I watched a informative utube vid recently
Guy was saying there are 4 kinds of attractive SB who join SA:
1. she's already in a good relationship but is bored and just wants verification she's still hott and men desire her. Not really interested in meeting up.
2. she's not in a good relationship but is not ready to move on / out yet. Just wants to see what SD are out there. Not really interested in meeting up.
3. she's young college aged, no career yet, no kids yet. She's looking for a attractive, well educated, well travelled, wealthy SD who will "treat her like a princess and spoil her". Will meetup with these SD (since her peers will understand). She won't otherwise be seen with a 50 something guy on a date so all other SD need not message her (she won't reply).
4. She just wants to sell pics, no interest in ever meeting in person.
He also had a female friend (who also had her own SB profile) do a test where she sent out and responded to his messages for him for 2 weeks. She thought she could help him get more dates since "she knew what the SB would want to hear". She was shocked and frustrated how many SB never responded to messages or only responded with a few word answers. She said her own SB profile gets dozens of messages a day and if she sends out a message or reponds to one from a SD, the SD always replies back.
My profile SA is currently inactive. I find that when I go active. I get 1 contact to meetup with for my 1 month membership. I send out messages to 20 or so SB. I'm polite, decent looking, well educated and travelled, have a good paying job, etc.
SA and the Local Colleges
Found out some info worth sharing.
I discovered this info thru my brother's college aged kid. He's a boy but has a ton of hot girlfriends. Well, I hear them talking about SA and my ears perk up. This is me eavesdropping from the kitchen. From what I heard, whoever spilled the beans about THIS site has spread the word across UNF. And knowledge of THIS site is pretty well known at the local college UNF. Especially across the sororities. I even hear one girl mention that they have a Snapchat group where they share SD experiences and who offered what allowance and who to watch out for and in come cases pass an SD to another sorority girl if it doesn't work out.
Full disclaimer. This is me overhearing some college girls talking but found it very interesting. We may be under review our selves.
My take is - let's keep talking about them openly on here so they know WE KNOW about the fakes, timewasters, flakes, etc....
- DonJon.
Good intel; but not shocking
[QUOTE=DonJon;4994376]Found out some info worth sharing.
I discovered this info thru my brother's college aged kid. He's a boy but has a ton of hot girlfriends. Well, I hear them talking about SA and my ears perk up. This is me eavesdropping from the kitchen. From what I heard, whoever spilled the beans about THIS site has spread the word across UNF. And knowledge of THIS site is pretty well known at the local college UNF. Especially across the sororities. I even hear one girl mention that they have a Snapchat group where they share SD experiences and who offered what allowance and who to watch out for and in come cases pass an SD to another sorority girl if it doesn't work out.
Full disclaimer. This is me overhearing some college girls talking but found it very interesting. We may be under review our selves.
My take is - let's keep talking about them openly on here so they know WE KNOW about the fakes, timewasters, flakes, etc....
- DonJon.[/QUOTE]So, I'm not saying nobody ever spilled the beans on this site; but it's hardly necessary for that to have been the case. This site is easy to find for even the dimmest of computer users. If they suspect such a thing, or hear even an innocuous reference, or get even a minimal clue from any casual monger comment, it's a moments work to find this thing. There's no pay wall and no real defense against being cataloged here. I've always assumed this site was home to a silent audience besides the vocal audience we know about. Act accordingly.
And double ditto for girls sharing info. Being on SC, it's probably a lot harder to find and work your way into; but it's been clear for a long time that the girls are sharing information. It's in the things they say, the questions they ask, the terms they set. Did anybody ever really think they were too dumb to figure out a way to do that, to do their research, to protect themselves? Again, conduct yourself accordingly and it won't be a problem. Don't use your real name, your real phone, your real home, your real car, your shared debit card. Don't tempt fate by taking stupid chances. Treat everybody the way you would like to be treated and the information sharing won; t be a problem and will make the community and it's participants safer and stronger. It's not a war.
About sb's reading this site
So -- about 3 years ago, I was making progress with a chunky (but cute) blonde from UNF. Emails and texts were good, we had an intro meeting, then communicated further and had an agreement on an allowance, etc, but then she started getting squirrely -- wanted an increase in an allowance, wasn't going to be able to keep the dates we had set, etc. So, I got on this board and reported that she was a game-player. Within the hour, she was texting me, and cussing me out for bad-mouthing her to others, etc.
So, I'd say that SB's being aware of this board is NOT a new development -- but one we need to be mindful of. I'm still glad I posted about her, though, as I heard from the other SD she was pursuing (and also playing games with), and we both dropped her. She was off of the site within a few days after that.
[QUOTE=FunNthaSun;4995071]Yeah I thought it was pretty well known here that the ladies share info. I guess it's easier for me being single so I've never had any issues with using my real phone number, car and able to invite my sb's over to my place. I actually prefer it the way some of these stories I hear about going on at hotels and what not. They see that theres no issues at my place and we can relax have some drinks, walk around naked if we choose LOL. But I get some may not have that priveledge.[/QUOTE]
Ain't no one got time for that
[QUOTE=Sparkish;4999826]I found the problem with this one, she's looking for a "big rich typhoon[/QUOTE]She also likes Mrs. Butterworth on her pancakes because it's thick and rich.
Fun under the right circumstance
So the Pros:
-Sweet girl.
-sexy goth look. Met me wearing short plaid school girl skirt, thigh highs, and blue hair.
-made good use of the tongue ring.
-has her "own place".
The Cons:
-lives in a sketchy apartment complex off of Lane.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/70b4127b-3e23-45cd-b8ba-34f5006a409a[/URL]
Honestly just got lucky. I wouldn't put to much effort in
[QUOTE=ZoomLens2013;5002198]Man, I tried for WEEKS to get comms with her thru SA. She finally started replying and we moved to text. Comms are still spotty, at best. "hiiiiii. ", then I respond with something thoughtful and ask her a specific, non-binary question. "yeaahhh LOL, what's up with you?" Yeah, that same pattern for a few days now. Damn, dude, is there nothing between those ears? Maybe she's just not a good texter. I doubt I'll keep pursuing her. I got to have more substance from the sugar bowl.[/QUOTE]I wouldn't put to much effort in if your looking for substance. She just kinda scratched that goth itch for me.
