[QUOTE=Supermanamp;7541661]I like it more when they buy dinner and gifts for me and cook especially for me. But even better when they stay overnight with me.[/QUOTE]Exactly. The last one is the best part.
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[QUOTE=Supermanamp;7541661]I like it more when they buy dinner and gifts for me and cook especially for me. But even better when they stay overnight with me.[/QUOTE]Exactly. The last one is the best part.
[QUOTE=KrDoggy;7541650]These are human beings, with often unpleasant jobs, a little joy for them gives the same to me.[/QUOTE]Agreed. They especially hate it when a customer comes in with a poopy butt.
I sometimes make friends with these women. I've taken them on errands, and I had one who cooked for me quite often. I've done some minor repairs to their appliances (such as the hot towel warmer). Making friends with them helps me practice my Chinese language skills, which are pretty elementary right now, but I'm learning. In fact, these friendships are some of the better ones that I have/ had. And if someone thinks I'm a loser because these are good friendships for me, I don't care.
[QUOTE=KrDoggy;7541650]These are human beings, with often unpleasant jobs, a little joy for them gives the same to me.[/QUOTE]All the positive comments on this topic are apt, but also remember that it's up to each lady to decide if and with whom she'll spend time outside the shop. If she says "no" don't be offended and don't be a pest. Just move on. Seen some stalking type behaviors and that's not cool.
I think almost all these girls have stalker types, many don't want me to say I see them outside the parlor because they don't want to stir up invitations that lead to guys getting angry over rejection.
Most girls don't do it at all and if she says no it may be for a reason that is not about you. I put a silly amount of time into winning their trust and you have to be willing to invest, one nice fuck does not mean she wants to be friends.
[QUOTE=Nwscout;7541886]All the positive comments on this topic are apt, but also remember that it's up to each lady to decide if and with whom she'll spend time outside the shop. If she says "no" don't be offended and don't be a pest. Just move on. Seen some stalking type behaviors and that's not cool.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=KrDoggy;7542118]I think almost all these girls have stalker types, many don't want me to say I see them outside the parlor because they don't want to stir up invitations that lead to guys getting angry over rejection.
Most girls don't do it at all and if she says no it may be for a reason that is not about you. I put a silly amount of time into winning their trust and you have to be willing to invest, one nice fuck does not mean she wants to be friends.[/QUOTE]Let's not forget that no matter how much time and money you invest in these girls, it's just business for them. No money No Honey no matter how much they say they like you. They wouldn't even take a second look at some of us if they didn't do this job. So yeah, respect the girls' wishes if they want to be friends with you or not inside or outside the parlor. Don't forget this is there job and our relationships with them is just business even if some want to be your gf or wifey. Remove the money aspect of the relationship and there is no relationship. Superman has learned this the hard way too. LOL. Be safe. Happy Mongering and Monger on!
[QUOTE=Nwscout;7541886]All the positive comments on this topic are apt, but also remember that it's up to each lady to decide if and with whom she'll spend time outside the shop. If she says "no" don't be offended and don't be a pest. Just move on. Seen some stalking type behaviors and that's not cool.[/QUOTE]That's a good point. Thanks for mentioning it. There are some folks who don't have a high level of emotional maturity. No means no, and not respecting boundaries makes one look like an embarrassing childish ass, as well as making these women feel unsafe and uncomfortable. Accept no for an answer like a real man, and move on. It'll save a person lots of embarrassment and drama.
[QUOTE=KrDoggy;7542118]I think almost all these girls have stalker types, many don't want me to say I see them outside the parlor because they don't want to stir up invitations that lead to guys getting angry over rejection.
Most girls don't do it at all and if she says no it may be for a reason that is not about you. I put a silly amount of time into winning their trust and you have to be willing to invest, one nice fuck does not mean she wants to be friends.[/QUOTE]I think Big Dog is a great example of the necessary "roll with it" attitude that it takes to thrive in this hobby. He's the guy a million ladies will dine with or be chauffered by, but to whom (for some reason) no provider will admit to providing BB service! But he takes it all in stride! Seriously, though, it's important to never take anything personally. Enjoy when things click, and don't stress when they don't. It's like surfing. Make the best when you're given great waves, but recognize that the sea only offers what it offers.
