Age and Ageism. Different Ages, Same Provider
Yeah, I have to chuckle, too, when I see the same provider post multiple ads, sometimes on the same day, claiming different ages. As one of our members notes below, who really cares if a lady says she's 22 in one ad and then says she's 23 in the next ad?
I guess if there's a difference between the ages in two ads, I'd assume she's using a phony age. Which I assume anyway. And that she may be way older than both of the ages she put in her ads. Compare it to a personals ad: When a gal says she's average weight, it means she's 20 pounds overweight. When she claims to be 10 pounds overweight, I just take it for granted that she's at least 30 pounds overweight. If according to her ad she's 30 pounds overweight, I know she's a super-sized BBW. . . And so on.
Interestingly, some mature ladies kind of give up lying about their ages and seem to come clean with their true ages. If a lady is 62, she may want to admit that, to appeal to potential clients who prefer older women. But then again, there are quite a few ladies whose ages cluster around 39, including at least a few ladies who are well into their 50's and at least one who has pushed past 60.
To me, the main reason to care about a lady's reported age is because it offers you information about what the experience is likely to be like, after you've shown up and can judge her real age for yourself. For example:
If a provider places an ad claiming to be 23 and I show up and she's in her 40's, I turn around and leave right away. That's a blatant lie, and if she's bold enough to lie that bald-facedly, then she'd be willing to lie about anything and everything else in order to get the donation from me. It also shows she's not all that smart, since she should have known I'd realize the lie the moment she opened the door, and also that she just doesn't care about keeping her clients happy. If I drove 30 miles to spend time with a 25-year-old and the woman who greets me is 45, I'm unwilling to hand her any roses at all.
If she claims to be 39 and she's 50, I leave it alone. She's middle-aged and I knew that coming over, and that was the important thing.
If according to her ad she's in her early 30's but I discover, on meeting her, that she's in her 60's, I figure she might be a ROB (as Samantha in Waltham is) and I just turn and walk away.
So, nah, I don't take their self-reported ages too seriously. And if I'm really in the mood to spend time with someone in their 20's and not their 30's, I just go ahead and say that to the lady when we're speaking on the phone or texting. After we've scheduled a time, the last part of our exchange might go like this:
Me: Tiffany, I'm looking forward to meeting you. You sound nice. Can I ask you, are you honestly 23?
Tiffany: I sure am, hon.
Me: Please be honest. I understand that lots of ladies fib a little about their ages in their ads. And for me it's not a problem if you're in your 30's, but if I drive over to see you and you're not in your 20's, I wouldn't want to waste your time or mine. I leave it vague so it doesn't sound like I'm warning her that I'll leave if she's not in her 20's. I want her to feel that I'll still come over if she's in her 30's, and, yeah, I actually might.
Tiffany: Well, hon, I'm actually 29, but I'm told I look like I'm in my early 20's.
Me: Okay, thanks. I'll see you soon.
So based on that conversation, I know that Tiffany lied in her ad. Not a big deal. And that she's almost certainly in her 30's, and that she's just lied to me again. If I really wanted to spend time with someone who is 23, I'll call her back a few minutes later to let her know I've changed my mind. If I show up and she's in her late 30's or in her 40's, I'll just walk away and chalk it up to dishonesty.
If a particular lady's real age is that important to me on a given day, I feel that it's up to me to communicate that to her. The gals must assume that we guys automatically add 5-10 years to their advertised ages, right? I mean, what lady who is 38 years old would be foolish enough to put that age in her ad? Many of us. Maybe most of us. Would assume that she's got to be in her 40's. So if I were a 38-year-old provider, I would pretty much feel that it was necessary for me to claim to be 32 or 33 years old or else risk losing lots of potential clients.
Anyway, that's my 2 cents.
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Your not in Kansas anymore
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Those two both look like they could be a hot time.
Tried making plans with this girl while she was on the seacoast. Flaked. Idk if she thought I was LEO?
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NH has me nervous as I don't see a whole lot of activity, and if there is, it must be on the DL? Any guidance would be appreciated. Doesn't seem like a target rich environment as my former stomping ground is. (Cleveland.).
-Cheers mates.
Cloaked.[/QUOTE]Yeah I know, Cleveland is in Ohio, and it rocks etc. If you came to monger you came to the wrong state. There is activity, but not the kind of volume one can readily observe by looking at the BP ads for the Cleveland / Akron / Canton area.
I am curious about your first ad as well. I would need to see some I'd from the one on the left. They look like trouble, I am not sure weather it would be good or bad.
But then my MO is paranoia, so what can I tell ya. If you want a target rich environment, drive to MA.
