Tips, Tricks, Arguing, and Bullshit

[QUOTE=Number614;5647291]What do you use to learn more information on someone? I used to use the white pages app. $6/ month and I found something on most phone numbers. Now, less than 10% have results but they've started using up one of your limited searches even if they find nothing. Is there a better app or way?[/QUOTE]6 bucks a month? You overpaid big time! I google the number, or use an app called true caller. Even then, most of these girls have textnow numbers so that's pointless. Send me a message about info you need, I love to help!

Looking at the Forum in Atlanta. We should have it so good here. Actually distinguish their AMP'S by ethnicity. CAMP and KAMP.

So if you are like me you like BB service. Kudos to those who don't. Old habits die hard. Anyway, recently I brought home something unwanted from a date. I want to recommend [URL]https://www.goodmds.com/[/URL] . In one hour For $50 and copay at pharmacy, I had two low cost scripts to eradicate my unwanted gift. YMMV.

[QUOTE=LiveMonger;5658354]So if you are like me you like BB service. Kudos to those who don't. Old habits die hard. Anyway, recently I brought home something unwanted from a date. I want to recommend [URL]https://www.goodmds.com/[/URL] . In one hour For $50 and copay at pharmacy, I had two low cost scripts to eradicate my unwanted gift. YMMV.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the info! I used plushcare in the past but they have seemed to evolve from the sexual wellness market. There is not much worse that going to the clinic. Did they require testing or anything?

[QUOTE=LiveMonger;5658354]So if you are like me you like BB service. Kudos to those who don't. Old habits die hard. Anyway, recently I brought home something unwanted from a date. I want to recommend [URL]https://www.goodmds.com/[/URL] . In one hour For $50 and copay at pharmacy, I had two low cost scripts to eradicate my unwanted gift. YMMV.[/QUOTE]Can we know from who? So others can be careful?

[QUOTE=PopularHero;5658459]Can we know from who? So others can be careful?[/QUOTE]I'm going to leave her out of it. She's not mainstream anyway. It's my careless fault anyway.

[QUOTE=TitMan717;5658420]Thanks for the info! I used plushcare in the past but they have seemed to evolve from the sexual wellness market. There is not much worse that going to the clinic. Did they require testing or anything?[/QUOTE]Testing is available and recommended, but not required.

[QUOTE=LiveMonger;5658667]I'm going to leave her out of it. She's not mainstream anyway. It's my careless fault anyway.[/QUOTE]As much as it's appreciated that you've shared this information, it's messed up not saying who it is. She may not be mainstream now but knowing how some of these girls are it won't be long before she will be.

[QUOTE=MidwestDude;5658765]As much as it's appreciated that you've shared this information, it's messed up not saying who it is. She may not be mainstream now but knowing how some of these girls are it won't be long before she will be.[/QUOTE]As far as I know, the rules of this board prohibit me from reporting her personal details. Besides, my post was about the service from a website, not the girl.

I'm so frustrated about sex and the relationships between men and women. Why the fuck does it have to be so difficult?! Is it that women just hate sex? Men seem to be fine with having purely physical sex with no ties of emotion or anything else. We'll gladly fuck even women we don't find the most attractive. On the other side. Women have to be in love. And even then, after years with someone they claim to love and who is their life, they stop having any interest in sex. Look at all the dead bedrooms out there. So we look for it somewhere else. You'd think that some women must enjoy sex when you see them posting sexual pics and videos all over social media, etc. Where the fuck are they then? Where are the one's who are really interested in sex and want some guy to be with? Well, they either seem to need cash, drugs, vacations and sugar to do that. Is it that fucking bad to have sex with us that women who do sell their bodies have to get high to forget about it the first chance they get. I understand that when someone like Humpty / Ray is involved but what about us normal to even decent guys? Where's that hot little young lady posting herself naked in every position, talking dirty and fucking a dildo that is so desperate for sex? I'm okay if the wife's hormones have changed and she's not into it any more. But why can't I go find relief without feeling like a giant piece of shit about it? Why do I need to worry that some chick that's willing to suck me off and make me happy is so disgusted that she's going to go OD on some tainted shit because she want's to forget the big smile she put on my face?! I so fucking frustrated! And the fucking wife. I give hints. I try to make little jokes to just nudge her and let her know I could use SOMETHING involving pleasure to my cock at least a few times a year. And I'm the bad guy! Can you really consider it pressuring to hint that you could use a fuck, blowjob or even a handjob a few times a year? I don't need to fuck every day like when we met. Just let off some steam from time to time. Why aren't you the bad one for being to selfish to lend a hand. Or a mouth. Or just pretend to enjoy my cock in you for a few minutes. I'm not looking for marathon sex! And of course. If I do step out. I'm the bad guy and then there's divorce and a broken home for the kids and alimony and who gets the house. FUCK! It shouldn't be this fucking difficult! Gahhhhhh!

