Different strokes for different folks
[QUOTE=Resipsaloquito;3421208]Anybody who agrees to a platonic SD / SB relationship should be banned for life, simply because it ruins it for us all. It changes what these girls can reasonably expect from the relationship just as much as a girl who wants $1000 a date.
If any of you have agreed to a platonic Sd / SB relationship, confess now and let us help you through your troubled times.[/QUOTE]I will not fault anyone for doing what he / she feels is in his / her best interests. Different mongers and SB / providers have different reasons for doing what they do. Some mongers simply want to get laid. Others are looking for a possible real long term relationship. And I am sure there are a number of other reasons for being on a sugar daddy site (I. E. Some may have erectile issues and they simply want companionship, others may be going through a messy divorce and are not ready to get back into the dating scene, etc.). So to say that about someone who agrees to a platonic relationship is simply not putting yourself into his shoes. However, with that said, I do agree that guys need to stick together and have some sense of reasonableness.
I have been looking for one woman to be a regular SB. I thought I found her recently, but it did not turn out that way. So I have been looking again. My posts have mostly been about my failed attempts usually because the woman was being unreasonable (in my opinion). They each told me about their past experiences and another SD had given them the amount that they started off with. They have always started high which I do not blame them for doing and they may be lying about their past experience in an effort to get me to pay more than I think is reasonable. Some of them eventually did reduce their request, but others stuck firm to their numbers. So that makes me think that they either have gotten that before or they truly think they can get that. And I am sure some of you very rich guys out there can afford to give them the allowances they request. The fact that I keep hearing the same opening amount gives me pause. I wonder if there is some sort of message board similar to this one that the SB go to to read up on us? And does that same message board give them guidance on what to do or not do?