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Rules
My approach is to simply ask the waitress to inform the dancer that I'm interested and to come see me when she gets chance. It's always worked for me.
My thought process is that if she's just sitting there, she isn't making any money and since that's her goal for working, it's an incentive to come over. If she's enjoying who she sitting with or just wants to drink, then that's fine too. Have at it. There's always the chance that she's just sitting with someone and making small talk to trying to get someone on the fence to go back, as opposed to coming over to someone who has a stated interest.
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[QUOTE=Rgv956;6977608]How do you respectfully ask a Dancer to accompany you that is currently occupied?
Was in a Time Crunch, dayshift. And I wanted to try this dancer. Very pretty and my type. But was with another older man who appears was just there to chat. Waited for about 30 minutes to see if they'll be done. But nothing they were just sitting together on their phone, not sure if he can even afford her. I ended up with my Regular and called it a Day.
Too bad I wanted someone new. Any advice? TIA.[/QUOTE]I wait until the gal is on stage, slip her a ten spot, and ask her to stop by the bar when she's done. This works 99.9% of the time.
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H8 tonight
Hi guys. I'm visiting again to Detroit. Always looking enjoy the club scene here.
Thought I check out H8 and move over to Bogarts. Got to H8 at about 6. 12-14 gals and maybe 6-7 dudes. So I liked my choices with regards to having my choice. Literally the every gal stopped and visited. There were 5-6 Cubans. They were good looking but the app for communication is no good for me. A gal named Patience hung out for a while. She's a pretty and slim black girl. I had my eye on a few others but she hung out for a bit and (maybe) cock blocked me. So my evening is drawing to a close and after she asked a few times, I asked her about her extra menu. A BBBJ is my thing and she's game. X20 all in was agreed. She got naked and she does have a tight and smooth body. No tats. I like that. She tried to get paid upfront and I said no dice. Her BJ was ok but a bit mechanical. After a few meeting at the bar, she was all business in the booth. Got the job done.
Cassie was there. A really cute Cuban named Celeste stopped over. This was just when I arrived so I was not ready for the VIP yet. I'm now a one shot guy at this stage in life! Any info on here would be appreciated. From reading the comments, all the Cubans don't budge from condom BJ's.
Anyway, I had a nice time. I had my eye on a few others but I settled. But I wouldn't say it was a disappointment.
Never got to Bogarts. Never been there yet as this was just my third visit to the clubs.
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Kennedy
Any one has had fun with a dancer named kennedy?
Would be interested in your thoights.
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[QUOTE=BoogMan;6984352]Any one has had fun with a dancer named kennedy?
Would be interested in your thoights.[/QUOTE]It would be helpful to know which club you are asking about.
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Bogies
Fellow mates, is the girl named Charlie who worked in H8 sometime back (or may be still working), is the same Charlie working in Bogies now? Saw a waitress named Charlie in Bogies who looked pretty cute with her big glasses and she said she dances on fridays. Cheers.
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[QUOTE=Drew93;6984362]It would be helpful to know which club you are asking about.[/QUOTE]Legends. But has worked in other clubs.
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Thursday day out
Hi all, decided to take a trip down Michigan ave on Thursday daytime.
Started of at Cricket around 1:30, about 10 dancers but not a lot of customers however there was a party in that little corner booth they have and it was a birthday party for one of the regulars and I guess this guy spends a lot of money since all the girls were hanging in there drinking and eating, and the guys in there were throwing a lot of money around so that makes sense. There were some dancers that I had not seen in a while like Polly and Sara (h), I guess they had come for the dude's birthday party. There was also Bambi who I have seen before, she is really nice and I like her but she was jumping from regular to regular that kept showing up and going back with her and leaving, she had them all lined up nicely. I left around 3 with nothing going on, also was surprised that there were no cubans there that day, I am not sure if they just took the day off or something happened with the club.
After that stopped by BTs, I swear it was the same thing, very dead but there was a few guys that had put a couple of tables together and were having a party and all the girls were hanging around there getting drinks, I hung around the bar, eventually a young white skiny dancer with lots of tattoos came over (I forget her name), she said she also works and H8, wanted 2 for everything, talked her down to 1. 5 and she said cover was optional. Cover is not optional for me and it was ok, I may repeat, nothing great but not bad.
Next this older dancer came over, also tats everywhere and she would not leave me alone,(again don't remember the name, I am horrible with those) she kept trying to pull me over the VIP and she made is sound like she was the best thing in the world, when I asked her how much she was quoting 5 for everything, I didn't want to be mean so I told her she was out of my range bought her a drink and eventually she left. There were a lot of younger dancers at BTs, I mean like 18 20 age wise compared to SC which mainly had the older dancers but most if the girls at BTs were just drinking with the dudes that were partying. Also there were 3 cubans there as well but they never got up from where they were sitting the whole time I was there, they just sat there on their phones and one of them was really hot so I would have liked to see what her price range was, maybe next time.
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[QUOTE=Korcar;6985285]Hi all, decided to take a trip down Michigan ave on Thursday daytime.
Next this older dancer came over, also tats everywhere and she would not leave me alone,(again don't remember the name, I am horrible with those) she kept trying to pull me over the VIP and she made is sound like she was the best thing in the world, when I asked her how much she was quoting 5 for everything, I didn't want to be mean so I told her she was out of my range bought her a drink and eventually she left. [/QUOTE]Dark hair, thicker? I stopped there a week or so ago and had to leave because an older girl did this exact same thing to me. Her breath was awful and she was aggressive about telling me how fantastic it would be for me if I took her back to the VIP. I was digging a younger girl but she was so oppressive to me that I just couldn't wait for her to free up, so I left All in I think I was in there for 30 minutes and she was on me for 25 of them. I said "Sorry, not interested" and even recoiled when she talked to me because of her breath. Ugh, I expect that at the cheaper clubs but I always consider BTs a nicer place.
