Thanks for an excellent explanation
Been lurking for a while trying to find this very topic. Thank you!
[QUOTE=CephlapodLove;3250037]There are two fees involved in any AMP visit and a tip.
1) [b]The House Fee.[/b] - Usually 60 for the hour. That gets you an hour with the girl and whatever legitimate services that AMP provides: table shower, sauna, rub down, etc. All non-sexual services and all perfectly legal to contract and pay for. Some AMPs might have a lower rate, say 40 for a half-hour. This money goes to the house or AMP.
2) [b]The "Tip" Fee[/b] - this is a misnomer as it really is a "fee" for extra services. Those services can be HE, HJ, BJ or FS. Rates vary from city to city and often AMP to AMP, but generally 40 gets the job done for a HJ and 100 brings CFS. You should expect to "negotiate" for these services in the middle of the rub down. Now be careful and in most locations offering money for sex acts is illegal. This money is the girl's money, but some portion she has to kick back to the house, or pay a room & board charge or other fees the house may impose on her. You'll never know and asking about it will make everyone nervous.
[b]Finally there is a "tip"![/b] As OP pointed out this is a service industry and like a waiter you owe them a "tip" for good service. So maybe you toss them an extra 10 for OK service and $40 for outstanding, mind-blowing experience?
So typically it is going to cost you anywhere from 160 to 200 for a FULL experience in an AMP.
_60 - House Fee.
[U]100[/U] - Tip Fee for a FS experience.
160 - minimal "cost" for a full date.
[U]_20[/U] - Standard "tip" for good service.
180 - total cost, nice FS date at AMP.
Good luck!
[i]PS - Oh, and you are new and learning! NOTHING wrong with that at all! DO NOT EVER consider asking rookie questions makes you a "pain in the azz guy!" You aren't. The purpose of these boards is to share that kind of information. We all are new at some point and have to learn somewhere. Some choose to do it by making mistakes and experiencing "teachable moments." I think it makes sense to ask questions and learn that way! It is a heck of alot safer![/i][/QUOTE]
What to do about massage oil?
There are several choices, if the AMP offers a TS, you can take the shower afterwards. Also, simply saying no to the question of oil, or say cream oil, or nothing. If you are going for a massage and a Happy Ending, then you might want an oil, then how about stopping at the gym on the way home? Or get home, take a shower immediately, (may not always work, if wife is already home) I usually don't go with any product that smells, they will always let you smell it first, if it smells strong, someone will notice it. The usual procedure is a towel drying before the flip, but, even afterwards, there still can be leftover oil, so not always the best choice. Now, if you are going for a Happy Ending with a massage, then ask for soft, they will know what you want, and that a massage isn't your first requirement. Myself, I tend to see regulars, who know what I like, and its normally a FS visit, so, I skip my gym visit that morning, go for the massage, (my appointment is 1 hour before opening time) then I clean off at the gym, or go home and shower first thing.
[QUOTE=RyanE36;4246152]Any tips for getting the greasy oily feeling washed off? Not sure what the different places use, but sometimes it washes of pretty easily, other times several washes and I can still feel it the next day. Even worse when it's very aromatic.[/QUOTE]
Limit to out of the house hobby time
If there was only one rule for the newbie to this hobby:
"I spent a couple of hours reading this entire board".
Well done, and glad you had a good time, keep up to date on the area's you live near, or travel to, via this forum and use others suggestions of where to go.
"I followed a lot of advice here: smile and be friendly, pay the house fee but flash some extra cash so she could see it, put the "tip" conspicuously on the table, time it just right so that she was walking back in the room as I was taking off my boxers so that she could see I was comfortable being naked with her, etc. ".
Again, you followed the easiest and best suggestions for a successful hobby trip, the only other suggestions, if you don't ask, you won't get. Rarely can you get FS on a first visit to an AMP, but if the place has a well known history, your behavior can get you FS even on a first trip. Don't forget, many of these AMP woman have limited English speaking ability, but, a condom and cash sends exactly the message you might want to send.