"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=AliasSM; 1881628]Been keeping a low profile on here since my report that the warden found an unused condom of mine while doing the wash. It was a harrowing experience, but I have survived with marriage relatively intact. I wish I had an excuse prepared already when she found it, but resorted to the deny deny deny logic by default. She is still very suspicious of everything I do now, but has not brought the incident up in well over a month so things have quieted down considerably. The worst repercussion has been that my SB activities are harder to schedule now because every change in schedule or work trip planned is constantly questioned.

Still, I'm so hooked on the SD world that I have found it almost impossible to quit. I have a really nice, late 30s single nurse that I have been with for some time now. She is fantastic in bed, loves oral and anal, and seems to enjoy my company (and of course my money). I also am using a 21 YO local college student and a backup booty call when scheduling is tough with my nurse SB. All of this translates to between 1 and 2 SB visits per week. It's still been a pretty good life.

So there IS life after condom discovery. Just have to watch myself REAL closely to make sure I don't F- up royally again.

I've been keeping up with the forum. Great stories. My hat is off to Hollywood, Scott, BT, and Revvo especially for the massive juggling acts they do on a routine basis. I'd love to do more, but can't find the time to make it happen.[/QUOTE]Great to hear from you. And yes I do still get questions about my whereabouts after my close call / stalker incident back In Feb. So yes Hollywood is right they don't forget.

But my tracks are very well covered. So she has nothing to go on.

And you are right. The sugar world is a heady experience. I Just can't or won't give it up.

Be careful out there.

Revvo

Brothers,

I'm not 100 % certain, but this may be the site that Mandy was (is) involved with. She told me a while back that she was asked to consult / partner on a SB. SD site that sought to "match" babies with daddies according to their profiles.

We fell out of contact when she finished grad school and moved out of town.

If you are reading this, Mandy, can you fill us in?

No new baby news on my end, and nothing but a few short texts from ATF in NYC. Feeling a bit blue, but I know it will pass. Skittish Baby seems to be flaking on me for some FC time this morning at her apartment. Not a surprise.

Onward,

Scott

I'm curious how all of you hide your club fees from the SO. We are talking $ 500 to $2000 / month for most of us, so $10 to 25, 000 is no chump change.

I tell you, once the cat's out of the bag re: the SO and our hobby it makes things harder. Divorce is very costly but those of you who are unattached enjoy it while you can.

Date with 18yr old ATF in a few hours.

And she want to try some kinky stuff. Will report later.

[QUOTE=AliasSM; 1881628]Been keeping a low profile on here since my report that the warden found an unused condom of mine while doing the wash. It was a harrowing experience, but I have survived with marriage relatively intact. I wish I had an excuse prepared already when she found it, but resorted to the deny deny deny logic by default. She is still very suspicious of everything I do now, but has not brought the incident up in well over a month so things have quieted down considerably. The worst repercussion has been that my SB activities are harder to schedule now because every change in schedule or work trip planned is constantly questioned.

Still, I'm so hooked on the SD world that I have found it almost impossible to quit. I have a really nice, late 30s single nurse that I have been with for some time now. She is fantastic in bed, loves oral and anal, and seems to enjoy my company (and of course my money). I also am using a 21 YO local college student and a backup booty call when scheduling is tough with my nurse SB. All of this translates to between 1 and 2 SB visits per week. It's still been a pretty good life.

So there IS life after condom discovery. Just have to watch myself REAL closely to make sure I don't F- up royally again.

I've been keeping up with the forum. Great stories. My hat is off to Hollywood, Scott, BT, and Revvo especially for the massive juggling acts they do on a routine basis. I'd love to do more, but can't find the time to make it happen.[/QUOTE]A few months ago I posted on here about my fling with a mid 20's Brazilian hottie. Really what I had going with her back then was an SD? SB type thing but I didn't pay her a dime. Just paid for the hotel and lunch delivery for the halftime break of our 4-5 hour fuck sessions. They were incredible. Damn I miss her. I was terrible at layering things back then so my email / usernames for all my hobby stuff were the same. So I had reviews at various sites matching my username in my email that my wife saw when she opened my secret mysp* acct that I used to communicate with the Brazilian hottie. So I quickly coped to the affair to get her mind off my username and focused on being totally pissed at me. The first few days were really rough. I acted like a duck. Calm and cool above water but my feet were paddling like a SOB underwater. Changing all my usernames and passwords on various review sites (including this one). So that if we got back to my unknown email name nothing out there matched it. That event happened in early 2008. I was basically out of the game except for an occasional MP visit for the next 4+ years. A SB at that time would have been impossible. Because of the nature of my consulting job my wife knew what I did and where I'd be. She also be prone to just say I'm going with you today at random times. She would sit in the car and read a book while I met with clients. It sucked. Finally the grip loosened but I still get questions all the time. I have to double check to make sure I don't mess up.

