[QUOTE=EasyeOne;4417536]Those are the exact responses she sent to me. Copy and paste.[/QUOTE]I agree. Avoid her.
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[QUOTE=EasyeOne;4417536]Those are the exact responses she sent to me. Copy and paste.[/QUOTE]I agree. Avoid her.
All was well and plans were set but when is time, got hit with the. Can I get money in advance: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b2980239-9250-49da-9888-e30b80218d12[/URL].
Anybody have luck?
[QUOTE=EasyeOne;4417986]All was well and plans were set but when is time, got hit with the. Can I get money in advance: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b2980239-9250-49da-9888-e30b80218d12[/URL].
Anybody have luck?[/QUOTE]Been finding this more and more, especially when they're young and cute and contact you first. They go through all the back and forth of setting a meeting very quickly and then last minute either it's "will you give me something when we meet to prove you're real" (however that's supposed to work) or can you send me money or give me a cc for an Uber so I can meet you.
If it's the latter, I usually offer to pick them up, and that message ends the communication; or when I say no $$ for M / G.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/4446d6be-e2ec-421a-9fb7-0dfd59206da1[/URL]
Met up with her a while back. Great time. She's short. Looks better in person than her pics. CIM and CIP. Arrangement didn't last long and looks like her profile has changed a lot from when I initially dreamt about her. Haven't seen her on here so just thought I'd share.
[QUOTE=JustLonely;4417147]I have been reading about this one on here so I was ready when she messaged me out the blue this afternoon. Wanted half up front as she had been screwed twice before. Or I could pay her for pics / vids for that partial payment. I reported her to Seeking as a scammer. But I doubt she will be deleted. They have her as the feature today.[/QUOTE]She wrote me last night, but we didn't have time to discuss much of anything. As of this morning she ghosted.
For the third time this month I had good luck with this simple search tip for finding info on potential SBs. Get her real first name and go to the Facebook search bar and type in her name and her city and state. Works best on more unusual names like Courtney or Emily but I have had luck with a common name Sarah if she happens to be very active on Facebook. Of course you need to be good at recognizing faces unless you are real lucky as she has the same profile main image pic. Two of my recent searches came up in the top 10 results. Works best on computer where you can see a decent size pic in the search list.
Another recent one was a Google image search of her SA pic. That found her Twitter page but her Twitter name was fake as no FB or Instagram accounts matched up. But a quick browsing of her Twitter posts turned up a pic she had taken of her college acceptance letter. She had blocked out her address but her name was in the letter. Then a Facebook search turned her up. That one had even posted her class and work schedule on her Twitter and that she has a car. Good things to know when planning to see someone.
I will admit I have way too much free time at work but I do enjoy playing detective from time to time.
[QUOTE=JustLonely;4417147]I have been reading about this one on here so I was ready when she messaged me out the blue this afternoon. Wanted half up front as she had been screwed twice before. Or I could pay her for pics / vids for that partial payment. I reported her to Seeking as a scammer. But I doubt she will be deleted. They have her as the feature today.[/QUOTE]SA username is lovinme6040, but she took down the profile or blocked me.
I've seen a few of you post about how after the first time or two you've gotten SB's to start giving it for free. I have one who I saw the first time a couple weeks ago, there was no mention of or request for money during the initial messaging. I came to her apartment, we hung out and talked for about an hour, I made my move which ended up with me plowing her bareback and blowing a load on her beautiful ass. Still no request for money. I'm relatively new at this so I casually left $$ on her kitchen counter on my way out. Going back tomorrow and I imagine I've created an expectation of the same gift this time.
Curious to hear from those of you who claim to have gotten them off the gift after a few times on how you did it.
EBob.
[QUOTE=EBob1111;4418843]
Curious to hear from those of you who claim to have gotten them off the gift after a few times on how you did it..[/QUOTE]What has worked for me in the past is after a re meets with the agreed upon tuition, suggest a shopping trip where about half tuition is used for the purchase. When leaving the tuition, don't say anything about the smaller amount. The next time, we go to dinner and maybe a few drinks. Then mention that I would pay a bill instead of cash. Or if they need something for classes take care of that on a shopping trip. After that, occasional shopping after treating to dinner is all that is required. Works about 50% of the time. By that time, it is established as more of a FWB than arrangement.
