Korean Bar Reports

A couple bar girls have been pushing the trust factor in their attempt to build a relationship. Maybe they attended the same KBG sales seminar. They try the "I trust you, but you don't trust me" line. As if I should feel guilty! One KBG that I'm getting close to texted me this morning saying "you have to trust me everything". I understand her statement, but it makes me laugh. I want to be a smart fish and not take the bait. I just told her that I got burned recently and cannot let my guard down. Anyone else getting this sales pitch?

[QUOTE=Kanuku;3155746]A couple bar girls have been pushing the trust factor in their attempt to build a relationship. Maybe they attended the same KBG sales seminar. They try the "I trust you, but you don't trust me" line. As if I should feel guilty! One KBG that I'm getting close to texted me this morning saying "you have to trust me everything". I understand her statement, but it makes me laugh. I want to be a smart fish and not take the bait. I just told her that I got burned recently and cannot let my guard down. Anyone else getting this sales pitch?[/QUOTE]Um, yeah. Hostesses have been saying that and 1001 other such things since before your hostess was even an idea and it will continue to go on long after she gets put out to pasture.

See JRs post about "getting taken hook, line and sinker". Good luck.

[QUOTE=Kanuku;3155746]A couple bar girls have been pushing the trust factor in their attempt to build a relationship. Maybe they attended the same KBG sales seminar. They try the "I trust you, but you don't trust me" line. As if I should feel guilty! One KBG that I'm getting close to texted me this morning saying "you have to trust me everything". I understand her statement, but it makes me laugh. I want to be a smart fish and not take the bait. I just told her that I got burned recently and cannot let my guard down. Anyone else getting this sales pitch?[/QUOTE]You and I know its all about the money. Once the money stops so will your relationship. They basically all have the same story that they have to send money back home whether it be korea or elsewhere. You want to put her to the test just say you cannot support her and see what kind of reaction you get. You might get lucky. And they might say that they will follow you whether you have money or not. Hope the best for you.

What is a KBGs job? It is to sell drinks and they receive a commission. The more drinks they sell, the more they make. In essence, they are in sales and you know how salespeople will say anything to make a sale? Some will even, lie, cheat or steal to make a sale. Remember, sex sells, and it really does in a KB.

[QUOTE=BotoMoco;3156163]You and I know its all about the money. Once the money stops so will your relationship. They basically all have the same story that they have to send money back home whether it be korea or elsewhere. You want to put her to the test just say you cannot support her and see what kind of reaction you get. You might get lucky. And they might say that they will follow you whether you have money or not. Hope the best for you.[/QUOTE]Damn, sounds like you know her. She asks me to take her to "Western Union" at Times supermarket in Aiea or at Pearl Kai to send her mother money. I told her she is a wonderful daughter, but her reaction to my comment was numb. Very suspicious. I think she is stashing her money in Korea since she over stayed her Visa. Why keep money at Bank of Hawaii if you might get booted out of this country.

Thank you BotoMoco for your guidance. Peace.

Decided to watch the UH game at Cleopatra. Mama Kimberly always has good food. She came by to say hello, thanked us for coming, and placed two drink markers on the table for my friend and me. I don't really know Mama Kimberly, but this is the second time she's done this while I was there to watch football. Didn't see any new talent from last month, but there is a variety of girls working there. Unfortunately, no one at Cleopatra comes close to the Fox. My friend and I celebrated the blocked field goal with Patron shots. Too drunk to check out K-Style. Will try next weekend. Peace.

[QUOTE=Kanuku;3156377]Damn, sounds like you know her. She asks me to take her to "Western Union" at Times supermarket in Aiea or at Pearl Kai to send her mother money. I told her she is a wonderful daughter, but her reaction to my comment was numb. Very suspicious. I think she is stashing her money in Korea since she over stayed her Visa. Why keep money at Bank of Hawaii if you might get booted out of this country.

Thank you BotoMoco for your guidance. Peace.[/QUOTE]At least it wasn't the ups store above Palama Market. . LOL. Western union fastest and easiest way to send money home to Korea. The fees may kill you though. LOL. Let her pay.

Stopped in there last night. Three girls wearing jeans which means no fly zone to me haha. Definitely not buying drinks if they wearing pants. Michiko looking sexy showing off playing pool and overdoing the sexy dancing. One other nice looking girl in a black dress sitting in a booth and table hopping. Not much happening there it seemed.

[QUOTE=WillieWillie;3155610]I've been around TT, just not as much as in the past (and no yobo). Hope you've been doing well in your "endeavors!" Where have you been hanging out recently?[/QUOTE]Usually in the Kap area. Once in a while in Kalihi. Had some nice and rare past endeavor. I occasionally make it to the KB's. Of course I always give my allowance away to the KBG's.