To you guys on the board sorry I didn't msg this summer. I live in the Boston area. We only get a couple months of good weather so I was busy with summer stuff. I still have my one SB who has been with me for 6 months now. She is a 8/8/9/7. She is good and fun but it is always very businesslike and never as emotional as I personally would like. It has stayed the same, so I had nothing new to add. I'm just starting interviewing to refill slot #2 now that summer is gone.

Guys.

Anyone here from Charlotte? Wondering to log back in SA or other site and see if there are any good SBs out there. Will be traveling to CLT once a month for a week for near term. Any CLT brothers can let me know which site I should renew my membership (SA or Sd4me or others) where there is good crowd.

Any Club Members shop In Toronto, Canada? If so what is the shopping network of choice? SA seems to have an ample number of sweet young things.

I might have an opportunity to travel there so it is best to be prepared.

[QUOTE=AliasSM; 1881628]Been keeping a low profile on here since my report that the warden found an unused condom of mine while doing the wash. It was a harrowing experience, but I have survived with marriage relatively intact. I wish I had an excuse prepared already when she found it, but resorted to the deny deny deny logic by default. She is still very suspicious of everything I do now, but has not brought the incident up in well over a month so things have quieted down considerably. The worst repercussion has been that my SB activities are harder to schedule now because every change in schedule or work trip planned is constantly questioned.

Still, I'm so hooked on the SD world that I have found it almost impossible to quit. I have a really nice, late 30s single nurse that I have been with for some time now. She is fantastic in bed, loves oral and anal, and seems to enjoy my company (and of course my money). I also am using a 21 YO local college student and a backup booty call when scheduling is tough with my nurse SB. All of this translates to between 1 and 2 SB visits per week. It's still been a pretty good life.

So there IS life after condom discovery. Just have to watch myself REAL closely to make sure I don't F- up royally again.

I've been keeping up with the forum. Great stories. My hat is off to Hollywood, Scott, BT, and Revvo especially for the massive juggling acts they do on a routine basis. I'd love to do more, but can't find the time to make it happen.[/QUOTE]Good to hear from you, I'm glad it worked out! Watching yourself real closely is always a good thing. I've had one run-in but it wasn't a slip up of mine to my wife, but leaving her alone in my car. She was shady and did a fairly good job of making things miserable for a few weeks after I broke it off with her.

Stay Vigilant!

BT

[QUOTE=FredMoore; 1882172]I'm curious how all of you hide your club fees from the SO. We are talking $ 500 to $2000 / month for most of us, so $10 to 25, 000 is no chump change.

I tell you, once the cat's out of the bag re: the SO and our hobby it makes things harder. Divorce is very costly but those of you who are unattached enjoy it while you can.[/QUOTE]Separate account in my name. Take a small amount from my pay and direct deposit into account. When making purchases at grocery stores, drug stores, always get cash back and stash it. Separate credit card that comes to work for address (assuming wife does not check credit report). Use it for purchases or cash advance. You can load greendot from personal bank account to hide what the actual expenses are on.

BT

I know I spoke about her very recently. We had a M&G today. I was supposed to spend the entire morning and afternoon with MsLilMama, but her GF caused some schedule complications. So since I had the extra time, I schedule a M&G with the first of the CL responses. She's 21 a senior in college and she has curves and hips in all the right places. We are going to call her MsThickNess. I'm including a pic to highlight this unbelievable find.

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She's never done this before and of course has no value of her actual worth. She was fun, sexy, flirty, lively, easy to talk to and completely down with giving this a shot. She was so relieved when I said, I get the feeling you want this to seem more like a BF / GF relationship other than a SB / SD relationship. So I threw in there,"yeah just like a boyfriend who helps out with expenses and is always trying to screw ya brains out.", she got a great laugh out of that and said "Exactly!". Initially she needs money for tuition, so the next 4 dates will be $.25 to get the tuition amount. After that, it will be whatever I decide. I told her between $400-$800 a month, meeting twice a week. Only bummer is that she does not have her own place and car. But she has free time to travel and is willing to rides trains and buses to meet me. We had some great making out at the end of the M&G and we'll be getting this relationship consumated on Thursday with a rousing Tiggabounce session. Since she has the time, we'll do a full date. Dinner, dessert and in-room movie and hopefully a few orgasms by both.

So looks like I'll keep around MsLilMama (28)
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as the close one who I can only see after 9:00 during the week and has her own place (more couch sex, LOL) and MsThickness (21) for the out and about fun and travel.

CL is not always the greatest, but I love the idea of women replying and letting me be the one to choose for a change. This time around I had 5 choices before my ad was flagged. All of them were big girls. Age ranged from 21-47. All sent good pictures and all were ready to meet as soon as I was ready. MsThickness is the only one I'm going to meet.

BT

Pay for a month of SA, then join SD4ME with a gift card with a minimal amount on it. It should take them a few weeks to catch the mistake, but in the meantime you get "free" access to all the babies on there. That way you get to write all the babies on both sites.

