Thoughts on how to pursue SBs
I am going through a change in personal life that will free up some time and require a little less discretion so I wanted to change my way of looking for SBs. I had some success previously with SBs who are no longer in the game. I wanted to get some feedback from others on what works best for them and situations to avoid.
Here are my 'rules of engagement'. Feel free to point and laugh or say 'yup, that's me too' based on your methods.
- If I recognize her from or she looks like she advertises on BP, I move on. I am paying premium on this site to move away from BP, refuse to pursue the same quality as BP at SA allowances.
- If a majority of a girl's body if covered in tattoos or her pictures look like they were taken in a no-tel, I immediately lump them into BP column and move on.
- If they say they are looking for a non-sexual arrangement, I move on. I am not Daddy Warbucks. More power to them if they can find an 'investor'.
- If they cannot host but ask for more than $2. And do not answer 'couple of hours, etc' when asked about time together, I move on.
- If I haven't established in less than 15 messages back and forth they are real, not BP, and seem worth the investment of time and allowance, I move on. There are ALOT of chatters.
- If they said they aren't in this for the money but non-casually mention they had to pay $XXX for books, electric bill, etc to the point it is obvious they want me to pay for that, I will serious consider moving on if we have not met and the conv is starting to drag.
My ideal arrangement would be someone who isn't looking for an allowance or P4 P, but would like occasional gifts (gift cards, mani / pedi, clothes) and weekend trips. Not looking to subsidize someone's life, but rather give them spending money and reasonably pamper them. I have found a few who prefer this, but they are now exceeding the tolerable limit on the last two items above.
Any advice / suggestions is appreciated, good hunting.