Ernstheiter and Asian Girl
[QUOTE=Ernstheiter;5259794]Can anyone please recommend a hot high end Asian girl for me? Or a spa where FS is a guarantee? Please feel free to DM me. Thank you.[/QUOTE]Just came across your posts. Since you seem to be of college age, I will respond because I remember my youth times. They were great and girls were different and more prude back then.
First off avoid the escorting / AMP scene being young unless you have a specific situation that calls for it (wheelchair, etc.) or you are a physical albatross with no hopes. This is expensive and not emotionally fulfilling (I try anyway because I am a connection guy). You will be lied to, rushed, scammed, stolen from and may be beaten. They are all street harden and many on substance harden but some have a decent heart deep inside and those will be the good ones.
At college age, with no legacy issue and no attaches, go the dating way. Don't use tinder or that crap. Go to the gym or some activities attracting people of your age. However, it seems that going that route is difficult for you. A prior poster gave good advice. First work on yourself physically and get confident. Not cocky, but a guy who is nice, fun, friendly and knows to take the lead.
I don't know you but you may want to get laid too much and that may show in your approach. Typical girls get freaked by this not because they don't like to be courted but by the way they sense the courting. They can smell it a mile away.
You said you talk to a "friend" at this time. So just go with her, show her a good clean fun time (I assume she is upstanding on good morales), get to know what she likes and SURPRISE her with things she does not expect. Make her feel she wants to go the next step because she really likes you.
Have good serious conversation too so you do not come across as a goof or an ignorant. Show her who you are inside with class. Have class but be humble. Do this for a few weeks and see how she looks and talks to you and consider you. When I was young I was so naive missing clues when I got so many. I wished I would have know them and be less shy back then.
If you focus on winning her mind rather than winning her ass out of the gate, you have the best chances. Go at her speed too. Don't be all over her or overbearing. Most girls like guys who are funny, smart, decent looking at least with confidence. Always be nice but never a pushover. Make open dates offer where she comes to you when she feels comfortable.
Unless of course you have sexual "deviances" and that my friend will need special escorting at a cost. Anyway these are short advices I would give to myself if I meet me at 20 y old. Good luck and if the above works, you will have a fantastic girl that will give you lots of love.