[QUOTE=KingGreg; 1882303]Guys.

Anyone here from Charlotte? Wondering to log back in SA or other site and see if there are any good SBs out there. Will be traveling to CLT once a month for a week for near term. Any CLT brothers can let me know which site I should renew my membership (SA or Sd4me or others) where there is good crowd.[/QUOTE]

I made a post on CL a couple weeks ago. I didn't get many responses, but already I've had one POTF experience and getting some encouraging nibbles from another baby. A lot of times this game seems awfully hard, but then there are days where it's ridiculously easy. I will definitely enjoy these easy days because we know they won't last long.

I have a girl. I'd really like to get to know. But she is only available on the weekends. Weekends are hard for me! What stories have you successfully used to get away on the weekend?

[QUOTE=Nostra3;1882757]I have a girl. I'd really like to get to know. But she is only available on the weekends. Weekends are hard for me! What stories have you successfully used to get away on the weekend?[/QUOTE]Training Classes.

Networking Events.

Off site Team building.

Working Out.

Business Lunch

Business Opportunity Meeting.

MLM meeting,

Part time job interview.

Car Shopping.

Bowling league substitute

[QUOTE=Nostra3;1882757]I have a girl. I'd really like to get to know. But she is only available on the weekends. Weekends are hard for me! What stories have you successfully used to get away on the weekend?[/QUOTE]There is no better excuse for being absent for 6 hours. If you don't play take lessons and start. Get clubs and all the paraphernalia and pick a course near your FC. Leave your car in the lot of the club and cab over to the FC or get SB to pick you up. If you need a witness find a golfing buddy who can back you up. IF your SO checks you are screwed anyway so don't even try.

If you don't already play you will open up a whole new can of worms with this frustrating sport. If you do play then go to a new course your SO doesn't know about.

Fishing is another past time that eats up the hours. You might have to drop by the Seafood Store on the way back home. Hey, smelling like fresh pussy is not too far off from fresh shrimp. Not so fresh pussy smells exactly like rotting fish.

Hunting is another option.

[QUOTE=Smokarz_XO; 1882210]Date with 18yr old ATF in a few hours.

And she want to try some kinky stuff. Will report later.[/QUOTE]Wow. What a freaking awesome afternoon. My hips still hurting as I type this post the day after.

What a great gal. Showed up at the FC right on time, which I always appreciate due to my limited free time. She did took her time to shower, put on makeup, and straightened her golden blonde hair. She showed up with tight shorts and tops, but underneath was a set of sexy lingerie. As soon as we're in the room, we are all over each other kissing groping and hip grinding as we stood near the edge of the bed. No more chit chat like our first date last week. It didn't take long until she was on her back on the bed completely naked as I went to town and have her kitty for lunch. I ate and finger her as she came a few times. Now, this girl is extremely sexual and very very sensitive. With the slightest out touches and kisses would get her moaning and groaning.

After I ate her for a while and let her have her fun, I asked if she had brought something for me to tied her up and she brought out some laces. She said she wants to try something a little kinky so I suggested that I want to tie her hands behind her back. So I have her turn her back to me, and I took the laces and tie her hands behind her back. Then I stood on the bed and have her blow me. With her hands tied, her mouth is completely in my control as I fucked her mouth hard and deep, which causes her to gag a few times but she was very cool with it and actually like it. As she told me later she likes to be choked. After going at it in her mouth and slapping her face with my cock fr a while, I threw on the cover push her face onto the pillows and have her stick that tiny ass up for me. I entered her K9 and pounds her real hard and giving it all I got. As I fucked her from behind, spanking her ass and pulled on her hair. It got her screaming and calling god for mercy. The sight of her hands tied, face buried deep in the pillows just got me fucking her like a possesed demon. While doing her doggie, I took a few breaks to come down and eat her as I near my climax, I didn't want to cum and try to last as long as I can. But after what seems like 20-25 minutes of banging that tight 18yr old pussy, I couldn't hold it any longer and pulled off the cover and spray her ass cheeks with every drops of love juice I got. As she collapsed on the bed, I lay on her back and keep grinding her ass with my cock for a few more re. Minutes before I untied her hands and we both lied there in bed catching our breaths and relax for a while.

So we lied in bed, having our drinks, watching the weather on TV and talk about shit for about 15 minutes, then we are ready round 2. I started by finger fucked her for about 5 to 10 min while my mouth And tongue are all over her young tits and ears, and neck. That got her to cum a few more times. She later complemented that I was very good with my hands. Now, I am no magician but as I said this girl is very very sexual, and it does not take much work to get her to cum. I got her to cum multiple times with either my dick, mouth, or fingers. She later revealed that she cum too many times to count. So after I fingered her for a while, I have her tongue and mouth go to work on my cock for a little bit. Then I put on another cover and fucked her mish, sideway, doggie, and ended up busting my second nuts on her face and have her sucked my cock dry. There wasn't a single drop of cum left when she was done. During our second round of fucking, she asked me to stopped a few times and just keep my dick inside her as she was cumming too much, trembling and out of breath. So with each brief break, I rested my cock inside her young and sweet pussy, as I caressed her back, shoulder, neck, ears with my tongue and fingers until we go hard at it again. The second round lasted about 20 min and I was shaking badly after I pop the second but. I had to hold onto the wall as I stood on the bed to cum on her face and as she suck me more afterwards. I think it's fair to say we fucked really hard for close to an hour.

