Strip Club Reports

[QUOTE=Rgv956;6977608]How do you respectfully ask a Dancer to accompany you that is currently occupied?

Was in a Time Crunch, dayshift. And I wanted to try this dancer. Very pretty and my type. But was with another older man who appears was just there to chat. Waited for about 30 minutes to see if they'll be done. But nothing they were just sitting together on their phone, not sure if he can even afford her. I ended up with my Regular and called it a Day.

Too bad I wanted someone new. Any advice? TIA.[/QUOTE]Tread carefully with this one. Most guys won't take kindly to you coming up to the girl who he's chatting with trying to swoop. Just wait until she gets up and grab her quick if you're not interested in waiting for her to work her way to you. I've seen this before and ended with the guy getting heated and getting in the swooper's face where the bouncer had to step in. Wait your turn or take the loss. Not cool imo.

[QUOTE=Rgv956;6977608]How do you respectfully ask a Dancer to accompany you that is currently occupied?

Was in a Time Crunch, dayshift. And I wanted to try this dancer. Very pretty and my type. But was with another older man who appears was just there to chat. Waited for about 30 minutes to see if they'll be done. But nothing they were just sitting together on their phone, not sure if he can even afford her. I ended up with my Regular and called it a Day.

Too bad I wanted someone new. Any advice? TIA.[/QUOTE]We all know that strippers tend to keep track of time way differently than expected.

[QUOTE=Rgv956;6977608]How do you respectfully ask a Dancer to accompany you that is currently occupied?

Was in a Time Crunch, dayshift. And I wanted to try this dancer. Very pretty and my type. But was with another older man who appears was just there to chat. Waited for about 30 minutes to see if they'll be done. But nothing they were just sitting together on their phone, not sure if he can even afford her. I ended up with my Regular and called it a Day.

Too bad I wanted someone new. Any advice? TIA.[/QUOTE]I've sometimes depended on waitresses to drop a whisper in her ear. And they usually know the dancers better than they let on. Tip the waitress a little (if she's game) and have her drop a hint to the dancer. It's worked several times for me.

[QUOTE=Rgv956;6977608]How do you respectfully ask a Dancer to accompany you that is currently occupied?

Was in a Time Crunch, dayshift. And I wanted to try this dancer. Very pretty and my type. But was with another older man who appears was just there to chat. Waited for about 30 minutes to see if they'll be done. But nothing theywere just sitting together on their phone, not sure if he can even afford her. I ended up with my Regular and called it a Day.

Too bad I wanted someone new. Any advice? TIA.[/QUOTE]In a lot of cases the girls don't want to leave because the customer is paying them to sit with them. They get paid and they don't have to do anything except talk and look good.

[QUOTE=DeadDead22;6977812]I've sometimes depended on waitresses to drop a whisper in her ear. And they usually know the dancers better than they let on. Tip the waitress a little (if she's game) and have her drop a hint to the dancer. It's worked several times for me.[/QUOTE]I've done this before with other strippers I'm cool with, I just ask them to text her if they got the number. Luckily no girl has gotten upset with me asking about another girl, the worst I've gotten is gossip if they don't like eachother. I imagine they don't want to sour the thought of me spending money on them another time.

[QUOTE=HumphreyB;6978031]In a lot of cases the girls don't want to leave because the customer is paying them to sit with them. They get paid and they don't have to do anything except talk and look good.[/QUOTE]I get it though. I was recently at BT's and there was a girl who I was super into and trying to catch her eye, but she just hung with the same guy the whole time I was there. And I don't think he was paying, I just think she wasn't looking for work.

[QUOTE=Rgv956;6977608]How do you respectfully ask a Dancer to accompany you that is currently occupied?

Was in a Time Crunch, dayshift. And I wanted to try this dancer. Very pretty and my type. But was with another older man who appears was just there to chat. Waited for about 30 minutes to see if they'll be done. But nothing they were just sitting together on their phone, not sure if he can even afford her. I ended up with my Regular and called it a Day.

Too bad I wanted someone new. Any advice? TIA.[/QUOTE]If she doesn't have a drink send her one. The waitress will handle it from there.

