In reference to your post.
[QUOTE=Phil419; 1326555]There are these fly by nite newbies that are advertising their services and demanding more than they are worth due to inexperience and no love for the game. Most of them are flashing pics that arent them, Lying about their ages, etc. I am seeing women like Riley who is offering her services but don't like "black men", thats not Kool at all.
Guys let support our atfs but definitely be supportive of our atfs based right here in MD.
Peace[/QUOTE]Honey there are LOTS of women that do not cater to black men for one reason, or another. Maybe there arent many women advertising here in Bmore RIGHT THS SECOND like me who don't, but I am not uncommon in my preferences at all. To single me out is unfair, and leaves me with the impression you are trying to talk bad about me and include me in your "lets not support these newbies" rant. For no good reason. I do not have to explain myself and my reasoning, so I won't. And even though my preference in clientele has nothing to do with anything superficial. Let me ask you this as food for thought. I'm sure you have a preference in woman that you see right? When you're scrolling through ads don't you just pass by the girls that do not cater to your taste? We all have preferences, and at the risk of sounding like a beeotch. Seems like your just talking smack to be talking smack and have something to say "thats not kool at all". This is a public board with the freedom to type whatever you want from the safety of your computer screen, but I take issue when you include my name in a list of women you're complaining about. As it affects me ad my reputation directly.
As for even including me in the "don't support the newbies rant" I have been coming to Baltimore for almost 2 years now, I am not a newbie, in fact I frequent the area every single month. I do not live here, but I am a regular to the area and am well known, so I'm not to be included in your "fly by night newbies charging too much." rant. (which by the way complaining about our rates as providers 99% of the time will NOT get us to lower them. We do not like to be considered FLEA MARKETS and if you're not okay with our prices. Than just move on to a cheaper girls)
Guys you know me, and you know I'm not a, actually I'm such a SWEETHEART (reviews to prove it) I will always defend myself, though. Especially when get the sense of unjust pictures being painted of me.
XOXOXO.R
Candise aka candi and kendra
Candi real pics but very flattering. Bad teeth and bruise near happy button. Kendra fake pics and a little flabby but not fat. CBJ from both for $$ with 45 min and mish and doggy. One shot limit and bad acting. Would never repeat. 3 call system. They post new ads often. BP search for names to waste $$. SW material.
Preference is what you call it.
[QUOTE=Riley503;1327338]Honey there are LOTS of women that do not cater to black men for one reason, or another. Maybe there arent many women advertising here in Bmore RIGHT THS SECOND like me who don't, but I am not uncommon in my preferences at all. To single me out is unfair, and leaves me with the impression you are trying to talk bad about me and include me in your "lets not support these newbies" rant. For no good reason. I do not have to explain myself and my reasoning, so I won't. And even though my preference in clientele has nothing to do with anything superficial. Let me ask you this as food for thought. I'm sure you have a preference in woman that you see right? When you're scrolling through ads don't you just pass by the girls that do not cater to your taste? We all have preferences, and at the risk of sounding like a beeotch. Seems like your just talking smack to be talking smack and have something to say "thats not kool at all". This is a public board with the freedom to type whatever you want from the safety of your computer screen, but I take issue when you include my name in a list of women you're complaining about. As it affects me ad my reputation directly.[/QUOTE]Never had the pleasure of meeting you Riley, but if you want to call it a preference, you are technically right it is a preference, similarly most guys here don't care for fat chicks because they are not generally sexually stimulating and the term for that would be anti-fat or "fat-ist" (if there were such a categorization). Likewise most guys don't care for smelly pussies and could be considered as anti-smelly-pussy or "olfactory-odious-vagin-ist" (made that up) but you get the point. So you not prefering black men for no other reason other than they are black and whatever assumptions good [sic] or bad (prejudgements or prejudice) you have, is as you say a preference, but there is a name for it, its called anti-black or racist. So to suggest that your preference is not superficial is disingenuous because you have made assumptions about an entire subset of the population based on ONE common denominator. Don't get me wrong, you are absolutely entitled to make that assessment for yourself, just be prepeared to wear the tag that comes with it. I know its a loaded term but hey thats the world we live in.
"Stay thirsty my friends"
CL
Let's not spend a week debating if Riley is a racist.
[QUOTE=CourtesanLover; 1327639]Never had the pleasure of meeting you Riley, but if you want to call it a preference, you are technically right it is a preference, similarly most guys here don't care for fat chicks because they are not generally sexually stimulating and the term for that would be anti-fat or "fat-ist" (if there were such a categorization). Likewise most guys don't care for smelly pussies and could be considered as anti-smelly-pussy or "olfactory-odious-vagin-ist" (made that up) but you get the point. So you not prefering black men for no other reason other than they are black and whatever assumptions good [sic] or bad (prejudgements or prejudice) you have, is as you say a preference, but there is a name for it, its called anti-black or racist. So to suggest that your preference is not superficial is disingenuous because you have made assumptions about an entire subset of the population based on ONE common denominator. Don't get me wrong, you are absolutely entitled to make that assessment for yourself, just be prepeared to wear the tag that comes with it. I know its a loaded term but hey thats the world we live in.
"Stay thirsty my friends"
CL[/QUOTE]I haven't been with the woman, but I like her honesty and spirit.
Some people think we're perverts because we monger. Some people don't want a black provider. Some people, like me, don't want to spend a week debating this topic.
Anybody have experience with * (whoever)? I don't think I want to be with her because she's a very tall fat white MILF. But that's my preference.
I have a general avoidance policy in my line of work for doctors, engineers, and lawyers. But, that's my business. Get my point?
Let's move along quickly now.
Peace.
It's not about racism, it's about service
[QUOTE=Phil419;1326555]I am seeing women like Riley who is offering her services but don't like "black men", thats not Kool at all.[/QUOTE]Phil, this is NOT like refusing service at a restaurant or having separate water fountains. What these ladies are offering is much more personal and intimate. Without getting too graphic, let's just say that not all ladies in this biz enjoy being with men of color. You know, even if you're paying her for it, you won't get quality service if she's not "into" your session. Some ladies are good enough actors to pull it off if they're not into you. Others aren't. Maybe she's doing the black men a favor by refusing them service because she knows her heart won't be in it, and she just doesn't want to waste people's time and money. Maybe she has seen black men in the past and has come to the realization that it does not work for her, for whatever reason. Unfortunately EEO regulations don't exist in this biz, and there's no recourse for anyone.
My 2 cents worth on Riley
I do not care whether she sees blacks, whites, orientals or cherokees. Its her choice. Its her business. The important thing is how good a Suck and Fuck is she? Is she priced fair and does she give you your moneys worth. It has been my experience that if a woman is turned off extremely by my appearance she will provide lousy service. If I make her uneasy or uptight or she is just plain uncomfortable around me she will be a lousy time. Why would one even consider wasting money for a lousy experience if they were black when the provider is honest enough to let you know up front she does not want to date blacks? Not that I want her to fall in love with me or orgasm while I fuck her every time but if she is comfortable enough to do so then the experience is that much better. If I wanted to fuck weirded out uptight women I would date yuppies, LMAO. By the same token I see plenty of casual encounter ads where women want black men only. I do not see anyone calling them racist? Why should someone feel obligated to be with a color or body type or anything else they are uncomfortable with just because they are selling it? If she doesn't want your money don't worry someone else does!