I'm curious how old this one was. Depending on the connection, I've found that works better with confident late 20's than not.
Good luck, jd.
[QUOTE=JDavis999;4419203]What has worked for me in the past is after a re meets with the agreed upon tuition, suggest a shopping trip where about half tuition is used for the purchase. When leaving the tuition, don't say anything about the smaller amount. The next time, we go to dinner and maybe a few drinks. Then mention that I would pay a bill instead of cash. Or if they need something for classes take care of that on a shopping trip. After that, occasional shopping after treating to dinner is all that is required. Works about 50% of the time. By that time, it is established as more of a FWB than arrangement.
I'm curious how old this one was. Depending on the connection, I've found that works better with confident late 20's than not.
Good luck, jd.[/QUOTE]She's 24, has a teaching job and her own apartment. The problem is I'm married so it has to stay on the DL so no public shopping trips or traditional dates. We have limited windows of a couple hours between when she gets home from school and I have to be home with my family. I think I will try asking her if there's anything I can help her with rather than leaving a straight up donation which she never asked for in the first place. Really tasty little redhead spinner, with a pierced hood and the sweetest ass I've ever seen.
EBob.
[QUOTE=EBob1111;4419829]She's 24, has a teaching job and her own apartment. The problem is I'm married so it has to stay on the DL so no public shopping trips or traditional dates. We have limited windows of a couple hours between when she gets home from school and I have to be home with my family. I think I will try asking her if there's anything I can help her with rather than leaving a straight up donation which she never asked for in the first place. Really tasty little redhead spinner, with a pierced hood and the sweetest ass I've ever seen.
EBob.[/QUOTE]In my opinion, you may want to be careful what you wish for. You're starting to go down the path of conflicting agendas.
On one hand, you have found someone you like (banging, at least), and she's probably a hottie you wouldn't normally have a chance with in "real life. " So your head's all fucked up and you're catching feelings and want to turn this special little snowflake into a FWB relationship and save some coin.
On the other hand, you need to keep this whole thing on the DL so you don't end up getting embarrassed and divorce-raped and lose half your wealth, house, retirement accounts and your kids and all that.
If you turn this tryst into a relationship, she's going to catch feelings too and want more from you than just to bang for a couple hours in the afternoon before you're missed at home. And once feelings get involved, she's likely to cause a scene, or insist on doing things you aren't comfortable with, (like dates, dinners, or other relationshippy stuff) or want to text or call while you're on family time, etc. , etc. Don't underestimate ANY of these girls, or assume for a second they're not totally insane. (Edit: Just reread and noticed she's a redhead. She's fucking nuts, even if she's not showing it at the moment...) Your opsec will be significantly compromised once you have relationship obligations. The power structure will be severely tilted in her favor if she is "in a legit relationship" and you're a cheating dirtbag who's fucking someone half your age.
If you keep this transactional (but in a classy way so she can hamster away the fact that she's a prostitute), she's less likely to get invested emotionally more than will be convenient for you, and less likely to cause problems. If she's a prostitute who is receiving money for sex, then you both have something to hide to keep from major embarrassment, and there's mutual incentive for you both to keep your whole arrangement secret.
I think in the long run, leaving a few bucks each time you connect will be MUCH less expensive than working your way through family court. Just my $0. 02 and a little tough love, bro.
[QUOTE=Kwagmire;4419873]In my opinion, you may want to be careful what you wish for. You're starting to go down the path of conflicting agendas.
On one hand, you have found someone you like (banging, at least), and she's probably a hottie you wouldn't normally have a chance with in "real life. " So your head's all fucked up and you're catching feelings and want to turn this special little snowflake into a FWB relationship and save some coin.
On the other hand, you need to keep this whole thing on the DL so you don't end up getting embarrassed and divorce-raped and lose half your wealth, house, retirement accounts and your kids and all that.
