Philly Sugar

[QUOTE=UninhibitedFla;6448496]I've only done PPM with success. Just curious about the arrangement type of arrangement. Can you learn me up on the details of what has worked for you?[/QUOTE]There is no one size fits all approach. I found you have to feel your way through the situation with a girl. Requires good and honest communication.

Because most guys PROMISE an allowance to get in a girl's pants and then only see the girl one time, most girls will make sure they get funds upfront or each time. Makes sense, because sometimes a girl isn't a good fit and one moves on. But MOST guys treat girls like escorts an the girls pick up on that. IF you are able to do an allowance, talk about that during the M&G but say it comes as a reward after the 2nd or 3rd meeting.

I'd never do an allowance with a girl who doesn't have her own place where she could host, or doesn't have her own car as I'm not Ubering her around and paying for a motel, so she can show up later and perform badly.

If one isn't willing to be honest and discuss details (off SA site) then no magic phrase or approach will work.

[QUOTE=Shampoo55;6449525]There is no one size fits all approach. I found you have to feel your way through the situation with a girl. Requires good and honest communication.

Because most guys PROMISE an allowance to get in a girl's pants and then only see the girl one time, most girls will make sure they get funds upfront or each time. Makes sense, because sometimes a girl isn't a good fit and one moves on. But MOST guys treat girls like escorts an the girls pick up on that. IF you are able to do an allowance, talk about that during the M&G but say it comes as a reward after the 2nd or 3rd meeting.

I'd never do an allowance with a girl who doesn't have her own place where she could host, or doesn't have her own car as I'm not Ubering her around and paying for a motel, so she can show up later and perform badly.

If one isn't willing to be honest and discuss details (off SA site) then no magic phrase or approach will work.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the input Shampoo.

I have been doing PPM mostly because I like the excitement of variety without over extending my bank account on multiple allowances. I had one girl that held my attention long enough I thought about taking the plunge, but she moved. Your idea of meeting 2-3 times before doling out the allowance is helpful.

I always go to texting offsite if I feel it's a match. My account got locked one time for something. I forget what. I had to go through "remedial training" before my account was reinstated LOL. If a girl won't text then I drop communications and move on to the next. I don't do Uber either. I'm single so it's a lot easier meeting. I can host or go to her place. No need for hotels. If they're coming to my place I do a public meet for coffee or something just to verify they aren't some ghetto baby or wierdo. No need to hide business from a wife but I don't want my neighbors wondering WTF I'm doing with some trashy broads.

[QUOTE=UninhibitedFla;6451110]Thanks for the input Shampoo.

I have been doing PPM mostly because I like the excitement of variety without over extending my bank account on multiple allowances. I had one girl that held my attention long enough I thought about taking the plunge, but she moved. Your idea of meeting 2-3 times before doling out the allowance is helpful.

I always go to texting offsite if I feel it's a match. My account got locked one time for something. I forget what. I had to go through "remedial training" before my account was reinstated LOL. If a girl won't text then I drop communications and move on to the next. I don't do Uber either. I'm single so it's a lot easier meeting. I can host or go to her place. No need for hotels. If they're coming to my place I do a public meet for coffee or something just to verify they aren't some ghetto baby or wierdo. No need to hide business from a wife but I don't want my neighbors wondering WTF I'm doing with some trashy broads.[/QUOTE]I do ppm too with a little twist if the M & G go really well. In that case I might make an advance payment on a second meet. A lot of times this gives me a little more credibility with the potential SB. It's kind of like paying 1st and last month rent. I've done allowances in the past but I feel like I'm past that point in life. I'm at the point were I value my time alone and might choose that over meeting a sb. So feeling like I can cut it off at any time and only loose maybe one ppm is valuable to me. I would say that the advance payment only works well with a sb that has the intelligence to recognize the benefits. Some would think of it as an extra payment.

I can also host if needed but living outside of Philadelphia sometimes means the SBs have a little bit of a drive. I try to keep it to under 30 minutes for them. I can't stand to spend a night outside of my own bed though so even when I get a hotel, I'll never spend the night.

