I am interested in hearing about Illusions Spa
I am interested in hearing about Illusions Spa. I finally found the place tonight after some driving. I have never had a massage before and was curious how the process went. Like when you go in are you greeted by all the girls? Or by one girl and then have to "turn" her down if you are interested in someone else? I am assuming you pay for the massage up front. I am also assuming it's recommended you pay in cash? What, if any, information do they take about you?
What about once you actually get in the massage room. I am assuming it's private and just you and the girl. How does it proceed from there? Will she bring up extras or do I? What if I never did, would we just go along with the massage? What do you wear during the massage (clothing wise)? Like will she ask you get get down in your underwear and then you would begin negotiations for services during the massage or would the negotiations occur first?
Is protection required? I most certainly would wear it even for probably oral just because I am nervous about catching things.
I drove by tonight but really didn't know what to expect and was pretty nervous so I just kept on driving by.
First Visit In A Couple Of Years
I'm in Huntsville in two weeks. Probably base myself out of the new Westin. At night, in the past, I've usually just gone, I know. To ET's or I guess it's called Fantasies now. I know. Gross. But it's like being in a Burt Reynolds movie from 1977. I'm NOT going to see hot women. I'm going for the humor. And have actually gotten dates out of their a couple of times. Never tried any of the local agencies.
So, if you were in town for two nights with your evenings free, and you didn't want to eat roomservice club sandwiches and watch COPS in Telemundo, what/who would you do? I put myself in your hands.
Scoring at Legit Massage Places
I'm talking about is Massage Schools. Yes, MASSAGE SCHOOLS. There happens to be several around the Tennessee Valley. Tuition at these places ain't cheap. Upwards of $7000 at most places, and each student has to log 100 hours of massages at the school, and 50 hours outside the school, all without pay, in order to complete the program. That's why when you get a student massage at a school, it's half the normal price (about $30 for one hour) but the school keeps all of it, and clients rarely, if ever, tip the students.
In other words, most of these girls are basically poor college students strapped for cash. Some even have babies to support. A few may hold part time jobs, but most don't have the time for both a job and school. $100 in their world is a lot of money. Offer the right girl a $100 tip (or even $50) for a jerk off at the end and you'll probably get it.
But BE CAREFUL! It's real important to judge the girls correctly. If she doesn't go for it, she'll likely be very, very offended. She may tell the school staff, which could lead to all kinds of unpleasentness.
First, plan on at least a couple of sessions with a any girl before you approach her for "extras". On your first visit make conversation during the massage. Try to get a feel for what her lifestyle and interests are outside the school. If she's an 18 year old church girl who still lives at home, you can just about forget it. On the other hand, if she's a 22 year old wild child who lives out on her own, or possibly with a boyfriend, you just might get lucky. Problem is most will fall somewhere in between. Just use common sense.
The first girl I ever approached like this was an obvious party girl who was already picking up extra cash on the side by doing massages (of questionable repute, I might add) out of some seedy smoke shop. It was almost a no-brainer.
THE APPROACH: Obviously you can't just come right out and ask for a hand job (or more). Try this: On or about your third or forth session with the same girl, before the session even starts, as soon as you're alone in the room together but before clothes come off, hand her a single bill (a $20 might work, but a $50 or $100 will work better) and tell her that's just a tip in thanks for the outstanding service she's given you so far. Make it clear that nothing further is expected in return for it and it's hers to keep. But then also add that if today's session happens to be extra special ("extra relaxing" is a good way to put it) that there will be an equally generous tip every time you come from now on.
Now you've laid the bait. Don't push the matter any further. Simply get completely undressed, slip under the covers, and wait for your relaxing massage. When it's time to turn on to your back for the front portion of the massage, allow yourself to get a boner. No, MAKE yourself get a boner. Think nasty thoughts. Imagine how her soft hands/warm mouth/wet pussy would feel sliding up and down your shaft. Do whatever it takes to pitch a pole tent under that thin sheet like you've never pitched before. She'll get the message.
This is real important: sporting a hard-on during a massage is not considered being lewd. I've heard from several legit massage therapists that for a man to get a hard-on during a massage is quite natural, even expected. BUT: touching yourself, uncovering yourself, or suggesting she do it for you, IS being lewd, and can get you in big trouble. Don't do it, EVER! (At least not at any legit place.)
You've already set up the situation. She knows what you want. Just lay back and let her decide what happens next. It's all in her hands now.
I've been successful at this more than once.
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How to inquire about a escort and other info for newbies from a girl's perspective.
I have been meaning to get around to posting this on here as it has been a topic that a few ladies and myself have been talking about for a couple of weeks now. I don't know what has changed in the past year but it seems that my lady friends and I have been getting tons of inappropriate inquiries. So, I wanted to make a post and let ya'll know what has worked for myself and several other people I know in the industry for many, many years.
