really care. She does not know my real name just an alias that an acquaintance of ours calls me. So for right now I have been somewhat selective about who gets her number based on who I can trust as much as any of us can trust each other on here. So forgive me if I don't get back to you all as soon as I get a message. I'm trying to get her to place her own ad so I'm not caught in the middle of this. I was not expecting as much as a response as I got.[/QUOTE]She now needs to make the next step. With their being free classified associated with this site it's pretty easy. She could do very well if she chooses to.

[QUOTE=Crtchadialhntr;3218171]I have not seen the girl in the ad you linked. Her area code is from Georgia. I can tell you that is not "Durham Ivy" from a couple of years ago. She was late 30's.[/QUOTE]I would love if Durham ivy would come back.

[QUOTE=ReddMan19;3233359]I would love if Durham ivy would come back.[/QUOTE]Here is her post from a week ago Thursday:

[URL]http://backpage.com.raleigh.hoxnif.com/post/19445301/Ivy[/URL]

[QUOTE=ChaphillMan;3233377]Here is her post from a week ago Thursday:

[URL]http://backpage.com.raleigh.hoxnif.com/post/19445301/Ivy[/URL][/QUOTE]But she can get the job done.

[QUOTE=Purple45;3233033]They like the help, but in the end it's about them and not you. I gave a girl advice once and tried to talk her out of the business. She could have stayed home and continued her college education. She was desperate when she started escorting. She had few appointments, but she couldn't pay her bills. She had phone problems, a flat tire, a speeding ticket and two characters from her past seeking payment on a debt. I helped and she never repaid her debt to me after promising she would. A girl will take any help from a man if it helps them to reach their goal. No loyalty, no friendship and your just a means to an end. It's kind of how some guys treat girls sometimes by promising a lot, for some ass, only to leave them and not fulfill anything they said. Girls in this business are either desperate souls, sex fanatics or dreamers who play their kitty like a slot machine hoping for a big payout. A descent person wants to help, but who knows the heart? Nobody does and promises over easy money is only temporary.[/QUOTE]The opening verse in the book of Genesis for the Hobby Bible.

Always realize before you ever meet a girl, your first girl, for the first time, what you're getting into regarding this hobby. Don't fool or flatter yourself into thinking otherwise. Females know exactly how to exploit this in order to fool us poor souls into believing otherwise, which is all evolution, and all evolution is survival, and this hobby is survivial to the next day for many of them, sadly.

Know this is old news now, but have been away a lot recently and haven't had the chance to comment on this topic.

Over several years of acquaintance, was always pleasant but obviously dealing with multiple issues also. Had background that could have led into very different life direction.

Lengthy final crime article, Dec. 14 and&O, p. 12 A. May be interesting reading for those here.

[QUOTE=ChaphillMan;3233377]Here is her post from a week ago Thursday:

[URL]http://backpage.com.raleigh.hoxnif.com/post/19445301/Ivy[/URL][/QUOTE]That's Raleigh Ivy!

[QUOTE=ChaphillMan;3233377]Here is her post from a week ago Thursday:

[URL]http://backpage.com.raleigh.hoxnif.com/post/19445301/Ivy[/URL][/QUOTE]Durham Ivy said she was doing this temporarily to get out of financial situation. She has been out for years to my knowledge. Raleigh Ivy is the link you posted. A couple of years ago they were posting at the same time with same name. They picked up the Durham and Raleigh prefixes here due to confusion as to whom reviewers were referring to. Raleigh Ivy is around and fun but the two couldn't be more different.

[QUOTE=ChaphillMan;3233377]Here is her post from a week ago Thursday:

[URL]http://backpage.com.raleigh.hoxnif.com/post/19445301/Ivy[/URL][/QUOTE]That's Raleigh Ivy!