Getting Up To Full Service
Two of my favorite girls have gone to China at the same time for a vacation, so I had to venture out to find replacements. I don't go to the same spas and get a new girl because I like to give my regulars the feeling of being exclusive at that location. Just my methodology.
I went back to a place I've not been to in a while. We are lucky we have so many spas to choose. My preference is to go to one-hour regular HJ massage spas and see if I can seduce my masseuse to up the menu for me. Usually this takes time, but this is my hobby.
Found a 30's something, pretty, petite, and friendly on my first visit out. We hit it off, and she bared beautiful tits and her bare pussy for me and happily gave me an awesome MSOG experience. She had potential, so I went back 4 days later. She was friendly, bubbly, and didn't disappoint.
When fun time came and her tits were out and her yoga pants down I asked for FS. She got shy and said no, but I persisted and said I have a condom. She put her finger on her lips, like shhh. I said I won't tell. I got the condom and she put her finger over my lips and I said I won't tell again. We ran through some of the usual positions without rush or any fake performances. Just right to my liking. I don't think she had an orgasm, but I did.
I know I'm not the first, or the only guy to get FS from her, but I could tell that although this might be common enough, it was not something she did every time. Interestingly, when in a non-FS spa, the girls who will give FS tend to keep their clothes half on. They pull their tops up, or down, and keep one leg in their yoga pants. All in case they have to get dressed quickly. Which they seem to do in a split second when needed. Another clue she is an easy FS girl, is when she asked how much? I said 1. 4, and she replied, bring more next time, so she knows that FS can go for more. I'm fine with that. It's possible to get FS between 1. And 1. 4 with the right girls, but she's worth 1. 6 in my book.
When she's that good on my second visit, she will be in my rotation for a while.
I'm sworn to secrecy so I can't divulge time, place, or performer, but I can encourage every monger to enjoy our hobby and know you can find the diamonds in the rough. Sometimes rather easily. I think with the economy in question and inflation killing us with a recession stalking us, it will be tough on the spas. Sure, we all cut back in uncertain times, but we still need to eat and fuck, so I know mongering won't stop, but it might slow down. This is good because the girls will do more to get your dollars and a return visit from you. Time to take full advantage.
Did I mention her massages were fantastic too? Both times, my time and money was well spent.
Happy mongering, Max.
Build a rapport with your providers
Thanks ArrogantBstrd, always enjoy your posts.
I agree establishing a rapport is very important to larger menus and special privileges.
Saw my new girl recently, and loved the way her smile lit up when I walked in. Our session was even better than the last as she stripped full nude right at the flip. She knows what I came for and obliged nicely. I also did my best to be sure she had a good time too. My advice still is, if you make a good connection visit often to reinforce it.
I am concerned about my two regulars who are visiting China. Not sure what their immigration status is but under this political climate towards immigrants they might not be able to get back into the country. Unfortunately I have no communication with them when they left the USA. I'm hoping they can get back in, I'd like to enjoy them again.
[QUOTE=ArrogantBstrd;7225967]Nice, man. You're in a good spot that the newer mongers should wish to aspire to. It's good that you've established rapport. You might be only a step or two away from receiving that random booty call. All services free.
For you newer folk, there have been a couple of meets where the provider would have let me cum on her face on the first meet based on other provider reviews. Establishing rapport helps on several levels. For me, a specific example would be Latina Lilly. I was sat on a couch while she rubbed me out. She suddenly said, "Do you want to cum on my face?"
Yes, I did, but I busted as soon as she asked. Try again another day.
Goddamn Latinas...[/QUOTE]
Which ones are the craziest?
[QUOTE=ReyKittyHawk;7229717]Ever notice you can't open a spa unless you have a girl named, CiCi, Anna, Lulu, or Coco?
What I've noticed.
The Cicis have great tits.
The Annas love to fuck.
The Lulus are fun and pleasers.
And the Cocos are just fucking beautiful.[/QUOTE]And what names to stay away from?
Names of Providers that are crazy
[QUOTE=Ivysballoons;7246268]And what names to stay away from?[/QUOTE]Since I usually ask for their name if the session goes well, the ones that were regrettable and fell in the never go back category are nameless to me and easily forgotten.
Others may have some suggestions.
Probably would have been good to get a name to warn others. I am cautious about posting negative reviews but I think there are posts that provide enough of that information already.
Random Opinion-RE: Legalization
Not sure if this is appropriate, but thought I'd throw it out there.
California finally legalized weed. There are restrictions, and-interestingly-the promised tax revenues and benefits are not yet being realized-since the taxes, fees, and restrictions are making legal pot more expensive than the "not legal" stuff. Other states, like Colorado, have also legalized, or decriminalized, and there are stronger pushes for Federal decriminalization. I suspect we're within 20 years of seeing weed / pot become the "new" tobacco-legal and openly grown as a cash crop by the major tobacco industry.
We saw the experimental decriminalization of harder narcotics in the Pacific Northwest, and that failed miserably. I don't thin k I'll see hard, "recreational" drugs legalized in my lifetime.