[QUOTE=Kanuku;3155746]A couple bar girls have been pushing the trust factor in their attempt to build a relationship. Maybe they attended the same KBG sales seminar. They try the "I trust you, but you don't trust me" line. As if I should feel guilty! One KBG that I'm getting close to texted me this morning saying "you have to trust me everything". I understand her statement, but it makes me laugh. I want to be a smart fish and not take the bait. I just told her that I got burned recently and cannot let my guard down. Anyone else getting this sales pitch?[/QUOTE]It's their way of thinking. They'll try to make a challenge to you that costs them nothing and use your guilt/honesty/good nature against you. A sort of mental/verbal jiu-jitsu. Another example is a KBG will ask you to buy her a Chanel bag to prove you love her before you even become intimate lovers. If you say let's become lovers first then she'll say you have to prove you love her first with the Chanel bag. And it goes back and forth. But you're the one with the money (and control) so you have to stay firm with your position to find out more about her motivations and intent. Because once you get her the Chanel bag, you have no leverage.

Let them know you're the one in control and tell the KBGs to prove that they trust you before you trust her. If a KBG told me she trusted me but I didn't trust her then I'd sweetly tell her she could prove it by coming to my place that night and make love with me. So what if she gets pissed, I just remember it saved me a lot of money/drama/time and is another KBG to check off my list.

[QUOTE=Idusixtyning;3157772]It's their way of thinking. They'll try to make a challenge to you that costs them nothing and use your guilt/honesty/good nature against you. A sort of mental/verbal jiu-jitsu. Another example is a KBG will ask you to buy her a Chanel bag to prove you love her before you even become intimate lovers. If you say let's become lovers first then she'll say you have to prove you love her first with the Chanel bag. And it goes back and forth. But you're the one with the money (and control) so you have to stay firm with your position to find out more about her motivations and intent. Because once you get her the Chanel bag, you have no leverage.

Let them know you're the one in control and tell the KBGs to prove that they trust you before you trust her. If a KBG told me she trusted me but I didn't trust her then I'd sweetly tell her she could prove it by coming to my place that night and make love with me. So what if she gets pissed, I just remember it saved me a lot of money/drama/time and is another KBG to check off my list.[/QUOTE]YOU, BAR GIRL, I know you reading this. We are in control because we have what you want, money. What you have is a female body and inteligent conversation (cough cough). If I want conversation, I would stay home and talk to my wife. Go bacation and think about it, when you come back start using your lips, tits, and pussy. If not, we are going AMP and get full service for $1. 50, many to choose from and hot girls, no BS. K Bars are so slow, no customers, girls barely making $2 k, top AMP girl making that in one day. Put out or go home, that is your business. Adaso?

Tuesday night stop by K style the fox not there, Met Jennifer she got some skills too bad not to my liking. Mama was looking good but didn't get her name. Eh get some nice booths for privacy.

Jennifer told me I too late at 10:30 pm. Next stop GT.

[QUOTE=TrueTemper;3159832]Tuesday night stop by K style the fox not there, Met Jennifer she got some skills too bad not to my liking. Mama was looking good but didn't get her name. Eh get some nice booths for privacy.

Jennifer told me I too late at 10:30 pm. Next stop GT.[/QUOTE]GT way different from Kap. One fugly and old KBG try to talk to me once I told her I am super drunk she left me. Lily was her name. I ask the female bartender if Allison still works there she told me Allison went back to Korea. Sorry Oldee. I never get the chance to ask if Jay works there she should remember me at International with Chanel saw her at 74 a long time ago. She is cool always tells.

Me hi now. I going stick with Kap way more eye candy unless maybe go earlier to Kalihi. Have fun guys!

[QUOTE=TrueTemper;3159834]GT way different from Kap. One fugly and old KBG try to talk to me once I told her I am super drunk she left me. Lily was her name. I ask the female bartender if Allison still works there she told me Allison went back to Korea. Sorry Oldee. I never get the chance to ask if Jay works there she should remember me at International with Chanel saw her at 74 a long time ago. She is cool always tells.

Me hi now. I going stick with Kap way more eye candy unless maybe go earlier to Kalihi. Have fun guys![/QUOTE]Had one tag team going on with a Korean customers at GT I thought all Korean guys are thrifty but now know some are Grapes. See you guys in two weeks. Wanted to see Clara at Twillight again.

But spend all my allowance. She told me she used to work at Spalsh before but had a conflict with a co- worker. Summit rooms the good one is now a game room with their own door from the outside.

Mama Mia brought in new talent last week. Now they have 12 girls. One is from South Korea. Mama Kim continues to grow her business and customers are migrating to MM.

Club Rose is slow. Luna's reputation as a ROB may be contributing to the decline in business. Something is up. My drinking buddy could only confirm that Luna no longer lives with her bar sister. Bar sister not saying anything. Mama Kelly has good food, but with the slowdown in business, she is not as generous with the house pupu.

Club Chance is also slow. I stepped in and stepped out. This bar must survive off the gaming machine.

I prefer Kalihi. There is more competition so the customer can reap the benefits.