Drama 101 in Cleveland

Hungry and LL. I know we are all talking about different girls but the story is one and the same. Had a regular that I had been seeing for a while and made a date. All good right? So I head out get to the incall. , text and crickets. This has never happened with her so I wait 10-15, try again and nothing. 5 more minutes and msg her that I'm leaving. Never heard a peep from her and all she had to do was explain the issue and an apology would have me giving her a break. (I loved her oral skills! Anyhow, I posted a review about it on another site and it really pissed her off. I also found out that a provider can scrub reports they don't like on them. Never ever to return and like the rest she'll never figure out how having regulars is way better than a blind shot in the dark with a stranger / new guy.

Like Hungry I'm real close to closing up shop. I haven't seen anyone for a few weeks now and just like quitting smoking I think I'm kind of over the withdrawal affects. I know I'll enjoy having all the extra money at the end of the month but I'm just not sure what to do with all the extra free time I'm going to have. Maybe volunteer at the women's shelter?

I like the volunteer aspect, LOL. For me The game truly is my hobby, some guys play golf, go fishing, play baseball, for me I love chasing the girls. Money wise its fuking crazy, I know I'm worth at least 5 k a year to my regular ATF. And at least another 5 k a year doing every other chick I can, and I never pass up an AMP. When I think of the $ its nuts. Guess I've had worse habits over the years, gambling, booze, etc. I'm starting to talk myself into volunteering with you.

H.

[QUOTE=ZigBang1;4704572]Like Hungry I'm real close to closing up shop. I haven't seen anyone for a few weeks now and just like quitting smoking I think I'm kind of over the withdrawal affects. I know I'll enjoy having all the extra money at the end of the month but I'm just not sure what to do with all the extra free time I'm going to have. Maybe volunteer at the women's shelter?[/QUOTE]

And the market economy. Someone smarter than me check this, as supply increases aka crappy hourly workers and others that will be first to feel the impact due to lack of resources, aka girls for us to see. Pricing should decrease exponentially for all because demand (us monger types) are on the sidelines stacking cash from jobs that care about us.

Noobs will enter the marketplace, seeing lower and lower prices, will start quoting under $ for an hour.

Then I can have big fun with stacks for days!

Sounds good, right?

I had a regular that I was seeing weekly for couple of months until all of a sudden she wanted more money. I asked what was going to be different, and she said nothing, just raising her rates. I haven't seen her since, and she is posting more ads than before. I guess nobody is paying her rates more than once or seeing her for the first time.

Maybe these girls will stop asking for deposits when making the appointment. I can't believe anyone would even consider doing it.

[QUOTE=MrSmith1969;4705132]And the market economy. Someone smarter than me check this, as supply increases aka crappy hourly workers and others that will be first to feel the impact due to lack of resources, aka girls for us to see. Pricing should decrease exponentially for all because demand (us monger types) are on the sidelines stacking cash from jobs that care about us.

Noobs will enter the marketplace, seeing lower and lower prices, will start quoting under $ for an hour.

Then I can have big fun with stacks for days!

Sounds good, right?[/QUOTE]I agree 100%.

I was thinking the same in that there will likely be new talent available with the hourly workers being impacted. I feel like prices should be going down.

Thinking further about impacts. I am not a massage parlor guy but I have to think the batch of new girls at the AMP is no longer the exciting thing it used to be.

A new bunch of Asian ladies traveling in from what province? F that!

I've seen a few posts about the cost of the hobby. I think Hungry a few posts mentioned he's laying out over 10 K a year to play.

Well, to my way of thinking, that's not too bad. I'm now 62, I was married for 8 years and I have 3 kids. They are all grown now and I don't hear from then unless they want something, for the most part. I'm going to tell you guys something resulting from my own thought, experience, and reading.

We are men. We need sex as a part of our biological foundation. That's why we go out looking for pussy. Now, if you look at the way convention would have it, we should go out, find a woman, woo her at a cost of thousands of dollars in time and dates like dinners, shows, movies, and what all. Hey, start adding up a really good meal at a fancy steakhouse, drinks, maybe a movie or show. You're talking a couple hundred at least, depending on what city you are in.

And then maybe you get some action. Then you maybe finally find one and get married and have kids, and you hope, yes, hope, that you get the sex you need. And you hope that you not only get the sex you need, but that you get the sex you desire. BJs, get a little rimming, get a little anal, go down on a sweet shaved pussy. I mean, you already gave up your biological need for variety, right?

So, my experience is that you don't get any of that. And sex is less frequent, much less getting a great blowjob. And, What I see is these women, once the bait was successful and the catch made, let the bait go and become fat and lazy. They become something you don't want to have sex with. I am seeing this happen even as I write this post to a couple guys I know.

And how much are you going to spend for this merry go round? 10K a year? Ha! Keep going my fellow hobbyists. Much more. And not only that, you spend more, get less, and lose your freedom to boot. And I didn't even start on what happens if you have kids. You become not much more than a machine generating money to support 3 or 4 other people, then you try to save a little, retire and die.

Fuck that. If I knew when I was 20 what I know now, I would never have gotten married or had kids intentionally. I would have stuck with the hobby and today I would be a wealthy man as well as not having done time at that.

Its much more economical as well as more satisfying to pay to play directly rather than indirectly.

Cheech

Yep, the only difference in sex that you pay for and sex that is free is that the sex you pay for is usually cheaper.

[QUOTE=Cheech1;4706398]I've seen a few posts about the cost of the hobby. I think Hungry a few posts mentioned he's laying out over 10 K a year to play.