We then dressed up, chat for a while as we wait for her cab to arrive. When the cab comes, I walked her out, hugged and says our good byes until next time.

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Date with 18yr old ATF in a few hours.

And she want to try some kinky stuff. Will report later.

Great report Smoke! Congrats for this special find, I came three times reading it

1) For this date, I told her head of time that I'll bring 150. And after paying the room and her cab fares, the rest will go to her. She was happy with that. But, at the end of the date, I've decided to give her an extra. 25 for the cab, so she pocketed about 80.

The reason I brought up the amount ahead of time with her is to check to see if her expectations were still in line with what we've discussed (her on a modest budget with occasional gifts and extra cash here and there). Things seem good so far. However, I did purchased 8 panties for her from Fredericks, which cost me a few dimes. The panties should arrive in the mail later this week, and I'll give them to her next week when we meet up again. My philosophy is if you don't need to give a baby more, then there's no need to. Once you start giving her more than what you've discussed with her, you created the expectations of 'more'. So every time you meet, or every week / month, she expects more which is not a good thing for trying to keep things on a budget.

2) I now completely understand why you guys were very picky with picking new POTs / Babies. After experiencing this young 18yr pussy, it would be very hard to go back to the 20 and 30 yr old pussies, although those older babies have experience on their side something else to offer. It's fucking amazing to be 18. No matter how hard or long you fucked that pussy, it's always ready for the next round. With the slightest of touches, it would send that young pussy flowing with wet love juices. It's almost like heaven on earth. LOL.

3) Vitalikor. If you fellows need an extra boost in the FC, go picked up a bottle of Vitalikor at your local GNC stores. I am a young guy (mid 30s) and healthy, so I don't have issues with getting up and going at it but I do enjoy the extra boost. It helps me get harder, stay harder, fuck longer, and move onto the next round with very little recovery time. With some of you daddies banging multiple babies several times a week, a little vitamins won't hurt. I was able to do my 2nd round within 15 minutes. And if I had more time on my date, I would have move to the third round with maybe a 20 min rest. I was still rock solid when I got back to the office and continues to get hard ons throughout the day. I even woke up with hard wood the next morning.

[QUOTE=Smokarz_XO;1883186]Wow. What a freaking awesome afternoon.[/QUOTE]Send her my way. LOL

Great find Tigger. She got the kind of curves that I like. Let me know if she got a sister up North. LOL

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;1883311]Send her my way. LOL[/QUOTE]HWG, you're out of luck bro. .

She might ends up in FL someday though. She keeps telling me she's tired of this place and want to get away from here. A fresh start if you will, and FL is her ideal destination. But again, that's an 18 yr old talking so who knows.

First I must say. Hats off to the Smoker. Damn brother have you scored a first class piece of ass or what? That sounds too good to be true. Ride that as long as you can. Sounds like you are having a blast. I have a shorter report since I am laying a little low and trying to focus a little more on quality and not so much quantity.

REVVO_SB7. So my little Venezuelan honey is just out of this world. I am making her rating a 7/10/9/10. This chick is totally awesome! I think last Thursday goes down as officially the best sex of my life. We snuggled, we ate, we sucked, I fucked her rugged, and she rode my dick like a thoroughbred jockey. It is hard to put into words how amazing that day was. Smoke you are right about young pussy it can sure take a whooping. I would play with her little pussy when she was laying on her stomach and she would arch her back up so high raising the perfect ass in the air, getting juicier and juicier, literally begging me to fuck that sweet little pussy. It was such a beautiful sight. I am not big on taking pictures. But this looked so fucking good. I wished I had a camera. I did not have enough superlatives to express how I felt. She is so sexual so open, so willing to just do anything I ask and if I do not ask she starts coming up with things herself. I was spent when I left three nuts in a period of about three hours. The orgasms were beyond anything I have ever experienced. I can honestly say that day was worth this entire experience so far. Wow what a ride. I am going to see her this Friday. We are going to do some outside stuff before we head to her apartment FC. Hell she is 150 and I don't even have to pay for hotel.