I've come to terms with the fact that I am not cool enough for raw service!
[QUOTE=Gibs789;7542391]I think Big Dog is a great example of the necessary "roll with it" attitude that it takes to thrive in this hobby. He's the guy a million ladies will dine with or be chauffered by, but to whom (for some reason) no provider will admit to providing BB service! But he takes it all in stride! Seriously, though, it's important to never take anything personally. Enjoy when things click, and don't stress when they don't. It's like surfing. Make the best when you're given great waves, but recognize that the sea only offers what it offers.[/QUOTE]
Mia due to crazy work schedule, wasn't able to part take Feb. Fun, going to make it up in March. Envy some mongers here have the consistent time and $ for this hobby, this is expensive hobby, more expensive than golf.
2 new girls to Tokyo: Elsa and Mia. Elsa, spinner body type with d cup, looks like late 20's. Mia also spinner type with fat DD cup and bubbly ass, not sure of her age. Will check other popular spots JM, Shanghai, and ofc my favorite Q spa this month. Can't wait to taste and go deep in them asian kitties.
Happy hunting and stay safe fellas!
[QUOTE=IstlFun;7542460]Mia due to crazy work schedule, wasn't able to part take Feb. Fun, going to make it up in March. Envy some mongers here have the consistent time and $ for this hobby, this is expensive hobby, more expensive than golf.
2 new girls to Tokyo: Elsa and Mia. Elsa, spinner body type with d cup, looks like late 20's. Mia also spinner type with fat DD cup and bubbly ass, not sure of her age. Will check other popular spots JM, Shanghai, and ofc my favorite Q spa this month. Can't wait to taste and go deep in them asian kitties.
Happy hunting and stay safe fellas![/QUOTE]Maybe time to give Tokyo another try. Need to get back into the fitness routine, LOL. Love the exercise ball pic. I'm assuming it's Elsa from the description?
[QUOTE=Gibs789;7542391]I think Big Dog is a great example of the necessary "roll with it" attitude that it takes to thrive in this hobby. He's the guy a million ladies will dine with or be chauffered by, but to whom (for some reason) no provider will admit to providing BB service! But he takes it all in stride! Seriously, though, it's important to never take anything personally. Enjoy when things click, and don't stress when they don't. It's like surfing. Make the best when you're given great waves, but recognize that the sea only offers what it offers.[/QUOTE]Many good points here. Many of the better providers and MMS are very nice and interesting people. Forming friendships is entirely possible and can be healthy as long as not being pushy or obsessive.
I've gone as far as not seeing a girl again if I give her my number and ask her to message me when she's back in town, and she doesn't contact me when she's back. Heard stories from some MMS about things girl have to do to dodge clients they don't want. Definitely don't want to be one of those, LOL. Plenty of girls I get along with just fine, and that's always a better experience for me personally when I know they are happy to see me. Yes, always remembering it's a business of course, but done by people with feelings. I thing that's one job AI won't take over, LOL.
For the guys that frequent these spots. Do you consider yourself attractive? Overweight? Or well endowed?
Have you ever felt like the girl you got found you extreme unattractive or was faking it too strongly?
Maybe these are questions people don't actually consider but it was on my mind.
[QUOTE=KrDoggy;7542415]I've come to terms with the fact that I am not cool enough for raw service![/QUOTE]I'm surprised one of 'them hasn't tried to sneak it in. Yes, they do that.
Starting today new roster at Blue Jade is:
Hailey--the all-time favorite continues for another month.
Kitty.
Lemon.
No news or pics on the new girls that I've seen yet.
[QUOTE=Gibs789;7542734]Starting today new roster at Blue Jade is:
Hailey--the all-time favorite continues for another month.
Kitty.
Lemon.
No news or pics on the new girls that I've seen yet.[/QUOTE]They have a place posting pics? Where?