Craigslist Advertiser Reviews

[QUOTE=Jayp80;3310133]These BP girls have probably all been arrested for prostitution or drugs so thy don't have the same to lose if you call the police on them. They also know you're not going to go to court and say I had this prostitute over and now she keeps calling my job. Maybe she gets a couple months in jail but we've lost businesses, wives and jobs not a fair trade. I would never use my real name or number (google voice) nor would I ever use a verification sites (if the right case comes up the Feds will get their hands on those records either directly or indirectly via payment history).[/QUOTE]Are you saying Google Voice is not safe?

[QUOTE=CougarBait;3308882]Anyone ever been blackmailed?

[URL]https://chicago.craigslist.org/chc/cas/6043839021.html[/URL]

Just texted this one. She must have searched my number and got my full name, then found my facebook or something. She is threatening to expose me.

Number is 773-XXXX328. Any idea how to handle this?[/QUOTE]1. I think this would happen more if the girl is not reviewed much, make sure you do your homework and go to a provider with mostly good reviews. I have gone to some that don't have reviews but I don't think that is very smart at all.

2. Be Nice. There is no reason to try to stiff her, NO REASON! If she doesn't do what you expect or even do what she says she was going to do, just pay and get out. If you don't care who knows what you are doing then yah fight for your money but in my opinion pay and never call her again. She doesn't expect you to anyway. If you stiff her expect a call back or worse.

As I do agree with SunIsBurning to be full proof, if you're smart you know when to reveal who you are and when to bail. Got to use that big head more than you think first time seeing a lot of these girls. I have even cut off the ones who text me at random hours of the day / night. I can't have that, that's a "NO NO". So I politely say this isn't me anymore or please let me text you first. Most of the girls I see are just as discrete as me so that's always a good sign. There must be the same amount of trust going both ways, if not then get out.

Be Smart!

I've seen a small number of BP and even smaller number from CL. They were all well reviewed and "normal" women. They texted me once in a while but like some of yours needed to be discreet so it did not get out of hand. I agree, use the big head and all should work out well. If it goes bad, pay and get the f out of dodge quick and don't be a hero because you never know. My two cents.

[QUOTE=DuderWalter;3310304]1. I think this would happen more if the girl is not reviewed much, make sure you do your homework and go to a provider with mostly good reviews. I have gone to some that don't have reviews but I don't think that is very smart at all.

2. Be Nice. There is no reason to try to stiff her, NO REASON! If she doesn't do what you expect or even do what she says she was going to do, just pay and get out. If you don't care who knows what you are doing then yah fight for your money but in my opinion pay and never call her again. She doesn't expect you to anyway. If you stiff her expect a call back or worse.

As I do agree with SunIsBurning to be full proof, if you're smart you know when to reveal who you are and when to bail. Got to use that big head more than you think first time seeing a lot of these girls. I have even cut off the ones who text me at random hours of the day / night. I can't have that, that's a "NO NO". So I politely say this isn't me anymore or please let me text you first. Most of the girls I see are just as discrete as me so that's always a good sign. There must be the same amount of trust going both ways, if not then get out.

Be Smart![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Jayp80;3310133]These BP girls have probably all been arrested for prostitution or drugs so thy don't have the same to lose if you call the police on them. They also know you're not going to go to court and say I had this prostitute over and now she keeps calling my job. Maybe she gets a couple months in jail but we've lost businesses, wives and jobs not a fair trade. I would never use my real name or number (google voice) nor would I ever use a verification sites (if the right case comes up the Feds will get their hands on those records either directly or indirectly via payment history).[/QUOTE]The great thing about Verification Sites is that they make both parties more accountable. I wouldn't consider using an escort that wasn't verified. If she pulled a blackmail stunt, you would report her to the verification service. A good service will reach out to the provider and take action. Providers don't want their name tarnished with credible verification services. It's not against the law to be part of a verification service. I really don't care if the government sees my membership. Any reasonable escort (regardless of services provided during a date) would want to know if their next client had a history of violence or "no-shows" or disrespect. That's really all verification is. An additional layer of safety and accountability. If their intentions are good to begin with, they shouldn't have a problem being verified. Best way to avoid the blackmail thing and a hundred other landmines IMHO.

