[QUOTE=Senbonzakura;7610020]I've made it happen twice, but the rest of the time it's "oh shit, there's sex involved?" and they're out or the "let's start slow" shit that's just a way to get paid and fed without hitting the sack.[/QUOTE]No doubt, plenty of free riders looking for meals. That said, Ive gotten pretty good at identifying the girls that will never make it back to the FC, vs those that will end up being a reliable player in my rotation. For example, if a pot requests cash to hang, they do not make the cut. That said, I don't mind taking them out to eat. I enjoy a good meal, and if the chemistry is good; I enjoy good company when the person I'm buying the meal for is easy on the eyes. This is also how I separate the ladies who are really looking for the experience vs the ones who are looking for a payday. If the pot jumps at the chance to just hang out out on a get to know each other better datethen its a good sign that I will need to add her to rotation. A pot that refuses to engage in any playful discussion about sexuality or what they like and dont like behind closed doors, or what they are interested in exploring, is a sign that buying dinners and drinks are a waste of time and money.
When you make it clear you're not going to pay for company; the rinsers will block you after the initial m&g, assuming they even get that far. That's fine with me. Let them chase the business travelers who offer high allowances but use them like an escort. Those ladies either turn into pro SBs or street walkers.
If a pot continues to hang out without demanding allowance; I'll take the relationship to its natural conclusion. And then start providing financial support that's reasonable. Makes things more natural and the ladies I want to see are the ones that want to feel like they are dating me; which is what I want as well. After I bed them though, sometimes it gets annoying when they become high volume but keep wanting to see me. At the end of the day, they are all size queens, even if they don't know it. Once you dick them down right, it's hard for them to forget. I've also found when you teach a girl to cum from anal, it's like opening up a new world for them.
