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[QUOTE=TrollMahn;6796726]Never done VIP in Michigan. Are there typically time restrictions or until the champagne pops the bottle?[/QUOTE]I only go to Henry's North, Bogart's and very rarely, Criket. I've been in the hobby for a very long time and as far as time, that's something that you negotiate with the girl.
[QUOTE=TrollMahn;6796726]Never done VIP in Michigan. Are there typically time restrictions or until the champagne pops the bottle?[/QUOTE]If she likes you or you are a regular she won't count songs.
[QUOTE=DooMama7;6794614]Yesterday was in town and decided to hit up Bogart's and Silver Cricket. Bogart's and Henry's fills my niche for older / MILF like dancers and there were several to choose from. Did not see Anastasia, but got with Brooke, paid 2. 00 for BBBJ and BBFS, didn't nut in her but she was great. Went to SC for some food but I was on a budget and was also drained so I wasn't going to spend anything on any dancers. Saw Kitty / Kitten (biracial or light skin black, fat ass) anyone ever take her to the back for some VIP extras?[/QUOTE]I have never done anything in a strip club (haven't even been in one in a while.
Simple question: how does one get what you did? Do you simply pick out a girl, (I know they ask about doing a dance, go in the back etc) say, I want the full monte, how much? Is it a bit more nuanced than that? Sorry for such a rookie question, I don't want to spend a hundo getting table dances just to find out I could have been balls deep for around that.
Any help / advice would be appreciated.
[QUOTE=TrollMahn;6796726]Never done VIP in Michigan. Are there typically time restrictions or until the champagne pops the bottle?[/QUOTE]TM,
In BTs the VIP is supposed to be for 30 minutes. Most of the time they are relaxed about it, and the attendant will wander back and say if you are staying in the VIP it will cost another $20. You and the girl can negotiate who will pay it. She usually wants you to pay it, but if you are overpaying like $500, they she may cover it because she wants a happy customer.
Occasionally BTs gets aggressive about enforcing it, when that happens it is best to change to a club that doesn't do that. Most time I have had it enforced on me was when the club is empty, for some reason when the VIP's are full they don't seem to enforce it. Often times it is closer to 60 minutes before the guy wanders back.
MM.
[QUOTE=JackOfClubs;6796946]If she likes you or you are a regular she won't count songs.[/QUOTE]JOC,
In my experience this is to be negotiated in the main room, when you are discussing dances, you state that I don't want to count songs that is stressful and I can't perform under that kind of stress.
If you leave it up to the girl, a favorite won't do that with you, but many hustlers will try to count songs.
MM.
[QUOTE=WarrenFun;6797672]I have never done anything in a strip club (haven't even been in one in a while.
Simple question: how does one get what you did? Do you simply pick out a girl, (I know they ask about doing a dance, go in the back etc) say, I want the full monte, how much? Is it a bit more nuanced than that? Sorry for such a rookie question, I don't want to spend a hundo getting table dances just to find out I could have been balls deep for around that.
Any help / advice would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]WF,
Most guys if they have never negotiated for this are very squeamish. They try to use cute euphemisms and be nuanced. That will only lead to confusion and disappointment.
It is time to put your big boy underpants on and advocate for what you want. You need to be specific and direct.
You will not offend her, she has heard many more strange requests than what you want likely earlier this same day.
If you want a couple warm up dances then say that. If don't want any warm up dances than say I don't want a dance, instead I want to put your breasts in my mouth, or my dick in your mouth, or my dick in your pussy. If you want to kiss her then say that. If you want to shoot on her face than say that. She will most likely say yes, but if not then she says no and you move on to the next girl. After you have established the activities then you say I have $200 to spend. She will again say yes or no, or most likely counter offer higher. It is up to you to determine what you want to pay for what services.
This is the most likely way for you to be satisfied because you both know what you want her to do, and what constitutes a successful VIP. This is a buyer beware experience, and most of these girls are very good at what they do, and if they sense weakness or nervousness they will take advantage of you. Some girls no matter what you do or how careful you are will try to cheat you. If that happens and it eventually will, then best to end the session pay for however many songs you were back there and try with a different girl.
