[QUOTE=DbbClassy2;6582497]Without mentioning or referring to any post or person specifically, I often wonder who guys think they're fooling when they say they're only trying to help a provider out. Do these guys actually believe their own gaslighting? In the first place, these girls aren't asking for anyone's help (excepting the ones who text in the middle of the night seeking money). They're not looking for anyone's help. They know how to surround themselves with males who will give them what they want. These girls make the conscious choice, every day, to do what they do. Granted, times are tough and inflation is real but even the ugliest provider can make enough to take herself out of the game within a year. I know we're talking about very broken individuals with laundry list of emotional problems, but even so, for whatever reason, this is what they want to do. Or at least they're not willing to do what it takes to get out of the game.
A guy coming in and lavishing money on a provider is only looking out for himself under the guise of altruism. Maybe he think the money will make the provider like him better. Well, she'll like the extra money she didn't have to work harder for, that's true. Maybe those guys are hoping to make her dependent on all the money he's giving. That's my guess but I could be wrong. Maybe it's the ego boost of coming along and "saving" some poor, needy, waif. I don't know. Whatever it is, it's not genuine altruism. If any of us really wanted to help these girls we would stop enabling them with our money. Truly. We enable them every time we hand over a donation. Every time. Each payment is a justification to keep doing what they're doing. We're in this for ourselves just as these girls are in it for themselves and that's why this game works.
Truly helping someone is unconditional: you give it and whatever they chose to do with it is fine by you. But when your attitude is " I did all this for them and this is what I get?" then you weren't actually giving it unconditionally; you were expecting something in return.
"Great White Saviour" complex is a real thing, but it belongs in chivalry novels from the 16th Century. These girls don't need saving and they're not asking anyone to save them. So.[/QUOTE]Guess what guys. If you do then a "favor" and they pay you back with a free session. It's not because you are friends. It's because she didn't what to pay someone else to do it. The "I am friends with someone I pay to have sex with me is comical. But what ever makes you feel less like a simp.