REVVO_SB6. Well my little girl next door honey I saw on Wednesday last week. Went very well but she was really busy with some work at her apartment FC. She has the cutest little place cozy and private and in a good neighborhood. She gave a very enthusiastic blow job and was really good on my dick. Then I flipped her over and fucked her from behind and spanked her ass hard. Her white skin was so pink when I finished and she did not complain a bit. Only one nutt with her. She was very satisfied or so she said. Just a little too busy to get another one in. And I like to take my time with them. She is also very young and more like a typical young girl she still needs to learn a lot more. But she is very willing to learn. I need to teach her more about being affectionate and how to relax more. But she is such a cool chick and so willing to do what I ask. I have never heard the word no from her. And on the issue of the loan / gift. I visited her for free this time and she was totally cool with it like she said. In fact there has never been an issue with money before or after. I honestly believe I could only pay her intermittently and she would not care. I have been giving her 200 I am thinking of putting her on a 700 month allowance and scheduling in 6 visits a month. We are also planning an overnight work / beach visit next week. But she is very sick right now with bronchitis. Hopefully she will be well by next week. I am giving her a 9/8/9/8 for now. So normal so refreshing both of these girls.

REVVO_SB2. My little Brazilian princess is ready for me and I am scheduled to fuck her on Thursday. She is very ready. Still no sugar just gifts. Any idea on a good gift for a 24 YO sexy bartender? Anyway I will let you know how it goes.

I got calls from two other back burner babies but no go. Just don't have the time. Trying to keep things down to these three max.

Be careful out there.

Revvo

Hello fellow adventurers. I hope your exploits are going well. Thought I might give a brief update on my short time in this world! I'd love feedback if you have any.

Already "Former" SB: Well this one came and went quickly. She is 20 and really hot; the sex wasn't great and she was a bad kisser. We didn't have great chemistry from the get go. Was giving her $$ each visit. She texted right before our last scheduled meeting and said she had morals and didn't want to be with a married guy and didn't want to have to depend on me for money. Oh well. I felt upset for only a short while.

POT 1: A very cute 21 year old single mom. Super skinny and very pretty. Said she just became unemployed and had to move back in with her family. Wants enough to be able to rent her own place. It's very cheap here to do so. Like 800 a month. Told her she should be able to clear that much each month if we meet up twice a week for "private time". She was cool with that. She seems flakey but had had seemingly legitimate reasons for the need to reschedule a couple of times. Will see if it ever gets anywhere.

POT 2: a 19 year old that says she's married to an abusive guy. Says she wants to get enough together to leave her husband. I'm a lot cautious, but she seems intelligent and funny. Also very attractive. I'm having trouble deciding where to draw the line with these POTs.

There are several pre-pots I am working on as well. I met with one but I think I will cut her loose due to some various issues.

I travel a lot for work so I have been trying to get some out of town pots put together. I haven't had much luck with that so far. Anyone have any advice on that?

[QUOTE=Nostra3; 1883750]Hello fellow adventurers. I hope your exploits are going well. Thought I might give a brief update on my short time in this world! I'd love feedback if you have any.

Already "Former" SB: Well this one came and went quickly. She is 20 and really hot; the sex wasn't great and she was a bad kisser. We didn't have great chemistry from the get go. Was giving her $$ each visit. She texted right before our last scheduled meeting and said she had morals and didn't want to be with a married guy and didn't want to have to depend on me for money. Oh well. I felt upset for only a short while.

POT 1: A very cute 21 year old single mom. Super skinny and very pretty. Said she just became unemployed and had to move back in with her family. Wants enough to be able to rent her own place. It's very cheap here to do so. Like 800 a month. Told her she should be able to clear that much each month if we meet up twice a week for "private time". She was cool with that. She seems flakey but had had seemingly legitimate reasons for the need to reschedule a couple of times. Will see if it ever gets anywhere.

POT 2: a 19 year old that says she's married to an abusive guy. Says she wants to get enough together to leave her husband. I'm a lot cautious, but she seems intelligent and funny. Also very attractive. I'm having trouble deciding where to draw the line with these POTs.

There are several pre-pots I am working on as well. I met with one but I think I will cut her loose due to some various issues.

I travel a lot for work so I have been trying to get some out of town pots put together. I haven't had much luck with that so far. Anyone have any advice on that?[/QUOTE]Sounds like you are starting to get your feet wet. That is good. It takes a good 3 months to really start making progress with this. It is good to have an abundance mentality with this game. That means have several POTs working and you will be lucky to get one quality baby out of it. Just learn and keep making those minor adjustments to get better and better.

Provide more detail in your reports and we can give you more specific advice on how to adjust. As for the traveling thing. I travel a lot and that is an ideal opportunity to get pussy lined up in a city that you travel to on a regular basis. You have an expense report and nice hotel. Ready made for the traveling SD.

Keep up the good work. Include some ratings also with your reports. It helps flesh things out a bit more. I am constantly adjusting my ratings as I get to know them.

Revvo

Thanks Revvo, it is quite hard to believe it's true myself sometimes but I am going to ride it as long as I can. But in the back of my mind, I know she's going to disappear as suddenly as she comes. Every dream has an end, just a matter of when.