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I went to H8 yesterday (Saturday), hoping to find Nicole or Cassie. Neither were there. I showed up right before night shift though, at 6:30 (if that's not already night shift). Are they still working on saturdays?
There were a ton (like 5 or 6) of cubans though. I thought the reports were false or something, but they were in there. I went into the back with one (Mirella I think; she's a bit stocky and the rest look better) for a CBJ at $. It was good, but I found I was having ED problems (long story). I cut it off at a few songs, giving her a tip. I maybe should have walked out after that, but I stuck around to try some other girls. While my ED problems did hurt the sessions, I still liked and would recommend:
-Kiwi. Very slightly thick white girl who gave a great BBBJ at $. 2.
-Lola. AA, slim, hair in bun, great ass with a tattoo on it as I remember. I went in the back with her for a CBJ at $. 5, but she upsold me into fucking at first with $ extra, then just 50 (total $$ ). I don't like upselling, but she was still good. She's all covered in the club, but she tried to talk me into OTC stuff, hinting she'd go bare. I didn't need it, but maybe someone else would like it if she isn't running some kind of game.
I WANTED to try Daisy, a new white brunette spinner girl there who worked at BT. She quoted $$ for FS, but I didn't go back because of other girls I wanted to try out.
I had tried to get some things going with more of the cubans, but they were mostly occupied. I didn't want to keep messing around with that app anyway.
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[QUOTE=Degasa9976;6985682]Dark hair, thicker? I stopped there a week or so ago and had to leave because an older girl did this exact same thing to me. Her breath was awful and she was aggressive about telling me how fantastic it would be for me if I took her back to the VIP. I was digging a younger girl but she was so oppressive to me that I just couldn't wait for her to free up, so I left All in I think I was in there for 30 minutes and she was on me for 25 of them. I said "Sorry, not interested" and even recoiled when she talked to me because of her breath. Ugh, I expect that at the cheaper clubs but I always consider BTs a nicer place.[/QUOTE]OMG it sounds exactly like a dancer that pestered me incessantly at LS about 6 years ago. Just to get her to leave I took her back for a few dances which were lame and she smelled bad. Sure enough, about 6 months later we make first visit to SC and she's there and all over me. I somehow got her to leave, but she's a pita.
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[QUOTE=Korcar;6985285]
Next this older dancer came over, also tats everywhere and she would not leave me alone,(again don't remember the name, I am horrible with those) she kept trying to pull me over the VIP and she made is sound like she was the best thing in the world, when I asked her how much she was quoting 5 for everything, I didn't want to be mean so I told her she was out of my range bought her a drink and eventually she left. There were a lot of younger dancers at BTs, I mean like 18 20 age wise compared to SC which mainly had the older dancers but most if the girls at BTs were just drinking with the dudes that were partying. Also there were 3 cubans there as well but they never got up from where they were sitting the whole time I was there, they just sat there on their phones and one of them was really hot so I would have liked to see what her price range was, maybe next time.[/QUOTE]First, thanks for your report, I enjoyed reading it.
Second this is the girls strategy. Sure she drives many customers out of the club but she doesn't care. If didn't follow this strategy she wouldn't get any VIPs at all.
Do not let some one sit with you if you are not interested in them. She is trying to occupy your time, hoping you run are out of time and are so horny you decide to try her.
Do not buy her a drink, do not make small talk with her, do not pay her to go away, and certainly do not take her back for a dance.
When she walks over simply say you are just settling in. Usually the girl will move on, she many make an angry face, or a mean look or even call you a jerk. Do you care, no all you want her to do is move on, so she isn't blocking other girls from joining you.
If she jumps into the seat next to you anyway. Say I am sorry, I am not ready for company please leave. If she ignores you then call the manager over and tell him that you are going to leave because you have asked this dancer to go away and she is refusing.
If none of those things works then leave.
MM.
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Thank you
[QUOTE=MareloboMex;6987409]First, thanks for your report, I enjoyed reading it.
Second this is the girls strategy. Sure she drives many customers out of the club but she doesn't care. If didn't follow this strategy she wouldn't get any VIPs at all.
Do not let some one sit with you if you are not interested in them. She is trying to occupy your time, hoping you run are out of time and are so horny you decide to try her.
Do not buy her a drink, do not make small talk with her, do not pay her to go away, and certainly do not take her back for a dance.
When she walks over simply say you are just settling in. Usually the girl will move on, she many make an angry face, or a mean look or even call you a jerk. Do you care, no all you want her to do is move on, so she isn't blocking other girls from joining you.
If she jumps into the seat next to you anyway. Say I am sorry, I am not ready for company please leave. If she ignores you then call the manager over and tell him that you are going to leave because you have asked this dancer to go away and she is refusing.
If none of those things works then leave.
MM.[/QUOTE]I appreciate the advice. This happened to me last week (report. Scroll down). Some of these gals force you to be rude because they won't leave. I had this happen twice on Wednesday. The first chubby gals got the message and moved on. The second kept after me. Finally, just as stated, I was running low on time and said "fuck it" and we went back for a marginal round, at best.
I hate being rude. In the future I will be if I have too. At the end of the day, it's a choice of being rude or letting one pushy stripper ruin your night.
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A good way to rid of a pesky stripper who is bothering you these days would be to tell her you are there for the Cuban girls.
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[QUOTE=JackOfClubs;6988316]A good way to rid of a pesky stripper who is bothering you these days would be to tell her you are there for the Cuban girls.[/QUOTE]What is with the increase in Cuban dancers around Detroit? A local dancer stated it has something to do with the Florida clubs, anybody have intel on that?