Tips, Tricks, Arguing, and Bullshit

[QUOTE=Skboy;5373613]I read these daily posts and reviews and just laugh to myself.

It's no wonder that men get ghosted and no call backs when trying to reach a provider in this town.

Too many puppies that are slobbering over themselves to get a swift of the panties and a pat on the head as they leave with a be sure to post a great review on USA.

FN pitiful. I will say there are a few members on this site that know what this hobby is about but not many. The golden rule. The one with the gold makes the rules not the other way around. Like it or not Many members have lost sight of that.

I will be posting on this thread for now on in hopes that A2 won't banned me. Enjoy the pics or not.[/QUOTE]While I haven't mongered much in the last two or three years, your posts and updates are one of the few reasons I continue to lurk on here.

This forum and the mongers that are posting on it are a different breed than the ones from just a few short years back.

When the UTR info was passed freely like draft beer at a keg party and you could post pics without one of the puppies running his DS about them trying to score brownie points with a girl / provider.

Most of the older members get it and a few of the newer ones. Most of these pussies are use to getting bitched out for leaving the toilet seat up.

Thanks to MM and a few others for having my back and KNOWING what this hobby is truly about!

I picked up a very hot chick walking that I have been wanting to bang for a long time, very hot body! She was just walking to get from point A to point B, not for the purpose to turn a trick, but I have heard that she does like to make extra money. Normally in this situation I always let them bring up earning extra money, but I was wanting to bring it up in a roundabout way. I do know she is on drugs and is not the kind of chick you bring home to mom. She is just really hot and I have wanted to bang her for a long time and I am very attracted to her.

Anyone have any subtle ways of bringing it up to someone like this?

I don't want to be too direct as she knows me and we have mutual friends etc.

"It's a shame that we know each other the way we do, with our common friends and everything. ".

Why?

"Well, I would love to have a special friend I could spoil from time-to-time, but I'm sure that would be too weird for you. It damn sure wouldn't be for me, but I would never want to put you in an uncomfortable position. ".

[QUOTE=Niterider450;5376403]I picked up a very hot chick walking that I have been wanting to bang for a long time, very hot body! She was just walking to get from point A to point B, not for the purpose to turn a trick, but I have heard that she does like to make extra money. Normally in this situation I always let them bring up earning extra money, but I was wanting to bring it up in a roundabout way. I do know she is on drugs and is not the kind of chick you bring home to mom. She is just really hot and I have wanted to bang her for a long time and I am very attracted to her.

Anyone have any subtle ways of bringing it up to someone like this?

I don't want to be too direct as she knows me and we have mutual friends etc.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Niterider450;5376403]I picked up a very hot chick walking that I have been wanting to bang for a long time, very hot body! She was just walking to get from point A to point B, not for the purpose to turn a trick, but I have heard that she does like to make extra money. Normally in this situation I always let them bring up earning extra money, but I was wanting to bring it up in a roundabout way. I do know she is on drugs and is not the kind of chick you bring home to mom. She is just really hot and I have wanted to bang her for a long time and I am very attracted to her.

Anyone have any subtle ways of bringing it up to someone like this?

I don't want to be too direct as she knows me and we have mutual friends etc.[/QUOTE]A few years ago, I spotted a girl I know in the same capacity that you described on Seeking Arrangement. I sent her a screenshot of her profile from Seeking Arrangement with a "LOL" and asked if that was her. At first she said someone else must have made a fake profile of her, and then I replied "shoot, I was ready to spend some money on you. LOL" From there, she fessed up that she was trying to make some money because of some hard times she was going through. I said I would keep her secret if she could keep mine. From there you can pretty much guess how the rest of the story went.

Bottom line, most people won't say anything if you're not a complete dick about it. Even if she says no. If she says yes to it, then she has as much of a reason to keep quiet about it as you.

[QUOTE=Niterider450;5376403]I picked up a very hot chick walking that I have been wanting to bang for a long time, very hot body! She was just walking to get from point A to point B, not for the purpose to turn a trick, but I have heard that she does like to make extra money. Normally in this situation I always let them bring up earning extra money, but I was wanting to bring it up in a roundabout way. I do know she is on drugs and is not the kind of chick you bring home to mom. She is just really hot and I have wanted to bang her for a long time and I am very attracted to her.

Anyone have any subtle ways of bringing it up to someone like this?

I don't want to be too direct as she knows me and we have mutual friends etc.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GaltGuy;5376460]"It's a shame that we know each other the way we do, with our common friends and everything. ".

Why?