But it sounds like you're having a blast every week. Keep up the posts, always enjoy reading them

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I have never really met anyone off CL and my ads don't do shit. But I keep reading how other peoples do. I will admit that reading smokarz post this morning got me fired up. So today I came up with 3 new ads and posted them. Within about 20 minutes this girl replies back and the next thing I know I am txting her for like 2 hours.

Anyway, her ride home from work fell through so I picked her up and went to dinner. Explained my somewhat convoluted situation to her and she was fine with all that. Turns out we share a few good things in common and she was very down to earth. I'll know more tomorrow as it is her day off and she said we could meet in the afternoon.

We never discussed the financial aspect as this was a CL post and much more low key than my SD encounters. I have no clue what she is expecting. Hope it doesn't blow up when she hears it's $ a visit. She is 5"2' about 105? Maybe a 8/9/9/? . I have not met anyone I have wanted to see more than twice in the last 6 months.

We are txting again now. It's all good. So far.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy; 1883940]I have never really met anyone off CL and my ads don't do shit. But I keep reading how other peoples do. I will admit that reading smokarz post this morning got me fired up. So today I came up with 3 new ads and posted them. Within about 20 minutes this girl replies back and the next thing I know I am txting her for like 2 hours.

Anyway, her ride home from work fell through so I picked her up and went to dinner. Explained my somewhat convoluted situation to her and she was fine with all that. Turns out we share a few good things in common and she was very down to earth. I'll know more tomorrow as it is her day off and she said we could meet in the afternoon.

We never discussed the financial aspect as this was a CL post and much more low key than my SD encounters. I have no clue what she is expecting. Hope it doesn't blow up when she hears it's $ a visit. She is 5"2' about 105? Maybe a 8/9/9? . I have not met anyone I have wanted to see more than twice in the last 6 months.

We are txting again now. It's all good. So far.[/QUOTE]Very Nice, good find. CL can be hit or miss, but it is great when it hits!

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy; 1883940]I have never really met anyone off CL and my ads don't do shit. But I keep reading how other peoples do. I will admit that reading smokarz post this morning got me fired up. So today I came up with 3 new ads and posted them. Within about 20 minutes this girl replies back and the next thing I know I am txting her for like 2 hours.

Anyway, her ride home from work fell through so I picked her up and went to dinner. Explained my somewhat convoluted situation to her and she was fine with all that. Turns out we share a few good things in common and she was very down to earth. I'll know more tomorrow as it is her day off and she said we could meet in the afternoon.

We never discussed the financial aspect as this was a CL post and much more low key than my SD encounters. I have no clue what she is expecting. Hope it doesn't blow up when she hears it's $ a visit. She is 5"2' about 105? Maybe a 8/9/9? . I have not met anyone I have wanted to see more than twice in the last 6 months.

We are txting again now. It's all good. So far.[/QUOTE]Hell yes! Awesome find. What was the jist of your CL post? I got nothing but disgusting fat chicks and a guy dude from my one attempt.

I am still not sure how anyone read my ad and thought I was looking for a man. Oh well.

Congrats HWG. CL is the bomb when it hits. Most, if not all the CL true civil girls have no idea what or how much to ask for. The ones that give you a number / amount, you should move on.

It is I who always make the initiative, offering to pay their bills or get them gifts, etc.

Keep us posted bud.

He had a large territory with IBM. Says his wife used to pack condoms in his suitcase. He said she would always wait till he was not looking and count them when he got home. Luckily it was easy to replace Trojans on the road. My wife, back when we were dating would go in my bathroom and count them in the box, had a huge sh+atstorm when my 12 year old and a buddy used them to make water balloons to bomb a friend downstairs at the condo.

If she only knew, I did not use the things back then.

[QUOTE=Beachesnole02; 1884492]He had a large territory with IBM. Says his wife used to pack condoms in his suitcase. He said she would always wait till he was not looking and count them when he got home. Luckily it was easy to replace Trojans on the road.

If she only knew, I did not use the things back then.[/QUOTE]This woman will likely stay married since she takes care of her man in absentia. If only all wives would understand the male mentality and work with it.

ATF #4 Is my only indulgence. I found I couldn't give her up so we just do a few hrs once / week. She's cool about using each other for sexual release. I think she uses me more than the other way around, and that is fine by me. I am limiting my exposure as best I can but am still out there. It's harder to put money aside under increased scrutiny so I can't prospect any more. I miss the game so much! The chase and nailing of a new SB just can't be beat. I envy you guys who are multifucking.

Hi Guys,

I started seeing escorts earlier this year and I'm already over that scene. It just doesn't fulfill my needs. No emotional connection. Most young escorts have too many rules. I'm tired of these unappreciative escorts. I've helped out a few of them with barely a thank you.

I noticed this forum on the "Front Page" and it caught my eye. My hat is off to all of you for venturing out into the bowl. It's a fair amount of work to set up with intro letters, finances, emails, pictures, profiles, etc, before the fun even begins, and you have all put forth the effort with some GREAT results. I'm reading through your SD encyclopedia and it is a wealth of knowledge. I'll do my best to learn as much as possible before I start asking questions. I'd hate to be that F. N. G! LOL.

