[QUOTE=LimaBean;6114446]So, I'll show a bit of trust in some girls whom I've known for a while. They do some things for me like give me deeply discounted rates, throw in DFK, rimming, and / or anal, they don't rush me or limit our time together (I nearly always pay way less than an ss incall but get a hh, hr, or longer outcall), etc, so I'd be an ass not to do a bit for them. One of the things I'll do for them is give them money for their candy up front. It's rarely the full date amount. It's just enough to wet their beak and put them in a good and / or horny mood. Who does that benefit? Well, me! Having a girl who is finding is oftentimes grumpy, and she oftentimes rushes the date because all she can think about is her fix that she's getting right after. That results in me being frustrated that I bothered with her in the first place.
One girl this year went into the dope man's house and didn't come back. Another went into her house and didn't come back.
When someone fucks me over like this, it hurts them more than me. I didn't give them a lot of money, so they screwed up by not hurrying back to me so they could get the rest. Plus, I'll ignore and avoid a girl for a whilesometimes that's a long while, and sometimes that's forever. They lose out on all the dates they could have had given that I was a regular.
Anyway, after a while, the first girl talked me into seeing her again. I did so but without giving her any money up front. Given that I usually don't fully pay for a date til my balls are empty, she was a bit baffled why I wasn't giving her anything once my pants were zipped. Then she asked if I wasn't paying her because of what happened. Yep. She freaked out a moment, but then she got herself together. She knew she owed me, so she let it go. We've been back to fucking regularly ever since because she showed me respect again.
The other girl said if I'd see her again, the date would be free. That takes some gumption for an addict to say that and mean it. We did an outcall, and true to her word, she didn't ask for anything. I respected her for that, so I voluntarily gave her a little money.
These are two good stories where girls did the right thing by me after their failure. Anyone new to mongering should not give a girl money up front unless you just want to consider it welfare for her since you're likely never going to see that money again.
I've been fucked over by some girls, and I've severed ties not being worried about recouping my money. Why? It's because I was paying them much less than probably everyone else, so if they got one over on me, I still came our way ahead money-wise in the long run. I just let it go and plant my dick elsewhere.
What I'm saying here is purely anecdotal. For anyone new to this, I'd strongly recommend not doing what I've done. Girls work hard to make you feel like they're into you and that you can trust them only to shaft you at the first opportunity that they deem worth it.[/QUOTE]A lot of excellent points over all. With a couple girls I have established some trust in, I have given a little something towards them getting there mind right while present which is risky, not recommended, but to satisfying results.