[QUOTE=DuderWalter;3310304]1. I think this would happen more if the girl is not reviewed much, make sure you do your homework and go to a provider with mostly good reviews. I have gone to some that don't have reviews but I don't think that is very smart at all.

2. Be Nice. There is no reason to try to stiff her, NO REASON! If she doesn't do what you expect or even do what she says she was going to do, just pay and get out. If you don't care who knows what you are doing then yah fight for your money but in my opinion pay and never call her again. She doesn't expect you to anyway. If you stiff her expect a call back or worse.

As I do agree with SunIsBurning to be full proof, if you're smart you know when to reveal who you are and when to bail. Got to use that big head more than you think first time seeing a lot of these girls. I have even cut off the ones who text me at random hours of the day / night. I can't have that, that's a "NO NO". So I politely say this isn't me anymore or please let me text you first. Most of the girls I see are just as discrete as me so that's always a good sign. There must be the same amount of trust going both ways, if not then get out.

Be Smart![/QUOTE]So Duter, you're saying to pay her the blackmail demands? What good will that do? She is probably demanding thousands of $$. And once you pay what's to say she isn't going to come back again and demand more? Bad choice.

[QUOTE=SunnyBeaches7;3310234]Are you saying Google Voice is not safe?[/QUOTE]I just would never call or text from my personal number.

[QUOTE=Chungan;3309947]So. Reading about black mail, was just wondering using Google voice number is just as good as burner phone?

Yes someone can hack into Google voice and get the real number, but most people I see doesn't have that skill set.

Was just wondering. What's your opinion guys?[/QUOTE]Not sure how hacking would work if the girl didn't already know your gmail (I actually have a separate hobby gmail). Unless she gets a federal warrant and gets google to cough up your info I doubt a normal person could get your info. Best part of google voice is being able to toggle it off and on I I can prevent random calls at night from providers.

How much info are you guys giving to these providers? If a provider wanted more than my name I would say no thanks and hang up. No way would I give her my home address and employment info.

Anyone use text now app. Worked well for me.

We run most of the business using Google Voice, connected to Google Contacts, Gmail, Google Translate, Google Calendar and Google docs using a pair of Chromebooks and our two Android phones. By relying primarily on text messages for scheduling, Mei and I can coordinate pretty well. I can make VOIP calls from Google Hangouts. Its quite a robust ecosystem and has built in translation capabilities so I can write contracts, documents, and financial information in English and Chinese simultaneously. I added Sideline so I could have, in effect, two Google Voice numbers on one telephone. Incoming calls can be directed to whoever is working that day (although it always seems to be me.).

But to the thread topic, I must say that because google voice is interconnected to almost everything "footprints / fingerprints" are everywhere. If my phone of computer falls into the wrong hands, I'm toast. It's not very good for people trying to to keep secrets. Sideline is easier to hide, though obviously not as robust.

Finally, I'd be remiss if I did not mention wechat, which is an awesome app. You don't have to be Chinese to appreciate it. But if you interact with Chinese people, it truly is the "killer app" which you absolutely have to have. Bob.

[QUOTE=Jayp80;3310626]Not sure how hacking would work if the girl didn't already know your gmail (I actually have a separate hobby gmail). Unless she gets a federal warrant and gets google to cough up your info I doubt a normal person could get your info. Best part of google voice is being able to toggle it off and on I I can prevent random calls at night from providers.[/QUOTE]

Time to empty your inbox.

[QUOTE=RonM;3310692]How much info are you guys giving to these providers? If a provider wanted more than my name I would say no thanks and hang up. No way would I give her my home address and employment info.[/QUOTE]You are on point!! Especially if we are hunting on BP or CL, we should just use a separate phone (with GV even, I wouldn't just use GV on my phone that everyone in my life knows), a burn wallet without credit card etc. Always going to cheap motels or even good hotels if the girl only do outcall, even if we are single and own our place.

Just to clarify guys:

I did not meet this person. I texted "Available" they responded asking where I was. I gave them neighborhood. They asked if I lived alone. I said I cannot host. They said "Pay me or I'm going to expose you. " Then they started using my first and last name, then sent me my Facebook profile picture.

I deactivated Facebook and told them "I have notified the Chicago Police Department and provided them with your number". They responded with "wow" and it's been silent.