Which brings me to my question-do you ever think we'll see "the hobby" legalized across most of the US? I doubt those regions with highly religious saturation will ever open up (there are still "dry" counties in the US), but Nevada has county optional legalized prostitution. The Native Americans are opening casinos on tribal lands throughout the US in states that have traditionally been Strong anti-gambling (I lived in Indiana for several years, they aggressively prosecuted any type of gambling-now they have a couple "riverboat" style casinos in Gary). So, the question remains, do you think some of the more "liberal" sates (I. E. - "Blue" states) might loosen up and finally allow consenting adults to enjoy each other's time for a fee without any legal hassles?
Or are the militant "pink hatter" types going to scream exploitation and sex trafficking? They chant "my body, my choice", but they are all in favor of charging sexual assault and trafficking when it's clearly the lady who chose to enter the "profession". I realize that there will always be that undesirable element that needs to be weeded out-the gangs, the exploiters, the kid abusers, and taking the stigma away will help. Making resources available to help those who Have been exploited would be easier and (I suspect) more readily used. But I also worked in a couple topless bars. We had a mixture of ladies with all kinds of motivations working there. Some where students looking to make major cash while working a few hours after class hours. Some were supporting families-single moms, married wives whose husbands had hit unemployment. We had a couple ladies who danced, just for the thrill of the work. And one or two who were trying to make it and stage as "legit" dancers (and these ladies did have incredible dance skills), but the gigs were few and far between. Sadly, we also had ladies who saw no other way to earn money, and a few who were actually trying to exploit the business-these latter were quickly separated when they were identified.
Benefits of a Falling Economy
As we slip into the threatening recession and the slide into the devastating depression, I'm going to speculate that there will be less providers, but better service from the surviving businesses. Unfortunately I don't' think prices will come down.
Case and point.
I have a long time provider who I see now and then. She is in a HJ spa, and serves me with fantastic massages with out of this world teasing skills and tops it all off with a great HJ. Her teasing is so good; I've lost it still face down several times. She's been telling me that things are slow and she had to go back to working 6 days a week.
She's somewhere around 40, on the pretty side, a nice body, and now a 60/60 girl (started as a 40/40 girl a while ago). During our sessions, she would bare her C cup breasts to let me play. Thinking back, I don't know why, but I did not try for anything more other than some breast play and OTC petting her ass and pussy while enjoying her HJ talents.
Last week I stopped in. Since she was just one of my HJ girls I usually don't bring condoms, but since two of my regulars are in China I was going to see how far I could go and went prepared.
I got the usual service with a fantastic massage, and her awesome teasing. On the flip I felt her butt and pussy OTC. Going for more, I gently pulled her yoga pants down, and got to see her bushy pussy. She did a little wiggle to help as I pulled, so I knew she was okay with it. Probably wondering why I never did it before. We did mutual play for a while till I got off the table, and got her lying down across the table to remove her yoga pants. Usually I have to give the I have a condom pitch, but she lied there in submission as I got one leg out and spread her legs wide open. She had her head back, so I took the Bishop and rubbed my head up and down her wet bushy slit.
She was so submissive with her legs wide open and head back that I put my tip on her vagina rim to see her reaction. She lied there and I was thinking, damn she's going to let me fuck her bare. The temptation was huge to push in right then, but I overrode my savage impulses and went for my condom. I know how good it would be on't take away my monger membership card, but I don't have bare sex with providers.
Once I got the Bishop covered I got back to her open legs and slipped it to her. I thoroughly enjoyed giving her a nice fucking. It wasn't a GFE, or a PSE fucking, and a bit passive on her part, but I enjoyed it. You never know for sure, but with her quivering and hushed moaning, I'd say she enjoyed at least 2 orgasms. One quite early on and a bigger one during the fun. While enjoying this new service I was thinking I should have started fucking her long ago. In reality, it is probably the combination of our long term experience together, and the slow business, that made this possible. Her bushy unkept pussy, and her submissiveness convinced me she might not show her pussy often. I only had 100, and that was her tip.
Since she opened up the menu for me, I went to see her yesterday to reward her with more business for allowing me the extra service. She was surprised, and openly happy to see me so soon. The session was similar to last week except I had her give me a BBJ for about a minute before we fucked. Again she got 100, and will be one of my new 100 FS girls till I decide to give her a raise. If ever.
So my thoughts are the same, the economy will give us less providers, but more providers who will offer or allow more. Don't complain, take advantage. The worst they can do is say no, or stop you from undressing them. I hope that prices will not rise with fewer providers available.
Rent by the hour hotel / motel
I have an OTC with a stripper but don't want to bring her home until I can trust her.
Are there any rent by the hour motels / hotels in San Diego?
Thanks for suggestions.
Spa Hans dropped prices by $10
[QUOTE=BluesBalls;7256638]I hope you're right about services at least if prices won't come down, which I didn't really hold out much hope for anyway.[/QUOTE]Just stopped by spa Hans and they have dropped their rates by $10. Also went during the daytime and got Hannah, who is prob in 40's and has nice tits, okay face, but bit of a belly. She still wanted $150 for a BBBJ so that hasn't gotten any cheaper haha. She did get naked, gave a great massage and BBBJ nude while I fingered her and played with her asshole.
I bet service pricing starts to drop in a few months. I've asked a few girls if business has been dropping and they confirmed it. They say the high rollers haven't stopped coming in, but others have. For those of us with a decent cash flow, I hope we start to get better service with less mongers out there.