The bartender is the key a good time anywhere. Thry know who has the good to sell that is for sure. I cut to the bs and get a good ole fashion squirt and go and be done with them Easy in and easy out.
[QUOTE=Old Skul]...what you see as acceptable risk. There's always going to be risk inherent in doing this (at least in these here Oppress-ed States), but I like to keep mine to an absolute minimum. That's why I don't do MPs or incall locations. I'd rather do without than run the risk of LE coming through the door mid-session, or worse, meeting me at the door. Not to mention, of course, the risk of the provider running some kind of Murphy game.
The two times that I've come close to being compromised have both involved going to someone else's location.
The first time was in '96 with an on-again, off-again provider I vaguely knew in Miami. I'd called to see if she would meet me at a motel (of my choosing) for a session, which would have been our first. She kind of blew me off, saying it was close to the holidays and she was getting ready to go out of town with family. A few weeks later, she called me out of the blue, all tense sounding, and made a point of repeating our previous conversation in great detail. She told me if I still wanted to "get together" I could come to her hotel (even though she had a house and I knew she did incall there). I said no and found out later that she'd gotten busted and was working off charges by setting up her clients for a sting.
The second was about 10 years ago at a lingerie shop in Columbus, Ga. that was actually a LE sting. I realized it when the "provider" checked my DL, then left the room (presumably so she could pass on my name and DOB for a wants/warrants search). When she came back to ask what I wanted, she casually mentioned that since I was from out of town, I might not know there was a local ordinance against private "lap dancing." To that point, I hadn't done anything illegal and decided to leave. As she was walking me out, she made a point to loudly announce to the other "providers" and the guy manning the door that I should "come back any time that you JUST WANT TO TALK again."
By the way, strippers are not that difficult at all. Yes, asking some random dancer to blow you for a Jackson five minutes after you walk in the door is a good way to get tossed and banned. It's also crude and an asshole move. At best, you're going to look like one more tool of the 10,000 tools that she has to deal with regularly. At worst, you're going to look like a clueless LEO.
You just have to be patient, subtle and respectful. You know, treat them like people that you value, instead of like sex automatons, the way many mongers seem to do. Visit the club a few times just get to know them. Follow the rules and tip well and don't expect anything. You'll quickly learn which ones are up for take-out and which aren't. Then, there's no problem if you casually and politely ask a dancer if she does any work outside the club. Hell, most of them will bring it up themselves.
My few mistakes aside, that's almost exclusively how I've met providers in the past, and still do on rare occasions, and I have never had a single problem. (Oh, and I'm not rich or good-looking.) The majority of the time, they say Yes, give great service, and don't ask for much money. When they do say No, it's no big deal. A few years ago, at a club outside D.C., a dancer turned me down, but then gave me a kiss and said "thank you...at least you asked nicely."
And always make sure you take real good care of the bartender, whether a man or woman. More than once, I've had strip-club bartenders return the favor by steering the right dancers to me.[/QUOTE]