I don't know whether to post this in here or south side reports. But, anyways, after posting ads on CL for a FWB and getting contacted by several women asking for donations I finally just met up with my first, Ashley. She's in her mid 20's white kinda cute thin definitely had a kid because when she took off her shirt she had saggyish Ds and a mom belly neither which bother me. She smokes and was kinda all over the place and living out of a hotel. We got to business and it was a "C" BBBJCIM with an immediate rush to spit and thanks out the door as she asked for an extra ten (which I didn't giver her) on top of the sixty already. I'm in no hurry to repeat but she seemed desperate for new friends so.

I always try to stay friendly with old CL friends. I have found they come and go over the years. They will just stop answering emails or texts. But I have had a few contact me after a couple of years. One did last night! Cute latina BBw wants to meet again. Told me I was an nice guy and took care of her needs. Hopefully meet this week. Rocket Dork.

[QUOTE=ToeKnee;3312051]I don't know whether to post this in here or south side reports. But, anyways, after posting ads on CL for a FWB and getting contacted by several women asking for donations I finally just met up with my first, Ashley. She's in her mid 20's white kinda cute thin definitely had a kid because when she took off her shirt she had saggyish Ds and a mom belly neither which bother me. She smokes and was kinda all over the place and living out of a hotel. We got to business and it was a "C" BBBJCIM with an immediate rush to spit and thanks out the door as she asked for an extra ten (which I didn't giver her) on top of the sixty already. I'm in no hurry to repeat but she seemed desperate for new friends so.[/QUOTE]PM me contact info?

[QUOTE=GunnerMagnum;3309838]I read this and I'm glad I stick with AMP's. Never had one problem. This hobby should be fun and if your at the point of james bonding everything then its no longer a hobby.[/QUOTE]It's actually not too hard to maintain your anonymity. Just being patient enough to cover everything. I've read a few tips posted that I follow myself. I find the James Bond aspect kinda fun, tbh

Nothing is completely safe. I've heard of some AMPs that secretly video tape you.

I haven't used BP or the old CL for a while now. Ran into scam attempts every now and then, but the most common issue were fake pics. Though it has been a while.

Then again, there was that incall incident last summer where they tried to jack me in the north side, by Belmont and Cicero!

[QUOTE=MrCharmo;3312812]It's actually not too hard to maintain your anonymity. Just being patient enough to cover everything. I've read a few tips posted that I follow myself. I find the James Bond aspect kinda fun, tbh

Nothing is completely safe. I've heard of some AMPs that secretly video tape you.

I haven't used BP or the old CL for a while now. Ran into scam attempts every now and then, but the most common issue were fake pics. Though it has been a while.

Then again, there was that incall incident last summer where they tried to jack me in the north side, by Belmont and Cicero![/QUOTE]Area sound familiar. . Thick white chick street behind Walgreens?

[QUOTE=RocketDork;3312762]I always try to stay friendly with old CL friends. I have found they come and go over the years. They will just stop answering emails or texts. But I have had a few contact me after a couple of years. One did last night! Cute latina BBw wants to meet again. Told me I was an nice guy and took care of her needs. Hopefully meet this week. Rocket Dork.[/QUOTE]Hey RD. Was her name Tatianna?

[QUOTE=GordoGordo3;3313742]Hey RD. Was her name Tatianna?[/QUOTE]Her fake name is Maria. She is a corrections officer. Rocket Dork.

[QUOTE=RonM;3310692]How much info are you guys giving to these providers? If a provider wanted more than my name I would say no thanks and hang up. No way would I give her my home address and employment info.[/QUOTE]I agree with Ron not to give the provider anything. The point is that if the provider has your phone number, she or someone she knows, can find out a lot about you. I've had escorts threaten me with phone number, license number, computer address, etc. If they really have something on you, your best bet is to say you will give the police all of the evidence, block their number and pray. Fortunately, I used a burn phone early on. I know that it is illegal to search a license or computer address, unless someone says you committed a crime, and that only law enforcement can do those searches. I was very lucky that I started to use a burn wallet as a boy friend wanted to take a pic of my license. Nothing was in the wallet but $30.00 and some old prepaid cards (filler to make wallet look valuable) which the boyfriend was eagerly looking through as I made my escape.

As I mentioned before, the blackmailer will bluff a lot and you have to find out exactly what she knows so you can assess the risk.

Now I try to stay with regulars, but I still only use burn phones and burn wallets even with them.

