Live and Let Live, Post and Let Post
Admin has a tough job keeping the posts focused on the theme of these threads and from what I've seen, and experienced, does a good job.
We all have to remember that Your Mileage May Vary, and even if you adore a provider, the next customer may not. This has to be accepted and should be respected.
It's also fair to disagree with someone, but as they say, don't be disagreeable. Should you need to get up under someone and push them into the wall, take it to the "stupid shit" thread and hash it out.
I've seen Admin be quite tolerant to a lot of shit flinging in the "Stupid Shit" thread. So take the shit there.
As for shilling. Anyone who is well known by the ladies and Mama-sans in these forums, in my opinion, can't really give true and honest posts all the time. If they are well known, they can only share positive posts because they will have to face consequences if they post something negative.
As that follows, the ladies will expect an avid poster they know, to protect them. And I would not be surprised if a well known avid poster who gives lavishly positive posts and steps up to protect the ladies was getting special rewards for his efforts. Free-bees, discounts, special privileges, or what ever, I suspect the rewards are worthwhile.
Anonymity I think adds to credibility.
Freedom of Speech well moderated at least
Some other sites moderate the same thing and others are lacks about it. Took an uprising from.
Members to ban him because he didn't have anything good to add to the conversation. Just a negative person. Members thought that the moderator knew him personally. For example he called people perverts, sex offenders, sex addicts, ass lickers. Putting down people who pay for sex when his posts contradicts his ramblings.
Now I rely on the reviews of our members and most of the information I take with a grain of salt which either leads me to new adventures. I enjoy reading the bare necessities of the BB crew. The AMPs are a little different since most of the pictures are photoshopped or a representation of the product.
Such like this example.
The images on this web site are provided to assist you in choosing a partner. These images are meant to be a representation only and are not intended to provide a perfect match to the actual person you will be seeing Women can vary significantly in color, texture, weight and height pattern. These qualities make each woman distinct and add to the beauty and warmth of the session. Not only do variations occur in real wood, but the multistep finishing process can also have an effect on the cabinet glazing, burnishing and highlighting. Because of this, we cannot guarantee the image you see will be an exact match to the finished product.
In addition, colors and image size may vary based upon your screen resolution and other computer settings outside of our control. The image may differ from the actual product due to reproduction limitations and limitations of viewing images at different resolutions, hue, brightness, contrast, and other screen variations.
Therefore, name of company. Shall not be held responsible for any variation between the images on this website and the actual products you receive, including but not limited to: height weight personality etc.
I would like to see some bad reviews. I've seen them on T3 R and it makes me wonder how I ranked the provider and the next review marked them higher or lower. When I do repeat with a provider that got a lower score after I've seen them, but I got treated the same as last time I saw them or even better since they know me. There's always two sides of the coin. Same thing happens with civvies and in the real world. It's the human interaction.
Recently I didn't click with a provider. I saw the review on here and it was well written with the type I was looking for. Went over tried a different girl, but based on the report O saw the girl that was reviewed and scheduled to see her another time. Well the chemistry wasn't there. CFS and Mish only no DATY or FIV or BBBJ that the review stated. I felt disappointed but also questioned myself. Was I smelling bad? Was I not good looking enough for her. Etc.
It made me go into my corner and think what could have done better but it cost me $$.
So tried the customer service approach. Talk to the MMS (well texted anyways). It surprised me that she apologized for the bad service. Asked me to come back and try another. And she waive the house fee. Another time at a different spa. I felt shorted and told the MMS, and she waived the hf. That's why learned from the members of this forum. Fight for your services. I don't know if you can that with independents. Might be standoff with the pimps. Hence the reluctance to see the BB crew.
We all know moderating is a tough gig. Been there myself. Having the power to boot people off or erase the comments.
A wise man speaks because he has something to say, a fool speaks because he has to say something.
[QUOTE=MaximusKahn;6878874]Admin has a tough job keeping the posts focused on the theme of these threads and from what I've seen, and experienced, does a good job.