Work has been a bit slow as of late and it's cutting into my discretionary funds. For now I'll set up, learn, and contribute where I can. I'm looking forward to living up to my user name.

Happy Hunting,

HL

My brothers,

I had a second class with my hot, hot yoga teacher yesterday, and I just can't figure out what's going on. Maybe wiser minds than mine can weigh in.

So I get to class and see that Jennifer is the teacher for that time slot. Scottie immediately starts his stretching exercises, and I smile broadly as I approach the sign-in desk. She looks up, sees it's me, and smiles as well, saying "Hey Scott, it's good to see you. I've missed you the past couple of weeks." (I have been going in the afternoons due to work load, so this is the first time I'm back at my normal morning time).

I reply that I've missed her as well, and am glad to see her teaching, since she always inspires me to push myself a little harder. As I'm standing there, she is clearly looking me over, at least I think (hope) she is. I go into the class room, and put my mat directly in front of the teacher's platform, which is not my normal spot, so as to have an unobstructed view of the Fineness That Is Jenny.

Class starts, and she is not wearing the skimpy unitard from last time, but has changed into a cotton bikini top and small, tight cotton "boy shorts", so I now have a clear view of her fantastic, toned, taut body, superfine ass, and that sweet spot just a few inches above the camel toe. Scottie is losing it at this point, and I am thankful that my shirt is not tucked into my shorts.

As class progresses, she gets sweatier and sweatier, until her entire body is glistening, and her clothes are soaked through. Again, I can clearly see that she is shaved, and I am dizzy with excitement, while at the same time I am struggling to get the poses, maintain my balance, and working like a dog.

After class, I chat her up a bit, saying again how glad I am to see her, and she tells me that she was noticing how much I've improved since I started, and how much more defined and muscular my body is (which it is, but when you start with a marshmallow ...) We laugh a bit more, then I head out and that was that.

So my question to you all is this: was she flirting? And if so, what is my next step? I realized as I was heading to work that I have been spoiled somewhat by my time in the Bowl in that I know that the baby I'm talking to at the m&g understands where we are headed, provided all hurdles are mutually cleared. With Yoga Baby, I don't know what is next. Continue to flirt? Is that as far as it will go? Ask her out for coffee? Ask for a private class? Do nothing? Enjoy the frisson and let it go at that? What to do?
On the one hand, my gut says she is flirting, but on the other hand, maybe she just likes to get attention from older guys. The last thing I want to do is come off like a creep. Again, what would your next step be, knowing that I am totally out in the open here in terms of secret identity? The only thing she doesn't know about me is my ATM password.

I await your wisdom, and as a side note am happy to see so many newbies signing in. It is a grand adventure, that is certain, but not for the faint of heart.

Namaste,

Scott

I am suddenly feeling the urge for a Yoga class!

BT

I await your wisdom, and as a side note am happy to see so many newbies signing in. It is a grand adventure, that is certain, but not for the faint of heart.

Namaste,

Scott[/QUOTE]My $.02, fwiw. You've got a totally different animal here.

So. You have two options. Option 1, go the "I'm not married route" and see if you can get away with it. You know better than we whether that has a prayer, but does not sound likely.

Option 2. The mistress audition. The only way this is going to happen is to become friends first, then good friends, then at the appropriate time mention the shortcomings of your current situation and see how she reacts. Do it in a way that she can take the bait and off you go, or not and she doesn't view you as a troll.

My gut is it is only going to work out the way you want (e. G. Sneaking off to bang the shit out of her on a regular basis) if you go option 2, and are totally honest with her. She may be totally cool and into the mistress thing, and off you go. Or she may not and you will know early before you do any damage.

Again. Just my $.02.

[QUOTE=F Scott; 1884691]My brothers,

I had a second class with my hot, hot yoga teacher yesterday, and I just can't figure out what's going on. Maybe wiser minds than mine can weigh in.

So I get to class and see that Jennifer is the teacher for that time slot. Scottie immediately starts his stretching exercises, and I smile broadly as I approach the sign-in desk. She looks up, sees it's me, and smiles as well, saying "Hey Scott, it's good to see you. I've missed you the past couple of weeks." (I have been going in the afternoons due to work load, so this is the first time I'm back at my normal morning time).

I reply that I've missed her as well, and am glad to see her teaching, since she always inspires me to push myself a little harder. As I'm standing there, she is clearly looking me over, at least I think (hope) she is. I go into the class room, and put my mat directly in front of the teacher's platform, which is not my normal spot, so as to have an unobstructed view of the Fineness That Is Jenny.

Class starts, and she is not wearing the skimpy unitard from last time, but has changed into a cotton bikini top and small, tight cotton "boy shorts", so I now have a clear view of her fantastic, toned, taut body, superfine ass, and that sweet spot just a few inches above the camel toe. Scottie is losing it at this point, and I am thankful that my shirt is not tucked into my shorts.