One thing, god help us when facebook brings out the technology of using a pic to search and find your web page.

[QUOTE=SunIsBurning;3316277]I agree with Ron not to give the provider anything.

One thing, god help us when facebook brings out the technology of using a pic to search and find your web page.[/QUOTE]Won't happen with my Facebook page. I didn't post a pic of myself and I didn't use my real name.

[QUOTE=AsianCraze;3313676]Area sound familiar. . Thick white chick street behind Walgreens?[/QUOTE]I posted about it last summer. They were Latinas in the pics, and ugly fat Latina in person. Maybe three streets east of Cicero. And one or two blocks south of Belmont.

Three flat building had no lights in at all. Dogs barking from the back of the apartment. Some muscled head Hispanic guy hiding in the corner. Luckily, I reacted fast and ended up walking out of there without harm nor getting robbed.

[QUOTE=MrCharmo;3316732]I posted about it last summer. They were Latinas in the pics, and ugly fat Latina in person. Maybe three streets east of Cicero. And one or two blocks south of Belmont.

Three flat building had no lights in at all. Dogs barking from the back of the apartment. Some muscled head Hispanic guy hiding in the corner. Luckily, I reacted fast and ended up walking out of there without harm nor getting robbed.[/QUOTE]I remember this that is kind of an "iffy area" depending on the time of day. Anything along the belmontish east of cic is suspect sort of albany park but again as I tell people this city is block to block. Generally speaking cicero itself up north is good. In the hood not so much just south but then it cleans up and gets wider towards midway. Anything in a house is a no for me. Too many things can happen. You don't know all the hiding places! I mean at a hotel I can scope it all out for get away's but in these areas down here some are very tight. It's a no all the way around for me with private buildings. Unless its a known quiet burb.

About a year ago was going through CL for rub, this girl offers a bunch of rubs, so I opted for the cheap version, trust nothing else is offered. 50 per session, and NOOOO talking, no interaction, no real love in there. Would stay away, uses multiple names on BP, and CL, just saw her ad on live rub reviews and info [URL]http://www.bodyrub.info/Chicago-body-rubs/1442/Create-an-entire-years-worth-of-relaxation--once-a-week[/URL].

[QUOTE=CougarBait;3308882]Anyone ever been blackmailed?

[URL]https://chicago.craigslist.org/chc/cas/6043839021.html[/URL]

Just texted this one. She must have searched my number and got my full name, then found my facebook or something. She is threatening to expose me.

Number is 773-XXXX328. Any idea how to handle this?[/QUOTE]I would take your number off of Facebook plus get a burner phone for any future connects.

[QUOTE=CougarBait;3308882]Anyone ever been blackmailed?

[URL]https://chicago.craigslist.org/chc/cas/6043839021.html[/URL]

Just texted this one. She must have searched my number and got my full name, then found my facebook or something. She is threatening to expose me.

Number is 773-XXXX328. Any idea how to handle this?[/QUOTE]Take your number off your Facebook page. Never link your Facebook page with your phone number. Never use your real name.

[QUOTE=SunIsBurning;3316277]
Now I try to stay with regulars, but I still only use burn phones and burn wallets even with them.
.[/QUOTE]I know a lot of guys swear by different apps, but when you really want security, a burner is *the* gold standard. Cash buy in a store you don't usually frequent, registered to a throw-away email address in a phony name, and cash buys for minutes. A provider / pimp gets hold of your number and threatens you, you can laugh your ass off before throwing the phone away and replacing it. Nothing to tie the phone to you, so they've got squat. You might have to get in touch with any 'regulars' to let them know you've changed numbers, but that's about the only down side.

[QUOTE=Castlerae;3317681]I know a lot of guys swear by different apps, but when you really want security, a burner is *the* gold standard. Cash buy in a store you don't usually frequent, registered to a throw-away email address in a phony name, and cash buys for minutes. A provider / pimp gets hold of your number and threatens you, you can laugh your ass off before throwing the phone away and replacing it. Nothing to tie the phone to you, so they've got squat. You might have to get in touch with any 'regulars' to let them know you've changed numbers, but that's about the only down side.[/QUOTE]Not sure if anyone was looking to save a couple bucks on a burner, but my past 2, including the one I am using currently, I've picked up at Walgreens. I watch the back shelves and they will put them on clearance. Sometimes like 60 or 70 percent off. Buy a prepaid card there also, and it is a one stop monger shop. I've seen them discounted at other drug stores and large chains (Walmart) also, just keep your eyes open.

