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[QUOTE=Sancho2063;1084914]If you become a regular or see / get to know a provider she will cuddle. Many of them seem to like it.[/QUOTE]Just tell-um you want to cuddle. Main thing she knows she getting her 150, she doesn't care or shouldn't care. I'd think she wouldn't mind cuddling vs giving a BBJ or anal rimming. Try askum nicely if they would. Nothing to lose but 150 hehe.
Got one for you guys. Why do most mp girls ask if I'm married or have GF. I know its stupid of me to ask this. I always lie anyway or avoid answering but I'm curious why they want to know these things. They all have their own reasons I'm sure though.
[QUOTE=Genji 808;1085558]Got one for you guys. Why do most mp girls ask if I'm married or have GF. I know its stupid of me to ask this. I always lie anyway or avoid answering but I'm curious why they want to know these things. They all have their own reasons I'm sure though.[/QUOTE]Good question. Maybe it's a "quid pro quo" thing. Most of us may think most of them as generally "unfaithful" since even though there's that thought that we may be the special one to them, though they all f*ck different guys and they want to see if we are unfaithful to spouses. And it may also be:
1-The girl may be looking for a sugar daddy or a real friend relationship.
2-The proud idea that "Yeah, I'm the ONE he really wants. "
It's usually first time encounters when a MP girl asks that. When you are their regular, it's kinda given that you are either married or not. I'm not and I must admit, there have been times with certain girls I wouldn't mind "retiring" from the hobby with! Stay safe.
Oh, checked in a few places and it's all dead. I guess a lot of girls took the night off to go Waikiki.
[QUOTE=Lahainawhaler; 1085561]Good question. Maybe it's a "quid pro quo" thing. Most of us may think most of them as generally "unfaithful" since even though there's that thought that we may be the special one to them, though they all f*ck different guys and they want to see if we are unfaithful to spouses. And it may also be:
1-The girl may be looking for a sugar daddy or a real friend relationship.
2-The proud idea that "Yeah, I'm the ONE he really wants."
It's usually first time encounters when a MP girl asks that. When you are their regular, it's kinda given that you are either married or not. I'm not and I must admit, there have been times with certain girls I wouldn't mind "retiring" from the hobby with! Stay safe.
Oh, checked in a few places and it's all dead. I guess a lot of girls took the night off to go Waikiki. [/QUOTE]One more reason.
- Married or S / O guys are supposedly more careful and can be considered cleaner cause can't take something home to the S / O and not lose the house, car and dog, LOL. At least that is a reason I was told! All you married, S / O Mongers feel free to confirm, hahahaha!
[QUOTE=Genji 808;1085558]Got one for you guys. Why do most mp girls ask if I'm married or have GF. I know its stupid of me to ask this. I always lie anyway or avoid answering but I'm curious why they want to know these things. They all have their own reasons I'm sure though.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I wonder why too. I don't get that very often, but once in awhile I do. I always had a few theories.
1) They are checking you out. Thinking maybe if you are married, you might not play around as much and thus, perhaps you are 'clean' and will be an easy customer to deal with. If you are married, you are probably interested in having a good time and then just getting out of there to get home and stay out of trouble.
2) If you are married or have a girlfriend, they know that if you start giving them trouble, all they might have to do to get you to settle down (if you become a problem) is a 'scratch' here or there on your body, a bite mark perhaps, or some other unexplainable ("how did you get that hickey THERE?") thing your wife may see.
3) If you are NOT married, they may suspect you are a regular player (that may be good or bad) and should "know" the rules at the AMP you are visiting. You may become a "regular" which is good for the girl. But if you also are not married, they might also be wary that you might be a 'challenging' customer with more exotic demands. Perhaps.
4) Finally, if you are not married. Perhaps the 'sugar daddy' theory may very well be on HER menu. This I believe is probably the real reason they ask. But others above are the "back-up" safety reasons.
Just a theory.
Here's a good question that may actually be worth another thread.
If a provider ask you if you are married or have a girlfriend, should you tell her "yes" or "no" if you actually are married? How does your answer affect how she treats you either way? That should really be one for you "girls" out there that read this board.
Uys,
It is with great sadness that I report one of my ATF's has passed. Jayda, formerly of DT, Pearl CIty and most recently by the airport is no more. Tried to contact her and when unable to, called one of her friends who informed me of this.
RIP Jayda, I'll miss you.
Rk
[QUOTE=Genji 808;1085558]Got one for you guys. Why do most mp girls ask if I'm married or have GF. I know its stupid of me to ask this. I always lie anyway or avoid answering but I'm curious why they want to know these things. They all have their own reasons I'm sure though.[/QUOTE]This is a good question where you'll get alot of different answers. I do agree with what others have posted about the sugar daddy part. They see you as a possible provider and someone whom they can fall back on. I would say this is very high on the list because I have been asked the same question many times with providers from an AMP, MT and girls at hostess bars. In addition, they also ask: "What do you do?"
