What I have learned in the last four weeks of dreaming.
Gentlemen,
I have learned a lot about the dreamworld is the last four weeks. I would like to share! This will be long:
1. Have a plan. Whatever it might be. Hey, if you just want to go down the list, cool. If you want to find one or two providers as your go-tos, cool. If your idea of sexy is the spinner body, cool. If all you want is BBBJ / CIM, cool. But, have a plan. And stick to it. Things might change for you, but have a plan.
2. Do your own research. If you find a provider's ad and she appeals to you, then search her name and her number where she placed her ad. Any other providers using that name? Any other providers using that number? Does she change names / numbers every month? Does her ad show up in multiple cities? Good chance that there is a (non-favorable) reason if those things are happening.
3. Be willing to take one for the team (aka, TOFTT). It seems that there are lots of people who want others to do their homework for them. No! Not willing to do that. There are those that always take but never seem to give. Not good. Keep things balanced. If you are asking for info then keep it to one or two providers at a time and find out all you can before you ask. The info is there, gentlemen! Just open your eyes and look.
4. Contact several providers that meet your plan at one time and see where that gets you. Watch their response time. Also, keep in mind the standard provider's schedule. You don't have to like it or even agree with it. But be smart about contacting them and have realistic expectations with respect to response time. Most. Not all, but most. Work until 7 AM or so. Then they crash for several hours. Don't text someone at 10 AM and expect a response in five seconds. Five hours, maybe! This will go a long way in reducing frustration for you.
5. Counter-Offer. Don't be afraid to negotiate. This is a business. There are too many mongers out there paying inflated donations. The donations are skewed too high and the providers sense of entitlement needs to be checked! Remember, the providers are offering a service. Negotiate. Be reasonable. Be fair. Be respectful and by all means be human. But negotiate. Why'all can thank me later on this point.
6. Treat the providers with respect. Hey, they are offering a service for which we have an interest. Treat then respect and be a good guy (don't confuse that with being an idiot or being a push over or being a pussy). That will go a VERY LONG way. Sure, many providers could brush up on their customer service skills. That seems to be a given. Hey, they need to earn my respect, you may say. Absolutely. Agree 100%. But if you contact them and treat them like some two-bit *****. They do need to keep your respect. But that is a whole other conversation.
7. don't be afraid to walk away. I have done it. Hated it. Felt horrible. But did it. This is a business, gentlemen. You would not go into a business meeting with someone developing Luxory Condos and then find out that the proposed location is right next to the Airport and a Sewer Treatment Plant, right? You would thank them for their time and shut down conversation immediately. Use the big head. Have the right perspective. She opens the door and is not the girl in the ad, walk away. She opens the door and is high as a kite, walk away. She opens the door and has sores all over her body, walk away. Or, she keeps you waiting for more than your level of tolerance is, leave. So, mine is 10 minutes. If she keeps me waiting more than that, then I leave. And don't be shy about communicating that. Give them a fair chance. But stay firm in your actions. If you say that you are going to leave in five minutes and she texts you in seven. Leave. They will learn that the BS will cost them donations and earn themselves a bad rep.
8. During the actual dream, keep your word. If you communicated with her about specifics (not all will do thay) then keep your word. Have fun, but don't be degrading or disrespectful. If you engage in dirty talk, be cool. You would not believe how quickly you can kill a greay time with a few words. But, do that right and the experience will be all the better. If you are into BBBJ make sure that the finish is cool. Make sure to let the provider know that the end is near. CIM or COF or COB can be cool. It is even better when she is ready for it. If you are into FS then make sure that you show up with everything that you need for it. Don't assume that the provider will have anything. That is even an old worn-out trick that they use. It still works (which blows my mind). Come prepared. That will go a long way. And, to the "nice guy" in us all, if you have seen a provider once or twice and you know that she likes a certain treat (snickers bar, for example) then surprise her with one or two the next dream. It will go a very long way.
9. Use the forum wisely. Not everyone uses the forum wisely. Maybe there is some learning curve? Maybe the Search button in the upper right corner needs to be more prominently displayed? I thought that basic marketing teaches us that effectively everyone looks to the upper right corner first and frequently? There is a ton of good info in here. Use it. And when you do post a question looking for info about a specific provider then consider adding the phrase similar to". And I did search on the web site where her post was and I did use the Search Button in this forum before posting." I would suggest that doing this will greatly improve your chances of getting a favorable reply!
10. Finally, remember that YMMV. Or, for those new. Your mileage may vary. For example, I have dreams with a provider who gets horrible reviews. I have never had an issie. Let's be honest. She tells me that most guys show up dirty and smelly and treat her like a cheap ****. She is going to ghost you. However, if you show up freshly showered, clean, teeth brushed and deodarant / cologne then she is likely going to enjoy the dream. She won't ghost you anymore. Treat her well and she will return the favor! Also, to this point, one man's treasure is another man's trash. I like the 5'2"/115 lbs spinner. Some of you might look at that provider and think "Where is the rest of her? All good, man! Just keep that in mind. Don't comment on "my type" just because it differs from your type. We all have different tastes. Let's just help each other find whatever it might be that we are seeking and keep our opinions (about my type or his type) to ourselves!
I think that these last four weeks have been an eye-opening experience. I thank all of you for your help and input.
Monger safe!
Pretty Young Thing, aka Kylie
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I am in the process of contacting her. Looks like my idea of a good time. Anyone dream of her yet? Did not see any reviews here. She seems to be somewhat new (late September is when her first post appeared in the WS section of STG). Searching her handle and name and phone number in STG seems to to give very consistent results.
Any intel appreciated. Not in a position. At this point. To TOFTT. So that is not an option atm.
Monger safe!
Link to Megan's most recent post for those interested
[QUOTE=Hobbist540;3975524]I have had amazing dreams about Megan three times in the last week. She is prompt to reply, sweet in demeanor and provides a GFE dream. Sensual touching, erotic kissing and a toe curling dream each time. I will continue to dream of her.
I read the other posts and have not seen anything close resembling the content of those posts. She seems to be very sweet. I am glad that I broke down and contacted her after my initial attempts failed (which I understand the context of her delayed replies). I can attest that she has not contacted me one single time. I have been the one to contact her each time. Can't say that about all of the providers out there.
Monger safe![/QUOTE][URL]http://winston-salem.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/young-and-playful-ready-to-ple/280843031032[/URL]
Was pretty sure that I included it in my reply post. Clearly not. My bad! Here it is for those interested. Very sweet provider.
Not worried. She has not replied.
[QUOTE=SlutsLover;3976172]Becareful I think is the same girl that been robbing people in clemmons,sheve been posting lately with different pictures and always offering outcalls now, I've talked to her and for what we texted it sounds is the same one.[/QUOTE]Thanks, man! I have texted her three times since my initial post. She has made several ads inbetween my texts and has yet to reply. All good. Not interested if she is a thief. If she is not, well. Not my time to dream of her. Not likely to pursue. But, I have said that twice before and did. Once did not pull the trigger and once I did (multiple times).
Monger safe!