[QUOTE=RonM;3317617]Take your number off your Facebook page. Never link your Facebook page with your phone number. Never use your real name.[/QUOTE]I would go a step further and stay completely away from all social sites. I did that even though I used a phony name (this one here) and a phony google voice number and email. The problem I found is when searching and posting pictures something might slip by. It only takes one pic, then a search and then that person has your real details. That said these shakedown type posts seem to be picking up so I am interested in others responding if they see a trend here. Those bad hustlers need to be outed here as well imo. Details, original ads, contact info would be helpful to the group imo.

[QUOTE=RonM;3317617]Take your number off your Facebook page. Never link your Facebook page with your phone number. Never use your real name.[/QUOTE]She found my name googling my number and then used my name to get to my Facebook.

[URL]https://chicago.craigslist.org/nwc/thp/6055077952.html[/URL]

First thanks for all the info, figure I give back, some were asking about her so I toftt and it is out of a townhome no massage table just a bed, massage was OK first time someone used feet and hands but she is all about the $$ Half the time she was more into the Asian version of Benny hill that was on TV, LOL. Avoid.

[QUOTE=Delta634;3319988][URL]https://chicago.craigslist.org/nwc/thp/6055077952.html[/URL]

First thanks for all the info, figure I give back, some were asking about her so I toftt and it is out of a townhome no massage table just a bed, massage was OK first time someone used feet and hands but she is all about the $$ Half the time she was more into the Asian version of Benny hill that was on TV, LOL. Avoid.[/QUOTE]Please repost this in a more appropriate section. Go to Il. - Other. (bottom of the page). Then Elgin. Where you'll find a discussion about her already in progress.

Welcome.

[QUOTE=RocketDork;3236957]Walked into townhouse and looked to my left at the stairs and there she was. Naked and spreading her legs on top of stairs. Never had that happen to me in this life. Went right at on the stairs. Awesome time. Some of these divorced women have no sex lives or their husbands didn't take care of their needs. Rocket Dork.[/QUOTE]My Schaumburg MILF is no longer answering my emails. Have no idea why. Met her 5 or 6 times and had a great time. Thats what happens to these CL women. You have to enjoy them while you can. Meeting new one on Monday. Rocket Dork.

[QUOTE=FrankSuave;3297136]Here's the screenshot.[/QUOTE]Frank, she's legit. Her bangs are real.

[QUOTE=RocketDork;3324385]My Schaumburg MILF is no longer answering my emails. Have no idea why. Met her 5 or 6 times and had a great time. Thats what happens to these CL women. You have to enjoy them while you can. Meeting new one on Monday. Rocket Dork.[/QUOTE]It's an in the moment situation. I would say they have been in a relationship so long and it's more of a matter of convenience than real love, sex or companionship any longer. They give up and just stagnate. However, as women like us they still breath hope for sexual encounters and who knows maybe even look for real love. Eventually guilt takes over and they go back to their boring lives and wait to venture out into the unknown once again.

[QUOTE=RocketDork;3324385]My Schaumburg MILF is no longer answering my emails. Have no idea why. Met her 5 or 6 times and had a great time. Thats what happens to these CL women. You have to enjoy them while you can. Meeting new one on Monday. Rocket Dork.[/QUOTE]When she's hurting for money I'm sure she'll call you again.

Exactly right.

[QUOTE=RonM;3325126]When she's hurting for money I'm sure she'll call you again.[/QUOTE]

I am suppose to meet a new CL woman on Tuesday and another one on Thursday night. And one of them is a squirter! Hopefully I get to meet both of them. Rocket Dork.

[QUOTE=RocketDork;3325815]I am suppose to meet a new CL woman on Tuesday and another one on Thursday night. And one of them is a squirter! Hopefully I get to meet both of them. Rocket Dork.[/QUOTE]Just finished reading an article on the benefits of drinking the vaginal juices. It was in Spanish but it is full of vitamins C1, C2, C3 contains sodium high in proteins. Promotes healthy skin, eliminates acne. Helps reduce the chance of prostate cancer. Helps digestive system, and strengthens your teeths and testicles.

Enjoy all that juice!