I wish Jules Jordan would post more! His posts are and photos the highlites of these boards!!

[QUOTE=JackOfClubs;6979330]I wish Jules Jordan would post more! His posts are and photos the highlites of these boards!![/QUOTE]Yeah I really wish it were easier to find photos of the girls but I very much understand why they are tough to find. I was telling a friend about Blair at FC and Jenna at LS and so wish I had pics to send him.

[QUOTE=Rgv956;6977608]How do you respectfully ask a Dancer to accompany you that is currently occupied?

Was in a Time Crunch, dayshift. And I wanted to try this dancer. Very pretty and my type. But was with another older man who appears was just there to chat. Waited for about 30 minutes to see if they'll be done. But nothing they were just sitting together on their phone, not sure if he can even afford her. I ended up with my Regular and called it a Day.

Too bad I wanted someone new. Any advice? TIA.[/QUOTE]R956,

First don't be in a time crunch, and wait for her to go on stage and tip her at the stage and say you would like her company.

Second you can send the waitress or shot girl over to get her. I usually say something like see the girl with the red bra and black panties sitting with those two guys. I would like to buy her a drink, as soon as she comes over to sit with me. I find they will quickly retrieve her.

Third depending on how much you want to spend, walk over to her table, and say I am sorry to interrupt you but I need to leave in 30 minutes and I want spent the $400 in my pocket before I go. Then walk back to your table. She will likely join you shortly.

Is it possible some guys might get upset?, yes but that is not very likely. Most guys understand that the girls need to make money when they have the chance. If you did that when she was sitting with me, I know she would be back to me in 30 minutes and I would offer her less money because I know she already covered her tip out.

Even if you try all those things she may still not come and sit with you for any number of reasons.

1. She has already made her goal for the day and wants to just hang out and drink.

2. The person she is sitting with is paying her more money to sit with her.

3. The person she is sitting with is her regular and he will pay more money over multiple days than you will pay one time.

4. She just doesn't feel like going to the VIP today.

5. It is near the end of her shift and she wants to go home.

If she is very pretty and just your type, you will have to wait and tip her multiple times, because other guys likely find her very pretty and just their types, so she doesn't have to go hunting for new customers. I find the ones who are pretty and just my type almost never approach me, but I am constantly approached by those who are not pretty and not my type. They have to be aggressive or they won't get any customers. The ones I like usually have a group of regulars that they spend time with.

MM.

[QUOTE=EatonBeaver;6967779]Mercenary strippers. I remember the influx during the holidays at the old Leggs Lounge. The day shift used to be lousy with them being hated on by the regular girls.[/QUOTE]I miss Leggs. Always had a lot of fun there.

[QUOTE=Rgv956;6977608]How do you respectfully ask a Dancer to accompany you that is currently occupied?[/QUOTE]My general feeling is … you don't ask.

It's entirely possible the guy with that girl also waited however-many minutes, or previous visits, to finally talk to that girl, or, as others have said, might be paying her directly for her time.

It just doesn't work out sometimes. Come back again another time when you have more time.

There are two common sense rules at the club.

1. - dancers should never try and steal away a guy when he is currently sitting with another girl.

2. men should never try to steal away a girl who is currently sitting with another man.

[QUOTE=JackOfClubs;6980666]There are two common sense rules at the club.

1. - dancers should never try and steal away a guy when he is currently sitting with another girl.

2. men should never try to steal away a girl who is currently sitting with another man.[/QUOTE]Good rules. Kinda ran into that at LS on Saturday night. First visit there in 5 years, and no dancer came to our table in 2 hours. We must have been throwing the wrong vibes to those who weren't already with customers or their regulars. (next time I'll tape $20 bills to my forehead) .

[QUOTE=JackOfClubs;6980666]There are two common sense rules at the club.

1. - dancers should never try and steal away a guy when he is currently sitting with another girl.

2. men should never try to steal away a girl who is currently sitting with another man.[/QUOTE]I agree with the general concept, but I have had success approaching a girl with a potential customer and politely saying I'm sorry to interrupt but I would like a dance with you later when you are not occupied, but no hurry.

A few times the girl right away says I'm glad you asked because he is just a friend.