God I need a nice looooooong blowjob!. And from an attractive to me lady. Someone like the girls in the ads. Fuck the government and the Christians and the feminists and everyone else who stands in the way of people getting together to exchange whatever. It's none of their fucking business. Bad enough wondering / knowing that the pleasure she gives you is probably going to lead to her shooting up some heroine or whatever to make her forget you.

I just want to be mouth loved by some lady!

/ vent.


Great....I forgot the AMPs! Seems nice but there you have to worry the girl is being trafficked! Fuck!

[QUOTE=Prim0;5669539]I'm so frustrated about sex and the relationships between men and women. Why the fuck does it have to be so difficult?! Is it that women just hate sex? Men seem to be fine with having purely physical sex with no ties of emotion or anything else. We'll gladly fuck even women we don't find the most attractive. On the other side. Women have to be in love. And even then, after years with someone they claim to love and who is their life, they stop having any interest in sex. Look at all the dead bedrooms out there. So we look for it somewhere else. You'd think that some women must enjoy sex when you see them posting sexual pics and videos all over social media, etc. Where the fuck are they then? Where are the one's who are really interested in sex and want some guy to be with? Well, they either seem to need cash, drugs, vacations and sugar to do that. Is it that fucking bad to have sex with us that women who do sell their bodies have to get high to forget about it the first chance they get[/QUOTE]I'm not intending to be snarky merely helpful. Perhaps a visit with a registered therapist might be the best use for your money. I don't think anyone who works as a provider in Columbus can help you.

When I first started going to AMPs I used to worry about trafficking. As time went on I've gotten to know some of them and they aren't forced into this. They go on vacations, shopping sprees, have families they support etc.

[QUOTE=Prim0;5669539]I'm so frustrated about sex and the relationships between men and women. Why the fuck does it have to be so difficult?! Is it that women just hate sex? Men seem to be fine with having purely physical sex with no ties of emotion or anything else. We'll gladly fuck even women we don't find the most attractive. On the other side. Women have to be in love. And even then, after years with someone they claim to love and who is their life, they stop having any interest in sex. Look at all the dead bedrooms out there. So we look for it somewhere else. You'd think that some women must enjoy sex when you see them posting sexual pics and videos all over social media, etc. Where the fuck are they then? Where are the one's who are really interested in sex and want some guy to be with? Well, they either seem to need cash, drugs, vacations and sugar to do that. Is it that fucking bad to have sex with us that women who do sell their bodies have to get high to forget about it the first chance they get. I understand that when someone like Humpty / Ray is involved but what about us normal to even decent guys? Where's that hot little young lady posting herself naked in every position, talking dirty and fucking a dildo that is so desperate for sex? I'm okay if the wife's hormones have changed and she's not into it any more. But why can't I go find relief without feeling like a giant piece of shit about it? Why do I need to worry that some chick that's willing to suck me off and make me happy is so disgusted that she's going to go OD on some tainted shit because she want's to forget the big smile she put on my face?! I so fucking frustrated! And the fucking wife. I give hints. I try to make little jokes to just nudge her and let her know I could use SOMETHING involving pleasure to my cock at least a few times a year. And I'm the bad guy! Can you really consider it pressuring to hint that you could use a fuck, blowjob or even a handjob a few times a year? I don't need to fuck every day like when we met. Just let off some steam from time to time. Why aren't you the bad one for being to selfish to lend a hand. Or a mouth. Or just pretend to enjoy my cock in you for a few minutes. I'm not looking for marathon sex! And of course. If I do step out. I'm the bad guy and then there's divorce and a broken home for the kids and alimony and who gets the house. FUCK! It shouldn't be this fucking difficult! Gahhhhhh![/QUOTE]Read The Rational Male, if you really want to understand what's going on with women. But only if you really want the ugly truth.