We all have to remember that Your Mileage May Vary, and even if you adore a provider, the next customer may not. This has to be accepted and should be respected.
It's also fair to disagree with someone, but as they say, don't be disagreeable. Should you need to get up under someone and push them into the wall, take it to the "stupid shit" thread and hash it out.
I've seen Admin be quite tolerant to a lot of shit flinging in the "Stupid Shit" thread. So take the shit there.
As for shilling. Anyone who is well known by the ladies and Mama-sans in these forums, in my opinion, can't really give true and honest posts all the time. If they are well known, they can only share positive posts because they will have to face consequences if they post something negative.
As that follows, the ladies will expect an avid poster they know, to protect them. And I would not be surprised if a well known avid poster who gives lavishly positive posts and steps up to protect the ladies was getting special rewards for his efforts. Free-bees, discounts, special privileges, or what ever, I suspect the rewards are worthwhile.
Anonymity I think adds to credibility.[/QUOTE]
Update on treatment (for PeP / PreP)
[QUOTE=TempleAvenue;6882755]Admin, Please delete if not allowed.
I had an exposure this morning (for a brief moment like 5 seconds and the girl told me she regularly tested full panel monthly). But I am not taking any risk. My primary doctor is retired now. I always tested myself and received a treatment after any exposure.
I am looking for a recommendation. Preferable online if possible to start a treatment but I have to get a baseline prior to and after the treatment. (The last time I was in this situation about 7 years ago, I went to UCSD emergency and it took too long. They run a lot of other blood tests, etc. And it was expensive too)..[/QUOTE]I just want to share some helpful information for those who is not willing to risk after exposure (even the risk is close to 0. Risk is a risk for contracting a HIV virus).
I contacted UCSD (Owen Clinics) and they explained about a program they have (even with a private insurance). That program helped me pay $0 for the medicines, and a program co-ordinartor.
Said the program would cover the testing and consultation if there is any co-pay or out-of-pocket expense. I don't know anything about being anonymous to use the program though.
Grooming AND Hygiene, Both May Improve Your Experience
[QUOTE=HunterMH;6900649]I was wondering how, and to what extent, other mongers go about grooming. I usually just trim a bit before going to see a provider. Not trying to be a pornstar or anything, but also not trying to feed them pubic hair.[/QUOTE]Hygiene has come up form time to time, but grooming goes along with it.
Ideally I get to the Spa right from the shower and ready to play. I prefer to be a first customer or at least a morning customer before the lunch rush. If not straight from the shower I always stop by bathroom before my session to get everything cleaned up. Women can smell the soap down there, and feel you are clean, especially if you're a monger seeking bare action.
Grooming it up to the individual, but if you like a lot of teasing, I've noticed the less hair seem to improve their readiness to tease. I enjoy the lifestyle too, so I'm well groomed. I'm sure it helps with my AMP visits too. Just my two cents. YMMV.
Good grooming tips all around
[QUOTE=ReyKittyHawk;6930964]Trim and clean your fingernails. Lotion your hands if they are rough.
Clean hands go a long way to get you roaming rights and access to the pussy.
Be gentle when roaming. No digging, gouging, thrusting, squeezing, or pinching roughly.
Gentle Petting goes a long way to getting extra privileges.[/QUOTE]Don't forget your feet too. Women have a weird interest in men's feet, especially if they have to touch them. Many feel they can be repulsive. If you have feet that look like they came off a gargoyle statue you may want to work on them.
Trim your toe nails, and if they are white and scaley lotion them, or better yet for an overnight fix, put Vaseline on them and then socks for a revival of your skin while you sleep. You may not give a shit about your feet, but women do. Your feet may never be pretty, but be sure they are not repulsive.
As a side note to grooming. Once you shave your balls you need to keep shaving them. If you don't they'll ich like hell as the hair grows back. Someone mentioned nut balm, and I recommend that too.
