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[QUOTE=MidwestDude;3732107]Anyone remember her or know what she's up to? She posted as recently as November after a hiatus. A petite light skinned AA with fake Cs and a fantastic ass. Pretty too.[/QUOTE]Saw her many years ago, good time and fantastic ass.
Over the past several years, I've had many guys first contact texts and emails read to by providers. A LOT of them are hilariously clueless, just flat out creepy, extremely rude, or asking questions that are answered in the add. This isn't an exaggeration, I've probably watched 200 plus guys get shot down for a session off of that initial first contact and either get no response or turned down. Stuff like:
How much for me to fvck your face for 20 minutes?
You're staying at (insert place) I'm close how much?
Your pics are great for a west side girl, are you sure they're yours?
I heard you were on your period, are you off yet for a date?
I could go on and on, the above are real first contact texts. That left a monger dateless and often times got the provider to block the number. It's on my mind because I just watched it happen again today!
Guys, if you're new at this, try developing a little tact for your first contact even though you're texting an escort / hooker. Maybe even develope a text or email that works and use it for every first contact. If you were referred by another monger, say who unless you know they're a dick. READ THE ADD! Don't text asking for incall when the add posted an hour ago says outcall only. Don't mention how much in the first text. Don't be insulting (for a west side chick). Don't mention specifics (ask for a BJ or anal or CIM or ANYTHING sexual) in your first contact.
Do include a greeting. Do say if you want in or out call if both are offered. Do mention you approx local if it's out. For example: Good evening. I saw your add and I'm very interested in seeing you. Are you offering out call in the Bexley area tonight?
If you're new to this hobby, it may shock you how far being polite and respectful can get you.
I've been traveling and moving around a lot and Columbus seems to have lost it's young talent. So I connected with Alexis again (I've seen her twice before but over 2 years ago). She was great as usual and we have some mutual friends. Light to no kissing, but she took bjcim and left to rid herself of it and we also enjoyed mish with the cover. Sweet girl and not a bad neighborhood. I'd see her again.
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[QUOTE=TBobber;3732146]Over the past several years, I've had many guys first contact texts and emails read to by providers. A LOT of them are hilariously clueless, just flat out creepy, extremely rude, or asking questions that are answered in the add. This isn't an exaggeration, I've probably watched 200 plus guys get shot down for a session off of that initial first contact and either get no response or turned down. Stuff like:
How much for me to fvck your face for 20 minutes?
You're staying at (insert place) I'm close how much?
Your pics are great for a west side girl, are you sure they're yours?
I heard you were on your period, are you off yet for a date?
I could go on and on, the above are real first contact texts. That left a monger dateless and often times got the provider to block the number. It's on my mind because I just watched it happen again today!
Guys, if you're new at this, try developing a little tact for your first contact even though you're texting an escort / hooker. Maybe even develope a text or email that works and use it for every first contact. If you were referred by another monger, say who unless you know they're a dick. READ THE ADD! Don't text asking for incall when the add posted an hour ago says outcall only. Don't mention how much in the first text. Don't be insulting (for a west side chick). Don't mention specifics (ask for a BJ or anal or CIM or ANYTHING sexual) in your first contact.
Do include a greeting. Do say if you want in or out call if both are offered. Do mention you approx local if it's out. For example: Good evening. I saw your add and I'm very interested in seeing you. Are you offering out call in the Bexley area tonight?
If you're new to this hobby, it may shock you how far being polite and respectful can get you.[/QUOTE]Since you seem to like to give helpful advice, what's the tactful way of asking her if she's private and discreet and doesn't share texts and emails with other customers who get their jollies reading them?
[QUOTE=JizMan;3731579]I saw her the first week she placed an ad in BP when she was 18. She was so nave about the business she put her address in the ad. I definitely got the wild version of Lexii during that visit. She also put on some loud, high energy, music which made it seem even more intense. I will savor the memory of the younger, thinner Lexii and have no desire to see the chubbier, older version.[/QUOTE]I guess she's still naive. She has her name in the ad. Pic 3.
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[QUOTE=CleFan23;3730986]Fat in her new pics. Look closely at pics 1, 3, and 4. Gained a lot of weight. Pic 2 is what she used to look like. Look at her stomach.[/QUOTE]Just saw Lexi yesterday, and she has put on a little weight, she even said I'm a little chunky now she still looks cute as hell, and if anything a little healthier with the extra weight. Still the same outstanding service though.