Last year I sampled 20 girls and I had 3 try to cheat me, but that meant I had 17 who were honest and did a good job. This seems normal to me, and it is also why guys often repeat with a girl they know they like.
Go try it out and report back on your results.
MM.
[QUOTE=WarrenFun;6797672]I have never done anything in a strip club (haven't even been in one in a while.
Simple question: how does one get what you did? Do you simply pick out a girl, (I know they ask about doing a dance, go in the back etc) say, I want the full monte, how much? Is it a bit more nuanced than that? Sorry for such a rookie question, I don't want to spend a hundo getting table dances just to find out I could have been balls deep for around that.
Any help / advice would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]They know what you're there for and you know what you're there for. There's no pretense. They're all brothels with the disguise being dancing. A tip on stage, chat at the table a bit and then just be straightforward. If you want head, lean over and tell her that you want head or if you want to fuck, tell her that you came to the club to fuck. They'll all give you high offers for either, especially if you're an unknown novice, and they'll try to take advantage of you. You should easily be able to negotiate fucking in $160 - 180 range, without much conversation or hassle. As you can see, some reports are $200 plus but it's all about negotiation.
Two BIG rules to follow 1) NEVER wait until you're in the back room to negotiate price and 2) NEVER pay up front. Once you do either, they've got you. A girl may talk a good game but once you've paid her, the performance may differ from what you negotiated, not be a good a good performance or just flat out change the time frame and cut you off soon (as in 3 songs and you're done). If some girl does that to you, report back to the rest of us, so we don't get screwed over.
[QUOTE=PickleJar;6796853]How does one get 'in the know'?[/QUOTE]Asking for a friend, obviously.
Question for you all. I've been to all the other clubs quite a few times but BT's only twice. Do all of the back booths have those weird low chairs? I hate being that low to the ground. Makes everything awkward LOL.
[QUOTE=DetFan8115;6798862]Question for you all. I've been to all the other clubs quite a few times but BT's only twice. Do all of the back booths have those weird low chairs? I hate being that low to the ground. Makes everything awkward LOL.[/QUOTE]Unfortunately yes.
So if I'm hitting up the Dearborn clubs and I try to keep about 3 K on me is it best on the whole if the girls know that about me or should I make sure they don't know?
[QUOTE=IndyBobby;6799552]So if I'm hitting up the Dearborn clubs and I try to keep about 3 K on me is it best on the whole if the girls know that about me or should I make sure they don't know?[/QUOTE]IB,
That is a huge amount of money, why would you bring so much? How many sessions are you planning to do?
I don't see any value in advertising how much money you have, it is a good way to get quoted high prices (probably happen anyway).
I would encourage you not to overpay for sessions, that just raises the prices for every one. You don't need to be cheap, but negotiate a fair price so everyone is happy.
MM.
I'm not sure if any of you knew Dana at LS. Great girl, tall, dirty blonde hair and tattoo, 34 DDD. Unfortunately, she passed in December.
[QUOTE=MareloboMex;6799558]IB,
That is a huge amount of money, why would you bring so much? How many sessions are you planning to do?
I don't see any value in advertising how much money you have, it is a good way to get quoted high prices (probably happen anyway).
I would encourage you not to overpay for sessions, that just raises the prices for every one. You don't need to be cheap, but negotiate a fair price so everyone is happy.
MM.[/QUOTE]Most of these girls have BF's, I sure wouldn't advertise that amount of cash in your pocket. Makes you a target.
[QUOTE=IndyBobby;6799552]So if I'm hitting up the Dearborn clubs and I try to keep about 3 K on me is it best on the whole if the girls know that about me or should I make sure they don't know?[/QUOTE]At most take 900 into a club. You should able to get 3 covered sessions with that much easy. If you're set on some sort of fantasy fark like BBFSCIP you'll pay quite a bit more if you can even find a girl that will do that. Rinse repeat at each club. Leave the rest in a hotel safe or buried in an out of the way hidden spot in your car (IE not the normal places no glove box, console box nor any place that can be unlocked with the cars key).
My as of yet unfulfilled fantasy is BBFSCIP then make her come back sit with me for a bit then dance on the main stage with my spunk still in her.