If you turn this tryst into a relationship, she's going to catch feelings too and want more from you than just to bang for a couple hours in the afternoon before you're missed at home. And once feelings get involved, she's likely to cause a scene, or insist on doing things you aren't comfortable with, (like dates, dinners, or other relationshippy stuff) or want to text or call while you're on family time, etc. , etc. Don't underestimate ANY of these girls, or assume for a second they're not totally insane. (Edit: Just reread and noticed she's a redhead. She's fucking nuts, even if she's not showing it at the moment...) Your opsec will be significantly compromised once you have relationship obligations. The power structure will be severely tilted in her favor if she is "in a legit relationship" and you're a cheating dirtbag who's fucking someone half your age.
If you keep this transactional (but in a classy way so she can hamster away the fact that she's a prostitute), she's less likely to get invested emotionally more than will be convenient for you, and less likely to cause problems. If she's a prostitute who is receiving money for sex, then you both have something to hide to keep from major embarrassment, and there's mutual incentive for you both to keep your whole arrangement secret.
I think in the long run, leaving a few bucks each time you connect will be MUCH less expensive than working your way through family court. Just my $0. 02 and a little tough love, bro.[/QUOTE]All are good points. I do know where she works so I would assume she wouldn't like the school to find out she's a SB if thing went down that road but best to not have to find that out.
[QUOTE=EBob1111;4419889]All are good points. I do know where she works so I would assume she wouldn't like the school to find out she's a SB if thing went down that road but best to not have to find that out.[/QUOTE]If you're not paying her she's in a relationship, buddy, NOT a SB. And I'd bet dollars to donuts that you've got a lot more to lose than she does. You'll do what you want, but I advise using the big head first. If you've never been in a relationship with a psycho, you have no idea. And this one is no different -- ALL the girls on SA are high on the "hot / crazy matrix. ".
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[QUOTE=EBob1111;4419829]She's 24, has a teaching job and her own apartment. The problem is I'm married so it has to stay on the DL so no public shopping trips or traditional dates. We have limited windows of a couple hours between when she gets home from school and I have to be home with my family. I think I will try asking her if there's anything I can help her with rather than leaving a straight up donation which she never asked for in the first place. Really tasty little redhead spinner, with a pierced hood and the sweetest ass I've ever seen.
EBob.[/QUOTE]I think that taking the support down a bit is an understandable goal but attempting to eliminate it is not fair. I think your idea to ask her what she needs help with is not a bad approach, but keep in mind that's providing an opening to start asking for things MORE than your first donation too. And $$ with a hoster is a pretty decent deal these days so I'd almost be thinking about how not to blow it rather than get the money down.
Another alternative to asking her what she wants is to bring things like gift cards. Since you hung out an hour she may have mentioned what she likes to eat or where to shop or something like that. Get a couple of gift cards that total to say 120 or 150. Like if she said she likes Carraba's get her a $50 gift card and tell her you want to buy her dinner even though you can't take her out, another for $50 to Sephora (they all need makeup) and bring her favorite bottle of liqor, maybe even some flowers. Total damage 150 or less but b / c it was thoughtful she'll think less of the amount. And you can get all this with one trip to the supermarket.
I might try that but I'd also consider just leaving the $$. If she's talking with you still it means she wasn't disappointed in that, and I wouldn't assume just b / c she didn't ask for that doesn't mean she still wasn't expecting it.
[QUOTE=EBob1111;4418843]I've seen a few of you post about how after the first time or two you've gotten SB's to start giving it for free. I have one who I saw the first time a couple weeks ago, there was no mention of or request for money during the initial messaging. I came to her apartment, we hung out and talked for about an hour, I made my move which ended up with me plowing her bareback and blowing a load on her beautiful ass. Still no request for money. I'm relatively new at this so I casually left $$ on her kitchen counter on my way out. Going back tomorrow and I imagine I've created an expectation of the same gift this time.
Curious to hear from those of you who claim to have gotten them off the gift after a few times on how you did it.
EBob.[/QUOTE]I definitely wouldn't play games like this. It's the best way to get a rape charge. Your DNA is obviously all over her and the DNA from your skin cells are under her fingernails and all over her house. Even if you have proof that she was a prostitute; men go to jail every day for raping prostitutes. Men even get convicted of raping their own wives. I'd just stick to the arrangement and leave the girls completely satisfied. I don't like to go and borrow problems. And I never give them half. Even if they take half of the money with a smile, they're telling all their friends that you scammed them and probably plotting against you.