"Well, I would love to have a special friend I could spoil from time-to-time, but I'm sure that would be too weird for you. It damn sure wouldn't be for me, but I would never want to put you in an uncomfortable position. ".[/QUOTE]First off ,.,.,., the method to this madness is the playground that NerdJohn thrives in, or at least he did 2-3 years ago (2018-2019). EastTNFun has the finesse to turn the most unsuspecting gal into a UTR. Sexhound perfected the art of UTR conversion long ago and I was able to go on many prosperous adventures with his stable of UTRs; some well-known providers started out as his UTRs. Getting the take of those dudes should be worthwhile reading.

I'd like to humbly add another method.,.,, you could approach her with the illusion of scarcity and feed her delusions of exceptionalism. You could try, "It's hard to find someone attractive and all around cool to hang out with, no strings attached, and someone who would like to be compensated for her time. All that you around town are those doggish gals you wouldn't hang out with for free or those who who are hot but are looking for a boyfriend or husband". Note that on the other hand, "she possesses the best of both worlds .,., she's so damn hot any dude would flock to her and she has the business mind to leverage that to make it worth her time with some extra cash". Then jokingly say that, "it's too bad that she's not interested in that sort of situation, a man can wish can't he". Keep telling her what she wants to hear and not necessarily what she needs to know. It sounds a bit p. I. m. P. I. S. h., but call it like you see it. Good luck with your adventure.

All the best. ,.

Milfman.

[QUOTE=GaltGuy;5376460]"It's a shame that we know each other the way we do, with our common friends and everything. ".

Why?

"Well, I would love to have a special friend I could spoil from time-to-time, but I'm sure that would be too weird for you. It damn sure wouldn't be for me, but I would never want to put you in an uncomfortable position. ".[/QUOTE]Thanks friend! I didn't get to read this in time, she was banging on my door right after I typed that question this morning, I wished I had seen this first as I wasted another opportunity.

[QUOTE=MilfMan865;5376923]First off ,.,.,., the method to this madness is the playground that NerdJohn thrives in, or at least he did 2-3 years ago (2018-2019). EastTNFun has the finesse to turn the most unsuspecting gal into a UTR. Sexhound perfected the art of UTR conversion long ago and I was able to go on many prosperous adventures with his stable of UTRs; some well-known providers started out as his UTRs. Getting the take of those dudes should be worthwhile reading.

I'd like to humbly add another method.,.,, you could approach her with the illusion of scarcity and feed her delusions of exceptionalism. You could try, "It's hard to find someone attractive and all around cool to hang out with, no strings attached, and someone who would like to be compensated for her time. All that you around town are those doggish gals you wouldn't hang out with for free or those who who are hot but are looking for a boyfriend or husband". Note that on the other hand, "she possesses the best of both worlds .,., she's so damn hot any dude would flock to her and she has the business mind to leverage that to make it worth her time with some extra cash". Then jokingly say that, "it's too bad that she's not interested in that sort of situation, a man can wish can't he". Keep telling her what she wants to hear and not necessarily what she needs to know. It sounds a bit p. I. m. P. I. S. h., but call it like you see it. Good luck with your adventure.

All the best. ,.

Milfman.[/QUOTE]Thanks Milfman!

I believe she will go for it, but I really want her to bring it up if possible, since we live in the same neighborhood and know many of the same people.

The hookers on SA are starting to get a bit skittish and weirded out by dudes contacting them directly who haven't engaged with them on SA in any capacity. Contacting them out-of-the-blue by people they haven't engaged with on SA has caused issues. I've advised many of them not to respond to any dudes who haven't contacted them on SA first and try to develop their own type of multi-factor authentication. It's their business so they should take the time to figure out what they need to do for their comfort level. Let's face it, they're all hookers whether it's SA, STG, or otherwise, but the needs of discretion dictate how they're trying to do it.

[I]Public Secrets[/I]

Contacting an SA hooker and saying, "what's up so-and-so, I saw your name on USASG and a monger who hit that gave me your number. I'd like to hit that too. I don't have an account on SA though". Some of the gals who start on SA and then become full-blown public escorts don't mind that approach, but those trying to be more discreet are horrified about that strategy. That leads to a lot of open-ended follow-up questions from them and addressing any of them approach serious Fight Club Violations. The SA hookers who have legit full-time jobs / careers have different discretionary requirements than those who suck-and-f**k as a sole means of survival.

We all slip up from time to time, but abiding by the mantra will help interactions with the hookers in check:

[B]The purpose of this Forum is to facilitate the exchange of information between men who are looking for sex with women.[/B]

[I]"Information between men"[/I] - it says nothing about the veracity of information exchanged with ho's.

We're all in this together my brothers. ,. ,. ,. ,

Milfman.

Dear lord why are we even having to have this conversation? Scream this from the mountain top so the folks in the back can hear it clearly. STG is not SA! USASG is not SA! The rules are so incredibly different and the approach is a case by case scenario. One size does not fit all and it should be treated that way. Secondly, why in the hell would an SA or even an STG provider need to know about this site? I've seen this play out here over and over again and it never ends well.