There seems to be two problems;
The internet is a vast resource of information for newbies but it has been my experience that when a guy, hand full and unthinking, is seeking for an escort that he forgets or overlooks that there may be a proper way to inquire. There very much is a right way to inquire about an escort.
Also, there is a sudden fear of being exposed to coworkers, or friends and family and so when he is asked for a "reference" he shudders with fear and sends all sorts of mad pleas to ladies asking about some sort of "way we can get around this? " The answer for the professional lady is always no, but there ARE some creative ways in which gent and escort both can both be comfortable with each other without telling our underwear size and social security number. (that was a joke. Ha. Ha. Laugh now please.)
Here are my suggestions:
(these are only my opinions and what has worked for me and ladies I know, please feel free to add or discuss as this is an important topic)
When you inquire about a lady be simple, kind and do not say anything specific about the ladies services. Do your homework and read her website and reviews, or get on this site and ask the other guys in town what they think of her. Assume you will enjoy her service just like they did. Do NOT say, "hey do you really do blah blah blah like that review said you did? " or do you do this or do you do that. Do NOT ask about services. Do not use abbreviations or suggestions. I have heard all sorts of hilarious ways that men have tried to word things in order to make certain that they are going to get what they want. Take a chance and as long as you have heard something about her that is good you should enjoy yourself. If you have strange or rare requests wait until after your first visit or at least well into the first visit before telling her what your into.
Don't be the first guy to see a new girl if you are new to this, chances are new girls can see old mongers or popular hobbiests first. The guys who have been around have enough references to see new girls and you can usually trust the opinions they post.
About screening, verification and references. Consider this; do you REALLY want to see a lady who cares so little about herself or is so desparate that she would just meet in person any joe blow from the internet without knowing anything about him. I mean do you want to trust your life in the hands of a girl who has nothing to lose? Chances are if she doesn't ask you for information for her safety then she is not very safe herself and YOU could be in danger! Think about this carefully. If she asks you for info then she is smart, confident and professional.
You can offer her ways to verify you that are more private than a work or home number. And you do not always have to have a reference. Instead of shying away work this out with her. Chances are she can be creative and offer you several options of verification. If the girl has reviews and other guys have seen her then you should be fine with trusting her with any personal information. There are also services where you can give your info to and the girl can check you through them. One great way to be trusted by a girl is to have a known reputable hobbiest vouch for you.
Your going to have to have a little trust. But do be careful and use common sense. Check that the girl is reputable. Use your intuition.
Here is an example of what I consider to be a perfect inquiry from a gentleman and when I get inquiries like this I have always given them top priority:
Hello Ms Whoever,
I heard about you on USASG, I have read your reviews and looked over your website. I think you are beautiful! I am interested in possibly scheduling one hour with you next week on Wed. At 2:00 if you are available. If your not available on Wed. Then Thurs. Would work for me at the same time. My references are Bama Friends and I have also seen BlahBlah, local Indy and her number is 000-0000. I hope we can meet!
Thanks, John Johnny 256-000-0000 Please don't call after 4pm Or leave any messages
Here is one more example of what I would like to see from a newbie who has no references:
Hello Ms. Whoever,
I heard about you on USAG, I have read your reviews and looked over your website. I believe I understand how this works from all I have read but I have never seen an escort before so if I make any mistakes please let me know. I would like to possibly schedule two hours with you either Tues or Fri of next week at noon. I do not have any references but I can provide you with my work phone number. SuperBigCompany 000-0000. Ask for John Johnny and please say you are Anne from Zerox and you are calling to ask me a question about ink cartridges. Let me know if you need any further information. Your very pretty and I hope we can get together! John Johnny 256-000-0000
And finally, if your totally nervous as hell about the prospect of any of this verification business, a few select ladies may sometimes agree to meet you in public for a date. Lunch, dinner or going out for coffee or a drink are often a good way to feel comfortable together without disclosing any information over the phone or net.
A couple more pointers:
Never, ever, EVER insinuate to a provider that she is going to preform some illegal act in exchange for anything at all. That is just plain stupid and illegal to even say outloud.
Saying your "not LE" makes a girl automatically think your LE. DUH!
I know a certain very popular hobbiest that asks girls "are you clean? " meaning does she have any diseases he should be aware of. HAHA. Do you REALLY think a girl is going to tell you "no, I am not clean, those damn herpes have broken out again so mind the blisters, Sir. " OMFG!
If a woman lacks the consience enough to continue to work even though she has a disease, she would not have the care enough to TELL you that she has a disease. And speaking of this. I really hope that you guys think about your health before your pocket book. I would have to honestly tell you that 100% of all SWs are probably addicted to something and may very well have something. To assume otherwise just because she is pretty is suicide. Be safe, always, be safe. Oh and did I tell you to be safe? If not then, be safe!
Use common sense fellas and don't let the little head do all the thinking. A little research goes a long way and the other guys will help you out if you just ask them to.
XOXO,
Memory