[QUOTE=Prim0;5669539]I'm so frustrated about sex and the relationships between men and women. Why the fuck does it have to be so difficult?! Is it that women just hate sex? Men seem to be fine with having purely physical sex with no ties of emotion or anything else. We'll gladly fuck even women we don't find the most attractive. On the other side. Women have to be in love. And even then, after years with someone they claim to love and who is their life, they stop having any interest in sex. Look at all the dead bedrooms out there. So we look for it somewhere else. You'd think that some women must enjoy sex when you see them posting sexual pics and videos all over social media, etc. Where the fuck are they then? Where are the one's who are really interested in sex and want some guy to be with? Well, they either seem to need cash, drugs, vacations and sugar to do that. Is it that fucking bad to have sex with us that women who do sell their bodies have to get high to forget about it the first chance they get. I understand that when someone like Humpty / Ray is involved but what about us normal to even decent guys? Where's that hot little young lady posting herself naked in every position, talking dirty and fucking a dildo that is so desperate for sex? I'm okay if the wife's hormones have changed and she's not into it any more. But why can't I go find relief without feeling like a giant piece of shit about it? Why do I need to worry that some chick that's willing to suck me off and make me happy is so disgusted that she's going to go OD on some tainted shit because she want's to forget the big smile she put on my face?! I so fucking frustrated! And the fucking wife. I give hints. I try to make little jokes to just nudge her and let her know I could use SOMETHING involving pleasure to my cock at least a few times a year. And I'm the bad guy! Can you really consider it pressuring to hint that you could use a fuck, blowjob or even a handjob a few times a year? I don't need to fuck every day like when we met. Just let off some steam from time to time. Why aren't you the bad one for being to selfish to lend a hand. Or a mouth. Or just pretend to enjoy my cock in you for a few minutes. I'm not looking for marathon sex! And of course. If I do step out. I'm the bad guy and then there's divorce and a broken home for the kids and alimony and who gets the house. FUCK! It shouldn't be this fucking difficult! Gahhhhhh!.[/QUOTE]Serious question; Have you had a serious sit down conversation with your wife expressing your concerns, and getting to the bottom of why her sexual drive seems to be diminished. I don't know how old your wife is, if she's going / gone through menopause and that's the reason for her decreased libido. I agree with Kwak2400, therapy could be an option for you, and / or your wife as well.

Plus I wouldn't throw all women under the broad idea that they have to be "in love" or have some mental connection to a guy for the sex to be an option. I've met my fair share of women who are well and good with having NSA fucking. They're out there albeit not easy to find. I came across one by happy accident by way of a female coworker who happened to be in a similar situation as yourself. In her case her husband wasn't a marathon man in bed, so she needed it to last longer and more often. I was happy to step in as her stunt cock, but I'll admit I turned her down in the beginning. FWB situations never seem to end well, and I wasn't interested in the inevitable fallout because I thought like you did, that women always need to have an emotional connection or be in love for the sex to be good and meaningful to them. I knew I could compartmentalize the relationship as just an exercise in sexual gratification. The only reason why I changed my mind is because we had a convo about the issues I had with being fuckbuddies, and she turned to me and said: "Its just a nut. It's just two people getting off. " I literally did a double take because I never thought I'd hear a statement like that come from a woman's mouth. So women who want purely physical sex are out there, finding them may be a different story altogether.