Well, to my way of thinking, that's not too bad. I'm now 62, I was married for 8 years and I have 3 kids. They are all grown now and I don't hear from then unless they want something, for the most part. I'm going to tell you guys something resulting from my own thought, experience, and reading.

We are men. We need sex as a part of our biological foundation. That's why we go out looking for pussy. Now, if you look at the way convention would have it, we should go out, find a woman, woo her at a cost of thousands of dollars in time and dates like dinners, shows, movies, and what all. Hey, start adding up a really good meal at a fancy steakhouse, drinks, maybe a movie or show. You're talking a couple hundred at least, depending on what city you are in.

And then maybe you get some action. Then you maybe finally find one and get married and have kids, and you hope, yes, hope, that you get the sex you need. And you hope that you not only get the sex you need, but that you get the sex you desire. BJs, get a little rimming, get a little anal, go down on a sweet shaved pussy. I mean, you already gave up your biological need for variety, right?

So, my experience is that you don't get any of that. And sex is less frequent, much less getting a great blowjob. And, What I see is these women, once the bait was successful and the catch made, let the bait go and become fat and lazy. They become something you don't want to have sex with. I am seeing this happen even as I write this post to a couple guys I know.

And how much are you going to spend for this merry go round? 10K a year? Ha! Keep going my fellow hobbyists. Much more. And not only that, you spend more, get less, and lose your freedom to boot. And I didn't even start on what happens if you have kids. You become not much more than a machine generating money to support 3 or 4 other people, then you try to save a little, retire and die.

Fuck that. If I knew when I was 20 what I know now, I would never have gotten married or had kids intentionally. I would have stuck with the hobby and today I would be a wealthy man as well as not having done time at that.

Its much more economical as well as more satisfying to pay to play directly rather than indirectly.

Cheech[/QUOTE]So married 35 yrs, wife was a **** before wedding cake, then the fucking stopped, then the BJ, and now the only sex we have is hallway sex when we tell each other Fuck you! If I get caught in the hobby she will take a whole lot more than $10 grand a year. Like Cheech I wish I new 35 years ago, been better off single. Then again when you are young, who listens to an old man, they tried to warn me!

They tried to warn me too. I was too smart to listen.

Cheech.

[QUOTE=Cheech1;4706850]They tried to warn me too. I was too smart to listen.

Cheech.[/QUOTE]Geez. Thought I was the only one. I told them they were all nuts. Mine was a freak in the sheets, or wherever we happen to be, until the honeymoon. She would fuck or suck anywhere anytime and now we barely kiss. I chased it for years until I gave up. How many times do I need to stick my head in that freezing bucket of ice bobbing for an "apple" until I stop being a moron that thinks maybe this time she'll be into it, LOL. I never even considered this "lifestyle" until the wife snuck off the reservation to get a little dirty damp and deep (got to throw that in for the BB fans). Wish I would have known. Can't count how many times I ignored advances because of the ring. Oh well.

Maybe you could talk her into swinging. Or give her a good spanking, LOL.

Cheech.

Each year on St Pats day I take off work, get drunk and do as many women as possible. This year the virus BS and the government closing bars and calling to stay in groups of less than ten will make it much more difficult to carry on. To do my part I've committed myself to no more than a threesome today and a possible make up day in the near future.

Stay safe,

H.

[QUOTE=Cheech1;4706398]I've seen a few posts about the cost of the hobby. I think Hungry a few posts mentioned he's laying out over 10 K a year to play.

Well, to my way of thinking, that's not too bad. I'm now 62, I was married for 8 years and I have 3 kids. They are all grown now and I don't hear from then unless they want something, for the most part. I'm going to tell you guys something resulting from my own thought, experience, and reading.

We are men. We need sex as a part of our biological foundation. That's why we go out looking for pussy. Now, if you look at the way convention would have it, we should go out, find a woman, woo her at a cost of thousands of dollars in time and dates like dinners, shows, movies, and what all. Hey, start adding up a really good meal at a fancy steakhouse, drinks, maybe a movie or show. You're talking a couple hundred at least, depending on what city you are in.

And then maybe you get some action. Then you maybe finally find one and get married and have kids, and you hope, yes, hope, that you get the sex you need. And you hope that you not only get the sex you need, but that you get the sex you desire. BJs, get a little rimming, get a little anal, go down on a sweet shaved pussy. I mean, you already gave up your biological need for variety, right?

So, my experience is that you don't get any of that. And sex is less frequent, much less getting a great blowjob. And, What I see is these women, once the bait was successful and the catch made, let the bait go and become fat and lazy. They become something you don't want to have sex with. I am seeing this happen even as I write this post to a couple guys I know.

And how much are you going to spend for this merry go round? 10K a year? Ha! Keep going my fellow hobbyists. Much more. And not only that, you spend more, get less, and lose your freedom to boot. And I didn't even start on what happens if you have kids. You become not much more than a machine generating money to support 3 or 4 other people, then you try to save a little, retire and die.

Fuck that. If I knew when I was 20 what I know now, I would never have gotten married or had kids intentionally. I would have stuck with the hobby and today I would be a wealthy man as well as not having done time at that.

Its much more economical as well as more satisfying to pay to play directly rather than indirectly.

Cheech[/QUOTE]Never been happier since I left my wife. Not just sexually either but in every aspect of life. Best thing I ever did.

[QUOTE=AlSmits346;4709123]Never been happier since I left my wife. Not just sexually either but in every aspect of life. Best thing I ever did.[/QUOTE]Amen brother.