[QUOTE=WtfRyou;3732435]Since you seem to like to give helpful advice, what's the tactful way of asking her if she's private and discreet and doesn't share texts and emails with other customers who get their jollies reading them?[/QUOTE]Nice attempt at a jab, but I've spent way to much time with hookers to let much bother me. Every hooker that's been at it for a little bit has regulars and favorites, just like we do. Of course they talk about clients now and then.
BTW, 2 of those examples came from an escort I dated from 2010 until the fall of 2012. Never was her trick, we met at a GTG at Von Jazz.
Sorry it offended you to find out hookers talk to regulars and favorites.
Nikki / Christy total cash and dash on house howdy.
[QUOTE=TBobber;3732857]Nice attempt at a jab, but I've spent way to much time with hookers to let much bother me. Every hooker that's been at it for a little bit has regulars and favorites, just like we do. Of course they talk about clients now and then.
BTW, 2 of those examples came from an escort I dated from 2010 until the fall of 2012. Never was her trick, we met at a GTG at Von Jazz.
Sorry it offended you to find out hookers talk to regulars and favorites.[/QUOTE]My comment was meant to be semi-tongue-in-cheek, so I wasn't offended.
I understand where you were going with this, that there's a right and wrong way to get the information you're looking for and you can make a wrong first impression easily.
Bottom line is: none of the examples that you gave were wrong to ask, but could have been phrased better.
After doing this for awhile, you think that you know the right questions to ask up front to cover all the bases. But I recently saw a girl who didn't tell me ahead of the appointment that she was on her period. Then she acted like it just happened while we were in the act. The next day she was posting again. So that's a question I don't have a problem asking now. If they get offended then I move on.
After all, we're dealing with the bottom of the barrel here, so you have to make sure you're not being scammed or worse.
[QUOTE=EdB99;3732454]I guess she's still naive. She has her name in the ad. Pic 3.
[URL]https://independent.com.columbus.escortbabylon.com/post/25958378/[/URL]#.[/QUOTE]LOL. I didn't notice that. She is definitely not the sharpest knife in the drawer and may have a career on the Seniors Tour. She could probably elevate her marketability with certain mongers if she pops out a kid or two and develops some excess baggage and poundage.
[QUOTE=WtfRyou;3732435]Since you seem to like to give helpful advice, what's the tactful way of asking her if she's private and discreet and doesn't share texts and emails with other customers who get their jollies reading them?[/QUOTE]I learned a few good pointers.
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[QUOTE=Wedge1174;3730812][URL]https://independent.com.columbus.escortbabylon.com/post/25958378/[/URL][/QUOTE]I had seen her in the past. Always fun good service. Gave her a text and it took her a whole day to respond. So I responded pretty much immediately and once again another whole day to respond. I knew then it wasn't going to work out. Before she was flighty and would cancel minutes before the apt then immediately change her mind, but the service was usually top notch. If I remember correctly it was always 160 to 180 an hr and we always went the full hour and she always had a room. So when she texted me it was 4 bills for the hr I really thought it was wrong text. I said no way and she responded, a day later, she would come down to 350 and sent pics. Clearly has gained weight and I liked her before and has some wild hair do. She was fun but certainly not worth those rates and my drive. Also said I would have to get a room because she didn't have incall. I offered to get a room and would give it to her for a greatly reduced rate. She said no. So she wanted 350 with me springing for the room not to mention my drive to her from the Cincy area. Well as I said, I always enjoyed out time together and she was a sweet girl but apparently she has gotten the GPS. Certainly not worth the rates she is now asking. Unfortunately I see already there are those that are paying it so if that's ok with them then its ok. Hope it all works out for her.
[QUOTE=WtfRyou;3733167]My comment was meant to be semi-tongue-in-cheek, so I wasn't offended.
I understand where you were going with this, that there's a right and wrong way to get the information you're looking for and you can make a wrong first impression easily.
Bottom line is: none of the examples that you gave were wrong to ask, but could have been phrased better.
After doing this for awhile, you think that you know the right questions to ask up front to cover all the bases. But I recently saw a girl who didn't tell me ahead of the appointment that she was on her period. Then she acted like it just happened while we were in the act. The next day she was posting again. So that's a question I don't have a problem asking now. If they get offended then I move on.
After all, we're dealing with the bottom of the barrel here, so you have to make sure you're not being scammed or worse.[/QUOTE]I think you may have misunderstood my use of the term first contact. I was literally talking about the VERY FIRST text that a provider gets from a client. Of course, once some dialogue has started, all of the info in the examples isn't off limits, it does matter how you phrase things even after a few texts.