I can't think of a way for you to find a nutbuddy that would be easier than using Tinder / Bumble. You'll have to wade thorough all the BS bots, fake accounts, and providers masquerading as non providers in order for you to find what you're looking for. But I guess since you're married and want to keep it that way, that may not be an option for you since your profile would be public for all to see.

[QUOTE=Prim0;5669539]I'm so frustrated about sex and the relationships between men and women. Why the fuck does it have to be so difficult?! Is it that women just hate sex? Men seem to be fine with having purely physical sex with no ties of emotion or anything else. We'll gladly fuck even women we don't find the most attractive. On the other side. Women have to be in love. And even then, after years with someone they claim to love and who is their life, they stop having any interest in sex. Look at all the dead bedrooms out there. So we look for it somewhere else. You'd think that some women must enjoy sex when you see them posting sexual pics and videos all over social media, etc. Where the fuck are they then? Where are the one's who are really interested in sex and want some guy to be with? Well, they either seem to need cash, drugs, vacations and sugar to do that. Is it that fucking bad to have sex with us that women who do sell their bodies have to get high to forget about it the first chance they get. I understand that when someone like Humpty / Ray is involved but what about us normal to even decent guys? Where's that hot little young lady posting herself naked in every position, talking dirty and fucking a dildo that is so desperate for sex? I'm okay if the wife's hormones have changed and she's not into it any more. But why can't I go find relief without feeling like a giant piece of shit about it? Why do I need to worry that some chick that's willing to suck me off and make me happy is so disgusted that she's going to go OD on some tainted shit because she want's to forget the big smile she put on my face?! I so fucking frustrated! And the fucking wife. I give hints. I try to make little jokes to just nudge her and let her know I could use SOMETHING involving pleasure to my cock at least a few times a year. And I'm the bad guy! Can you really consider it pressuring to hint that you could use a fuck, blowjob or even a handjob a few times a year? I don't need to fuck every day like when we met. Just let off some steam from time to time. Why aren't you the bad one for being to selfish to lend a hand. Or a mouth. Or just pretend to enjoy my cock in you for a few minutes. I'm not looking for marathon sex! And of course. If I do step out. I'm the bad guy and then there's divorce and a broken home for the kids and alimony and who gets the house. FUCK! It shouldn't be this fucking difficult! Gahhhhhh!

God I need a nice looooooong blowjob!. And from an attractive to me lady. Someone like the girls in the ads. Fuck the government and the Christians and the feminists and everyone else who stands in the way of people getting together to exchange whatever. It's none of their fucking business. Bad enough wondering / knowing that the pleasure she gives you is probably going to lead to her shooting up some heroine or whatever to make her forget you.

I just want to be mouth loved by some lady!

/ vent.


Great....I forgot the AMPs! Seems nice but there you have to worry the girl is being trafficked! Fuck![/QUOTE]You hit on many points that I have been contemplating for some time. I agree with Jon in that this doesn't describe all women but it is definitely the vast majority of them. They are raised to fear sex and hold out for love. The ones who are promiscuous are labeled in society as sluts and ******. It has always carried a negative connotation. Luckily, there is a shift in society that is creating more acceptance for these types of women. Unfortunately for those of us that are past our prime still have to pay (unless you look like George Clooney).

Looking at it from an anthropological standpoint, we are not supposed to mate for life with the same partner. We force this upon or selves. This is why marriage is so much work. We are social in nature and everything down to the shape and size or our dicks support this. We are hardwired to be concerned with the size of our dicks because the longer we are, the deeper we can penetrate. The depth of penetration is important for digging out semen left behind from someone like Ray to increase the chance of your sperm reaching the egg first. This is the reason for the shape.

So with that, we are primal when it comes to sex, women are taught at an early age when their brain is in a much earlier state of development that sex is sacred. We know that this is absolute bullshit and it has been perpetuated through religious since the creation of modern religion.

My recommendation is to find a good SB and keep her or find a solid P2 P provider that you like. This way, you are setting yourself up for a strictly no strings relationship. There are some gems out there, you just have to sort through the shit to find them. Read Rays list and cross all of them off the list for a start.