This lady wants 700/ week. She's moving to Dewey Beach Delaware soon. She's not a good fit for me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/70470d0c-8b2e-b0b6-57ca-188ae8e9e59f[/URL]

Good news, she's the girl in the pictures. Very hot and well spoken. Wears manga style contacts that give the appearance of huge pupils if you're into that. Went BCD on the second date.

Bad news, she must be an UTR pro; made all the pro mistakes to cause a disappointing session. Counted the money in front of me, brought her own baby wipes, no DATY, jackhammer BBBJ and you could set a timer by how close to 60 minutes she was in and out.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/27e0ebca-7481-44bf-bc9f-6c26a66eae66[/URL]

Did anyone here meet a girl named tara from philly, taller blonde chick. Mid to late 20's. Big boobs. I think she was from one of the suburbs originally.

Is she still around?

She's located in the Valley Forge area. Isn't available on weekdays until after 400 pm. Not a good fit for me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2aab2b07-6cba-4195-8464-5081a625b38b[/URL]

So if that's what you're looking for. " blah blah blah. Another Philly 18-21 year old that wants some tool to give her money because she's. Um. Her I guess. I hope she finds her idiot and stops wasting our time.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f545fb71-1c0a-48e5-b868-219f9ffb14cf[/URL]

If anyone is on Secret Benefits I know a prospect for you. Good thing about this one is that if you are somewhat attractive, somewhat in shape and well hung I do not think its about the money with this one. I think its all about the sex. DM me if you are interested. FYI, I have her profile name but I won't give out her contact info. I have done that three times and each time the girls name went from a few contacts I messaged to being passed around the board.

[QUOTE=HardAndLucky;6459436]If anyone is on Secret Benefits I know a prospect for you. Good thing about this one is that if you are somewhat attractive, somewhat in shape and well hung I do not think its about the money with this one. I think its all about the sex. DM me if you are interested. FYI, I have her profile name but I won't give out her contact info. I have done that three times and each time the girls name went from a few contacts I messaged to being passed around the board.[/QUOTE]Tried to PM you but your mailbox is full. I'm well hung and in decent shape. I met someone on SB I've been seeing on a somewhat monthly basis but its coming to an end and am looking for someone decent and real. Thought I would take you up on your offer to share and cut through all the bs on that site. I'm very discrete and would not in anyway compromise her or you as discretion for my own reasons is my middle name. Please PM me.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a622b670-ce6e-40ba-bc84-d8cf22960644[/URL]

Pitched me on videos for money. I requested a pic of her holding up a pinky as confirmation they are real. Of course the only pic they could find in whatever instagram they were stealing from was of the person holding up an index finger LOL.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/511829a9-0e8e-426d-abcc-53db1de3a7d1[/URL]

Wanted me to pick her up and go to a local hotel. I'm not interested in that. If anyone else is, she's pretty sexy. We did not get to financial expectations.

This is my SB, almost 3 years now, met on SA. Just graduated college last week, wants to see me a 2nd time this week to help her for a trip she is going on to celebrate her grad.

Just saying that there are opportunities out there, but it takes months and years to find them sometimes.

[QUOTE=Jgreene006;6459458]Tried to PM you but your mailbox is full. I'm well hung and in decent shape. I met someone on SB I've been seeing on a somewhat monthly basis but its coming to an end and am looking for someone decent and real. Thought I would take you up on your offer to share and cut through all the bs on that site. I'm very discrete and would not in anyway compromise her or you as discretion for my own reasons is my middle name. Please PM me.[/QUOTE]Sorry, I cleared it now.

I had my Seeking account suspended one time and not sure if it was something I typed in a on-site message or if I was reported by someone who was disgruntled by our conversation. I have adopted a new procedure where if I come to a head with one of these girls that means I don't ever plan to meet them, I just pre-emptively block their account on Seeking. This seems to prevent them from doing a revenge report against you that could get you suspended. They can still text you if they have a change of heart, but they won't be able to disrupt your ability to meet new prospects on the site. Food for thought.