[QUOTE=MilfMan865;5379929]The hookers on SA are starting to get a bit skittish and weirded out by dudes contacting them directly who haven't engaged with them on SA in any capacity. Contacting them out-of-the-blue by people they haven't engaged with on SA has caused issues. I've advised many of them not to respond to any dudes who haven't contacted them on SA first and try to develop their own type of multi-factor authentication. It's their business so they should take the time to figure out what they need to do for their comfort level. Let's face it, they're all hookers whether it's SA, STG, or otherwise, but the needs of discretion dictate how they're trying to do it.

[I]Public Secrets[/I]

Contacting an SA hooker and saying, "what's up so-and-so, I saw your name on USASG and a monger who hit that gave me your number. I'd like to hit that too. I don't have an account on SA though". Some of the gals who start on SA and then become full-blown public escorts don't mind that approach, but those trying to be more discreet are horrified about that strategy. That leads to a lot of open-ended follow-up questions from them and addressing any of them approach serious Fight Club Violations. The SA hookers who have legit full-time jobs / careers have different discretionary requirements than those who suck-and-f**k as a sole means of survival.

We all slip up from time to time, but abiding by the mantra will help interactions with the hookers in check:

[B]The purpose of this Forum is to facilitate the exchange of information between men who are looking for sex with women.[/B]

[I]"Information between men"[/I] - it says nothing about the veracity of information exchanged with ho's.

We're all in this together my brothers. ,. ,. ,. ,

Milfman.[/QUOTE]

The thread about seeing the girl with issues is getting about comical.

Let the man spend his time and money and learn the hard way.

All of these girls / women have issues in some form or fashion.

So back to what this forum is suppose to be about.

[QUOTE=Jg3786;5401051]It certainly seemed Nick enjoyed it according to the review he left. If his review had been bad then I could see you interjecting your opinion. Sometimes it just pays to mind your own business.[/QUOTE]It's always refreshing to see someone talk about minding your own business, when in fact, the accuser wasn't minding his own business by commenting that a monger should mind his own business. Especially when the comment to Brother Nickn3 had nothing to do with the one commenting. It's a forum, so commenting and reporting is our business. [b]The accuser would benefit by taking his own advice to mind his own business on that one[/b]. Yeah.,.,., exactly .,.,, this is why we can't have nice things.

Nickn3.,., thanks for the clarification brother on the nuances of your experiences with Edging and recognizing that some things are said in jest. The response wasn't a critique of a review, just another monger opining about what he perceives as another ridiculous trick these ho's try to pull on mongers.

We're all in this together, all the best JG, no harm brother.,., just civil discourse .,., since you unnecessarily chose to insert yourself into the situation by not "minding your business".

Nothing else to see here - let it go and move on,.,,.,

Milfman.

[QUOTE=MilfMan865;5401556]It's always refreshing to see someone talk about minding your own business, when in fact, the accuser wasn't minding his own business by commenting that a monger should mind his own business. Especially when the comment to Brother Nickn3 had nothing to do with the one commenting. It's a forum, so commenting and reporting is our business. [b]The accuser would benefit by taking his own advice to mind his own business on that one[/b]. Yeah.,.,., exactly .,.,, this is why we can't have nice things.

Nickn3.,., thanks for the clarification brother on the nuances of your experiences with Edging and recognizing that some things are said in jest. The response wasn't a critique of a review, just another monger opining about what he perceives as just another ridiculous trick these ho's try to pull on mongers. We're all in this together, all the best JG, no harm brother .,., just civil discourse.

Nothing else to see here,.,,.,

Milfman.[/QUOTE]Babbling bullshit. Just what I expected.

[QUOTE=SmokingVett;5402923]The thing with Erin K is she wants to be there. She is safe. You can trust that she will try and not watch the clock. She enjoys herself. She is bigger but she carries it well. She is always dressed nice and put together. No drugs, no drama. However I will say if you like choking, spanking or bdsm she isn't the one. I love to use restraints and toys and she's never been comfortable with the restraints but she will try. Of you are over a certain size she won't do anal. I see a red head utr for those things she loves it rough.[/QUOTE]I have never had a problem with a SA girls as far as drugs drama or performance.

JMO that there are better options out there. ARF arf arf.

The never ending need to defend this provider from the newer members is comical to say the least.

Enjoy the pics or not!

[QUOTE=Skboy;5403184]I have never had a problem with a SA girls as far as drugs drama or performance.

JMO that there are better options out there. ARF arf arf.

The never ending need to defend this provider from the newer members is comical to say the least.

Enjoy the pics or not![/QUOTE]That black girl looks miserable. I've been doing this for a long time. I don't have to defend her because people who have met with her can attest she's a nice girl. You bring her up every other post. Good for you you've had luck on SA but you don't really share information that's what this form is for sharing information.