As class progresses, she gets sweatier and sweatier, until her entire body is glistening, and her clothes are soaked through. Again, I can clearly see that she is shaved, and I am dizzy with excitement, while at the same time I am struggling to get the poses, maintain my balance, and working like a dog.

After class, I chat her up a bit, saying again how glad I am to see her, and she tells me that she was noticing how much I've improved since I started, and how much more defined and muscular my body is (which it is, but when you start with a marshmallow.) We laugh a bit more, then I head out and that was that.

So my question to you all is this: was she flirting? And if so, what is my next step? I realized as I was heading to work that I have been spoiled somewhat by my time in the Bowl in that I know that the baby I'm talking to at the m&g understands where we are headed, provided all hurdles are mutually cleared. With Yoga Baby, I don't know what is next. Continue to flirt? Is that as far as it will go? Ask her out for coffee? Ask for a private class? Do nothing? Enjoy the frisson and let it go at that? What to do?

On the one hand, my gut says she is flirting, but on the other hand, maybe she just likes to get attention from older guys. The last thing I want to do is come off like a creep. Again, what would your next step be, knowing that I am totally out in the open here in terms of secret identity? The only thing she doesn't know about me is my ATM password.

I await your wisdom, and as a side note am happy to see so many newbies signing in. It is a grand adventure, that is certain, but not for the faint of heart.

Namaste,

Scott[/QUOTE]First of all way to go brother. Next with women there is either interest or no interest. If she is not interested you will know right away. She will give short yes or no answers or not make eye contact. This cutie on the other hand is actively explaining her schedule to you and chatting after class. This is interest.

The question is what are you going to do with it. My recommendation is to give her a clear test for her to reciprocate. Such as mention a nice coffee shop or smoothie shop around the corner. Or Tell her to give you her number. Do not ask women like to be told what to do. as long as it is done smoothly. Keep it simple nothing fancy at first. Remember she knows that you want to fuck her already she is not stupid. Do not hide your interest. but dont get creepy either. And she most likely is thinking about fucking you.

You just have to pass her hurdles. Be respectful but playful. Don't get too serious. Lead the interaction, make sure that if you are talking to her that you touch her a lot. And make very strong eye contact. Women love this. Also use your body language to communicate with her. Vary your closeness and then back up a little. And tease her not mean just light and fun.

I think you have a real opportunity here. Just stay relaxed but pursue her consistently. Keep it simple at first. And if she asks about if your married tell her the truth. She is probably assuming you are already.

Keep us updated. We are rooting for you.

Revvo

[QUOTE=F Scott;1884691]With Yoga Baby, I don't know what is next. Continue to flirt?[/QUOTE]1. Always look her straight in the eye.

2. Listen to her.

3. Treat her just like a guy.

4. See what happens.

[QUOTE=Revvo; 1884836]First of all way to go brother. Next with women there is either interest or no interest. If she is not interested you will know right away. She will give short yes or no answers or not make eye contact. This cutie on the other hand is actively explaining her schedule to you and chatting after class. This is interest.

The question is what are you going to do with it. My recommendation is to give her a clear test for her to reciprocate. Such as mention a nice coffee shop or smoothie shop around the corner. Or Tell her to give you her number. Do not ask women like to be told what to do. As long as it is done smoothly. Keep it simple nothing fancy at first. Remember she knows that you want to fuck her already she is not stupid. Do not hide your interest. But don't get creepy either. And she most likely is thinking about fucking you.

You just have to pass her hurdles. Be respectful but playful. Don't get too serious. Lead the interaction, make sure that if you are talking to her that you touch her a lot. And make very strong eye contact. Women love this. Also use your body language to communicate with her. Vary your closeness and then back up a little. And tease her not mean just light and fun.

I think you have a real opportunity here. Just stay relaxed but pursue her consistently. Keep it simple at first. And if she asks about if your married tell her the truth. She is probably assuming you are already.

Keep us updated. We are rooting for you.

Revvo[/QUOTE]What Revvo Said. I wish I could tag posts. I think that's excellent advice. I hope to implement it myself soon.

HL

[QUOTE=BigTigger; 1884751]I am suddenly feeling the urge for a Yoga class!

BT[/QUOTE]LOL. You're not the only one.

Brother Scott, make your move. What's the worse that can happen? You're not fucking her now, so if your move didn't work, you're still not fucking her.

But, by any chance that it works, you'll get her POF and fuck her silly doing it yoga style. Hmmm. I wonder what that would looks like.

[QUOTE=Nostra3;1883750]. POT 2: a 19 year old that says she's married to an abusive guy. Says she wants to get enough together to leave her husband. I'm a lot cautious, but she seems intelligent and funny. .[/QUOTE]You're right to be cautious, I would stop seeing her. Her situation is volatile, extremely unpredictable, and potentially dangerous. Way too much drama and risk for me.