I get the same thing when I monger in other countries. The two questions pop up.
1, Are you married? GF?
2. What do you do? What's your job?
[QUOTE=Uki Eater; 1085961]This is a good question where you'll get alot of different answers. I do agree with what others have posted about the sugar daddy part. They see you as a possible provider and someone whom they can fall back on. I would say this is very high on the list because I have been asked the same question many times with providers from an AMP, MT and girls at hostess bars. In addition, they also ask: "What do you do?"
I get the same thing when I monger in other countries. The two questions pop up.
1, Are you married? GF?
2. What do you do? What's your job? [/QUOTE]I get these a bit, too. I am exempt from Darkman's Theory #3 as I play the Ugly card, which no girl can refute :). In my case, it helps cultivate the business relationship.
[QUOTE=Genji 808;1085558]Got one for you guys. Why do most mp girls ask if I'm married or have GF. I know its stupid of me to ask this. I always lie anyway or avoid answering but I'm curious why they want to know these things. They all have their own reasons I'm sure though.[/QUOTE]When I first started hitting the AMPs and was asked this questions, it was pretty obvious to the girls that I wasn't being truthful to them. I guess I am not a good lier. Finally, when I just came right out and told the truth, the relationships with the other AMP girls actually became a lot easier because they began to trust me even more. I know strange, but who can figure out the mind of any woman? Now it is like,"how is your family" "what are you and your son doing this weekend?" "does your SO like going with you to football games." Before when I gave them the impression that I was single, there seemed to be more emotional issues involved like jealousy, calling a lot, asking why is your sperm count so low. Did you fuck someone else recently?
[QUOTE=Rexkirby00; 1085949]Uys,
It is with great sadness that I report one of my ATF's has passed. Jayda, formerly of DT, Pearl CIty and most recently by the airport is no more. Tried to contact her and when unable to, called one of her friends who informed me of this.
RIP Jayda, I'll miss you.
Rk[/QUOTE]What happened?
[QUOTE=Rexkirby00; 1085949]Uys,
It is with great sadness that I report one of my ATF's has passed. Jayda, formerly of DT, Pearl CIty and most recently by the airport is no more. Tried to contact her and when unable to, called one of her friends who informed me of this.
RIP Jayda, I'll miss you.
Rk[/QUOTE]My heartfelt condolences to you, brother and to her friends and family. Rest in Peace.
[QUOTE=Subway45;1085995]When I first started hitting the AMPs and was asked this questions, it was pretty obvious to the girls that I wasn't being truthful to them. I guess I am not a good lier. Finally, when I just came right out and told the truth, the relationships with the other AMP girls actually became a lot easier because they began to trust me even more. I know strange, but who can figure out the mind of any woman? Now it is like,"how is your family" "what are you and your son doing this weekend?" "does your SO like going with you to football games." Before when I gave them the impression that I was single, there seemed to be more emotional issues involved like jealousy, calling a lot, asking why is your sperm count so low. Did you fuck someone else recently?[/QUOTE]It's not strange at all. I mean yah, if a guy is married, he would be reluctant to say that he is married because of what he thinks a provider may think of him. But, the girls know that alot of guys who are married go to those places. In fact, a provider mentioned to me that alot of married guys go to AMPs. I'm sure some guys just came out and honeslty tell them. One of the girls mentioned that a guy who has issues with his SO would go to an AMP and vent out to her about it.
If she can sense that you pretty much lied about your marital status, she'll be reluctant to converse with you on other things because she feels that other things you may tell her, will also be a lie. She feels this negative vibe about you. The girls know that not all guys who visit an AMP will all be single. Imagine if every single guy says he's not married when asked that question. The providers will find it hard to believe that every single guy said: "No, I'm not married" If you're on the older side, she'll wonder why you're not married yet. What you thought her response would be if you told her you were married?
"What? You are married and you come here? That is terrible! You know what, I can't service you sorry. You need to leave and go home to your SO"
If they said that, imagine how slow those places would be. It's already slow as it is. Besides, AMP girl or BG, they themselves wouldn't want to have their friends or family members know what they do. So basically, they not so goody goody themselves.
Thanks for the replies fellas. Interesting read. As someone suggested, maybe we can take the discussion in another thread or just PMs to keep this thread kosher. I have some thoughts and can share my experience but I don't want to I.D. myself at the same time!
Some posters seem to be budding porn novel writers or spend quite a bit of time reading porn fiction and material. Their style clearly reflects and apes that genre of exaggeration and imagination.
All these see*s try to make customers and their egos believe that they're "smart, handsome, the best". They try to feed your ego by making you feel, via their BS act, that you are desirable and wanted. Oldest trick in the book to loosen you up and extract the real attraction: your money and self. For whatever reason, everything they do and say has been orchestrated and are lies.