Are providers allowed to have "bad days"?
[QUOTE=Lilly21;1502917]I'm sorry if I turned you off baby that was a bad day for me. Bu ts lifeeverybody has there good and bad days I'm sorry baby.[/QUOTE]You know, this brings up a good point. And Lilly, this is NOT a slam against you or what happened. I wasn't there, so I will not add to that discussion. This is merely a topic of discussion that could benefit everyone.
Are providers allowed to have "bad days"? As human beings with a life outside of the business, they WILL have bad days, or off days, or days that completely suck. If their lives were all cookies, and ice cream, and cherry blossoms, they probably would not be working as a provider.
However, guys who are seeking out their services are paying for a fantasy. $200 / hour (more or less) is a lot of money to pay someone who is having a "bad day". Guys don't just pay for the sex. They pay for the zero bullshit. They pay for a sure thing experience. They pay so that for that one hour of time with a provider, their needs are the #1 thing on the agenda, and the only thing on the agenda.
For $200 / hr, the least you can do is fake it. Yes, that's right. FAKE IT. Fake it for an hour or two. Pretend like the only thing on your mind are HIS needs. If you can't do that, don't schedule with a client. Pick another day where you can muster up enough energy to give him that no BS, sure thing fantasy. And if your money needs are that imperative that you can't afford to postpone the meet, learn to suck it in and suppress your feelings for an hour to do your job.
Yes, that sounds cold, but that's just business.